Koreans FIRST TIME at Malay Wedding in Malaysia (ENG/Malay Sub) #cultureshock #malaysia

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Today I received an invitation to my Malaysian colleague's wedding.
I came all dressed up like this.
It's the first time I've ever been invited, so
Actually, I'm really curious about how the wedding will unfold.
Look at her shirt today.
Lend me your phone for a moment.
Oh, T.D. Livet.
Hello.
Where is the wedding gift going?
I'll go look for the recession.
We said we'd be there starting at 11 o'clock.
May I sit down?
You can sit down.
You can sit anywhere.
Can I sit anywhere?
What time are you coming in? At 12 o'clock?
I'll come in from 12 o'clock.
Where is her company going?
You can sit anywhere.
You haven't come in yet?
Can I sit anywhere?
You can sit anywhere.
Thank you.
Hello.
Are you family?
Yes.
Family?
Yes.
Is this your first time visiting Wedding Melay?
Ami and her family.
I am her older sister.
Ami and...
They speak Korean very well.
I also came from Korea.
I have candy.
Wow, that's great.
This is a pizza.
Wow, can kids eat this?
Thank you.
Which candy shall we use?
This is viral candy.
Okay, viral candy.
Pepinés.
Pepinizes are called Arabic candy.
I have never tried it before.
Then I'll try some too.
This is my favorite candy.
This isn't chocolate, is it?
Choco.
Choco Saki Saki.
Me too, me too.
I want to have one too.
But can we eat this kind of candy?
There are too many candies like this.
Yes, yes, yes.
Why aren't you eating?
I left that candy right here.
Let's go, let's go.
I love it too much.
Thank you.
This is the first time for you
Are you at a Malaysian wedding hall?
That's pretty good, isn't it?
No, first of all
The most fascinating thing is
People wear different kinds of pants.
Because
It's shocking to me.
Because when participating in a Korean wedding
Usually just
Wear black.
For example,
If you wear clothes as beautiful as mine
Wait, wait, wait.
You only wear black?
Wearing black
They seem like they would get along well.
Then,
Does it feel like a wedding?
I need to put on clothes.
Because
Today's main character is
Grooming Bright.
So,
Pink or
Wearing light-colored clothes
People are shocked.
Ah, it's you
Like Grooming Bright
I need to put on clothes.
That's amazing too.
So far
Wedding
It hasn't even started yet.
People are already eating.
I'm hungry too.
Over there
I want to check it.
Where?
Hello?
Over there
I've been looking at it since a while ago
There is also a lot of food.
On the spot
What's up now?
Delicious food
You made it for me, didn't you?
Something to eat once
I'll show it to you.
Like this, right here
You can scoop rice.
And also
Decay-style
because it had become that way
Various
The food they want
Served in a bowl
You can take it.
Therefore
There are so many kinds.
Thank you, Mira.
There are also some ulams.
They're important things.
There are so many delicious things.
There are so many amazing things.
The most fascinating thing is
Food
The person who creates it
Being present
Like this
There's ice cream too.
It's too good, isn't it?
So, you see
There's also a lacer.
Food served immediately
That they'll make it for me
It seems really amazing.
Amazing.
It's amazing.
Hello!
Chocolate Mouse
I don't like this.
What should I eat first?
Ah, let's go first
I should eat.
But
Bright & Group
It's coming soon.
It's okay.
First, I should eat.
Laxer.
I like laces.
Do you like lattes?
You're right.
Even this one?
This too.
Good.
Please put on the T-shirt for me.
People
I use forks and spoons a lot.
There are also those who use their hands.
We're going to eat it all up too.
I'm trying to look.
But I
That's what I've been most curious about.
Pineapple
Pineapple
Rumor?
How?
Spicy and salty?
Do it again.
Salty rather than sweet.
What?
It feels like a salty-sweet kind of place.
What's amazing is that
First of all
South Korea is
When getting married
Usually one
Two hours?
That's it.
Pick it apart.
Bug, bug.
With a friend
Family
Friend.
I'm going to visit my friend.
Let's rest.
I'm Amira, your friend's sister.
I am a friend
Korea
Friend, Korea.
Are you Korean?
English
Can you?
Korean
Can you?
Can speak Korean
Your friends
You're here.
Therefore
Dinner together too
and doing
Delicious food
There are so many.
All Koreans
Did you do it?
Amazing!
How come you know everything
Are you?
Same
School.
The school is all done
Was it different?
Yes.
All studying
You're doing well.
All of you are so smart.
But how much
Were you there?
Three years?
So Korean
You're doing it really well.
In Seoul
Were you there?
Busan
I'm from Busan.
Where is it?
Haeundae.
Peking University
Where?
Peking University
It's amazing.
Kanbong Desert Kanbong.
It's amazing.
Korean
Wasn't it difficult?
I'm a bit
I want to learn Malay.
It's difficult.
Really?
A little
Drama
What should I look at?
I don't know.
Something worth recommending
Are there any Malay dramas?
Us too
We are
I'll watch a Korean drama.
I see.
Honestly, compared to other languages
English
It seems easier.
Really?
Not Chinese then
Japanese
Chinese is difficult.
Korean as well
It's difficult.
Chinese is really difficult.
Ah, so you've learned some swear words too, huh.
Ah, I see.
Thank you.
I'm hungry.
I want to eat this.
The taste of galbi-jjim.
Braised short ribs?
You're serious, right?
Really delicious.
Authentic galbi-jjim flavor.
But
I'll take this one.
I don't want to eat.
With this
It's really hard to eat properly.
Oh, I see.
Because
It's really hard to eat properly.
No, this...
It's hard to eat bones properly.
This thing
Like this, blocked
I want to eat it like this so much
I can't use my hands.
Uh-uh
Hmm
A
But do you know what it is?
I really like the clothes I'm wearing today.
A
It's beautiful.
Oh, I have something I'd like to ask.
I brought this over.
I don't know how to do this.
What should I do?
Long?
Just hang it over your shoulder?
Yes
Like this?
Ahh
But too much
Bandi's room
Is it too long?
Yes
A
Isn't there something you can do here too?
On the waist
Like a belt
Oh, like the waist?
A
May I ask your name?
Aye
Melaiyu is just Melaiyu.
Apika
I am Erin.
Erin
Wow
Brain Stone Lift
Which style is the best?
In my favorite style
Just like this, you know
A
Somewhat elegantly
After doing this
A little
Don't you have to keep your arm like this?
O
Yes, yes, yes
Go, go, go!
A little pose
Oh
My View
Oh
Oh oh oh oh
Oh oh oh oh oh
Oh oh oh oh
Alright, I'll go with this.
O
Thank you
Amazing, amazing
It's my first time.
I'm a first-time Malay wedding guest.
I'm feeling nervous.
Oh, but why did you match the colors of all the clothes? Just for the family?
Only your family
Just my family
Baby
Purple Color is a family.
Family.
It's a family.
The sound I'm hearing right now
It's a kkeomppang.
Dumpling?
Kkompang
What's up?
So cute, isn't it?
It's so Comme des Garçons-like.
Kkompang
Coming, coming, coming, coming
Is it okay to groove a little like this?
Wow, so beautiful
It's incredibly sparkling.
Oh, I'm nervous.
Auntie Mi
Hello
Sing a song?
The clothes are so beautiful.
The clothes are too shiny.
Sparkling clothes
But in Mil-eon's hands
There was a slight purple tint at the end of my hand.
What is that?
This is an Indian name, Hena.
The melody's name is Inai.
Ina-i
Are you going to start now?
You were nervous, you were nervous
Wow, so beautiful.
First of all, it's way too beautiful
This is long.
It's different from mine.
Like a crown upon the head
Tiarado is too beautiful.
It feels quite different from Korea.
Because in Korea, wedding songs keep coming out, don't they?
But here, directly another
Is this Freya?
Like Frey
Something like an entrance song
It's amazing.
And it's amazing how they enter simultaneously too.
The thing on Swaggy's head
So I also want to see your swag hairstyle.
But the biggest difference is
Korean wedding
so many couples
They don't enter together.
groom first
and then the bride then
Bring the bride to the groom.
Here it's just straight up they enter together
But it seems too good to be true.
Something coming in together
It's kind of cool.
Wow, how fascinating!
Let me take a look at what's happening.
First, take a photo.
What specific pose did you take?
Wow, so beautiful.
It feels really sacred somehow.
I said I was striking a pose, didn't I?
It wasn't a pose—it was prayer.
I didn't know.
Korean Prayer
I thought it was just a cool pose.
No, no
But it's amazing.
Korean prayer time
Even when praying
I don't feel like my family is praying.
They do not pray.
Don't you say a short prayer?
I had no idea at all.
So there's really no prayer at all?
But a bit
Many people praise Korean prayer.
Because
At one registry office, about five or six couples get married each day.
While a certain couple is getting married
Next in order, the guests arrive and wait.
It is common to share the bridal waiting room or the like.
I often get criticized.
But here it's somehow just a bit more, slightly more Korean wedding-style than...
Party style?
It feels like a party.
But isn't that something we shouldn't talk about?
Praying?
No.
It's okay, you don't have to.
When I pray, I am the one praying.
I am a Muslim.
Me too, though
I want to pray for Miram's future.
Just leave your hand alone.
I hope you live happily.
Like a prince and a princess
Yes
Like a prince and a princess
But the wedding gown is fascinating again.
Because
Blindingly AF
And they're couple matching colors, aren't they?
Typically, Korean weddings
The group is always dressed in suits.
Black suit
Typical black suit
But isn't this a bit traditional attire?
tradition
Something with more traditional elements than Korea
It seems fairly certain.
As far as I can see
Various colors are already prepared.
Because everyone is just too colorful.
If you show up wearing something this colorful, it'll be really something
South Korea is
You're really good at reading the room, aren't you?
Right?
So Korean
Wearing this pink one
With a bright feeling
Do you say things like that to other people?
A little from behind
Just nothing really.
And celebrities
If an influencer had done it
And also
They
Ah, this person
XXX
That's what I mean.
This place is a bit
A little
If you take it too seriously
Yes
But I think that's correct.
When we came in here, we
We brought gifts, didn't we?
But
Bringing a gift to a Korean wedding
I saw you for the first time
But instead,
Severance pay
While checking the vacation pay, I realized it's extremely important.
Anpao
You know, China's Anpao, right?
But
Malaysian wedding too
Is Angpao expensive?
Expensive
But
It's not expensive.
Usually
With my parents
Second Kazan
young person
Malaysia is Angpauya.
My younger sibling or
A young person
It's not Angpao.
Ah, I see.
The reason you came wearing a kurta
Since it's my first time at a Malay wedding
I don't know what to wear.
Therefore
So when I asked which traditional close to recommend,
He showed me a photo.
It's too beautiful.
That's why I ended up wearing the Kkubaya.
I love it too much.
I want to buy more.
But Kkubaya is too much
Mahal
I heard it was handmade.
So it seems expensive.
Too expensive
But
My parents
Do you have to wear a kkeubaya every day?
My parents
Put on your ojital.
I know.
After shopping
Taylor
And also
After shopping
A regular Kkuba-ya
But
My parents
You're not Chinese?
No
My parents
No, you shouldn't.
Yonia Kubaya
Ah, but it seems there are many types of kubaya too.
There's also a bit of my personal style incorporated.
Yonia Kubaya is a bit weak.
Should it be called a ring, or should it be called an island?
A little floral? Flower?
This kind of leather?
Flower flower
I want to try that too.
You look too beautiful, Cuba.
You know, it looks simple.
but so expensive, like some of it
because my grandma one
They use silk to make the kubaia.
or like some other material
very fancy material
People who are already living
I told you
I told you they eat.
They eat, then ride, come on.
Go and take a photo, then ciao.
Like a hit-and-run
Hit and run, yeah, really hit and run
Actually, nothing much happens after this.
Oh, thank you.
Gift?
It's nothing.
Thank you
I will give you a gift.
Okay okay
Unboxing
Sister gave it to me.
Unboxing?
Unboxing time
Unboxing time, okay
Oh nice, nice, nice
Coffee cup
Oh
Coffee cup
Good, good, good
I'll just pull that off when it's time to work.
Thank you
Ice cream
This thing
Stir, stir, stir
Actually, this is the first time I've received a gift at a wedding.
I mean, usually it's just something like chocolate or whatever.
What is this?
Are you eating?
It's not bread, is it bread?
You don't know this one?
bread
This is Baholuo
Baholoo?
Yeah, it's a type of
type of Malay cake
but small usually
So now this one is the big one.
I should eat when I get home too.
Wow, it's so thoughtful. I didn't expect you to prepare even this.
Tasty?
Very suspicious
The broth here is authentic.
Hello
It really feels like an extremely royal, noble kind of vibe.
It's beautiful.
When having a wedding in Korea,
I have to attend my friend's wedding.
It's not even 100,000 won, let alone 200,000 won.
Because it is regarded as a sign of closeness in this way
What amount is roughly predetermined?
The price is already set, kind of vibe
Let's say you bring your plus one.
Paying just 100,000 won is not enough.
Because two people are going to eat the meal, right?
I want the chocolate.
Ice cream time
But what if we don't have a wedding?
If you don't attend the wedding
but you still have to hand over the emergency fund
Lucky money
Then maybe the amount could be a little less
Are you talking about the
A bit of tyklaiting
Because Korean wedding prices are too ridiculous, really.
I saw that girl
like someone's wedding
She spent
How much was it?
I told you so, didn't I?
12 million won? 15 million won?
How much?
Over a hundred K, right?
40,000
I spent 40K on the wedding.
I saw it in the comments
Wow, you did it so cheaply.
It was done so well
What's this?
Isn't it too expensive?
Wait a minute, 40K dollars or
No, no, Ringgit
40K is not that much for a wedding
Really?
That's 10,000 USD
Is it cheap?
Wedding is that way
I don't know, but
Like the Malaysians, the Chinese people
One wedding is 100,000 Ringgit
Around there
Isn't that too expensive? I can't afford to get married!
Too expensive
You know what?
Like this Korean wedding
Like when you do it cheap
Then it's like 40K
But you can
It turns off
There is no limit.
The sky is the limit.
That's part of the reason.
Why is the birth rate low in Korea?
When you have to point it out
They don't get married because it's too expensive.
Wedding companies
They exploit the system so much, really.
Wow, it's a completely different concept then
Here it's like
Everyone eat well
And then when the time comes
Then you go and take a picture with the bride.
I think you can see
So long the queue
Hurry up, hurry up, let's go join the queue
Yeah, we'll go queue first.
And then after you take the picture, all
Then you can ciao
Wow, a very touching moment
Very touching
But just now I feel
The bride and groom
They peck at each other.
It's just like a Western wedding.
It's so interesting that like
tradition
Like the tradition
And mixed with
Modern, like
What I told you
They are like that now
It's like
This is clearly a modern-style wedding.
It's not the same as liking
You know, like
OG
OG type isn't like that one.
OG type
You see many people
I'm not gonna wear it like so bling bling
But this modern one
So everyone really dresses up nicely.
Because they also want to take photos and stuff.
But it's so very nice
What is the title?
Don't know
But I don't know why
But when they like to feed cake
I feel like crying
Ah, when they feed cake
Maybe you're just emotional.
Emotional harm
Wow, they're so nice.
Now we just have to wait a little longer
And then take a photo with the bride
So ding hang
So romantic
Wow
It's like family.
Why are you filming their family?
Enjoying their family
Because my shirt is the same as theirs
Same color
Pink
Same design
You can also enjoy
You also have the same design
Yeah
I pretend as if I'm family.
Yeah
Malay wedding pro tip
You need to line up for the photo session.
Queue
As fast as you can
You must remember to queue
Because look at the line now
Come
You see the line now
Yeah
Then boom
Aunty at the back there already
Such a long queue already
What time did you wake up today?
3 o'clock
Is there another one after this?
Ah yes
Next week
Oh, next week?
Yes
Where are you from?
I'm from Kampong
Ah
Village
Yes
I have a question
What is it?
What's your name?
Chris
Chris?
What is Chris?
Nice
This is
Like a mic
Can you take it off?
Yes
Show me
Like this
Why do you have a microphone?
I don't know
We only see you when you're working.
So we can't see you this pretty
But you're so pretty
Congratulations
How was it?
Pretty?
Yes
You're awesome
Thank you
Thank you for coming.
Bye
Thank you so much
So baby
How was it?
How was this experience?
Wedding?
Completely new experience
And it was so much fun
And everyone is so friendly
And so kind
And so nice
So
Yeah
I hope
The best for the couple
And then I hope
Want to have it
A truly happy life
So when's our wedding?
Difficult question
Bye
