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Some books when you read them at the
right time, they hit you right in the
chest and they forever change your life.
Now, as someone who's a nerd and also an
author myself, I'm a big fan of reading
books. Now, in this video, I want to
share five of the books that will for
sure not only change your life, but make
you smarter than 98% of people. Hey
guys, I'm Alex Hine, author of Master
Zeday and the dude behind here at Modern
Health Monk. Let's jump in. Book number
one is called Finding Your Own North
Star by Martha Beck. This book is
probably the number one book I've
recommended for people who are in their
20s, 30s, or 40s who are feeling lost.
If the specific emotion is you're
feeling lost in life, this book is
incredible for this. In my 20s, I
struggled a lot with that feeling of
purposelessness, aimlessness, not being
sure what to do, and it gave me a lot of
anxiety because I felt like the clock
was ticking. Martha Beck's book, one of
the reasons I love it is that the
fundamental idea is she talks about your
essential self versus your social self.
Your essential self is basically like
what you truly want from life. Do you
really want to be an artist, not a
doctor, but your parents are pressuring
you into becoming a doctor? Who you are
at your core is really what finding your
own north star is about. And the social
self is what she calls kind of like the
self that caves to peer pressure. That's
the person who's really not well
equipped to be in medicine, but you do
it because of like the money or the
status or your parents are pressuring
you. And what Martha says is the way you
live a happy life and fulfilled life is
by being aligned with your own north
star. So, I'd highly recommend this if
you're lost in life or you've gone
through a tragedy or loss and you're
trying to reinvent from that like winter
death and rebirth phase of life. Book
number two is called The Game of Life
and How to Play It by Florence Scoville
Shin. Florence Shin is an 1800's
Christian mystic. And this book was
recommended to me by Susie Batiz, the
CEO of PooPourri. And if you don't know,
Susie Batiz had this incredible story of
depression and attempted suicide and
multiple divorce and bankruptcy. And she
went on this kind of healing,
soulsearching journey about why she was
the worst entrepreneur ever. and she was
praying and she was healing and working
on herself and she got this insight for
her next product which became PooPourri
a $500 million a year business in one of
her programs she's very into like the
woo woo aspects of like resonance and
synchronicity and that sort of thing and
she recommended this book and one of the
reasons I love this book is that this is
like the original manifesting book you
don't know it because this woman lived
in the 1800s but this book is one of the
books that really talks about how life
is a game. Meaning, you are a
consciousness field. You can pray to God
and get a message for what to do next.
And I think a lot of the tough phases of
life, you need to figure out how to have
that inner guidance that gets you on the
right path. And this book is one of
those that will help you stay aligned,
you know, first line she says is most
people consider life a battle, but it is
not a battle, it is a game. And then it
talks about sort of spiritual
principles. The third book is called
letting go the pathway to surrender of
surrender and this is by David Hawkins.
This is very much a bit more in like the
manifesting space. This is a book all
about vibrational states and about
letting go. This book is so important is
because first of all it talks a lot
about where you are on the emotional
spectrum and he says like at the highest
level is like love and peace and those
trigger high amounts of manifestation in
your life. The things you're most
successful at, you do the best are
probably the things you love, right? And
the things you hate to do, you probably
procrastinate the most. You do the worst
work, and you do the bare minimum. This
is an example of that principle at play.
But now, what if you apply that to love?
What if you apply that to your
friendships? What if you apply it to
your career? What if you apply it to
what you do at 9:00 a.m. on Saturday
morning? So letting go is first about
your recognizing your emotional
vibrational state and secondarily
learning the power of non-attachment
because non-attachment is one of the
ways you feel good when your goals
haven't shown up yet. Fourth book is
called the magic of thinking big by
David Jvart
PhD. One of the reasons why this book is
so interesting is he talks a lot about
how, you know, he gave the example of
like a really highly paid job, like
let's say a job that makes pays 200k
versus a very low entry-level job that
pays like 40k. And he says, do you know
why the job that makes 40k gets 10 times
the number of applicants than the job
that pays 200k? And it's not just
because of people's skills. It's because
people think that's what they're capable
of and that's what they're worth. And
this book is all about uh I think a lot
about attitude of high performance.
People who get those high-paying jobs
aren't always qualified for them. They
just sometimes have more guts and
believe that they could learn the
skills. I loved this book because of I
mean it's called the magic of thinking
big. That sort of says it all. If your
goal is to build like a million dollar
business or a $100,000 business, it can
take the same period of time, which is
crazy. It's just you have to have a
different strategy to get there. But if
you start with a bigger vision, then
you're more likely to be aligned with a
different process to get there. And the
people who've done what you want to do,
they're usually not that special. The
final book is called Peak: Secrets from
the New Science of Expertise by Anders
Ericson. If you don't know Andrew
Ericson, Andrew Xerken is like the
originator, if you want to call it that,
the lead researcher behind what Malcolm
Gladwell popularized as the 10,000h hour
rule. So Andrew Ericson is a researcher
who studies expert performance. and he
studied expert performers in every
industry from musicians to athletes to
doctors and to artists. If you've seen
my videos, you know I'm a diehard
believer that the number one way to
increase your career success is to focus
on skills. [music] Skills are what pay
the bills. But how do you get great at
them? This book talks a lot about expert
performance. Like how do violinists
become the best? What are the main ways
they train? How do they think? What are
the main correlations you see with the
best violinists in the world? What about
athletes? Some start out as naturals,
some are not natural, but do the top
tier athletes truly have natural gifts?
He says no. What's so unique about this
book is the specific way you need to
train because he says doing something
for more hours doesn't make you better.
Doing something for more hours with
deliberate practice makes you better.
And that's so important because a lot of
us repeat the same things thinking that
life will get better. And when it
doesn't, we realize we've been not doing
it right. So, highly [music] recommend
this book. Now, you know me guys, I'm a
nerd. I read books and I write books.
The top 100 self-help books that changed
my life. I shot a video on that right
here and that will give you a lot more
insights to add to your reading list.