Become Relentless and Go All Out with Jay Noland #superentrepreneurs #shahiddurrani

[Music] welcome to super entrepreneurs podcast today we have with us jay nolan how are you jay i'm doing phenomenal good to be with you good to be with you oh man so excited so super grateful that you uh made the time to come on this show yes you know it's amazing what happens with the social media and all the different platforms and how it brings all these incredible and unique and eclectic minds together so i'm excited to be here with you man i'll tell you what's that's awesome yeah see yeah same here it's awesome i love the platforms because you know how else can you know if someone you click with someone or you can resonate with someone but once you kind of meet with someone on some of these social media platforms depending on how engaging it is you find people that you just have to meet you just have to interview and you're one of them so i appreciate it yeah we're traveling and i'm i'm at a one of my staff members homes you know on the road and so you know what i love about the internet is no matter where you're at you can just dial right in and you can just have you know great conversations like we're about to have now yeah it's so incredible thank god for internet yes that's great so kind of many people know you you're a famous name and everything but i just want you to kind of in your own words introduce yourself what you do and we'll go from there well you know i'm from a small town in kentucky i was born on a hog farm for those of you that don't know what a hog is that's a pig and so you know i'm a country boy at heart you know i'm 53 years old now but you know i tell people you know i put on the the suits and uh you know and all the business stuff that goes on i said but man i'm just a country bar i'd rather be out with a pole in my hand out on a lake and you know and fishing and hunting but i grew up you know born in 1968 a month after dr martin luther king was assassinated i was born in the south in kentucky so i grew up in a lot of racial tension and strife in the south and what i loved about it is my grandparents really you know they just kind of like incubated and tried to do their best to surround me with as much positivity as possible and my dad put a lot of time effort and energy into he had a dream for me to become a professional baseball player and so he'd always had me at batting cages and doing things on the side when we're not working while we were not working out on the farm and uh he and my mom they got divorced when i was nine he moved to florida and so i ended up finishing my last few years of high school in florida with my dad to where i got a lot of exposure with baseball went to college on a scholarship and got drafted by the san diego padres back in 1988 and played four years with the padres one with the colorado rockies and one with the seattle mariners back in 1995 actually my roommate my road roommate at the time was alex rodriguez you know about to play next to ken griffey jr and then i blow my elbow out shaheen and i was just like ah i know what i was gonna do so that's what pushed me into business okay well it's good it puts you in business nothing else right so so tell me more about the business you're involved with well you know when i got when i got out of baseball i had one year rehab they said you probably will never be able to play again it was a pretty serious injury they said it'd be at least one year to rehab so i was panicking because i'm like well how am i going to make money my dream is just you know down the drain it seemed like so i started studying marketing and international business and that became like a dream for me to be able to do business on an international scale so i started in direct sales back in 1995 and it started i started really learning how to uh grow personally first i think a lot of people when they get in business they want to focus more on the business first and not the personal growth first you got to do both and really put a big emphasis on personal growth because the stronger you are personally that increases your chances of being able to get profitable in business because you know most businesses they crash within the first three to five years and they crash primarily not because of the business acumen it's because of the intestinal fortitude it's the emotional and the mental uh fortitude so i spent my first two or three years really going to every single high level seminar i could go to to get strong personally and then after about four years it really started taking off for me and then i expanded you know from direct sales into the mortgage banking in uh brokerage business real estate investing and then from there you know i started getting into media and now on a you know a large multimedia company we have a 5 000 square foot facility in las vegas nevada largest green screen in all of las vegas everything we do now from our coaching business i should say our mentoring business all the way to our nutritional products that we deliver around the world is all fueled by our media platforms and us being able to you know get the message after using multimedia and you said such an important part is that working on both sides on the business and yourself um do you agree that that for the primary step should be taken on internal work first before even yeah you know what's amazing is that i had a gentleman that was working for me as a uh cfo chief financial officer and he told me all the money he had spent in college and he said it would have been better for me if i would have just came in and paid you all the money for four to five years and you not pay me but me pay you to teach me to be who i am now or to at least get up underneath the mentorship for about four or five years he goes that way i'd be a lot further off so yes i really believe that it's important that you get real life skills but the most real life skills a person can get that i found it's the same thing in professional sports you got to be strong mentally if you're not strong mentally and emotionally because those are two different things that most people are not aware of if you're not you're going to crash you're going to burn there's no way around it so our philosophy and i've had this for going on 26 years that i've been in business if you build a strong person first they can sell any product they can build any business just build a strong person first that's my philosophy it's so true i couldn't agree more i didn't know before i'm i'm very late into it to working on myself i should have done it many years ago i just didn't know right i didn't know that you know mentorship coach i didn't know these things growing up um but if i did it would be so different right now there's people like you people like we are available people can go and just pay and get that skills and learn and save time and money because it's really you're saving a lot of money when you get help and fix yourself and work on yourself before taking the steps into business such a big game changer absolutely yeah so you're well yeah so what do you what do you do exactly for the personal development the coaching you mentioned like i have a whole platform for a mentorship it's called jay nolan mastery.com j-a-y-n-o-l-a-n-d mastery.com and that hosts a lot of my personal growth products so i've got like motivate xp so motive eight i found there's eight motives that if you master these eight motives you will have unlimited motivation so this is 20 plus years of me you know being able to train i think that they said over a million people globally now so i've personally trained and done seminars in 20 countries i've done business in 90 countries around the world um and i met a lot of people a lot of language same everywhere i went you know i did a training one time in uh salzburg austria and uh there was 13 different languages at the training so everybody came in and we asked what they got what their language was they were handed a headset we had 13 different booths set up wow and i'm telling you the number one thing is the person that's doing the training has got to believe in their soul that what they're talking about is going to provide value and it's going to make an impact and so no matter what language you speak in if you got the passion and if you've got the drive and people can feel that i mean we have people standing up on chairs screaming in 13 different languages going nuts because of the passion and the conviction that i believe in building strong people first so if you go to jnolmastery.com you got motivate you've got confidence base camp you've got confidential 365. i've got a book out called you know quotes to make you better uh 365 quotes to make you better and then i attached 365 confidential to that to where there is a a little small subscription to where a person can go each one of those quotes they read in the book i take about 10 minutes or more and i break each quote down to be able to give you a break what each quote is which i hate is me coaching me so when i wake up every day i don't know what it is i coach myself i wake up and boom i start coaching myself um and then i would just come up with quotes about me coaching myself like for example i'd say um i'll give you i'll give you one example um trying to concentrate trying to make residual income while working a job is like trying to concentrate when you have to pee you can't i don't know there's going to be a lot more of that i guess right think about this trying to make residual income while exchanging time for money yes you know that's like trying to concentrate when you really gotta pee you just can't and so i'll say stuff like that to myself yeah and coach to others and then i'll go in on that with 365 confidential and break down here's how you got to be thinking about making residual income because you can't get free without residual income so i've got that i've got an entire uh tones platform because i've taken 20 plus years and i've said okay you can do what's called a bull rush that's thinking grow rich so i mastered thinking i i'm i'm bold enough now to say that i've mastered thinking real rich so much so i'm one of like three people in the world that wrote the uh a forward and a napoleon hill thinking real rich book endorsed by the napoleon hill foundation it's all about three people's ever happened and so i negotiated that deal i closed that deal i used everything that napoleon hill teaches to get that deal close to even where people like don green which is director napoleon hill foundation was like man do you know what you're using on me and i'm like yeah i know i'm using them yeah but uh you know you got these incredible tools yes like that and so what i've done is i said well we can take the bullrest approach or when i began to study how the brain works in brain wave activity and what happens with your subconscious from ages 0 to 7 i found out that you can help reprogram yourself with a set of headphones oh yeah are you i don't know if you're familiar if any of the audience is familiar with brainwave entrainment a brainwave entrainment utilizing binaural beats utilizing some physiotones utilizing isochronic tones this is for sub subconscious mind right man because you know aristotle said the great philosopher said give me a child until they are seven seven i will show you the adult yes why do we think he's powerful you know because of how we get influenced from zero to seven determines our makeup for the rest of our life yes so if you ask most people have you ever been through any type of trauma people like yeah did you ever resolve that no 98 of the people never resolved their their childhood trauma or what happened to them with the influence so if you have people that weren't successful whether it's mom or dad grandparents no matter how well wishing they are if they were not successful they programmed you not to be successful so what you can do is you there are brainwave states that are success tones so every morning when i wake up i woke up this morning for example soon as i wake up i put up i put my headphones on and then i'll put on tones that we have made so for example this morning i you know we got some pretty big stuff going on this is subscribe subscription like people can sign up and if you go over there that's my platform now we're building out an app for that but i went morning because i needed let's hear it go to another level so i got some big stuff i'm working on that we need a breakthrough on awesome so i've had i have what's called time to break through tone and it's got it's got isochronics attached to it now you're not going to hear this good but i'll put my headsets on [Music] okay now what you hear is music raindrops but if you listen real carefully there's theta tones working in there [Music] you get a little yeah yeah okay so that theta tone that's coded for to get your brain in breakthrough mode so my whole expectancy today is for like breakthroughs but i spent 10 minutes all you need is about 10 minutes once or twice a day on what you really want to help with now i do stuff for maintenance because now it's kind of like me picking off ingredients on the shelf most people need to do our foundation tones which is they need to go deal with their trauma and they need to deal with emotional setbacks and all that stuff so i've got one of our main core tones called foundations is 21 days 11 minutes once to twice a day and you should have removed that emotional trauma which will let you break through mm-hmm and most people go is that for real i'm like yeah we just guaran we guarantee it wow we give people their money back we just guarantee you so now we got i mean if you are in some of our our rooms on clubhouse or whatnot ammonia is going like crazy going man i put on those confidence tones and this was holding me back and now it's not and i needed this to happen and all of a sudden it happened because we attract into our life how our subconscious mind is let's talk about that law of attraction yeah how did it serve you well it's whoever you are is what you're going to attract yeah who you are 95 is your subconscious mind yes actually 97 who you are is your subconscious mind 96 to 98 they say is subconscious and two to four is conscious i'll take the hammers 96 tonight we're right there you know we got some good teamwork going on but it's so incredible you know jay like i i have never even knew i wish i knew this in my 20s but it's just so phenomenal that everything that we do is controlled somewhere that we can change with some good direction and good knowledge good information good practices that we could change to change our results it's right there right in the mirror and it just hurts to see like majority of people kind of in that struggle you know what i mean yeah that's what you know it's going to happen and the scriptures even say you will always have the poor among you you will always have those that are you know are down and tried that will always happen our goal is to reduce that as much as possible is to activate you know we have what's called the one percenters only club which is to activate at least one percent of the population if we can that's about 80 million people uh-huh if we activate just one percent that's huge you're activating 80 million people but it has a replica replica um ripple effect ripple effect man from there yeah if i just get people to listen to what i'm saying today this show that you've got is such a phenomenal show you've got everybody i'm i'm applauding what's how he's doing here he's bringing to everyone's attention the most critical things that you need to know about yes when you have somebody here encouraging you to spend time dealing with the foundation if you don't have your subconscious mind straight you're done everybody's talking about thought leadership i only i only want to talk about subconscious thought leadership yeah so true right so because three percent of your makeup of your brain is conscious yeah 97 approximately is you better get your subconscious going right did you know that your entire immune system is operated by your subconscious mind it's so incredible man now the human body is proven scientifically is supposed to live to 120 years of age so scientifically even biblically in genesis chapter 6 it says that you're supposed to live to 128 so why are most people dying around 70-75 and why were they dying in their 20s they were dying at 40 right so we're going higher to that so that's why we're getting higher knowledge is increasing yes so now people are getting back to oh i can go if i was programmed i can get reprogrammed yeah and they work on the the symptoms right like we're all focusing thought leadership you know symptom like it's not let's look at the cause go to the cause go to the subconscious go to the doing part of your being go to the part that's actually controlling what you're doing what you're feeling what you're saying how you're behaving go to that part yeah like when i play ball man you know when i have to hit a 95 mile an hour of baseball you got point three tenths of a second to to swing wait wait you still play no when i don't okay okay machines that are throwing 90 plus yeah i heard people getting those machines i still go on there and it's like wow why awesome subconscious yes so powerful jay like this it's just it's so incredible and then you always hear peop there are naysayers right i just don't understand why and how um they could make this like they make it sound like woohoo and all that kind of stuff but i just don't understand how much time i spend thinking about naysayers none not here nothing yeah yeah how much money do i make on those none none so let's not talk about it well somebody starts i'm like i don't hear so you told me one book that's your favorite what's the can you tell me three in total what are your three man i love i love i love i love they can grow rich i just think everybody has to understand where did thinking grow rich come from it comes from the law of success yeah so i would read law of success after you read thinking you're rich and you're going to find it thinking you're rich is the condensed version yes and the version is the law of success that goes to and then i would read relentless relentless tim grover he's michael jordan michael jordan's trainer okay sick that's amazing yeah michael jordan's trainer amazing so the law of success is that uh available anywhere because i try yeah okay because there's some guys i'll put i'll put a link up on j nolan mastery where people can go get it you just remind because people need to be able to go get it i'll put a link up okay awesome that'd be great and then from what are your future plans now what are you where are you looking at your next five years what are your plans you know my number one is just expand our media our media capabilities because right i mean we can do a hollywood movie we have that potential so we're gonna do one maybe i'm sick so we're going to do some documentaries they're doing all my life they're working on it now but there's some other incredible individuals that are unbelievable that the world really doesn't know about that i've got to meet during this journey that have impacted so many people we're gonna so i'm probably gonna roll out in the next three years at least three documentaries including the one on my life and because i want my son to be able to really you know know all these things and all this different craziness that i had to go through to know what i know it's kind of like what i want to build for my son if you watch the the first superman movie you remember and and when he he gave he went and found out who he was clark kent wouldn't find out who he was yeah he put those crystals down yes yes yes i just envisioned my son being able to put crystals down and i come up and he say dad i want to know about this just put a crystal down look you know i want to create i'm thinking of how do i create something like that and i've got my staff really working on that so will that include like something on netflix as well and those other platforms right as a matter of fact we're working on distribution right now uh with amazon prime with uh a clubhouse documentary oh i'm doing that in collaboration with uh mo rock from the the law yeah i know more yeah yeah yeah yeah so he's uh he's he and i are co-doing that the the ceo of the los angeles tribune and our company nyb publishing and production so we want to do that uh it's just a lot of great things that you know we can do with you know definitely people really didn't get netflix at first they were still running down the blockbuster yeah what happened what if blockbuster would have had the vision of a netflix huh they didn't that amazing yeah i would have been amazing so right now i mean think about things that if you're watching this what is it that you're doing to make sure you stay on the cutting edge i believe like people plug it into your podcast keeps them on the cutting edge all these great podcasts out there stay plugged in so you don't become like a blockbuster because anything that's cutting you'll be able to come on here because i guarantee you i've said things today that most people didn't know about but you're gonna have another yes come on and then if you just put it's like a little mastermind that you put together with these phenomenal podcast uh platforms like yours thank you and that's what it's all about really it's about serving right because you if you're only focused on actually giving and serving humanity and people um you find doors just simply open and you get opportunities show up like even for me like coming into your clubhouse and hearing you speak and connecting with you like it was all a reason for that like who knows like i'm feeling really amazing talking to you like you have a really good energy about your spirit about you your your your higher side of yourself you're you're out there making a change for people yeah so whatever you're getting into your life you deserve it hands down right so and and that's what it's all about when we go out there and we're doing these kind of things we're trying to bring awareness money success finance they are just a default of of what's happening what we're doing so i want to applaud you for all the good things that you do my life is i'm full all over and i'm i mean i'm like my heart is full if i die today i would i would feel like i'm maxed out what i could up until this point beautiful and that's how i want to i want to die in an all-out state you know like i got a part of my life now i never thought it would be like i have a whole civil rights and civil liberties uh part of me that's come in you know we've helped we've been tackling these crazy issues with uh things that are not right civil rights and civil liberties wise here in the usa and we're doing it globally i've got a social responsibility side to me i ran a i i uh own a orphanage school in kenya africa up to 370 kids we take care of every single month i got a partner over there right now dr amazon booga he's on the ground as a matter of fact he sent me this cool picture this morning gives me updates because you know when people are anytime they buy our products and services we take a portion and we put towards this beautiful amazing and dr amos he sent me this morning you kind of this way to the right a little bit yeah there you go okay so that's the corn field we plant it so that we can be able to help sustain amazing taking care of the kids feelings banana trees we're planting corn and we're getting the orphans out there helping do this and we're teaching them those life skills we've got eight full-time school teachers we built our own well but i get those kind of updates all the time going okay we're doing this we're doing that so i've got a civil rights i got a social you know philanthropist i just want i want to be maxed i got a spiritual side where i study the original languages you know english is the newest language in the world so i studied the earliest ancient languages i own artifacts that are some of the oldest in the world and i sit down and understand ancient paleo hebrew hebrew aramaic greek you know so wow i'm maxim bro that's amazing jay i love it i challenge everybody to go max yeah you must amazing those ass words of wisdom go back hey worst thing is gonna happen is this gonna work out what's that your worst case scenarios is going to work out is it your is it your slogan go backs that's that's just i just that just came to me i know and that might be your slogan yeah make the t-shirt i love it awesome jay it's been amazing so i want to ask you this question what's something people seem to misunderstand about you i think because i have i have built myself into a strong person that you know a lot of times people want to tear down the people that they that that are strong but you know i'm a real dude you know i got feelings you know i feel i hurt i cry at times you know i got all that i just have learned that that won't lead to success if i stay in the mud and i stay down you know one of my good friends edward ed berry he's the chief happiness officer he has this happiness project he says you you're not gonna be happy all the time he says but don't let it last and don't be down any longer than three minutes i heard him on clubhouse i think oh it's awesome we're helping him build out a platform with our company good so he has a a happy he went and interviewed a thousand people about being happy and he figured out yes how to do it how to he how to teach a skill so we have a course we're building for him on the skill of how to be happy beautiful amazing so for me it what it's just man hey i know i come off strong i am strong i'm living strong but at the same time i got the heart the size of the world i do anything i'm the most loyal person that i know that i'm competitive about that i think everybody should say the same thing you know i think everybody should say i'm the most loyal person i know if everybody was the most loyal person that's a very good quality yeah being loyal is extremely extremely important and um that's amazing that's amazing so we always also like to ask our guests what their inner super power is that got them to this point relentless relentless beautiful that's what that book says tim grover you know i'll tell you a quick story man you know we got to end on this and yeah what kind of note this is but uh in 1993 i was suicidal oh my uh i was really struggling emotionally i'm going through some real tough emotional times you know most people don't know my dad shot himself when i was seven and he lived through it but i was close by you saw it i was close by you didn't you saw it like you you were there and he did it right in front of my mother and he did it because of something they were going through and that drove my mom nuts to where my mom the next year after my dad healed from it my mom just left the note on the table and she left so she left a note and i didn't know where she went so my dad shot himself when i was seven my mom left me when i was eight you didn't see her again i seen it a long time later oh you did okay throw it up out of nowhere i'm like okay but that created that separation you know to where that abandoned and feeling so the truth so the things i had to deal with and trust in my parents just took forever that's why those those tones are what healed me of that and healed me i'm not saying they will heal i'm just saying i believe they healed me emotionally of that pain that abandonment and that trauma and um [Music] but i was going to kill myself in 1993 and i remember sitting on the stairs out of 357 and i pulled the handle back and i went to go put the gun up to my temple and the phone started ringing and back then you know voicemail the voicemail will come on after four rings i said after the fourth ring it can't bring it went oh fifth six and i was like come on stop ringing and it didn't stop wow you got to about 10 rings i put the hammer back down i was like this is crazy i go down i pick up the phone it was my dad no way that's him he said what's going on with you and i had a feeling it was crazy yeah i'm feeling we're all connected it's all energy so this isn't this is a fact he'll tell you wow he's i felt like something's going on with you what's happening what are you doing really and i was like well dad you know and i told her i started crying he was like we need to get down here so he was in florida i was back up in kentucky goosebumps all over so i go down with him i'm working out i'm still struggling and one of my my best friends in florida name was jerry he was going through tough times too his mom when he had crazy stuff with his parents so one night i thought i was going to do it again and i didn't do it i had a friend talk me out of it and we went out instead and my friend jerry said no i ain't going out tonight he always went out with us he said i'm not going tonight so he didn't go so the next morning we partied that night i got back got up wouldn't work out hitting some balls out at the field and i saw my old high school coach walking down to the field and he's waving at me and i'm like what's he doing out here so i'll go walk over and he goes hey jerry killed himself this morning so i was going to and my best friend in florida did so one night my dad had a cleaning business in the off season i was cleaning carpets and i was in there i'll be vacuuming carpets in this old hr building it's about 110 rooms that i had a vacuum and my dad would pay me money so i have spending money and take care of my little necessary bills and this is a few days after we got through with the funeral and a few days after that and i was sweeping in this room and then there was a newspaper and it was opened up and i kid you not saying it was obituary and my best friend's face sitting there on that floor i'm looking at the newspaper my best friend's face in the obituary and i sit there and i stared at him and i'm looking at him it was about 60 seconds me just staring at him and this is silent late at night about 11 o'clock at night and i looked at that paper and i said jerry i ain't going out like that i said if i'm gonna go out i'm gonna go all out i've been going all out since that day oh man that's how that's how i'm rocking in this life this is amazing everybody said man i was gonna kill myself i'm playing on house money now i'm not afraid i love it love it pull it all out good i have come at me i'm sorry i have things come at me sometimes yeah beautiful a lot of stuff but i'm like dude if you think you're gonna intimidate me you know i have governments causing me issues at times unbelievable for no reason to try to bully like they try to do a lot of people i keep going all out yeah i've had i've had staff stab me in the back i've had friends stab me in the back i've had family stab me in the back i've had people steal millions of dollars from me guess what i'm still going all out all i know what i'm gonna all out love old people yes i'm gonna call out care i'm an all-out give and by doing that i'll just keep being sustained and pace i'm gonna do it till i burn up that's it no that's that's amazing amazing incredible incredible story jay like that's um it hurts but it's also what it has created for you being able to change lives as well like you're impacting so many people all over the world because you're alive right now so that is so such a blessing that your dad called and all these things happen because i think you and i need to tell the person this has been thinking about suicide that's a big deal yeah what if you don't live how many people could you have impacted yeah right you know what this material take this knowledge learn about this study this follow jay find out what their what this stuff is get out of that because this stuff literally makes you realize the power you possess person you really are yes that's what it shows you that suicide that's just a that's not the way to go you got you got ample power you have super powers within you that's what i realized is i was gonna die anyway yeah so if i'm gonna die just go all out like just max out go skydive or something don't become crazy as hell die that way don't die kill him yeah yeah man well jay you know what honesty thank you so much it was an honor to have you on the show such an incredible conversation i'm i'm hopeful i'm hoping that we'll stay in touch um i really connected with you and your purpose and everything wherever i can help wherever i can serve let me know um you know like keep me involved in any way and uh and my prayers are with you and whatever you're doing and i wish you all the success in the world uh genuinely so i'm honored to be here i felt your soul brother i felt your spirit i encourage everyone to stay plugged into what this fine man is doing you can feel his heart you see his soul you see his desire it's all support what you're doing here and i'll be here for you brother thank you so much jay have a great day [Music] super