How To Embrace Your Femininity

what does it mean to be feminine does it mean having the perfect figure or acting like a fairy tale princess doesn't mean running around in high heels and sparkly dresses being feminine isn't a costume it's something to be proud of today we give you three tips on how to embrace your femininity [Music] number one don't get caught up in stereotypes in today's age it's a big question what a woman should look like or what a woman even is for that matter and people are running away from gender stereotypes as far as possible yeah I'm not like other girls I just find being girly so cliche but don't you think men are toxic oh yeah so why are you trying to be like one things are getting confusing but you as a woman do not have to get caught up in the frenzy most gender stereotypes exist because they reflect the way that men and women are naturally different and those differences aren't bad men and women complement each other and create a well-balanced family and community so don't let anyone tell you it's bad to fit stereotypes those people are just trying too hard to be cool oh pink how original if you want to wear pink wear pink if you want to dress up in a girly dress do it make yourself pretty Master the art of makeup practice good hygiene go buy all the things that smell good and create a torpedo of fragrance foreign if you want to wear high heels go for it just practice walking before getting close to any ledges embrace the idea of being a wife or a mother and allow yourself to stay at home to raise your children if it's the right choice for you and your family it's a wonderful opportunity on the other hand don't feel guilty of pursuing a career is the right choice for your family the point is don't be afraid to fit stereotypes or break them just focused on being the best woman you can be and on that Journey learn how to advocate for your choices if people don't understand you don't have to shrivel up in shame or get angry so what are you majoring in homemak home Eck isn't that what girls from 1950s sitcoms do come on girl you do better than that there's always going to be people like this and that's okay just have your reasons thought through and ready to share number two be positive one of the most beautiful things God has created is a woman's smile it can fill a room with energy and joy just try smiling and see how it affects the people around you [Music] don't be a crusty old man there's nothing feminine about that Adam Sandler what are you doing here learn how to engage with others and bring joy to people around you be positive and look for the beauty in life appreciate creativity and Aesthetics embrace your artistic side and the joy of making things beautiful make your house a home and along the way stay grateful and encouraging number three respect yourself and others if you want to be respected you first have to respect yourself and the people around you this starts by realizing that the most important thing in life is not how pretty you look or how much makeup you put on the most important thing is living for something bigger than yourself having values and a cause to live for you have to realize that your life can make a difference in the lives of others and you are way more valuable than just a body understand your worth and don't settle for less than you deserve you've got to respect yourself think about it like treating yourself as someone you care about start taking your hygiene and fitness seriously don't eat too much trash food and keep your environment from being a dump and dress well just make sure it's appropriate don't expose parts of your body that would send the wrong message about who you are and use social media in a way that dignifies you as a woman don't invite the wrong kind of attention you don't want to be getting messages from this guy hi beautiful angel how would you like to meet me in a gas station parking lot I promise I am legit and make six figures every week make sure you establish boundaries to keep you safe it's good to have your own opinions and share them with others but handle confrontation with Grace just because someone disagrees doesn't mean you have to take offense and even if they're being dumb it doesn't give you a right to be mean so you know the Earth is flat yeah on the other hand being feminine doesn't mean that you have to be this delicate flower that just goes along with everything stand up for yourself and say no when needed like when the guy asks you to meet him at the gas station Just Stay classy and gracious and don't develop the reputation of being a gossip did you hear what happened to Rebecca she was taking a walk and she fell into a drainage pipe who even does that and then some man came along and tried to pull her out and he accidentally ripped out her extensions oh my gosh that's so embarrassing sometimes as a girl it's easy to share too much so learn how to use discretion and keep things private and lastly don't be afraid to allow men in your life to help you you don't have to pretend to be the fierce independent woman don't be offended when a gentleman opens the door or offers to carry something for you hey let me get that for you I am a capable woman but thanks for being a toxic man don't be this girl remember you're valuable and you deserve to be treated with value be grateful when a man goes out of his way to show you respect in conclusion be the kind of woman you'd want your daughters to be or your sons to marry hold yourself to a high standard and be a role model to the younger women around you so let's recap how to embrace your femininity number one don't get caught up in stereotypes embrace your gender number two be positive bring joy to those around you number three respect yourself and others thank you for watching this how-to video for prageru I really hope you learned something new please don't hate me I love all women I for one am not a woman but you know I figured it was probably appropriate for me to at least say the part about a woman's smile being the most beautiful thing God has created and also the woman that was narrating this video is my wife pretend that I was a woman the whole time goodbye let's do making bread and turkey with a ball in chin okay [Music] foreign foreign