Trí Tuệ Kinh Dịch: Cách Tiết Chế Dục Vọng Nội Tâm - Nghệ Thuật Làm Chủ Bản Thân

Wisdom, business, art, determination, self-desire and self-ruling. Ladies and gentlemen, when you are still a young man, a person without greed has never had the concept of choosing or giving up. We just live in the most primitive state to survive. Eat and sleep, wake up and eat again. But with growing up, greed and greed for survival drive us to pursue more and more things. Throughout life, greed never stops growing and taking over. We only know how to ask, we only know how to ask, but we don't know how to give up, how to give up. It seems that only by not stopping taking over, not stopping making our greed grow stronger, then life will not be wasted in a useless way. In the scene of Hang Nguan, Phu Mung Long painted a vivid picture of the bottomless circle of human greed like this. The human being is born for food, just being fed, he thinks again. His eyes are full of tears, he sees that his wife is missing in the room. He marries three wives, then four more, but he is afraid that he will be despised by others. He is still small, he wants to go to the South to be a emperor. Early in the morning, he climbs to the top of Kim Luan, he brings a messenger to play chess. He plays chess with the king, the king asks where the ladder to the sky is. If it weren't for this number of people, climbing to the top of the blue sky is still low. Clearly, in real life, selfishness will increase greed in our hearts. When greed is controlled in a certain range, it will be a motivation, but when it exceeds that range, it will become pressure. This pressure is like water in a well, it only knows how to leak, but not how to release. Sooner or later, it will break and burn. A person who does not know how to respond to himself, who does not have a big ambition, will inevitably be despised by others. But a person who is only full of glory in his head is not good either. A person like that is misled by greed, and forgets to consider the situation. The higher you climb, the more you fall. Therefore, a person who has greed, acts according to his greed, is acceptable. However, if greed is excessive, and does not know how to control it, it is wrong. In the end, you can only get the result, taking a step of regret for thousands of years. Let's look at the story of the story of the orchid on the prairie. When the number of orchids increases to a certain amount, a strange phenomenon will occur. The first ones are eaten by the fresh grass, and the ones after that are left alone. So, to be eaten by the fresh grass, the orchids behind do not stop running forward. They look like they are in a crazy race. A strange phenomenon occurs. The orchids all run towards one direction. The end point of the prairie is a vast field, but no orchid can stop it. The orchids keep falling, and the ones after that fall into the field. The orchids run, not only because they want to eat the fresh grass, it is their greed. Humans are the same. Greed for power can also push people to the abyss of fate. Greed is like a wild horse. Once it has escaped the trap, it will be unbridled. Greed is like lust. Once it is out of control, it will make the moral ladder collapse and disintegrate. So, how can we control our greed? The ancient wisdom has shown us the way. The iron in the mind is the man's sword for the art of self-rule. First, work according to your ability. Know yourself, know others. The old saying goes, if you don't leave the house, you don't make a mistake. This teaching advises us to act respectfully. In the face of success, we must first measure ourselves. If you don't have enough ability, you shouldn't be reluctant to act. Today, most people want to be famous early, but they don't stop looking for ways to attract attention. However, if you have no ability, you will only be tempted to fail. You will end up with a higher goal. Of course, if you want to succeed, you don't just need ability, you also have to choose the right time. If the time hasn't come yet, you have to be patient and wait. Second, you need to have a solid foundation. You need to be strong at the right time. The Queen wrote, the iron is hard, the iron is unbreakable. It means that the iron is easy to handle, but the iron is hard, it cannot last long. This means that if the time has come, we should not hold on to our desire, but have a strong attack. If you are still reluctant to take a step at the wrong time, it will be very difficult to get a good chance later. The saying is, the time waits for no one, the time does not come back, this is the reason. The mechanism of desire is not a requirement to hold on blindly, but a reasonable mechanism. Many girls want to lose weight, but overdo it. Losing weight successfully, but having a stomachache, or constipation, it is really harmless. Therefore, the iron is built on the basis of tolerance. Third, do not be too greedy, avoid greed. Hao Luc Tam wrote, the iron is hard, the iron is unbreakable. It means that if you do not know the iron, you will have to be patient. If you chase anything without being too greedy, being too greedy will become greed. The Buddha has three books, Tam-San-Si. In it, greed is arranged in the first row. The story of the guard of the palace, Meiji Mark, is a painful evidence. Although his appearance was weak, he vowed to give up his political life to be happy with the Seven Seals, to protect them from the general. When the foreign invaders came, the soldiers were confused, let the general of the palace's seal fight the invaders. In the end, the guard of the palace was killed by chaos, the country was lost, the house was destroyed. Greed is not wrong, but when it becomes greed, it will become a trap for business. Fourth, you have to keep yourself clean, cautious, and moral. Hao-Cu-Ngu-Kue-Tiet-Viet, Kam-Tiet, Kat, Vang-Hiu-Thuong, means that if you are happy with the iron, you are good. What is a reasonable iron? The sutra answers, keep the central position. If you want that, you have to be careful, cautious, moral, and respect morality. Only when you can put an end to the fight of the greedy, people can reach the state of selflessness, and see the benefits. Hong-Huong-Minh, in Thái Can Đàm, also pointed out the origin of wealth. He said that the glory of wealth, if cultivated morally, will be like flowers in a mountain forest, naturally bloom, wither, If cultivated business, it will be like flowers in a garden, only withering will the growth be affected. And if based on power, it will be like flowers in a well, the roots do not stick deep into the ground, so it can wait for the day to wither. Self-education is like water, the lessons of the scene. The truth is like that. Greed, once exposed, will be like a horse out of the mirror, difficult to control. The worries that are lost, the things that cannot be thrown away in this life, most of them are due to greed. Thái Can Đàm advised that, the greed of man, if it can be eradicated from the moment it is planted, it is like picking a young tree, the effort to get rid of it is extremely easy. To create the right sky, it needs to be expanded from the moment it appears, it is also like washing away the dust on the mirror, then re-shaping it, the light will become more and more new. This is also like a child, when he has never eaten candy, he does not know the taste, he will not think about eating candy, but once he has tasted it, he will want to eat it forever. Self-education is like water, just a little bit, leaving a small puddle, it can become a big hole, causing a big fire. Since ancient times, many visitors are not bad people from the beginning, but in the process of becoming an official, they have gradually forgotten the origin of prostitution. Greed for money, see money as a net, only know about profit, from change in quantity to change in quality. Step by step, falling deeper, eventually losing the official, becoming a prisoner, self-destructing money. Some people even accidentally enter the path of illegal prostitution. There is a story like this. A deputy mayor, when he just took office, was extremely committed, making those who wanted to come to the door, but could not find a way. This deputy mayor was also proud of his commitment. At this time, a large company in the city needed about 4 people to develop the project, because the deputy mayor felt that he should support up to 4-3 workers. The mayor, after knowing the story, also immediately withdrew the money. Very quickly after that, this company paid the debt in advance. Moreover, he also paid the bank a loan of up to 10%. Because the deputy mayor did not give up, he thought that this money was not related to him. But not long after, that loan was transferred to his account. Because the deputy mayor wanted to ask for a clear answer, but his wife said, this is not difficult to understand. I agree for them to fly capital, help the business to transform into peace. They do that simply to repay. He listened to his wife, felt reasonable, and immediately accepted the money. Unexpectedly, from then on, the companies came to him to withdraw the loan a lot. And every company also paid the debt according to a loan of a particularly high amount. Of course, these loans were transferred to the personal account of the deputy mayor. Gradually, the deputy mayor began to compare which company paid more. He did not even realize that he was walking into the path of corruption. Finally, the case was solved. He was sentenced to 15 years in prison. So, how to fight the selfishness? The book of Thái Càn Đàm gave the answer. Consume knowledge, consume power, the devil is innocent. That is, there is knowledge, there is will, the devil no longer hides. The knowledge here is understood to be the wisdom to wake up. It is the Ming dynasty to clearly see the harm of greed. The power here is will, it is the wisdom to find, to stop the corruption. Both are indispensable. There is a story like this. On the prairie, there is a swan. They were living a very beautiful life, but then misfortune came. On the prairie, there were a few beasts such as swans, tigers, and even cockroaches. The swan was always bullied. Just in a few days, the swan lost several dozen. This situation made the swan extremely scared. They knew that at this rate, soon the whole fly would become a dinner for the tiger and swan. Everyone began to find a way to deal with it. A young swan said that he could solve this problem, but with one condition, that is to let him be the chief of the fly tribe. The fly tribe had no choice but to accept the request of the young swan. But this swan disappointed everyone. Because he had just become the chief, he announced to the outside world that he was willing to make friends with the tiger, swan and cockroach and to show his sincerity, he voluntarily gave back his chief position to one of them. The fly tribe was angry, while the tiger, swan and cockroach were happy. But all three argued about who would be the chief. They started to argue. Cockroach said that he was the smartest so he should be the chief of the fly tribe. The tiger said that he was still the king of the tribe so he deserved to be the chief. At this time, the swan could not stand it anymore. Every time the fly tribe was attacked, he was the first to leave. Without him, how could the fly tribe be afraid? The fly tribe said so he must be the chief. What are you? From arguing, they started to fight. Cockroach was the smartest. He let the swan and tiger fight until the two Tigers were taken by Cockroach into the swan's nest. When Cockroach was smiling at the nest, the tiger pulled the cockroach down to the nest. This led the fly tribe to understand the will of the chief. So the fly tribe used the chief as a tool to seduce the braver ones and make them kill each other. After solving the crisis for the young bear, the young bear came to the chief and continued to be a normal bear. The young bear used the chief's position to make the tiger, wolf and bear kill each other. Then he calmly gave up his power, which is the sign of a person who has both knowledge and power. The young bear clearly understood the danger of the enemy and the danger of greed for power, and had the will to kill himself. There is a story that there was a kind and honest key keeper. Because of his old age, he had to choose a student to inherit his skills. He chose two excellent young men. After a while, both students learned a lot of skills. His skills were also very good, which made him at the time unable to decide who to choose as a successor. So he had to design a test. He placed two iron cages locked in two separate rooms, and asked two students to open them. The first student only lost less than 10 minutes to open the cage, and the second student lost half an hour. Obviously, the first student won. But the test was not over yet. The key keeper waited until the second student was sweating and opened the lock, then he asked himself, when you opened the lock, did you see anything in the cage? The first student was very excited, he answered, there was a lot of money in the cage. At this time, the second student was even more excited, his face turned red, and then he said, I'm sorry, master, I was just focusing on opening the lock, I didn't notice anything in there at all. The key keeper smiled, then he announced his successor. The result was surprising. The whole student was not as successful as the key keeper had hoped. The successor was the second student, who was both slow and weak. Everyone didn't understand. The key keeper explained, because in the heart of the second student there was only the lock, there was nothing else. Everyone still didn't understand, the key keeper continued, doing any job, you have to put confidence in your head, especially in our profession, you have to value confidence. To become a good key keeper, you have to reach a level where there is only the lock in your heart and nothing else. If there is pride and greed in your heart, then going into the house to open the cage to get money is as easy as holding your hand, so you have to be careful. At this time, everyone is new, no need to be convinced how to choose the unique person of the key keeper. That's right, life is not always like that. As a person who does not fear sweat, a person who was born difficult to avoid confusion, often lives through the day in a dreamy way, has to go through the training of life day by day, in order to be able to suddenly be successful one day. Like the second student, although he slowly opened the lock in a dreamy way, but because he locked the lock he wanted in his heart, so he could only see the lock but not see the money. There are too many good things in this world, even if you save it all, you can't chase it all. How much money is a lot, how much you save is high. As the saying goes, there is a limit in our life, but if we know it, there is no limit. Take what is limited and chase what is infinite, it is really boring. Finally, life is not always like that. If in our hearts, we are all given a lock, use our brains as a lever, use our will to rotate, lock our mind and thoughts, then our life will become more harmonious and happier than we know. That is the way to true self-reliance.