中國人的劣根性-脾氣差！王志安家暴就是代表！

您現在看到這位在哭泣的人叫李汀 The person you see crying now is Li Ting. 是一位中科院的氣象學博士 He is a PhD in meteorology from the Chinese Academy of Sciences. 中科院啊 Chinese Academy of Sciences 可不得了 It's incredible 高級人才啊 High-level talent 但就是一位女博士 But she is a female doctor 卻同時身患抑鬱症 But also suffering from depression 據傳始作俑者 It is said that the initiator 是一位叫做王治安的前央視調查記者 A former CCTV investigative reporter named Wang Zhian 這一切究竟是怎麼回事呢 What is going on? 今天啊 Today 我們就來聊一聊王治安和李汀的故事 Let's talk about the story of Wang Zhian and Li Ting 剛剛我用的是一位網友 I just used a netizen 調侃王治安的一段話 A paragraph teasing Wang Zhian 大家好我是頁子 Hello everyone, I am James 本來並不打算做這期視頻 I didn't plan to make this video. 因爲我個人覺得這是別人的家事 Because I personally think this is someone else's family matter 我也沒有必要在這裏 I don't need to be here 對別人的家事而指手畫腳 Interfering in other people's family affairs 但是呢有很多網友發郵件給我 But many netizens sent me emails 跟我說想聽我聊一聊 Tell me you want to hear me talk 看看我的看法 See my opinion 而我自己呢 And myself 除了家事以外 Apart from housework 他們的家事 Their family affairs 說實在話 To be honest 今天我不僅不想過多的去評價 Today I don't want to comment too much. 但是從這個家事後面 But from this family matter 包括對這個抑鬱症的這些事情 Including these things about depression 我倒是想就這個問題 I would like to ask this question 今天展開來說一下 Let’s talk about it today 在這裏我相信這個主人 Here I believe this master 主人翁王局是誰 Who is the protagonist Wang Ju? 我就不用說了 I don't need to say it. 他的前妻 His ex-wife 這位女士最近的視頻在網上到處都是 This lady's recent video is all over the internet 大家可以隨便的搜一下就能看得到 You can just search and you can see it. 我也就不在這裏全部播放了 I won't play all of them here. 我會在最後 I will be at the end 本期視頻的最後 The end of this video 把一段他之前做的直播 A live broadcast he did before 但是他自己已經刪除的這一段 But he has deleted this part 放在最後 Put it at the end 大家可以看一看 You can take a look 不是他跟王治安發生矛盾的 It wasn't that he had a conflict with Wang Zhian. 那一段時候的直播 The live broadcast at that time 是他從警察局回來以後的直播 This is the live broadcast after he came back from the police station 首先還是要強調一下這個事情 First of all, I have to emphasize this 這件事情是別人的家事 This is someone else's family affair. 和我們外人無關 It has nothing to do with us outsiders 我對王志安的評價很明瞭 My evaluation of Wang Zhian is very clear 王志安在做這個節目 Wang Zhian is doing this show 做新聞調查採訪 Conducting news investigations 這個專業素 This professional quality 質上絕對沒話說 Absolutely no complaints about quality 目前在油管裏面 Currently in the oil pipe 我覺得這個簡中圈裏面 I think this simple Chinese circle 我覺得王志安 I think Wang Zhian 可以說是數一數二的存在 It can be said to be one of the best 這個是一直我一直肯定的 This is what I have always been sure of. 但是我的原話也是這麼說的 But that's what I said. 通過王志安很多的言行舉止 Through Wang Zhian's many words and deeds 我一直覺得 I always feel 他的這個人的素質並不高啊 The quality of this person is not high. 他的專業素養很高 His professionalism is very high 但是他做人 But he is a man 他作爲一個普通人的素質並不是很高 His quality as an ordinary person is not very high 這次在這個他前妻直播中 This time in his ex-wife's live broadcast 他那個嘴臉 His face 對着他前妻大吼大叫的那個樣子 The way he yelled at his ex-wife 就能夠體現出來 It can be reflected 一個真正有素質的人 A truly qualified person 一般很難會做出這樣的行動 It is generally difficult to take such action 而且從他前期的單方面致辭 And from his previous unilateral speech 王志安志前還有過多次的家暴 Wang Zhian had been involved in domestic violence many times before his death. 所以這樣 So this 首先先帶朋友們來看一看王志安 First, let me show you Wang Zhian. 最近剛剛在他的 Recently in his 他已經很久沒有更新新的視頻了 He hasn't updated a new video for a long time. 但是他發了一個po文 But he posted a post 他的po文就是說他的一句話 His post is just a sentence from him 我怎麼這麼難呢 Why is it so difficult for me? 就這麼一兩句話 Just one or two sentences 有不少網友的評論 There are many comments from netizens 讓我覺得還是蠻客觀的 I think it's pretty objective. 雖然他有將近200萬粉絲 Although he has nearly 2 million fans 可以說這個簡中時政圈裏面 It can be said that in this simplified Chinese political circle 真的是一哥 Really a brother 而且這麼短時間內 And in such a short time 衝到一哥的這個地位 Reaching the position of the top brother 他的專業性毋庸置疑啊 His professionalism is beyond doubt. 當然我們不要吹毛求疵 Of course, we should not nitpick 任何人都有可能犯錯誤 Anyone can make mistakes 他有些時候有些視頻的一些數據 He sometimes has some video data 如果有錯誤 If there is an error 那也是正常的 That's normal too. 任何電臺電視臺都會犯這些錯誤 Any radio station can make these mistakes 但是這些觀衆今天所關注的 But what these viewers are paying attention to today 並不是他的數據上的問題 It's not a problem with his data. 而是他做人的這個問題 It's about his being a human being. 首先你看我們來看一個 First, let's look at a 王局現在不需要公關 Director Wang doesn't need PR now 也不需要賣慘 There is no need to sell misery 只要把事實全部講出來 Just tell all the facts 我相信大家自會有評判 I believe everyone will judge for themselves. 包括以下 Includes the following 幾個問題一爲什麼讓前妻拋棄一切 A few questions: Why did you let your ex-wife abandon everything? 來日本後兩個月就離婚 I got divorced two months after coming to Japan. 二離婚時是否暗示前妻是假離婚 2. Did you hint to your ex-wife that the divorce was a fake one? 是否暗示前妻你不會再結婚 Did you hint to your ex-wife that you would not marry again? 要孩子就說有沒有給過承諾 If you want a child, tell me whether you have made a promise. 三 three 離婚後爲什麼給前妻和女兒的撫養費 Why do I give child support to my ex-wife and daughter after divorce? 每個月只有大約4,000人民幣 Only about 4,000 RMB per month 當你收入明顯增加時 When your income increases significantly 爲什麼不提高這個撫養費 Why not increase the child support? 孩子的其他費用是誰在支付 Who pays for the child's other expenses? 前妻和女兒的房租是誰在承擔 Who is paying for the rent of my ex-wife and daughter? 四很關鍵這一點啊 Four is very important. 是否對前妻有過家暴 Have you ever been violent towards your ex-wife? 5昨天晚上在面對警察時 5 When I faced the police last night 爲什麼說前妻不讓孩子上學 Why does my ex-wife not let my children go to school? 和拿刀威脅你等 Threatening you with a knife etc. 是事實還是你在編造 Is it true or are you making it up? 目的是 The purpose is 讓警察強制將這前妻送去精神病院 Let the police forcibly send this ex-wife to a mental hospital 6明明已經有女朋友 6 He already has a girlfriend 並且懷孕的情況下 And if you are pregnant 爲什麼還計劃跟女兒 Why do you still plan to be with your daughter? 前妻一起三人旅行 Threesome trip with ex-wife 還跟前妻說你們三人才是一家人 I also told my ex-wife that the three of you are a family. 你要相信你的觀衆不是 You have to believe that your audience is not 人云亦云之輩 People who follow the crowd 我們之所以喜歡看你的節目 We love watching your show 都是因爲 All because 我們有自己的獨立思考和判斷能力 We have our own independent thinking and judgment ability 而把你當作華語區的新聞調查標杆 And regard you as a benchmark for news investigation in the Chinese-speaking world 請你正視這些問題 Please face these issues 否則人設崩塌 Otherwise, the character collapses 不管幾百萬粉絲都會煙消雲散 No matter how many millions of fans you have, they will all vanish into thin air. 這位網友的這個評論 This comment from this netizen 和我的看法非常的相近 Very close to my opinion 就我們喜歡 As we like 我也喜歡看他的節目 I like watching his shows too. 是因爲他的節目確實我覺得從製作上 Because I think his show is really 從信息攝取上 From information acquisition 有一些非常好的地方 There are some very good places 是我需要 I need 作爲一個一個門外漢 As a layman 剛剛入行不久的人 People who have just entered the industry 是需要學習的 It needs to be learned 對嗎 Is it right 所以 so 我們要從他的節目裏學到一些東西 We have to learn something from his show 這是必然的 This is inevitable 但是你的人設也很重要 But your personality is also important. 我覺得中文簡中圈缺的就是人設 I think what the Simplified Chinese language community lacks is character design. 有很多人 There are many people 我覺得真的是人品比較差 I think he's really a bad person. 所以說他做東西的時候 So when he makes something 這個天花板總是有一定的高度 This ceiling always has a certain height 越不過這段這個標杆 Can't cross this benchmark 就是這個原因在 That's the reason 所以這幾個問題我就提得很有代表性 So these questions I raised are very representative. 那麼再看 Then look again 你看啊他說有朋友說了 Look, he said a friend told him 你發帖說自己太難了 You posted that you are having a hard time 你馬上有第二個孩子了 You're having your second child. 你視頻也在逐步上升 Your video is also gradually rising 穩步上升 Steady rise 你難在哪 What's your difficulty? 你有你前妻難嗎 Is it difficult for you to have your ex-wife? 一個女人在異國他鄉 A woman in a foreign country 沒有工作 No work 沒有依靠 No reliance 被你大聲呵斥讓他滾 You yelled at him to get out. 你的難 Your difficulty 你們誰難 Who of you is difficult? 相信大家的眼睛是雪亮的 I believe everyone has sharp eyes. 說得好還有人說 Well said, some people also say 每次在節目裏 Every time in the show 你向這個人道歉 You apologize to this person 向那個人道歉 Apologize to that person 但其實你最應該道歉的是你的前妻 But the person you should apologize to the most is your ex-wife 而且 and 這應該是你在深刻反省後的 This should be yours after deep reflection. 真誠道歉 Sincere apology 而不是敷衍了事 Rather than perfunctory 最好像個男人 Better be a man 像個有擔當的男人 Like a responsible man 這點我非常同意 I totally agree with this. 他曾經道歉過 He once apologized 他爲在臺灣 He is in Taiwan 他對那位律師所做出的那種表情 The look he made at the lawyer 他也道歉過 He also apologized 但他的道歉一點誠意都沒有 But his apology was not sincere at all 我真的沒有聽他真正的 I didn't really listen to him. 誠懇的說出對不起 Sincerely say sorry 就是我覺得一個人 I think a person 你最起碼你說話的時候 At least when you speak 你哪怕演 Even if you act 你也得演出來 You have to act too. 這種就是非常誠摯的對不起 This is a very sincere apology. 你不能就是說啊 You can't just say 我表示道歉 I apologize 但是怎麼怎麼怎麼樣 But what the hell? 他老是玩這一套 He always plays this game 我覺得這是非常不能接受的 I find this highly unacceptable 所以剛剛那個朋友說的很對 So what the friend just said is right 你對這個道歉 You apologize for this 對那個道歉 Apologize to that 我覺得最你最欠道歉的是你的前妻 I think the person you owe the most apology to is your ex-wife 畢竟你對他家暴過 After all, you abused him. 我都不知道你到底有沒有真誠的 I don't know if you are sincere. 誠摯的道歉 Sincere apology 如果真的有的話 If there really is 那爲什麼家暴就是一而再再而三 Why does domestic violence happen again and again? 這個大家可以去看他 You can go see him here. 前妻的直播 Ex-wife's live broadcast 他前妻的頻道 His ex-wife's channel 好吧 All right 好還有人說了 Well, someone else said 虛僞的哎 Hypocritical 這個這個這個 this this this 他這個罵人了啊 He is cursing. 他說幸虧我這一兩年還在支持你 He said it was a good thing that I still supported you in the past two years. 還替你說話 Still speaking for you 你現在到現在還在測試網友的立場 You are still testing the stance of netizens. 其實我並不覺得他在測試 I don't think he's testing. 因爲他真的素質不太高 Because he's really not very qualified. 他真的理解不到問題的所在 He really doesn't understand the problem. 所以王志安他在這個時候 So Wang Zhian at this time 他發這個所謂的這個可憐的這個帖子 He posted this so-called pathetic post 他只是在說他自己難 He's just saying he's having trouble. 他很自私 He is selfish 他只考慮到他自己 He only thinks about himself 好吧 All right 你看有人說了 Look, someone said 第一次給你留言 First time leaving you a message 只是想告訴你一聲 Just want to tell you 我會取消會員了 I will cancel my membership 我知道清官難斷家務事 I know it's hard for an honest judge to settle family disputes. 我不可能知道事情的真實真相 I can't know the real truth of the matter 但是老王你踩到了不能踩的一些底線 But Lao Wang, you have crossed some bottom lines that should not be crossed 一些你自己在節目裏 Some of yourself in the show 都反覆提倡的人文情懷和美德 The humanistic sentiments and virtues that are repeatedly advocated 所以你是一個優秀的調查記者 So you're a great investigative reporter. 也是一個道貌岸然的小人 He is also a hypocritical villain. 這點和我想的太太正確了 This is exactly what I thought. 就我也覺得他是一個優秀的調查記者 I also think he is an excellent investigative reporter. 就就像如果我是搞音樂的話 Just like if I were a musician 就我是一個非常優秀的音樂人 I am a very good musician. 但是我是一個素質不高的人 But I am a person of low quality 就這個道理 That's the reason 王志安是一個專業性調查記者 Wang Zhian is a professional investigative reporter 這一塊非常優秀的一個人才 This is a very outstanding talent. 但是他的素質 But his quality 平時的素質真的是太差了 The quality is really too poor. 有人說啊 Someone said 解釋一下 Explain 掐一個 月子期間的前妻脖子的事情 The incident of pinching my ex-wife's neck during confinement 要像老雷一樣有擔當 Be responsible like Lao Lei 承認自己當年的錯誤 Admit your mistakes 不要逃避 Don't run away 這點不是我吹噓 I'm not bragging about this. 我也很有擔當的 I am also very responsible 承認我自己的錯誤 Admit my own mistakes 可能我這點跟西方人能玩得來 Maybe I can get along with Westerners in this regard. 也就是這個原因 That's the reason 我覺得外國人就是我們 I think foreigners are us 在西方這個價值觀裏面 In the Western values 我們錯了就辦 We're wrong. 就承認 Just admit it 我跟我的學生也經常這麼說 I often tell my students this. 你一旦錯了 Once you are wrong 別跟老師說爲什麼錯 Don't tell the teacher why you are wrong. 哎呀你的錯是因爲怎麼怎麼樣 Oops, it's your fault because of this or that 不要解釋 Don't explain 先道歉先認錯 Apologize first and admit your mistakes first 這是我在加拿大十多年教育工作 This is my experience in education in Canada for more than ten years. 我一直跟中國學生大陸學生說的 I always tell Chinese students and mainland students 包括我自己 Including myself 現在跟成年人學生 Now with adult students 我做這個學生會這塊嘛 I'm in charge of the student union. 他們有時候活動上搞出一些問題出來 Sometimes they create problems during activities. 他們會跟我說 They will tell me 我說我不需要聽你的excuse I said I don't need your excuse 我說我不在意這excuse I said I don't care about this excuse me 你錯了沒關係 It's okay if you're wrong 任何活動都不會是完美的 No activity will be perfect. 任何事情 Anything 任何人都不可能是完美 No one can be perfect 但是我們找出問題 But we found the problem 我們總結問題 We summarize the problem 我們面對問題 We face problems 我們解決問題 We solve problems 對吧所以我不是在說我自己多牛 So I'm not saying how awesome I am. 我絕對正視自己的過去 I definitely face my past. 我不說了嗎 Didn't I say it? 我過去是個粉紅 I used to be a pink 我過去說那些話 I used to say those words 我自己都覺得我想打自己臉 I feel like I want to slap myself in the face 真的是這樣 It's true 我自己也做過很多的錯事 I've done a lot of wrong things myself. 誰人生誰無過呢 Who has no mistakes in life? 屏幕前的你 You in front of the screen 難道你一輩子沒有犯過錯誤嗎 Have you never made a mistake in your life? 但是我覺得當我評價一個事情 But I think when I evaluate something 或者是評價一個人的時候 Or when evaluating a person 我還是比較客觀的 I am more objective. 我再恨一個黨派 I hate another party 我再恨一個體制 I hate a system again 那麼我不能跟他一樣吧 Then I can't be like him. 那麼的極端 So extreme 那麼的獨斷 So arbitrary 我不喜歡中共對不對 I don't like the CCP, right? 那我也得客觀的說話呀 I have to speak objectively. 我不能就是因爲我不喜歡他 I can't just because I don't like him. 像某些博主一樣 Like some bloggers 很多博主都是這樣 Many bloggers are like this 爲了反共而在那去 Go there to fight against communism 就是真的極端 It's really extreme. 在說那你跟中共又有什麼區別 Then what is the difference between you and the CCP? 只不過一個極左一個極右 Just one extreme left and one extreme right 真正中共 The real CCP 如果有一天中共不在了 If one day the CCP is gone 如果是你這樣的人 If you are someone like 這樣的博主去做智囊團 Such bloggers serve as think tanks 也是一塌糊塗 It's also a mess 只會有另 There will only be another 外一箇中共出現 Another CCP Appears 換個名字而已 Just a name change 我們要客觀 We need to be objective 我們要看到問題出現在什麼地方 We need to see where the problem lies. 看到中共的好 Seeing the good of the CCP 它有它好的地方 It has its good points 對不對我們不能就說它一無是處啊 We can't just say it's useless. 對不對 Right? 所以王志安也是這樣 So is Wang Zhian 王志安他也有他好的地方 Wang Zhian also has his good points 他也有他不對的地方 He also has his faults. 這個我們都要客觀的 We have to be objective about this. 有素質 Qualified 有涵養的去把這些事情分析清楚 Analyze these things with culture. 對吧 Right 他說你哪難了 He said you are in trouble 吼你也吼了 You yelled too. 警你也報了 You also called the police 孩子你也生了 You also gave birth to a child 現任還要去找前任的放話 The current partner still has to go to the ex to tell him 羞辱你難在哪 How difficult is it to humiliate you? 你和你的 You and your 你和你現任 You and your current 好馬配好鞍 A good horse deserves a good saddle 人品極差 Very bad character 其實大多數 In fact, most 你看啊當時仍有另外一位 You see, there was another 當前啊以前當了10個月7刀的會員 I was a member for 10 months and paid $7. 花了一些錢 Spent some money 雖然不多 Although not much 也算是自己的能力去支持王局 It can be regarded as my own ability to support Wang Ju 可這次確實讓人太失望了 But this time it was really disappointing 視頻裏的王局吼着前妻 In the video, Director Wang yells at his ex-wife 讓我都覺得他變成了他曾經唾棄的人 It makes me feel like he has become the person he once despised. 這點很對 That's right. 就你如果唾棄 If you despise 你說王局也是唾棄中共嗎 Do you think Director Wang also despises the CCP? 也是他其實我個人 It's him, actually. 他也是反共的 He is also anti-communist 最起碼是反這個體制的 At least it is against the system. 你也會反對這些人 You will also oppose these people 你也會反對這些事情 You will also oppose these things 那麼你怎麼也跟他一樣 So why are you like him? 做出這樣的事情 Do something like this 曾經以爲充滿人情 I used to think it was full of human feelings 人性關係 Human Relationship 寬容善良的王局 The Kind and Forgiving Wang Ju 竟然是如此的自私利己的人 Such a selfish person 祝王局以後變成更好的人 I wish Director Wang will become a better person in the future 也祝師太早日離開不對的人 I also wish that the nun will leave the wrong person as soon as possible. 來自曾經的鐵粉 From a former fan 這個鐵粉真的是我 This iron fan is really me 我來做我的觀衆吧 I'll be my audience. 我也不說你是粉絲 I don't say you're a fan. 我不想我覺得粉絲這個字 I don't want to think about the word fans 有點貶低人的這個概念 This concept is a bit derogatory. 所以我不想說粉絲啊 So I don't want to talk about fans. 來做我的觀衆 Be my audience 我覺得我們很有共同語言 I think we have a lot in common. 真的是就我也會祝 Really, I would also wish 他也祝他 He also wished him 祝王局以後變成更好的人 I wish Director Wang will become a better person in the future 我們沒有必要落井下石 We don't need to add insult to injury. 就把人往死裏踩 Just trample people to death 人都有都值得一個改過自新的機會 Everyone deserves a chance to make a fresh start. 所以即便王局在這方面做的不好 So even if Director Wang did not do well in this regard 我們也應該祝福他 We should bless him too. 希望你以後做的更好 I hope you will do better in the future 變成更好 Become better 如果每一個不好的人 If every bad person 都能變成一個更好的人 Can become a better person 那這個世界不是更好嗎 Wouldn't this world be a better place? 如果你去唾棄他 If you spit on him 踩他讓這個不好的人破罐子破摔 Step on him and let this bad person break the jar 然後這一幫子破罐子 Then this bunch of broken jars 破罐子破摔的人聚在一起 People who are willing to give up everything gather together 變成一個團伙 Become a gang 再去幹更更大的壞事 Do something worse. 那不是我們在製造邪惡 We are not creating evil. 我們在 We are 雖然你說你是把邪惡給推出去了 Although you said you pushed out the evil 但是你這樣其實是在縱容 But you are actually condoning 在鼓勵邪惡的滋生 Encouraging the growth of evil 真正的我覺得 Really, I think 我個人覺得這是我個人觀點 I think this is my personal opinion 僅供參考 For reference only 我個人覺得 I personally think 應該用我們的情懷去感化這些邪惡 We should use our emotions to influence these evils 讓這些邪惡能夠從邪從歪轉正 Let these evil things turn from evil to good. 從黑變白 From black to white 這纔是真正的世界應該有的方向 This is the direction the real world should be heading. 這才叫幫助別人 That's called helping others. 我覺得沒有人生下來就是惡的 I think no one is born evil. 他也是因爲社會 He also because of society 因爲這個環境所被逼的 Because of this environment, 那麼我們爲什麼不能去幫助 So why can't we help? 多幫助一個人呢 Help one more person? 王局他也是普通人 Director Wang is also an ordinary person 他也有需要被幫助的地方 He also needs help 任何人都一樣 Same as everyone else 我那麼喜歡新加坡 I love Singapore so much 你說當年的李光耀李顯龍 You said Lee Kuan Yew and Lee Hsien Loong 現在的黃循財 Lawrence Wong now 他們就沒有缺點嗎 Don't they have any shortcomings? 都有如果我們能看得到 If we can see 如果我們知道 If we knew 那麼我們也可以 Then we can also 如果我們能夠有這個條件去幫助的話 If we can have the conditions to help 我們也可以去幫助 We can also help 哪怕我們只是提出建議 Even if we are just making suggestions 他們接不接受 Do they accept it? 那是他們的事情 That's their business. 對不對 Right? 所以我覺得非常的好 So I think it’s very good 說的非常 Very 好那麼我還是那個話 Okay, I still say the same thing. 我並不想以今天這個事情落井下石 I don't want to add insult to injury with this incident today. 去踩這個人 Go step on this person 即便他對他老婆大吼大叫 Even though he yelled at his wife 做出這樣的過激行爲 Such extreme behavior 那麼接下來我就要說一說 Then I will say 我對這個事情背後的一些看法 My thoughts behind this matter 很多中國人即便在各個領域 Many Chinese people, even in various fields 確實可以做到很高 It can indeed be very high 做得很好 Well done 對吧比如說做一些it啊 Right, for example, do some IT 包括做一些高科技的東西啊 Including making some high-tech things 或者是做一些種田嘛 Or do some farming? 中國農民嘛 Chinese farmers? 種田他已經種的非常好 He has done very well in farming. 但是不代表 But it does not mean 他在他自己專業以外的領域 He is in areas outside his own expertise 同樣能夠保持一個很好的人 Can also remain a good person 而這其中 情緒管控是非常重要的一點 Emotional control is very important. 首先第一 First things first 我自我先說 I will say it first 在我說別人不好的時候 When I say bad things about others 我先承認我曾經也發脾氣 I admit that I lost my temper before. 我現在也發脾氣 I'm also angry now 我記得有一次在我的直播裏面 I remember one time in my live broadcast 有一位網友就問我 One netizen asked me 頁子你會不會發脾氣 Will you lose your temper? 你平時有沒有脾氣 Do you usually have a bad temper? 我說我也會 I said I would too 我就實話實地告訴你們 I'll tell you the truth. 我也會 I will too 但是我一直不停的在改變我自己 But I keep changing myself 在儘量的去控制我自己 Trying to control myself 以後有機會 There will be a chance later 我再跟你們慢慢分享我的故事 I will share my story with you slowly 我去看過心理醫生 I went to see a psychiatrist. 我跟我太太也去找過這個 My wife and I also looked for this 這個婚姻諮詢師 The marriage counselor 在加拿大這裏 Here in Canada 我們有很多免費的這樣的服務嘛 We have many free services like this. 我們都有保險嘛 We all have insurance. 等等等等 etc. etc. 真的我也去這個諮詢過 I actually went to this consultation. 如何去教育孩童 How to educate children 我有我的脾氣 I have my temper 但是我可以說我收了很多很多 But I can say that I received a lot. 有一點我可以自豪的說 There is one thing I can proudly say 我絕對沒有打過女人 I have never hit a woman. 長這麼大 So big 我絕對沒有打過我太太 I never hit my wife. 我的前女友 My ex-girlfriend 我從來沒有過 對孩子我吼過 I've never yelled at my kids. 我承認對不起 I admit I'm sorry 我到現在每次想到我當年以前 Every time I think of my past 我已經很久 I have been 沒有吼吼孩子了 No more yelling at the kids 我到現在 I am now 我想到我當年吼孩子那個樣子 I thought about how I yelled at my kids back then. 我都能想象得到 I can imagine it 我自己的嘴臉是多麼的醜惡 How ugly my own face is 說這些話我自己都很emotional I feel very emotional when I say these words sorry啊我自己都我自己都能想象得到 Sorry, I can imagine it myself. 我自己當時吼我孩子 I yelled at my child. 吼我兒子的時候 When I yelled at my son 主要是吼我兒子了 Mainly yelling at my son. 當老二出生以後 When the second child was born 因爲我畢竟有過一個孩子的經驗 Because I have had the experience of having a child. 我當時第一次當父親嘛 I was a father for the first time. 現在我是我是兩個孩子的父親了 Now I am a father of two children. 所以說 So 我能更好的控制住自己的情緒 I can control my emotions better 但是我現在每次想到我當年吼我兒子 But now every time I think of the time when I yelled at my son 我覺得我心裏面還是很難受 I think I still feel sad. 所以我想說什麼 So what do I want to say? 我是否爲我的孩子 Am I for my child 但是我可以打着胸脯 But I can beat my chest 告訴屏幕前的所有人 Tell everyone in front of the screen 我可以肯定 我不能說光榮 I'm sure I can't say glorious 這是應該做的事情 This is what should be done 但是最起碼 But at least 和很多移民出來的華人也好 And many Chinese immigrants 或者是中國大陸人也好 Or maybe someone from mainland China. 或者說很多人也好 Or a lot of people. 我絕對沒有打過我的孩子 I never hit my children. 絕對沒有過 Absolutely never 我可以就不用發誓了 I don't have to swear. 那小孩子搬搬家家 That kid moved house 發誓絕對沒有過 I swear I never did. 這點是我可以肯定的 I can be sure of this. 所以 so 我雖然我有我有我的情緒上的問題 I have my own emotional problems 但是我絕對沒有走到極端 But I definitely didn't go to extremes. 或者是什麼把電視機砸掉了 Or something smashed the TV. 或者是把電腦砸 Or smash the computer. 這這種極端事情 This is such an extreme thing 我是絕對是沒有做出來過的 I definitely haven't done it. 當然我是發過脾氣吼過孩子 Of course I have lost my temper and yelled at my children. 我沒有動過手 I didn't move my hands 絕對沒有 Absolutely not 當然沒有動手 Of course I didn't do it. 這是最基本的 This is the most basic 我不是說我自豪 I'm not saying I'm proud 但我只是說 But I just said 就因爲我沒有做過這樣的事情 Because I've never done anything like this. 所以我個人覺得王局他是動手的 So I personally think that Director Wang did it. 在這方面我沒有他那麼誇張 I'm not as exaggerated as he is in this regard. 所以說我覺得動手是不對的 So I think it's wrong to do it. 所以我才一直沒有 So I haven't 越過這個底線 Cross this bottom line 包括我都沒有吼過我太太 I have never yelled at my wife. 就沒有像他這樣吼過 I've never yelled like him. 就你滾 Just go away 我絕對沒有跟我太太說過這樣的話 I definitely didn't say that to my wife. 每次我跟我太太吵架 Every time I quarrel with my wife 我可以實話告訴你們 I can tell you the truth 你們有機會以後見到太太 You'll have a chance to meet my wife later. 可以問我太太 You can ask my wife 我跟我太太吵架都是我出門 I always go out when my wife and I have a fight 我的 mine 我以前抽菸的時候 When I used to smoke 我出門我在外面抽菸 I go out and I smoke outside 冷靜下來以後再回家 Calm down before going home 或者是我後來不抽菸 Or maybe I stopped smoking. 我就是自己在外面瞎逛閒逛 I'm just wandering around outside. 真的是這都是 Really, this is all 我走我絕對不會說是喊我太太走 If I leave, I will never say that I am asking my wife to leave. 絕對不會 Absolutely not OK就還是那個話 OK, it's still the same thing 他們倆之間的事情 The thing between them 我也不能就說 I can't just say 我完全相信他的前妻說的所有的話 I totally believe everything his ex-wife says 所以說我不做評論好不好 So I won’t comment, okay? 但是我個人覺得 But I personally think 他在視頻裏面 He is in the video 他明明知道他的太太在直播 He clearly knew his wife was live streaming 他還能吼的出來 He can still roar. 所以這個他真的是很自私 So he is really selfish. 他根本就不管任何的一些 He doesn't care about any of 其實聰他如果更夠聰明的話 In fact, if Cong was smarter 夠城府的話 If you are cunning enough 他什麼也不用說 He doesn't have to say anything 直接到樓下去打電話報警不就完了嗎 Why don't you just go downstairs and call the police? 大家吼着幹什麼 What are you all yelling about? 他吼就是爲了發泄自己的情緒 He yells just to vent his emotions. 所以纔會導致 So it will lead to 他對他太太這樣的去吼 He yelled at his wife like this 而且是不分青紅皁白 And it's indiscriminate 在明知是直播的情況下 Knowing that it was live broadcast 他還是能吼的出來 He can still roar. 佩服佩服 I admire you. 所以這點上我覺得是要說兩句王局的 So I think I need to say a few words about Director Wang. 那麼另外一點是 Then the other point is 我今天最主要想說的就是關於他太太 What I want to talk about most today is his wife 這個賬號 This account 你們可以去關注一下 You can go and pay attention to it 叫做什麼大頭架在小胸上 What is it called a big head on a small chest? 還什麼這個 What else? 這個我可以放在 I can put this 我今天本期視頻的這個說明區域 This description area of ​​my video today 大家可以搜一下啊 You can search it. 他太太本身有這個抑鬱症 His wife herself has depression. 首先這個抑鬱症 First, the depression 這個問題 This question 我自己接觸過很多抑鬱症的學生 I have come into contact with many students with depression. 所以 我沒有很多瞭解 So I don't know much. 但是我有一點點了解 But I have a little understanding 我也做過這個mental health first aid I also did this mental health first aid 這個就是 This is 就是 that is 情緒崩潰的這種緊急救援的這個培訓 This training on emergency rescue for emotional breakdown 因爲我們在教育系統工作嘛 Because we work in the education system. 我們經常會面對一些國際生 We often meet some international students 在海外生活不容易嘛 Is it not easy to live overseas? 想家或者遇到困難情緒崩潰 Homesickness or emotional breakdown due to difficulties 我們就要受培訓嘛 We need training. 所以說我有一點可以肯定的告訴大家 So I can tell you one thing for sure. 抑鬱症這個患者 The patient with depression 大多數人是絕對不會有這種很明顯的 Most people will never have this kind of obvious 這種強烈的暴力傾向的 This strong tendency towards violence 但是他自己本身太太就有抑鬱症 But his wife has depression. 所以前期啊有具有抑鬱症 So I had depression in the early stage. 那麼你是知道抑鬱症的人 You know depression. 應該是一個什麼樣的情況的 What kind of situation should it be? 你太太有沒有對你動過手 Has your wife ever laid hands on you? 就是做出過一些非常出格的事情 I've done some very outrageous things. 你是應該知道的 You should know 但是王局就在不久 But Wang Ju soon 在他的在他的推特上面當萬斯 On his Twitter when Vance 其實當時特朗普跟澤連斯基吵架 In fact, Trump and Zelensky had a quarrel at that time 我覺得引起的就是萬斯 I think it was Vance who caused it. 萬斯這個人絕對是個地痞流氓 Vance is an absolute scoundrel. 特朗普已經很差了 Trump is already bad. 萬斯比他還差 Vance is worse than him. 當萬斯說出這個話以後 When Vance said this 王局發了一個這個推文 Wang Ju sent out this tweet 他的原話是這樣說的 His original words were: 他說川普這老頭雖然有點自大 He said that although Trump is a bit arrogant 但還算有點理智 But still somewhat sensible 比如一級一直以交易爲核心 For example, the first level has always been centered on transactions. 考慮美國利益等等等等 Consider American interests, etc. 但是萬斯有點不同 But Vance is a little different 感覺 Feel 萬斯屬於那種無差別攻擊性人格 Vance is the kind of person who is indiscriminately aggressive. 屬於典型的抑鬱症患者的行爲特徵 Typical behavioral characteristics of patients with depression 一句話轉三次邏輯 One sentence turns into three logic 每次使用 Each use 這個話就讓我非常不能接受首先 First of all, I cannot accept this statement. 抑鬱症的這些人 Those with depression 他們是少數人羣 They are a minority 是值得我們多數人羣在某些情 It is worth it for most of us in some situations 況下我們都是少數人啊 We are the minority. 但是在除了這個抑鬱症患者志外 But in addition to this patient with depression 我們是有這個義務 We have this obligation 我個人覺得是有義務了 I personally feel it is an obligation. 你們你們可以不用贊同我啊 You don't have to agree with me. 我覺得是 I think so 我們大家每一個人都有這個能力 We all have this ability. 有這個責任做一個社會公民 Have the responsibility to be a social citizen 世界公民 World Citizen 有責任去幫助這些人的 We have a responsibility to help these people. 而並不是落井下石 Rather than adding insult to injury 而你是一個和抑鬱症患者 You are a person with depression. 共同生活過的人 People who lived together 共同撫養孩子的人 Co-parenting 共同教育孩子的人 People who co-educate children 而且也都是同樣 And it's the same 這個去這個去 This one goes, this one goes 怎麼說這個去做新聞工作的 How do you say this to work in journalism? 他的前妻在微博上也有800多萬粉絲哦 His ex-wife also has more than 8 million followers on Weibo 都是一個算是公衆人物 They are all public figures. 你不應該你有幾百萬的關注 You shouldn't have millions of followers. 你在公開場合說這樣的話 You say this in public. 那你不是在誤導你的觀衆 You are misleading your audience. 抑鬱症的人是有這種攻擊性的嗎 Are people with depression aggressive? 這是非常非常對少數 This is very, very rare. 非常非常不尊重的 Very very disrespectful 就和你當年這個對那個王律師 Just like you did to Lawyer Wang back then 臺灣的那個王律師的這個這個 This one by Taiwan lawyer Wang 這個模仿殘疾人的這個舉動 This action imitates the disabled 是一樣的低廉 It's just as cheap sorry不能叫殘疾人 Sorry, can't call disabled people 叫身障人士 Call the disabled 我知道有很多臺灣觀衆 I know there are many Taiwanese viewers. 對不起我賠禮道歉 I'm sorry. I apologize. 我承認錯誤 I admit my mistake 你對升降人質 You are interested in lifting hostages 就不應該做出那樣的舉動 You shouldn't do that. 而你對萬斯 And you to Vance 你這個話 Your words 你等於又把抑鬱症的這個所有人 You are equivalent to all the people with depression 都扣上了一個 All buckled one 無差別攻擊性人格的帽子 The hat of indiscriminately aggressive personality 你怎麼能說出這樣的話 How can you say such a thing? 就說你新聞記者 You're a journalist. 我覺得作爲一個 I think as a 這個是我很不能理解的 This is something I cannot understand 作爲一個新聞記者 As a journalist 真的是你需要很客觀的去講事情 You really need to speak objectively. 而你這個話我覺得就太不客觀了 I think your words are too subjective. 因爲你沒有做足夠的調查的話 Because you didn't do enough research. 你就不能這樣去說 You can't say that 中國的教育真 China's education is really 的是能培養出一些 It can cultivate some 所謂的可能也是因爲王局在新聞圈 The so-called possibility is also because Director Wang is in the news circle 他是這個新聞調查記者做的比較好 He is a good investigative journalist. 而我 And I 又是一個對新聞調查記者這個專業 Another question for the profession of investigative journalist 不太瞭解的人 People who don't know much 所以我可能天真的單純的認爲 So I may be naive and simple-minded. 他的這個新聞調查記者的這個能力 His ability as an investigative journalist 很強 Very strong 我打一個比方 Let me give you an example 在音樂圈 In the music industry 因爲我是學音樂圈 Because I am studying music 我是音樂學院出來的人 I'm from a music school. 所以我當時有個同學名字我就不說了 So I didn't mention the name of a classmate at that time. 我這同學我們不能說我一個人了 My classmate, we can't say that I am alone. 我們同班同學都 Our classmates are 當時覺得他真的在音樂修養上 At that time, I felt that he was really good at music. 素質上真的是非常的差 The quality is really poor. 這個人的素質我不知道啊 I don't know the quality of this person. 人的素質 Human quality 這麼多年不見了 Haven't seen you for so many years. 什麼素質我不知道 I don't know what quality. 但當年素質沒有 But the quality was not 都是孩子嘛 They are all children. 都問題不大 No big problem 但他的音樂 But his music 他的五音不全 His tone-deafness 他唱歌跑調 He sings out of tune 你知道吧 You know 就就差很多 It's a lot worse 但是他現在是上海音樂學院的 But he is now a student at Shanghai Conservatory of Music. 作曲系的教授 Professor of Composition Wo Lao Ai就是 Wo Lao Ai is 就我們就作爲我而言 As far as we are concerned 我是很吃驚的 I was very surprised 但是我們都覺得他當時能到這一步 But we all thought he could get to this point. 是因爲他爸爸 Because of his father 他父親在江蘇南京當地是非常有名的 His father is very famous in Nanjing, Jiangsu. 一個算是音樂圈的音樂人士 A musician in the music industry 也是個教育家吧 An educator, too. 可以講 Can speak 所以他也是後來讀書 So he also studied later 到上海讀碩士博士什麼的 Go to Shanghai to study for a master's or doctorate degree 他也努力 He also worked hard 他這個人確實也很努力 He really works hard. 我們不能說不努力 We can't say we don't work hard. 但他天資很差 But he has poor talent 真的是天資很差 Really poor talent 上視唱練耳課 Take sight-singing and ear-training classes 每次我們都笑話他 We always laugh at him. 那時候小啊 I was young then. 所以說就中國的教育 So, China's education 就一個沒有天資的人 A person without talent 通過努力當然也能成功 Of course you can succeed through hard work 我並不是打擊這些人 I'm not attacking these people. 但是你想一想 But think about it 你一個五音不全的人 You are a tone-deaf person 你怎麼能把作曲作好 How can you compose well? 就你懂我意思嗎 Do you understand what I mean? 就你是一個瘸子 You are a cripple. 你怎麼能跑步跑 How can you run? 或者你跑步跑步快沒關係 Or you run fast, it doesn't matter 你怎麼能 How can you 你怎麼能去在跑步圈裏面 How can you go in the running circle? 做一個高級的一種 Make a high-level 這個跑步的教練 The running coach 或者是示範人 Or a demonstrator 教練還不一定教練你 The coach may not necessarily coach you 足球教練不一定會會踢足球嘛 A football coach doesn't necessarily know how to play football. 對吧 Right 但是你怎麼樣去給別人做示範對吧 But how do you set an example for others? 這個東西我就不太能理解 I can't quite understand this. 而王局也是的 And Wang Ju is also 你你作爲一個新聞記者 You as a journalist 你我覺得你應該說話各方面很客觀 I think you should be objective in your speech. 你有脾氣OK You have a temper ok 那個跟新聞記者專業沒關係 That has nothing to do with journalism. 前面我們已經說過脾氣了 We have already talked about temper. 好我們就不再說脾氣的事情了 Okay, let's not talk about temper anymore. 但是對於這種公開言論 But for this kind of public statement 你就直接這樣說這種話 You just say this directly 我真的覺得是 I really think so 可能真的和專業已經沒關係了 Maybe it really has nothing to do with my major. 是你的是這個人的整體的素質導向 It is your overall quality orientation of this person. 完全主導了這個人的發言的這個方式 This way of speaking completely dominated this person 方法所以導致他的公共場合 Methods so that his public 直接就說出這樣無差別型攻擊性人格 Directly speaking, this kind of indiscriminate aggressive personality 就屬於典型的抑鬱症患者的行爲特徵 These are typical behavioral characteristics of patients with depression. 這種話說出來我真的是覺得太可怕了 I really feel it's horrible to say this. 所以我在這裏我要呼籲大家 So I am here to appeal to everyone 千萬不要看不起身障人士 Don't look down on people with disabilities. 大家千萬不要對少數人羣 Don't be biased towards the minority 有任何的看法 Any opinions 所以 so 這是爲什麼我覺得臺灣人非常的棒 This is why I think Taiwanese people are so awesome. 新加坡人非常的棒的原因 Why Singaporeans are awesome 就大家允許這樣的人能夠在海外生活 Just allow such people to live overseas 我前兩天看新加坡 I visited Singapore two days ago 一位網友發給我的一個一段視頻 A video sent to me by a netizen 也是一個博主 Also a blogger 他採訪了一位在新加坡居住的人 He interviewed a person living in Singapore 他說他還他在新加坡 He said he was still in Singapore 他選擇在新加坡居住了20多年了 He has lived in Singapore for more than 20 years. 就因爲他的孩子有自閉症 Because his child has autism 他說他帶他孩子上公交車 He said he took his child on the bus 他孩子自閉症 His child is autistic 有時候會大喊大叫就不受控制 Sometimes I yell and scream out of control 但是 but 沒有人會有一種異樣的眼光看着他們 No one will look at them in a strange way. 他說就是這樣 He said that's it 就沒有人看他 No one sees him. 他都覺得是一種尊重 He feels it is a respect 都覺得已經是一種 I think it's already a 非常好的一種尊重了 A very good respect. 就因爲他之前在中國大陸 Because he was in mainland China before 那被歧視的真的是 It's really the people who are discriminated against. 我可以告訴你 I can tell you 在中國大陸街上你看不到身障人士 You won't see disabled people on the streets of mainland China 爲什麼 Why 早就給關起來了 It's been locked up long ago. 怕丟人這些人 Afraid of embarrassing these people 這這真的是拿身障人士不當人看 This really is treating people with disabilities as if they were not human beings. 所以我呼籲大家 So I appeal to everyone 千萬不要因爲王局的一些廢話 Don't let Wang Ju's nonsense 你們看他的新聞 You read his news 調查可以 Investigation can 一定要是調查 It must be an investigation 但是他的一些隨口而說的話 But some of his casual remarks 大家千萬千萬要 Everyone, please, please 要要有自己的獨立思考能力 Have the ability to think independently 好吧 All right 如果你覺得自己的獨立思考能力 If you think you have independent thinking ability 不是很強 Not very strong 那麼你就不要看他的節目 Then you shouldn't watch his show. 我覺得要知道做我們這一行 I think we need to know how to do our business. 就是做這個主播博主這一行的話 If you want to be a host blogger 最起碼都要有一點點口才吧 At least you have to have a little eloquence. 有一些不是像我這樣急性說的 Some of them are not as hasty as me. 寫稿子的 Writing 那也得有一些文才能去寫這些稿子吧 You need some knowledge to write these articles. 所以這些人的說話 So what these people say 可能相對而言是有一些說服力的 Maybe it is relatively convincing. 但是不要每句話都說 But don't say every word. 我跟我的學生都說 I told my students 我給你們說的話都是我個人觀點 What I tell you is my personal opinion. 你們聽一聽 Listen to this 有道理的你們信 It makes sense, you believe 你們吸取能夠幫助你們 You absorb what can help you 沒有道理的就絕對不要聽我說 Don't listen to me if it doesn't make sense. 我作爲你們的長輩也好 I am your elder. mentor也好 Mentor is also good 就是這個精神導師也好 This spiritual mentor is also good 不代表我說的話就是對的 It doesn't mean what I said is right. 一樣今天我跟我屏幕前的觀衆 Today, I am talking to the audience in front of the screen 我來聲明一下 Let me make a statement 臺灣觀衆也好 Taiwanese audiences are welcome 新加坡觀衆也好 Hello, Singapore audience 馬來西亞觀衆也好 Hello Malaysian audience 都是我的排名比較靠前的几几大羣體 These are the top few groups that I rank among. 不要認爲我 Don't think I 頁子說的一些話好像就一定是對的 Some of the things the page says seem to be correct. 我也會說錯話 I also say the wrong thing 說錯話歡迎你們糾正我 If I say something wrong, you are welcome to correct me 歡迎你們指正我 You are welcome to correct me 歡迎你們評論我 Welcome to comment on me 只要不要帶攻擊性就可以 Just don't be aggressive. 不要太武斷 Don't be too judgmental 不要變成一個像你們不喜歡的那些人 Don't become like those people you don't like. 一樣好嗎 Is it the same? 不好意思 Excuse me 今天這個視頻沒想到說的這麼長 I didn't expect today's video to be so long. 這個這樣吧 This is it. 他太太這段視頻我就不放在最後了 I won’t put this video of his wife at the end 我估計大家也沒有時間看了 I guess you guys don't have time to watch it. 我放在鏈接 I put it in the link 我放在這個 I put this 我在這個今天這個視頻的下面 I am below this video today 這個鏈接裏面和他太太的頻道 This link contains his wife's channel 和他太太這個最後這個被刪掉的直播 This last deleted live broadcast with his wife 我傳到我的頻道里面 I uploaded it to my channel 然後放一個鏈接在這裏 Then put a link here 不公開放啊 Not open to the public 你們點這個鏈接都可以看得到他被 You can click this link to see him. 他自己已經刪除了這段 He has deleted this himself 這段直播的內容 The content of this live broadcast 好嗎我再次呼籲大家 Okay, I'm calling on you again. 一定要關注關心少數族語 We must pay attention to and care about minority languages 甚包括深藏人士 Even those in deep Tibet 包括皆有 All included 包括這個LGBTQ Including this LGBTQ 包括少數宗教信仰 Including minority religious beliefs 就包 Just pack 包括和我們不一樣皮膚顏色的人 Including people with different skin colors than us 就所有這些少數 All these few 你要知道 You should know 我還是那個話 I still say that 我多次說過普世價值 I have said many times that universal values 我的頻道一直是在弘揚普世價值 My channel has always been promoting universal values 正確的三觀 The correct three perspectives 要知道我們每個人 To know that each of us 在我們人生的某一階段 At a certain stage in our lives 都會成爲少數人羣 They will become a minority 這段時間 During this period 我女兒的腳由於自己跳的時候不注意 My daughter's feet were injured because she didn't pay attention when she jumped. 四處骨折 Four fractures 穿了這個像不是石膏了 After wearing this, it doesn't look like plaster anymore. 我們叫boot We call it boot 就一個固定 Just a fixed 固定靴這個時候她就是少數人羣 Fixed boots at this time she is a minority 因爲她處處需要幫助 Because she needs help everywhere 她行動不方便 She has difficulty moving 請大家多多幫助 Please help us 只有這樣 Only this 當你成爲少數人羣的時候 When you are in the minority 你纔會得到別人的幫助 You will get help from others 有一天你也會老去 One day you will be old too 當你老的時候 When you are old 你可能 You may 也會希望別人給你伸出一點點幫助 I hope others can give you a little help. 有一天你也會生病 One day you will get sick too. 當有一天你生病的時候 When you are sick one day 你可能也會希望 You may also wish 自己 Own 能夠得到社會的一點點的幫助與認同 To get a little help and recognition from society 最起碼不要受到歧視 At least don't be discriminated against. 今天就說這麼多 That's all for today. 我希望大家理論的討論這個事情 I hope everyone can discuss this matter theoretically. 不要惡意的去攻擊網網局 Don't attack the network maliciously 任何一個人都有兩面性 Everyone has two sides. 都有他好的與不好的地方 He has his good and bad points. 而且再說的是他們的家務事 And let's talk about their family affairs. 我再次懇請所有朋友們 I once again implore all my friends 不要無端的 Don't be gratuitous 無理由的去攻擊另外一個人好嗎 Is it okay to attack another person for no reason? 今天就說這麼多 That's all for today. thank you very much 感謝 thank you very much