Single Mom With 4 Kids DEMANDS PROVIDER MAN, Instantly Gets Humbled

Modern day women just don't qualify for the top tier men. And that is the truth. Can you believe you're a top tier man? By what standard? I'm six foot four only about what 8% of the entire world is six foot four. I make well over a hundred hundred K a year and I'm black at that. If you add that on. So just simply speaking out those figures the things that women are attracted to. I'm not going to toot my own horn, but I'll let you do the math the conversation and the words that are coming out of the mouth of someone like you. I would never consider top tier a top tier man is also a man that is extremely desirable by way of his character. A top tier man is a man who displays a certain level of intellect that allows him to consider other people a top tier man. They lead with love not with dictatorship, right? They don't want to control their woman. They want to gently lead their woman a top tier man creates space for a woman to feel good about herself. A top tier man supports the dreams and the ideas of a woman a top tier man prioritizes a woman a top tier man is in leadership and working as hard as he is to give the woman the life of her dream. All that stuff that you just said that was just woman needs talk that woman needs is also 6'4 black attractive. I don't know too many women in my circle desire 6'4 man still wearing braids. Cuz you didn't tell me you had four kids. Okay, and I was supposed to tell you that I was supposed to tell you that right now when I just met you two days ago. Yeah, you were supposed to tell me that how you gonna lie. I never lie. I just haven't told you yet. I have four kids. Okay. So what's the problem? You got four kids. That's for all the mouths to feed. Okay, and so what? So are you not capable of taking care of me? Four kids? Girl, that's a whole season of responsibility that he did not RSVP for. Yeah, I'm capable of taking care of them, but I don't want to it's a it's my choice. So why do you feel like you need to add Remy to a date? You said that you would like to have a person that I am. So if that's the case, why is this that you don't want to locate me further further more now? I do like you like you you cool you fine, but you got four kids. And four kids is a full-time job just cuz somebody like you don't mean they signing up to take care of extra lives. Okay, one kid. Okay, maybe you made a mistake to I you get you you pushing me three. No, hell no. This is what you do for hell. No, you you got type of person. That's just who you are. That's not who I am. That's not who you you ain't never been married and you got four kids. Okay, he not lying and he got every right to not want to have that responsibility. And I'm trying to get married. At this point, it's too late. You might want to stay with your niggas. Did you with this crazy? That's crazy. Ain't rude. And this is something at the end of the day. Ain't nobody being rude. Listen, listen. Men can have standards and ain't nobody signing up for no extra lives that they did not create. Well, you're welcome. I want me being a simple mother. That's it. I'm very strong. Nothing. They don't take care of my kids. I'm not asking you to take care of my kids. You're not asking me to take care of your kids, but it's going to go like that. You're going you're going to say you're not asking me to take care of your kids now. And then when they get down later down the road, I'm supposed to be responsible for them. You know, at the end of the day, if you plan on being my husband or if any man plan on being my husband, you're going to eventually have to. You don't have to be there. Their dad's not in their life like that. They need a father figure. What do you mean? Well, you need to call their daddy. Three of them. You got an option. Call one of them to do something. Key point, not the real problem. All this energy towards a man that you're dating. Where's all this energy toward the ones that created these kids with you? Cocaine is a hell of a drug. Welcome to the wall. She sees it as nothing for kids. That's nothing. They're probably from different baby daddies, bro. If the fathers didn't want to take responsibility, why should I when I'm not even their dad? She says he won't take responsibility, but that's a lie. You can't be in a house with five mouths to feed and tell me I won't have to step up. This man is right. You should have told him not trapped him. He's being honest and no one wants to carry someone else's sins. And how is it that the dads aren't taking responsibility? You're not even getting child support. You're a walking red flag. You are the problem, but that doesn't have to become your problem, bro. Let her go to the wall because the wall doesn't forgive. For some reason, men think saying text me when you get home safe makes them a good guy. Doesn't but here I thought that fell into that category known as the bare minimum. No, a good guy text me to make sure that I hold on. How exactly is the guy supposed to know when the woman gets home? Does he just magically know or is there going to be a line of text coming from the guy saying are you home yet? Are you home yet? And then the woman gets upset that he text too much and is too needy. Telling me to text you is about your comfort. You don't want to do the work. So you put the work on me texting is considered to be work now a real nice guy takes the weight off me and actually checks in does the work. Yeah, because it's a lot of work to text those little words. I'm home if you care about my safety. I feel like a man would show it with action. Not just a line that he says to every girl. I don't know. What do you guys think? Well, I think but no matter how much some guys do for women whether it is just the bare minimum or if they do actually go above and beyond there will always be some out there that just want more because they want to feel special in that person's life and don't get me wrong. There's nothing wrong with wanting to feel special. However, if a woman in this case has specific expectations in regards to how the other person treats them in the relationship those things should be voiced men aren't mind readers. So say exactly what a person wants and don't be so vague. Totally, but it's well known that common sense is the rarest sense of all these women don't know what they want one moment. They want you to take care of them the next they say you're smothering them and if you back off they call you desperate. I've come to the conclusion that it's not worth the effort. Let them keep their bare minimum. So let me get this straight. This man decides to take this woman on a date plan a date in the stages of freaking courting her and her main focus is to make a ******* video for tick-tock and you actually had the audacity to make a video about how this man eats his steak and the fact that he eats it with ketchup and basically want to exploit your entire experience with said person instead of getting to know him for internet clout y'all come on this app all day long and cry about how men don't do ---- anymore. How men don't put in effort and all they do is the bare minimum and in and unless a man is taking you to ******* grease y'all consider it the bare minimum and I can almost guarantee you that this chick was like, oh, yeah, this is going to be a great post. This is going to be good like let that man eat and y'all can't understand why these men don't want anything to do with any of these ******* modern-day women that want to claim to be good women and date you because all you want to do is use men for date money and exploit them for freaking content. So you can be viral or internet famous at the expense of somebody else who wanted to do something nice for you and you don't think it's mentally ill to have your camera set up kind of secretly to record someone and the way that they eat their steak. You don't think it's weird to also secretly record somebody that you're supposed to be getting to know and then you can't understand why later on he wants nothing to ******* do with you and then you're probably going to come on the internet and cry about where did all the good men go or oh my God, he's such a ******* narcissist blah blah blah all this bullshit to be in your victimhood even though you perpetuate the cycle by doing this toxic ass ---- in the first place. Okay, bye. No God. No God, please. No, no, no, no, you know what would have made that video even more interesting if he had gone to the bathroom and left her with the bill modern women think they're entitled to everything that man invited you maybe you ate meat that week because of that invitation probably at a place you'd never go to with your own money and still you feel morally superior to the point of wanting to humiliate that man. That's why they end up getting left with the bill or being told to split it 50 50th because they're not even pleasant. What's the point of humiliating the guy you chose to go out with when he's the one paying for your food? I don't know what's going on in these women's heads women. For some reason men think saying text me when you get home safe makes them a good guy. No a good guy text me to make sure that I got home safe telling me to text you is about your comfort. You don't want to do the work. So you put the work on me a real nice guy takes the weight off me and actually checks in does the work if you care about my safety. I feel like a man would show it with action not just a line that he says to every girl. I don't know. What do you guys think? What do you want that man to do text you every five minutes until he successfully guesses when you're home and the next thing we see is a woman complaining about all of the times that a man texted her double text her triple text her and she'll even show the screenshots of him asking. Are you home yet? Are you home yet ladies? Sometimes you just got to chalk it up to your overthinking brain and it's getting in the way. You really don't need to try to change a man's behavior on this topic. Trust me or better yet just be the one to text him that you got home safe. You've got hands to you can send that message. He already did all the work invited you paid for what you ate. You should be the one asking him if he got home safe, but no, they see a problem with everything modern women don't know what they want brothers and the ones at the wall are even worse because the wall doesn't forgive. Why do you feel like you need to bring me to a date? He said that you like the type of person that I am. So if that's the case, why is it that you don't want to go dating further and furthermore now? I do like you like you you cool you fine, but you got four kids. Okay, was you ever married? Was you ever married? No, I was not. I got three baby daddy. Oh damn. You got three baby. Let's see. I know. No, no, no, no, baby. I ain't got no problem. It's not like you. I like to be cool. Man, this is one baby. What one baby daddy? Okay, one kid. Okay, maybe you made a mistake too. All right, you get it. You pushing three. That man is fighting for his life because you can tell that he really does like this woman, but he just keeps on getting slammed with worse and worse news. Honestly, that man is just disappointed because it is very disappointing when you meet somebody online and they're not completely open and honest about themselves having children. I don't think that's fair and that is because it is a common well-known deal-breaker for some people, especially people that obviously don't have kids knowing that it's a common deal-breaker for men and women. That is why that should be provided up front before one person punts in all of the time and effort into planning and paying for a date, which is come on always the man. Honestly, that man you can tell is not even mad. He's just really disappointed. He put in the time and effort and he probably was pretty excited for this day. It seems like that. She was a really cool girl. He seemed to be really into her but you know, he has deal-breakers and kudos to him for standing by that. She could be Miss Universe, but any man will think twice before getting involved with a woman who has four small kids. No wallet can handle that. One child in this country is already expensive. Imagine four in the worst part. They're not even yours and no one's going to thank you for it. When that kid grows up and tells you you're not my dad. What are you going to do? You're mad because he disrespected you with the truth. I'm not saying this woman doesn't deserve a man, but God's best warrior hasn't knocked on her door yet to take on that battle. That man didn't run because he was being recorded. But if it were me, I wouldn't even argue. I'd pay the bill and walk away. The faster you run from problems, the better your life turns out. We've reached the end of the video. But before we go, the questions are for you. What do you think about becoming the stepfather of four kids? What are your thoughts on modern women's standards and the so-called bare minimum? If you enjoyed the video, make sure to give it a thumbs up, subscribe to the channel and hit the notification bell. Your support means the world to us and motivates us to create more content. Stay tuned for the next exciting video from the wall.