【精神小妹不是壞，是被這個社會放棄了】背後的真相：家庭、學校、社會全失職！一個不斷製造精神小妹的社會，才是真正病了

Hello everyone This is James The term "spiritual young woman" I wonder if any of you have heard of it? Thank you so much to the friend who sent me the message Actually, I didn't know that before either. I am in Canada I don't know about mainland China. Or recently And such a special group of people has emerged. Of course, the number of "spiritual young women" didn't suddenly increase. It is the whole society I think it's a gradual tacit acceptance that they're increasing in number. They've become worse not because they don't want to become better. I think everyone has a good heart. But nobody taught them what the future was. So when dignity becomes worthless When it has no value Therefore, decadence becomes the most cost-effective option. So what about these young, energetic girls? They all have a very similar characteristic. That's how it can be said. Smoking, tattoos, and swearing are no longer considered individuality. It was a distress signal from someone who had nowhere else to go. Of course, I'm not saying I'm against tattoos. Or this smoking thing. but It is indeed a signal that they have no other way out. Their rebellion isn't about rebelling against society. They really gave up on life prematurely. so The scariest thing about these young women isn't their present state. Rather, it's about their own future. No imagination So when a person makes their way in the outside world If it is regarded as a way of life That means He had truly lost all hope in life. Or perhaps there is no vision at all. That's how it can be said. Then don't listen to all my nonsense. Let's hear what the experts have to say. Then let's take a look. What exactly does a "spirited young woman" look like? Let's take a look. knowledgeable people How would you evaluate these "spirited young women"? Do you know what a "spiritual young woman" is? Do you know how they make a living? Young lady with a spirit It is a special group What about these girls? Low level of general education However, they can't endure the hardships of working. What do I think of myself? She was born to be a princess. so what They developed a set of skills for navigating the underworld. First of all, the "spirited young lady" is easy to identify by her appearance. These young women are usually... Dressing herself in a very unconventional way Hair dyed in various colors Her face was covered in a riot of colors. She was wearing brightly colored clothes. What should be revealed and what shouldn't be revealed Try your best. All exposed The common standard is tattoos. And what about this tattoo? It is also tiered. There was a girl. She wrote down all her ex-boyfriends' names. They were all tattooed on my body. That's really seizing every opportunity! Anyone who didn't know better would think she knew all the surnames in the Hundred Family Surnames. The entire body was tattooed. Because she had the most ex-boyfriends The largest area of ​​tattoo Naturally, she became the leader of this group of spirited young women. Now, here comes the important part. How do they live? Pan Laotou The so-called old man That is, men born in the 1980s They're all around 40 years old. Under 50 years old These young women's phones Each person has hundreds of such post-80s old men. Their main daily tasks It's just a constant stream of group messages to these 80s-born old men. The content is basically the same. Brother, I can't get any food. Send me a 10 yuan red envelope. Brother, my rent is due. Send 100 yuan Uh, I need to pay rent. Brother, my phone is about to run out of credit. Send 30 yuan red envelope I need to pay my phone bill. Brother, the weather is getting warmer. Send me a red envelope! I want to buy a dress In short, his reason for wanting money... That's a lot. However, the amount of money he had was not large. So what about those 80s-born old men who took advantage of others? That's also possible. Generous donation Try to satisfy Often, these young, energetic girls... It can also maintain your basic living standards Of course, it takes a long time. Some old men are also annoyed. They always want this. Ugh, it's really annoying. We won't give them any more. I blocked them. These energetic young women... Go marry another old man And so it continues to be updated and replaced. You need at least a hundred people in your phone. This is an old man born in the 1980s Reporters interviewed these young women. They said... Sometimes no one sends a red envelope for several days. Unlike when we first started doing it That's so easy to do. Okay, so here are some simple statements. Next... I'll show you right away. What do real young women look like? But before that... Everyone can think about it. Personally, I think this energetic young woman... This is no longer just an individual problem. This is not just one or two problems. It's the whole family Problems involving multiple groups in schools and society You said family Whether it's a collective failure of duty on the part of schools, society, and the community Or perhaps it's incompetence. In short, this led to the emergence of this group. If a woman thinks A girl If you think that giving up is the only way out So I don't think the problem lies with this girl. We shouldn't laugh at them. Because if we are laughing at them In reality, we were covering up an even bigger failure. Because their existence is not voluntary. I think their existence is forced upon them by society. Therefore, a society that constantly produces "spiritual young women" That's the truly abnormal society. So let's take a look next. What is the state of mind of "spiritual young women"? My sisters all say that old man is getting old. What kind of group of people is referred to as "the old man with a broken head"? This refers to those born in the 1980s or later, without any specific context. Those born in the 90s are rich. Some are a few years older. Not born in the 80s or 90s Yeah, you're a Gen Z, right? Yes, it specifically refers to those who are rich. So what do you think of that one? Do you think old men are awful? Those who stay at home Staying home Never been in the underworld Never seen much of the world Why do people say they're so bad? Because they've never seen a beautiful woman. Never seen a beautiful woman I've never seen anyone as beautiful as me. what you think Which type of old man do you think is easy to mess with? Hmm, around 50 or 60. There are still people in their fifties and sixties. Like those twenty or thirty It's not good if it collapses. Why is it so hard to break down? They are smart They are smart Is that so? What do you think? I'm one of those handsome guys too. It's not us who will destroy them. They're the ones who attacked us! They will destroy you. Do you still have any savings? My face is my bank account. Your face Beautiful Little sister, how many boyfriends have you had? Me, um. More than 20 Twenty or thirty, is that right? There aren't more than 30, right? Have you ever spent money on a young, eccentric guy? My boyfriend went in. Flowers bloom and fade. Right? You gave a guy money before. Have you ever spent money on that young man with a "spirited" personality? That must have been spent. You've spent money on it too, right? I got scammed We got scammed, didn't we? And also you The so-called crazy old man Were they there voluntarily? That's definitely voluntary. They all voluntarily spent money on me. This young man is not as good as me, an old man. Why? They won't even give us money. They even asked us to spend money on them. Really? Then how can I spend money on you? Where did it all go? What do these energetic young men do with their money? Rent a car and buy clothes It's just that every time it's after I get off work... My wife earns a lot of money. Then give me the money. Go shopping for clothes or something tomorrow. Similar to this Are you like this too? Yes, that's what it means to take our money to find your sister. Why By the way, I didn't see your boyfriend this time. What about that guy from last time? Which object? The person who filmed the video last time Oh, you mean that one? Ah, I don't know how many times I've changed them already. I've forgotten what he looks like. You've forgotten what he looks like? Okay, sis Do you have tattoos? Yes, where is the tattoo? Get rich, get rich What's the meaning It's about getting rich. I've become so fond of money Hands, hands, and tattoos, right? What is this? Uh, a good woman's ambition lies in all directions. Suffering in silence Here? Wealth is the soul of a hero. How much dowry will you need when you get married? Let's say 888,000. It costs 888,000. Yes. With my kind of charisma, 880,000 is far too little. How much are you planning to ask for? Uh 66, six great luck Six sixes bring good fortune Hmm, do you think you can give it to me? Of course it can! What is the longest time you can date someone? About half a month They dated for more than half a month The longest relationship lasted more than half a month. What about the shortest one? Five minutes Why did it only last five minutes? Because he transferred 52 to me I suggest we date. Oh, so why is it yellow? I asked him for 66, but he wouldn't transfer it to me. I deleted it directly. Ah, it's been deleted. Oh, and also, in your relationship, do you take on the role of a "recruiting" person? Has your partner gone home yet? Of course I'll reply. Go home What was your parents' reaction when you got home? My parents kicked him and me out of the house. Kicked out of the house Did you hit him? We absolutely have to fight! Are you two still together? It turned yellow early It's already yellowed, right? And what is the meaning behind your tattoo? What do you think of your previous... What do you feel before and after getting a tattoo? What's the point of tattoos? I feel really cool and stylish after getting a tattoo. Very handsome What do you think? What is the meaning of tattoos? Don't you think it's cool? Is it very social? It looks really cool, right? Hmm, are you going to get another tattoo? It's definitely a tattoo. Also tattoo Brother, can you treat me to a meal? Why should I invite you to dinner? I haven't eaten yet. Please treat me to breakfast. Will you come back after dinner? He's not coming back. What are you coming back for? What about you two? We'll definitely go! What do you need them for? They've both eaten. Then I'll lead him. Then I'll lead him. Eat your food first. Let's go and stay here. Let's go, let's go. What does that mean? This is a piece This is the interview video they took with the young woman. ah This shows that they all live in groups. And the living environment wasn't very good either. And then, besides the "spiritual young lady" (a term used to describe young, sexually active women)... There was also a spirited young man That is to say their This group also includes boys. Actually, the meanings are probably quite similar. Let's just screw each other over. I am someone who is very open to tattoos. Although I don't have it myself. But I've considered getting a tattoo many times. But I'm afraid of pain. so I have no such opinion about tattoos. but If someone gets a tattoo just to look cool... To be domineering So I think possible Tattooing really goes against the true essence of tattooing. I think every tattoo, every mark on the body Because tattoos are permanent? In theory, you should all have great significance. That's why I got this tattoo. Otherwise This tattoo Wouldn't that become a burden in your life? So before we move on to the next video... Let me say a few words first. I think the young lady is... They are definitely not spoiled. They were truly abandoned. So what that girl just said After she got home, she brought her boyfriend home with her. As a result, the two of them were actually... by their families. It was typed out. Therefore, their families and society do not give them dignity. They can only gain this sense of existence by degrading themselves. Because of what they call "old man" They felt that this kind of old man was what they called an old man. Even at my age, I'm considered an old man. It can give them some sense of their presence. After you read it You might dislike the "spirited young woman" But... You can't escape the system that created them. This system So I think this is how a society is. When you work hard but see no reward If you're just drifting through life, then you can only make the most ideal choice. Yes or no Therefore, many people in mainland China are so-called "lying flat" (meaning to remain calm and relaxed). So these young women with a "spirited" personality At least they haven't completely collapsed yet. Still pursuing one's own life Let's look at it this way. Our next interview video We are in this environment How often do you usually clean your house? If it gets too messy, call a cleaning service to tidy it up. When was the last time we called for cleaning? The day before yesterday, right? How many days have you been staying here, little sister? I've been here for five or six days. Is this the house you rented? Or something rented? How much per day What situation does this 100 represent? There's no shuttle! It's just a garbage dump. Without a shuttle, the garbage dump would just be piled up there. Is that so? I have a question. Why are all the slippers here single-piece? The other one is lost. There is a puppy And hamsters There's also a hamster. Why keep them in a short-term rental apartment? Because I like it So when you check out Are all these hamsters and puppies being taken away? Yeah, if we take them with us, where will we put them? It's in the new daily rental room right What do you think? Does the homeowner know about the current state of the house? I know he knows. I know you showed it to him. What did the homeowner say after reading it? Let me be gentle. Then why don't you tidy it up a bit more? I'm too lazy to tidy up. Hey sis, let me ask you, how much is your current bank balance? 600+ you, sis? Why don't you take a look? Look at this. Hey sis, what kind of phone do you have? 13 War God Edition Apple iPhone 13 Ares Edition He fell like this The object was dropped like this Why did your partner smash your phone, honey? Because we had a fight. Doesn't your partner have a phone? Yes, he fell too. Ah, throwing each other I threw him, he threw me. Why didn't you think about getting a new phone? I plan to repair it and continue using it. baby To be honest, you might as well just buy a new one. You've made yourself look like this. There's no point in fixing it anymore. This new phone wasn't that expensive. I recently got a new phone. Old iPhone 13 I directly contacted AiRecycle for in-person collection. They received over 2,000. Is it reliable? Absolutely. Listed companies Nearly 2,000 stores worldwide To recycle unused digital products I recommend AiRecycle. I'll go check it out later. Let me check my current balance. 20.42, why don't you share some with him? Sis, you have over 600 in your balance? My 600+ wasn't with me. Where do you put your 600+? Where is the young man? He wanted to put his phone money where he said that. He has automatic deductions. That's all gone. Woke up He has his own wealth manager. If your automatic deduction is... What kinds of projects are they? Meituan power banks Pinduoduo offers pay-later service. Ride-hailing apps How much money do you owe on your power bank? One is Meituan, the other is Monster. One is 99, the other is also 99 It's just that the power bank wasn't returned. Where did you go? It's back They were unwilling to return it after it was all done. Even if he pays it back, won't he still be penalized? Deduct less or more I won't pay back if they deduct too much. Even if they deduct less, I can't pay it back. What else do you have? The platform is currently in debt. Little Pig Reversing You have to owe everything you can. You can't pay back money even if you suddenly have it. Pinduoduo owes several hundred Then just pay it back. You have over 600 Are you still not clean? Can it be cleaned up? Then just pay it back. He doesn't want to pay it back. Why should I give it to him? It's always more comfortable to keep your money in your own hands, isn't it? Do you have one, little sister? Never have any debt Do you have any debts? No, little sister. What's your educational background, sis? Fourth grade of primary school They stop studying in fourth grade. What's your educational background, little sister? He hasn't graduated from junior high school yet. I won't read your name anymore. The Second Year of Junior High School (which I didn't attend) You're in your first year of high school, huh? younger sister How much do you spend on average per day? Spend as much money as you have How much money can you earn in a day? I spent 1,300 yesterday. What did you do yesterday? I went there yesterday. That's it, that's it. What about you, sis? I keep some money in my pocket every day. 50 points 20 points Save it up after you're done The rest were spent Save a little bit every day Save a little bit every day Hey, that's a good habit of yours. Little sister, how many boyfriends have you had? What about the six of you? Little sister, how many boyfriends have you had? How long did the 12 longest periods last? The shortest is two months. 3 hours Little sister, when you're dating... Do boys or girls spend more money? Whoever has money can spend it. I spend money on him when I have it. If he runs out of money I don't want to go to work. He doesn't want me to go to work. He poured out his phone and then gave it to me. ah It means the boy can turn his phone upside down. Then I'll give you money to spend. Okay, what if you work a regular job? It means you give him your salary to spend. What you just said about that girl You have 12 partners Among these 12 people... It usually happens more often when boys are short of money. There are still relatively few. Hmm, there are quite a few. Most of the time, it's still the boy who doesn't have money. Of the 12 people you've talked to... Several people have poured water for you 3 mobile phones There's also one that's reversed twice. In terms of mate selection criteria What kind of older women do they usually like? There are no tall and handsome guys left. Good to me As long as you're good to me. It doesn't matter what they look like. As long as he's handsome and not too old, that's fine. So everyone heard what those girls said. I don't know what you've heard of these two interviews. What do you think of them? This is actually what society in mainland China is like right now. Another situation My experience at the time was really when I saw it. You say I'm surprised? I wasn't very surprised. Personally, I think The current system in mainland China I wouldn't be too surprised by anything that happens. But I also think Their group is quite pitiful and pathetic. Who hasn't been young? I used to play outdoors a lot when I was a kid. With friends Not going home tonight? I stayed up all night in the computer room. Just messing around. But it hasn't really degenerated to that extent. A group of people together And then it really was them who saw it. Many of these people have very low levels of education. They didn't even complete nine years of compulsory education. Then after coming out Anyway, it doesn't matter what they do. That is to say, we should not criticize them from the sidelines. They have their own pain. As I just mentioned... In fact, they had no choice but to do it. China's economy is now in such a bad state that... Such a group of people have appeared And this has really been a long time. It's probably possible that at the beginning of this year This group of young girls It has already been exposed Many people have already noticed That means there are many younger girls. You see, like just now inside One in three is intentionally refusing to pay their bills. If there are many such people This social situation is actually very difficult to maintain stability. So I think some people They might really consume these bodies. But they look down on their lives. So, young female... They were being stared at. ridiculed and used But personally, I think... They are still very rarely seen. This is also what I did today. The reason for making this video I hope that no matter where people are We should see this group of spirited young women. They were forced Being consumed really means they are being consumed by others. Consumed by these interviewees Go to earn traffic Consumed by their young spiritual men As I just mentioned Most of the time Their boyfriends are all poor. We still need them So these girls Do you think they're good or not? I think they treat their men quite well too. But isn't that foolish? Perhaps they believe it's for true love. Even those two months Even three hours They might really believe it was true love. After all, they're young. Is that right? So don't complain about them being vulgar. They're still relying on them to generate traffic! Today I am I never judge anyone for being vulgar or anything like that. They did not them As long as it's not extremely exaggerated or excessive, it's fine. Of course you're talking about owing money. The fact that they haven't paid it back is something worth telling us. But I personally think it's still a social problem. China's broader social environment This has shaped this group of children There really is nowhere to escape. Finally, let's look at one more. I think what he said makes a lot of sense. This is a summary. young female I don't know if you've heard of it. When I first recalled hearing this word I initially understood it literally. It's that kind of outfit that looks very smart. The term "little sister" doesn't actually refer to the "spiritual little sister" (a term used to describe someone who is emotional Later I learned about it It carries a certain metaphorical meaning. It specifically refers to a certain cultural phenomenon. A specific group of people Strictly speaking, it specifically refers to young women aged 15-25. Their appearance It's usually the kind of exaggerated shape. Heavy eyeliner Hair dyed fluorescent color Studs in nose and ears What kind of sequins should I put on my face? Actually, the clothes weren't particularly high-end. But it's rather exaggerated. This color is quite vibrant. How do they survive? It's just a bunch of old men You've heard of this word, right? The so-called "beng laotou" means to take advantage of an old man. In their eyes Men over 30 are called old men. They mainly survive by taking down old men. For example, getting free food from others. Free drinks I'm just hanging out with other people. The other one is I often ask these so-called old men for three or two hundred yuan. Ask them to pay your phone bill. Transfer 300200 lend someone some money It's all for survival Because they don't have any main means of making a living. Another issue is that this group of children is full of contradictions. Originally adolescence Should be spent on school campus such a group Dropping out of school for various reasons and becoming homeless in society Facing survival issues at a young age The childishness on her face hadn't faded yet. deliberately mature attire Want to blend in with adults It has formed a strong pseudo-mature aesthetic. Behind this often lies a broken family. A survey of left-behind children showed 72% of the young women in the "spiritual" category come from divorced families. Or left-behind families Parents throughout their later years Almost all of them are missing. No one told them about their survival skills. No one's suing them, so how are they supposed to live? These groups These young women, seemingly unconnected, stumble and fall into society. Strive on your own Whether it's a silly old man or No matter how That was all in order to try every possible means. Transition to adulthood Junior high school dropout rate Among young women with a mental illness, the figure is as high as 89%. This is also a social survey organization. The data produced Some of these young women went to work in electronics factories. working on an assembly line Repetitive, simple mechanical work There is also a little bit of income. Many people have turned to this traffic economy. Seeking a sense of presence online At the beginning When they discuss life on the internet The first three months were still quite awkward. Later, I gradually learned to use flattery and empty words. literature on trauma, etc. This is how to attract tips. It accelerated their socialization process. The prevailing performances are essentially driven by existential anxiety. They do this It is a compromise with real life It also implicitly contains a struggle against fate. If we were to analyze their mental health It's actually emotional compensation. Throughout the entire process of spiritual growth A survey shows 83% of young women admire the aesthetics of violence. They will find one The eldest brother in their family As a template for one's ideal lover Because it's to compensate for the loneliness and helplessness in my heart. Psychological characteristics of insecurity From a psychological perspective They drew heavy eyeliner. It's not just a matter of personal aesthetic choices. More importantly, it's about building a shield of psychological defense. The ultimate meaning of this group's existence Perhaps it's reminding us Behind every smoky eye look Such children There may be something hidden that desperately needs to be heard. Growth stories of those who received help Behind each of their scams involving the old man In fact, they all stand on the side of the whole society. The value gap that urgently needs to be filled How do we view this group of "spiritual young women"? We shouldn't just resort to moral criticism. It is even more necessary to build Let all youth An ecological environment where everyone can grow with dignity Actually, these children are quite pitiful. They had to make a living on their own at a young age. It's hard to predict a person's fate. Perhaps you were born into a family where both parents love you. Both have good economic conditions In such a family Many children actually take this for granted. But if you look at this society as a whole Many, many people Even this thing you take for granted These conditions are not met. They must mature early. We have to use all sorts of means to make money. To support yourself What he said was quite fair. So I think I want to use this statement Let's end this video segment with this. Of course, there are some problems. There are some points. Because of myself I've never encountered such a spirited young woman before. My living environment It's very rare for me to meet someone like that. He mentioned this fraud. This fat old man But my personal guess In most cases, this shouldn't be considered fraud. One is that it's entirely consensual. This is how I understand it. What if someone who just mentioned some otaku...? Some people without social experience Some so-called old men People in their thirties and forties often feel empty inside. Able to connect with some so-called These glamorous girls together Can eat a meal Chatting or even holding hands Perhaps for them It's all a kind of psychological satisfaction. You said they would pay some money Whether it's a transaction or not Whether you really want to date him or not I don't think it's purely a criminal act. But this group This is indeed something that deserves the attention of our entire society. What he just said was also very good. Many children were born She was truly born with a silver spoon in her mouth. But you should know In a society like mainland China Didn't the late Premier say that before? There are 600 million people with an income of 1,000 yuan. So such a group Even though it's higher now than it was then There are still many people who are really, really poor. Especially some left-behind children Divorced families The child did not receive love from a young age I've made a video about this before. What mainland Chinese people lack is not money. It's not anything What's most lacking is love. There is no love in my heart There is no respect for others or other things. Grateful These are all extremely tragic lifestyles. So in conclusion "Sexy girl" is not a label A group that was approached in advance Young man sentenced to death If a society only teaches people how to succeed But it doesn't give the losers a way out. Then failure will become culture. That's why we have today's "lying flat" culture. Actually, I think these "spirited young women" also belong to... Within a large range They should also be categorized as part of the "lying down" group. You may not understand them But don't pretend this problem doesn't exist! What we should really be wary of is not young female immature women. Instead, more and more people They are slowly becoming them. Perhaps not. She must be wearing smoky makeup. Full body tattoos Ear piercing With a nose piercing Perhaps in another form Then it transforms into another form of spiritual younger sister. Or a spirited young man Or a middle-aged man with a spiritual outlook Elderly man mental old man All right That's all for today's video. Let me introduce you to a spirited young lady. I was also very shocked. I wonder what your thoughts are. Let's continue our discussion in the comments section. Next, if you enjoyed today's program... Please give me a like. Forward Please follow my channel If you want to grow together with my channel If we grow up together Join the channel for the price of a cup of milk tea. Let's grow together. OK, that's all for today. Thank you. you very much