How Our 1 Year Old Is Adjusting To Being A Big Brother

He gives him a head, but he doesn't even give him a kiss in the trash There we go Welcome to another video with the Benz family What's up, here we have little man You smirking that's his little smirk. Hey, what's up? And where's big boy? Let go mommy's phone give me mommy's phone. So it's been an adjustment. I'm not gonna lie. So she's in the bathroom She'll be over here in a second. It's definitely been an adjustment to two babies Especially two under two one thing that you know We've kind of learned is kind of balancing the love like we have our moments Obviously you're spending time with him and then we'll have our moments of spending time with Zaza. Ain't that right Papa? He's gonna be him at the end of the day. That's just the thing as far as him He's getting to the point of opening his eyes Looking around seeing everything hearing all the voices. He is a hungry baby. That's another thing very hungry, baby Yeah You're so hungry. You're already hungry right now, aren't you? But his eyes are like wide open. He's looking around and stuff Room is a little it's a little chopped right now It's just been trying to get to the adjustments of everything. Sasha is always being a super super woman with everything going on So she's been really good. She's been really really good with that. Sorry, Sasha's trying to find a shirt You guys will see her in a second The big yawn You don't get brother kiss He wants mom to pick him up right now So, yeah, I was just trying to It's time to switch so obviously with a newborn requires a lot of attention and This is what it comes with the same way. We gave you all that attention as a newborn It is a transition as far as giving attention But we always try to do our best so that he knows he's still a baby. Obviously, he's only one So it's not like we're doing really good with just like taking ---- He's hungry, you know, I gotta take him and then dad goes with Zaza and then once he's down for a nap Which luckily she sleeps a lot sleeps a lot Like yesterday it was funny because we were trying to put him to sleep. She put him to sleep So I tried going I took first shift. I'm trying to put him down for a nap He wanted to play but then he woke up. So then I had to go feed him I try to put him to sleep, but he just wanted to play so we played in his bed for like 30 minutes straight It was just plain We're really trying to adjust as far as even him he's he's acknowledging him a lot more right now Okay, okay, okay Dude, you're gonna fall you wanna fall He eats a lot and I don't I don't like exaggerate this No, brother Okay, brother Get mommy one Okay, now give brother kiss your brother kiss He gives him a head, but he doesn't give him a kiss. What do you want to do? He like his energy a bit too much for me Okay, Papa, you know, you're so heavy. You're like super heavy, you know You got my bicep hurting No, I know one thing that's good about Zaza is that he knows how to entertain himself. So he's been Doing that since he's been here cuz he was the only child So when his brother is of age and his brother could play too he's definitely gonna be doing that same thing Oh, is that new let him know what you got He'll climb himself up go ahead you wanna go up there Go ahead and go up Papa, you want to watch a movie as far as content and everything goes, you know We want to obviously still try and put out content as much as we can We like the wholesome content for you guys just because I mean, that's just who we are We generally love being parents and we love having our kids now It's just crazy saying having our kids other than just having our kid now It's kids and you know, I come from a big family, you know I come from a lot of people who are brothers and sisters obviously cousins, etc It's not anything that's not new to me You know, we've seen comments or people worrying about is Zaza gonna have still enough attention Of course he is like why would he this doesn't change anything at the end of day? He's still a baby like and he's our firstborn like we're not gonna just be like, oh we got a new one All right, because other like what it's not we don't Think like that at all. I mean regardless at the end of day though Zaza knows how to entertain himself I mean look at him over there. What'd you do? What did you do? What you drop you drop something watch your foot did you drop something you did didn't you? Yeah, you did you dropped your milk? Did you drop your milk? Want me to get it for you? I can get your milk if you want me to but you don't want me to get it You want your milk? Okay, don't don't don't tear that off. You can't have that Here's other here. Take your milk. Do you want your milk or no? My trip It did sound like you know, he said no, I'm good. You're gonna stay there with mommy feed brother How do you feel about being an older brother? Are you happy? Yeah, brother, where's your brother? Where's your brother? Okay, what else Yes, you do you know where he's at where's your brother where's brother He points at him some reason he doesn't want to right now Yes, dad, where's brother Okay, dude, you gotta calm down. What if you go over the edge? You don't be paying attention. That's what I'll be talking That's what I'll be talking about Do you want your milk now take your milk go to your bed and drink your milk Go night night Go night night with your bottle Don't spill it. No No, you don't waste it. You gotta drink it. That's the whole point of it It's for you to drink you're wasting you put it on the carpet. It gets on the carpet and then it can stink So if you do that It's nasty. So currently my mom is in the hospital. Well urgent care because she pulled something in her back She's just trying to be cautious. She needs some like strong muscle relaxer Tylenol ain't doing it You know, that's what we had her take but it wasn't doing enough for her So she said taking her urgent care so she could get that taken care of and that's what we're doing we're just I was trying to order the food, but I didn't want to order it and then she tells me to come pick her Up because I had to go drop her off So that that was my thing that I didn't want to do but in all this this whole video is for us to actually say You know, the adjustment has been well so far. He's still been him. He hasn't changed. He hasn't acted any different he still has fun on his own and Entertains himself. We have a bunch of help here such as my mom and can you come over here, please? Watch the thing cuz you're gonna smash your finger You're not paying attention. You're not paying attention. No, you're not paying attention That's what I'm saying. If you paid attention, you know see other than that, but he's been amazing. He's an amazing big brother He's been learning how to be more gentle. He just gets excited So we don't take it as like Aggression anything. He's a very excited. Happy baby. You excited to be playing with brother We generally think he's gonna be walking and crawling everything fast because of that he's gonna want to copy his big brother Yeah He's gonna literally follow him around do anything that he does Except when he tries to trash the room and stuff because I was very good. Yeah. No. Yeah Every day and then it's not because It's just Adjusting to the fact of like dang. We're gonna have two of them that could possibly be doing it He just punted a diaper. Hey, can you put can you put his diaper in the trash? Can you put his diaper in the trash his diaper? Can you put it in the trash? No, no, not This look Brother's diaper. Don't put in the trash Trash over there. Go put in the trash. Come on. Come on. Come on in the trash There we go, don't take it out do not take it out leave it in there no Dada, Dada That boy was thinking about it, though You got it you got it You got to put your foot up on on the on the bed part. That's why you keep falling. Okay, I'm just saying No, leave it. No, no, no, do not grab it. Do not grab it. Just leave it in there. No, just leave it in there Hey, hey, hey please Do not mess with the dog Leave the diaper. Come on. It's okay. It's where it's supposed to be. It's not a toy. It's pee So we leave the pee where it be Anyway, so what I was really trying to say Sashi will be posting her first video very very soon We haven't talked about it on this channel because I want her to speak on everything on her channel I believe she's at 10k subscribers now. You gotta be there's no way she's gonna be posting her first video on her channel Very very soon so you guys could get all the tea about how it went for her her experience of giving birth to her second Born child who was eight pounds 12 ounces She will get more into detail about all those things so you guys could keep up She's gonna be doing some different type of content on her YouTube channel. It's obviously gonna be different from mine I'm not saying like mines is kind of more, you know comedic challenges and stuff like that Not saying it's actually gonna be funny on her channel It's just it's just gonna be more coming from a mom's point of view of her raising two boys under two You know, it's gonna be mainly her on that channel So obviously if I pop in I pop in but it's kind of her building her own You know brand and everything like that as far as mom life with Sashi and there he goes. You're okay. Whoa Whoa, yeah You got up man, you're so strong you're a big boy. He's still gonna be baby though. Yeah Hey, you can fall backwards dude, you got to get all the way up. Yeah, you got to get all the way up. Yeah So that that's mainly it I mean there's not much to say We just want to keep putting out content for you guys and continue to make videos for you guys So you guys can still keep up with everything? Obviously, we're gonna be recording every day, but we're gonna Whoa Yeah Jesus Are you good? golly Anyways, like I said, love you guys Please leave a like comment subscribe to your boat notification give a thumbs up to the video if you guys enjoyed the video Everything has been absolutely amazing. Sasha's healthy. Our babies are healthy so far so good It was a blessing for us to leave or be there for only a day and be able to take our son home the following Day, he looks like the type to jump So everything has been going absolutely perfect for us and we genuinely love you guys genuinely thank you for all the support Thank you for being there. Thank you for keeping us in your prayers. Hoping everything went Well, we've seen a lot of people while Sasha was pregnant that prayed over Sasha and prayed for a safe delivery Now it's time for me to go be a dad, but dad dad. Anyways, love you guys. Thank you so much Like I said, please like comment subscribe to your don't look at you Cuz those are two videos you guys enjoyed the video. We will see you guys next time There's anything you need to say before we love you guys Thank you guys for all your support and love that you guys have shared Everything that Larry just said honestly It means a lot and we definitely saw like all the love that you guys were giving us with this new experience This is baby. So the grace as well with not expecting us to just put out content because we have realized thank you guys Thank you guys so much. See ya