Wedding Prank gone wrong Groom Throws Bride Into The Pool

This is SP. What? What? On the wedding day. On the wedding day. Kicking her in the stomach. 2. Most women think this was disrespectful, but a lot of men thought it was funny. Hello guys and welcome back to my channel. If you're new here, my name is Dami. I make fashion, beauty, and lifestyle content right here. I also do commentary, reactions, and trending affairs. It is so great to have you here. How is your day going? How is your week going? Hope you're doing great. Let me know in the comments section. Um, however you're feeling. Okay, so I am back. I am back. I'm back with another video before we jump in. OOTD. OOTD. Yes, child. Cuz we got to let you see, honey. I got to let you see the outfit of the day. Let me know if you like it in the comments. So, why are we here? I know I'm a little late to the party, but there was this wedding prank video um that's been going around. I believe it's viral at this point and everyone's talking about it and I decided to put my little two cents on the issue before we jump into the haul as usual. So, there was this guy that thought it was funny. He thought it would be funny to throw his brand new bride into the water. Mind you, he asked her first while holding her. They were like this, you know, like trying to take pictures and he was like holding her, "Do you trust me?" Getting her to trust him. Oh, yes. Yes, I trust you. And after getting her trust, he proceeds to just toss her ass into the water. Beautiful dress and all. I'm not very pleased. Um, a lot of women are not happy about this and a lot of guys of course find it funny cuz a lot of men unfortunately are not fully developed up here. I'm so sorry I didn't say all men don't come for me. Not every man, but an unfortunate quantity of them are. Yeah, because like it takes hours for a woman to put her makeup on. For a wedding day, she hires a makeup artist. So, somebody spent hours doing her face and she paid a good a good amount of money for that. It takes time to get her hair done. sometimes a whole hour, sometimes two hours. She did all this, paid people to make her beautiful on one of the most important days. And then you thought some bony looking guy, some some malnourished looking idiot thought it would be funny to just toss her into the water when all he had to do was just put on a suit. took him all of two seconds. Yeah. I I was not I I was not happy. I was not happy like a lot of women cuz the the the the audacity of this. The audacity like it just and the way he threw her like yo. And then he thought he was going to make it all better by also jumping into the water. If you watched her face, you could tell she was not happy. But then she realized, wait, they're being recorded. It's the wedding. So she tried to smile and and put on it looked like. I might be wrong, but that's what it looked like to me. She tried to like it was cool. But it wasn't. It really wasn't. She probably had so many pictures she still wanted to take, so many things she wanted to do at the end of the night, but he ruined her look. And all for a couple of what? cheap laughs. Like the immaturity of this boy and and this is who you this is who we're marrying now, ladies. The the bar is like it is it's like below hell now. It's just really down there. It's just so sad. Like the fact that you just marrying this woman and this is what you do on your wedding day. I am so sorry for her. I wonder the kind of shig she's going to see in this marriage because marriage already is hard without your husband showing his ass on your wedding day. It already is hard. So for him to be the type to humiliate you on your big day with your family there and his family there, no regard. All he cared about was some cheap laughs from his friends, his buddies. Thought it was funny. He he he he and if they all look that look if they look anything like him looking like a a pack of dirty brooms. I'm so sorry. I'm so mad. I'm just mad because of the way he treated this woman. She didn't deserve that. She didn't deserve that. You don't do that to a woman. And um I watched some videos on Tik Tok where a bunch of ladies reacted and they were very upset and some mentioned how heavy wedding dresses are. And it happened before a couple years ago where a bride actually drowned cuz they fell in the water and because she was wearing a wedding dress, the dress dragged her down and she she lost her she was all alive. So this woman could have lost her life because her immature bony looking husband was trying to get some cheap cheap ass laughs. You you know what you could have done with that energy? You you could have taken it to to McDonald's or some other place. Got some food and eat some more food and and like maybe that would go up to your brain and you could then realize that yeah this is not what you should do on your wedding day. This is immature as hell. Like, it's real messed up. It's it's it's embarrassing. I am embarrassed. Okay. I'm embarrassed on your behalf, young man. Like, you you're like, "No, this is this was like sh is chivalry dead." Like, this is what we're doing now. Like, bring back shame. Bring back when men were like proving that they were protectors and I could protect you and I got you. not tossing women in pools like like some cheap and there was another clip where this oh god this I'm trying to call him what comes to my head but this this boy or this man or whatever he is he actually hit her I don't know if they were trying to do Tik Toks or content it looked like they were trying to create content cuz I guess his buddy told him it was funny and that they all thought it was real funny he he even though no one was laughing laughing and then he like hit her on her chest like Sparta, this is Sparta and kicked her. Oh my god. Yeah. Ladies, please please please like even even though they are immature, trust me, I know they are immature. Don't let nobody treat you like this. Okay? The moment he tossed you in that pool and you were able to get up, him and all his dumbass friends that thought it was funny, you should have walked out. They should be looking for your ass. They shouldn't even know where you are. They till it's clear in their little brains that they messed up. You should not be laughing while a man is humiliating you. A man should not be embarrassing and humiliating you and you're he he he all the while you're so uncomfortable. You're miserable. The a lot of these guys are not very bright. They don't know that this hurts and and if you continue to put on like it's a saving his face, he'll continue to humiliate you. You have to let him know this is not okay. This is not okay. Maybe the next time you see your mother, you could kick her in the chest and yell, "This is Sparta." and see how well that's going to go. Yeah. Or or next time you see your mom, you can, you know, just toss her in the pool. Never mind she hits her head or anything happens. Oh. Oh, you love her. You You wouldn't do that to your mom, but you would do that to me. Yeah. Because, you know, my life doesn't seem to account for some. I'm like, what the I'm so sorry. Like, it's so stupid. The whole thing doesn't make any sense whatsoever. But I'm going to go um I'm going to go ahead and let you guys watch a few the clip and some reactions and then I'm going to be back with my thoughts. 3 2 1 3 2 1 This is SP. This is SP. What? What? On the wedding day. On the wedding day. Kicking her in the stomach. Most women think this was disrespectful, but a lot of men thought it was funny. She spent hundreds of dollars on her makeup and hair making sure she felt her best for her wedding day and you thought it would be funny to drop her in the pool. I'm rethinking the entire marriage. And maybe that's a hot take, but a real man is never going to have you panicked over how he's behaving. He's not going to embarrass you with his actions and he's not going to emotionally drain you. A real man is supposed to make your life better, not ruin your hair and makeup on what's supposed to be one of the most special days of your life. 3 2 1 Every wedding season's videos like this flood our timeline and our FYP. All of men deciding that this is the day that they want to be funny. This is the time that they want to pull the prank. This is the time they want to make their guy friendss in the audience laugh. Whether it's with their vows, whether it's wrestling her down and smash cake in her face. And now whether it's letting her fall into the pool, ruining her hair, her makeup, and everything she did to prepare for that day. Two things men like this don't consider, and that's time and place. You can play like this on the honeymoon when the stakes aren't high. When hundreds of thousands of dollars hasn't been spent on the gown and the the makeup and the hair, when money hasn't been poured into, when the photos matter the most, this isn't the time to be playing around. Unless she said it's the last photo of the day, let's just have fun. and she was in on it. That's one thing. But she didn't look in on it to me. And in my opinion, a joke or a prank is only funny if everybody laughs. Shame on the people laughing in the audience. And if I'm not mistaken, I believe he asked her to trust him before doing this. So now you put the trust of your new wife in jeopardy because you wanted a couple of cheap laughs at a wedding. Did you guys see that video of that man throwing his wife in the water at their wedding? Let me tell you something. Instant divorce. No, we the papers. I'd be like, don't even send the papers to the people. Don't even send the papers in because what? And people are talking about like the hair, the makeup, and all the things, right? Which are very important because women, you know, if you've ever been in a wedding or if you have been married, you know how long that prep takes, right? But my thing was safety. Remember a few years ago, it might have been a long time ago now. My time perception is crazy, but remember when that bride and that groom were doing a photo shoot on the beach and the water swept the bride and she died because the weight of the dress and the weight of the water carried her under and drowned her. She could have drowned. That woman could have drowned because you wanted to get some laughs and some a hehe he at her expense like and then he said, "Do you trust me?" That is supposed to be your person, your man, your mate, your protector, your provider, your covering. And he says, "Do you trust me?" And then proceeds to drop her in the water. No, I can never trust you again. And she already looked a little nervous when he was holding her over the water, but to then actually drop her in the water, that could have been detrimental. Like, and then he jumped in afterwards. But no, buddy, it's too late. It wasn't like it was the end of the night and they were like, "Oh, let's just do this for the for the people." No, you could tell that was like mid mid party, mid reception or the beginning of the reception. Ain't no way I you we would I would be like if we lived together I'd be like mama I'm home because what? Absolutely not. Absolutely not. I don't understand why this keeps happening and why men think this is okay. I just watched a video of a woman and her and her husband is their wedding reception and this lady has on an exquisite wedding gown in like an ivory satin. Oh, she is just stunning. And so the husband, they're taking photos. Well, there's a pool behind their venue uh in the venue. And so he leans her over in this really dramatic uh pose like he's going to, you know, kiss her as he's leaning her over. And then he drops her into the pool and starts laughing and all the guys are are just clapping and cheering like he's done something great. What What is this? What kind of mentality? What lack of character and integrity tells you that it is okay to drop your bride into the pool ruining her gown, hair, makeup, her whole evening is ruined. And then later on, he comes and jumps in the pool. Let me tell you something. There is nothing funny about this. And I am telling you, my mindset is we're done. Do you hear me? I will go the rest of my life alone then deal with a person who thinks so little of me that you would embarrass and humiliate me like this and laugh and think this is funny in the in the midst of our our people. Oh Lord have mercy. I can't do it. Y'all do y'all think this is okay? Comment. Some men aren't lonely enough. I I say this because like I sometimes I fall down rabbit holes of stuff. So, I saw a video of um a guy dropping his new bride into a pool and people are like, you know, when you see stuff like that and people are like, "Oh, don't judge. Maybe that's their relationship and whatever." And I'm like, "Okay, that's that's fine if that's something that they had planned themselves and whatever that whatever that that's your relationship. If that's something you want to do." I myself could never and I know this like, "Well, that's you. You're you're right. That absolutely is me. I cannot imagine on my wedding day paying thousands of dollars for my dress, paying hundreds of dollars for makeup, cuz wedding makeup is expensive, hundreds of dollars for my makeup, paying hundreds of dollars for my hair, and then everything else that goes into looking good for your [ __ ] day. having like a spa day or whatever to make sure that your, you know, your skin is nice, no blemishes, no nothing like that, you know, um getting your nails done, getting your, you know, getting getting waxed or, you know, whatever. Like a whole body treatment thing for to look really nice on your [ __ ] wedding day cuz, you know, you're going to have pictures, you're going to have whatever. I would have to have like [ __ ] cosmetic surgery on my [ __ ] eyes so I don't have the like purple black things on my [ __ ] face, but for the rest of my goddamn life, right? Whatever. So, it would be whatever it is. You drop me in the [ __ ] pool in my wedding dress. I think the [ __ ] not, sir. And not only that, not only is it like the money concern because like you've now wasted all of that because you do that before we have done anything else. Like this is like probably before we finish taking pictures. It's obviously before they've done any of their other things like had their first dance or done any of the other stuff cuz like it even if it's at the end of the night, even if it's at the end of the night, who's paying for that dry cleaning bill now for that [ __ ] wedding dress and and you're still like now my hair is ruined. Even at even if it is the end of the night, my hair is still ruined. Like what if I still wanted to like do something with that? Take a couple of selfies or something like you know whatever. No. Me? No. Absolutely the [ __ ] not. But like I'm not. No. And also wedding dresses are heavy as [ __ ] You drop me in the pool, I could drown. Like I could drown. Like because it could just pull me the [ __ ] under. Those dresses are heavy enough without adding water to it. You could literally drown someone like that. And it's like, "Oh, you're taking it too seriously." Oh, I'm sorry. Am I supposed to laugh like everybody else did? cuz that's something I just won't be doing. I just won't be [ __ ] laughing at that. And that's the funniest thing that's not funny about the whole situation is when guys do this kind of stuff like drop their new [ __ ] brides in pools, they're not looking to their bride to be like, "Oh honey, this is the relationship we have. Wasn't that funny? Like I dropped you in the pool." They immediately turn and look to see what the reaction is of everybody else. Oh, what do my friends think of this? Oh, what do like are like what does everybody else think of this? Not what does the person I just dropped in the [ __ ] pool think of this. The person I'm supposed to spend the rest of my life with, how does she feel about this? No. Let me see what my friends think of this. Listen, your friends are important. They're not more important than your bride on your wedding day. All right? There there is a time and a place for your friends. That is not it. Because I'm not saying that once you get married, you your friends take a backseat. They certainly don't. Your friends have been your friends maybe before you even knew this person. But on your wedding day, they can take a side step. It's not about them. It's It's just not It's not about them. It's not about your girlfriends. It's not about your guys. It's about the two of you coming together on your wedding day. It's about the two of you. It's supposed to be the two of you now celebrating your love together forever. It's about the two of you. Why the [ __ ] are you dropping me in a pool to impress your friends? And that's the problem, too, is that you don't like take us hand in hand and jump into the pool together. This was an act of humiliating me, dropping me in the pool for your enjoyment and your friends entertainment. No. No. [ __ ] no. Absolutely. the [ __ ] not. Anywh who, you see what the people have to say. This is not funny. This is not funny. I don't know when men are going to catch up to it. It's really not funny. And your wedding day is really not the time and place for you to turn to a standup comedian or try out your uh not very funny pranks and and [ __ ] It's just like it's immature. It's silly. It shows complete lack of emotional intelligence. It's just wrong. Don't do it. Like if you are a man and you were thinking you were going to pull one prank on your wedding, just don't do it. Okay? You want to do some How about a nice, beautiful surprise? How about go get her her dream car, do that. That that's that's better than any prank anytime, any day. Okay? Do something thoughtful, something sweet for your bride that'll make her excited about a future together, not something where you're already like showing that she cannot trust you. Imagine the audacity. Do you trust me? And proceed to drop her in the pool. I cannot. Anywh who, let me know though. Am I overreacting? Let me know how you feel about that video. Would you be okay if your um husband or groom dropped you in the pool on your wedding day? Would you like think it wasn't like such a big deal? Let me know whatever your thoughts are in the comments section. Okay, make sure you hit the video with a thumbs up and subscribe. Let's move on to the haul portion, shall we? Yes, ch I've got the Zara box right here. We going to open this one and see what it do. Ch. Yeah, I believe this is how we open it. Anyway, how have you guys been? Do you like our new style of filming? The trending appears um at the beginning of the video. Let me know. Okay, so packa sauce. This is the pack of sauce. This is what it's given. Let's open her up and see what we got. Oh, okay. I must have worned this a while back cuz I was like when did I get a blue shirt? Yo, this is the biggest shirt ever. Like is this a shirt or a dress? Honey. Oh my. Look at this shirt. It is so big. I love blue though. But why am I buying this? It It's probably nice though with some jeans like or like I have a bunch of the what do you call it? The blue nodes um whatchamacallers. Um and yeah, if I wore one of those and put this on top, it would help cuz those are not modest honey. They show your curves. Yeah. And when you're going out, you want to cover up a little bit while you know. So yeah, it might be sort of kind of cool. So, this is extra large. I could tell, hun. $45.90 is what the price is. And for that amount, Zara, the quality, like it feels nice, but you better be giving, honey. Like, I don't want to see no funny business once you you go in the the the washing machine or nothing cuz you cost all that $45. I need my money's worth. Okay, chat. Extra large. Very, very nice. Very nice. Very simple though. Like there's no stones. There's like nothing. No extra details. There's just like this little pocket here that's not even real. Yes. It's just like a fake pocket right here. That's it. I'm surprised I ordered this. I I hope I got it on cheap cuz Chad, but yeah, I really hope so cuz uh Oh, wait. This looks familiar. Oh, no. It's too big. Oh, no. Okay, it's large. Okay, small, medium, and large. Okay, I guess that should be fine. So, it's it looks familiar cuz I have a shirt like this from Zara with the exact same type of details. This is a gorgeous dress. It's a short dress though. Very short. I like I like a lot. It's like a ivory cream and um how much is this? 45 doily and uh 90 cents as well. Okay, this is what the back of it looks like. Just like spaghetti strap dress. And the details, honey, the devil is in the details. Yeah, it's got this beading. Do you see like the bead work around the top? And it's got like the stones. Very, very pretty. I love this. I really like it. Looks very short. I don't know. I like short though. So, yeah. Anyway, let us keep it going. Okay. Okay. I see something heavy. What is this? Oh, ch. This a skirt. This got to be a skirt, right? It's got to be a skirt. I'm not sure. It's going to be a skirt or um a tube top. It doesn't say. It just says medium. $55.90. Okay. Wa wa. Do you see the stones? Do you get into the stones, honey? It's stoned to the heavens, honey. Oh, wow. It's a gorgeous skirt. I'm not sure though. I'll put it on the screen. Whatever it is, like this is really pretty. I like it. If it's a top, it's nice cuz it'll stay up cuz it's it's medium. Yeah. And it's like a knit material and stretchy, so it should be fine. But it might be a skirt. So I can't I don't know why I can't tell. I really can't tell right now until I look at it and see what it actually is. But yeah, and it's heavy. Like it felt like heavy like the material. You can tell it's a quality material. Oh, I remember this pants. So this is like the washed out look. You can even see it says washed garment. And it's a fold over one. What size is this? It came in small, medium, and large. Did get the large and it was $45.90. Why everything be $45.90, honey? Okay, it's $45.90. See, I love love love the washed out look. I think it's a look. And I like that they it has the fold over cuz you know when you have a little poochie pooch or you want to hide your belly, just fold the extra material up. Yeah, it looks old, you know. It looks like people would just shower it like you see. But it's brand new. It's brand new. That's just the look. The washed out look. Like Zara has been doing this for a minute and I really like the look. I think I have a couple of tops that have that washed out look. So yeah, that's really good. Really, really good. Okay. Oh, I got the exact same pants in like cream. This is like a beige beigy cream. And let me see. Is this a large as well? Yes. Small, medium, large, large. 45.90. Same price, same wash garment tag. It's literally same pants in a different color. Oo. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. I like I don't like that it has no pockets, though. That kind of sucks. That's not impressive, Zara. Y'all should do that. If you're going to charge almost 50 bucks for one pair of pants, at least put some dog on pockets in there. Okay, just pockets. We We ask for too much. Everybody has a phone. Why don't you want me to put my phone in my bra? Put pockets on your pants. Okay. Thank you. Thank you. Anyhoo. Oh, wow. We have this one more item. And that is all the boxes empty. So, what we got here? What we got here, baby? Ooh. Oh, I see stones, honey. Oh, this is short. Wow. So, this is like a crop top and a coil. Oh my god. Do you see the stones on this thing? Like, let me bring you. It's stones and stones and stones. Honey, I think I have a top like this, but not this exact one. This one's a little bit smaller. Oh. medium. Why would I get a medium? No wonder it does look a little smaller. Okay, small. It comes in small, medium, and large. Did get a medium. Don't know why. This is $35.90. Don't know, maybe I should use this for a giveaway on my group or something. Problem is, who would take it to Nigeria for me? I need someone to go to Nigeria for me with a bunch of nice things for giveaways because yeah, this is too small for me, child. Anyway, that's all. Let me know if you enjoyed today's video. Which of these items did you like? And what did you think about our topic for the day? Whatever you feel, please leave it in the comment section. You know, I love talking to you, so please engage with the video. Leave your comments. 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