Our Real Life Day As Parents Of Two

Welcome back to another video with the BEARS FAMILY! So we are on a new routine right now. I have Zaza. We've been sleeping in this one. Just because they wake each other up throughout the night. And that's not what we want. We want both our boys to have good sleep. There goes this boy right here. He's wide awake. It is currently around 8am or something. No! Sasha is on the other side. I'm here with big man. My chunk. We're just waking up. This I don't even want to open. But he was up every two hours last night. So I am very very tired. I've been mainly putting Zaza to sleep in here. He sleeps good throughout the night. Last night was kind of rough just because he kept getting up. And he kept turning and he kept finding me. I usually try to get away from him. Because he will put his whole head. Like he will snuggle under my back. And stay there to go to sleep. He's a cuddle bug. Aren't you? You a cuddle bug? We're gonna get ready. I gotta change his diaper. Get him dressed. I also have to get dressed. But then we're gonna get ready to go on a walk. Because dad built our double stroller. You know. Shout out to dad. Doing his dad duties. Right now I'm about to change his diaper. Brush his teeth. Brush my teeth. Yeah we're gonna get our day started today. Sasha wanted to go for a walk. I ended up building the Nuna stroller. It's like a double stroller. To where Zamir can sit at the top in his car seat. And then Zaza can sit at the bottom. I'm excited because it's our first time using it. And then we also just get some fresh air. The weather's been nice. Gonna get our day started. This is how we be doing our routine now. So it's just adjusting as parents of two. And you know we don't really have time to do anything that we really want to do. But that's fine obviously. This is everything to us. You know we're giving them a life. And he's just here messing with a blanket. Or a sheet. Let's just try and get the day started. I need to try and wiggle. Let's start. Usually when I do his diaper changing. He gets mad. If you hear him screaming. There he is. It's definitely just an adjustment as far as trying to. Even just staying on top of things. Such as like staying on top of things around the house. Or trying to keep the house clean and stuff. That's one thing that we always try our best to do. Sometimes we just get lazy. Just because we have two kids. And then just keeping them distracted. You just never know. Having a kid in general. Babies. It's unpredictable. Very very unpredictable. It's an adjustment. We're still learning. We're not perfect. But you know it's. So I have this little playpen thing. In the garage where I have my workout gym. I put him in there. And I just work out as long as I can. Until he crashes out. Until he doesn't want to be in there no more. But I'll just put on like his favorite movie or something. And he'll play with his toys in there. I honestly got a good of like 30 to 40 minute workout. Which is all I need. No. Let go. Thanks. Can I have it please? Give me it. Now. Let's go brush your teeth dude. Put it in the bag. Please. It's the realism man. I'm showing you guys the raw real things. That be going on in this house with babies. Come on. Let's go. Let's go brush your teeth. We're coming downstairs. Grandma is the one. That be having you brush your teeth. In the morning when I give you to her. There's your toothbrush. No. Hold on. No. Grandma's not here. Grandma's not. Laza. Grandma's not. Grandma's not here. This is our life. Welcome. We're going to brush your teeth. Okay. Stay right there. Oh. Hold on. Huh? Let me see. Huh? Okay. Dude. Hold on. Let me see. No. Let me see. Laza. Let me. No. Laza. I need to brush your teeth. Okay. Laza. Let me. But we're doing something. Am I right buddy? Wait. No. Get some water. There you go. Good job. Pretty sure Grandma hasn't made his oatmeal yet because I think she just took my brother to go drive. He's learning to drive right now, so he'd get his permit, well, his license technically. He's been studying for his license, so. He's about to get his diaper changed, and we're going to change into a different onesie. This is Lee's favorite part, so we're just going to cut to when he's already situated. Come on. Oatmeal. Num num. Go get some num num. Food. Yeah. It's a work in progress. We're not. We're not there yet, but it's a work in progress. Just let it be known. I guess we'll just make you the packet because usually my mom makes it from scratch, but he likes the maple brown sugar packet one, so we'll do that. Look. Yeah? The oatmeal. Okay. Don't leave your book there. Pick that up, please. Let's go eat. You don't even know what that is. You can't even drink that. Come on. He's in this phase right now that if he does not get what he wants, he will crash out, and I'm talking about cry, mad screams, so it's just something we're adjusting to and getting used to. It's not going to be perfect, though. It's never perfect, so. Yo. Babe, I need you to bring me a pack of wipes, please. He's had a major blowout. So, already this morning has been crazy. Not, well, you know, just parent life. Baby boy had a massive blowout, and when I mean a massive blowout, I mean like through the back, as soon as I opened the diaper, it went everywhere. It's on the changing table. It looks like a whole crime scene right now. I had to give him a bath. He wasn't really happy about that. He loves bath time, but not when he's covered in poop. That was a first for me. Zaza never had that happen. So, he's here, rethinking life. Yep. And we are about to just get him dressed, put some lotion on him, get him nice and cozy in his onesie, walk, and instead of pumping, I'm just going to end up feeding him because I feel like the bath is a little stressful for him. So, just to comfort him, I'm going to do that, and then I'll get ready. Baby boy is dressed now. He's like, mom, why'd you do that to me? Everybody's being like, oh, it's all rainbows and butterflies, and very poopy diapers. But right now, I'm going to feed him. Hopefully, that'll knock him out since he did just get a lot out of his system. And then, while he's asleep, I'll put him in the bassinet, and mom will get ready. That's been my morning so far. Love that. Dad is, or Larry, is getting Zaza ready right now. I believe he's doing breakfast and getting him dressed for the walk. And we just started morning to get started. So, we will be tuning into that very shortly. Right now, Asher just said that Samir just had a crazy blowout. I just wanted to give him some wipes for him. He had a major blowout. That's the thing about these babies, man. Them poops is dangerous. Ain't nothing to play with at all. It's real. I need you to talk to them for a little bit. Are you excited to go to the park today? It has to warm up. You got to let it warm up. You can't just, like, you know what I'm saying? This is why. He plays with the water. Don't play with the water. You just drink it like a normal person. We need to be normal. Okay, you got it. My fault. Listen, a lot of people also have been saying, like, don't let him hit you. Don't let him tell you no. He doesn't know yet. He's not at that stage. Like, he knows, but he doesn't know. It's hard to explain, especially when it's your baby. Like, you know your baby. You know your kid. So, it's just like, I will know when he's at that stage where he completely knows what he's doing, and he's telling me no, or he's hitting my butt, and I tell him no, he's going to get in trouble. But he's at a toddler stage. Toddlers just crash out. Toddlers just wild out. They go on tantrums, and they throw tantrums, and they get mad. They don't know how to control their emotions yet, so. It's just some adjusting, isn't it? See what I'm saying? Just wild and sporadic. I snuck away successfully, and I did not. I was about to stay some years asleep, but call me. Update. Not. But, also super clunky. I haven't been able to get up yet. Every time I get up, as you just saw in the last little clip, he starts crying. I know that Zelda looks like this, and he's about to hit his next milestone, and he's about to be one month on Friday, so. I think he's about to be one month. We're still planning on walking. Just a little bit late. A little bump in the road, but it's okay. We're going to get there. He loves Grandma's oatmeal, but he likes the maple brown sugar one, too. I think this is my first time giving him the maple brown sugar, so actually, it was just the one that told me that he likes it. But I've only fed him. I got to blow it, or you're going to burn your mouth. Was it still hot? Mickey, here's a mirror. Hold on. Let me make sure. Blow on it. No, you're making it hotter. Huh? You can't put water on it. You don't want? Okay. Drink it. See? See what I'm saying? Now he don't want it because he's mad. Drink your water. Good job. You don't want oatmeal? That's the only way he'll eat. I've got to be a freaking conductor. Ready? Only way he'll eat. You've got to love it, though. Okay, I'm going to finish feeding him, and then I'm going to get ready to go into the gym, and he's going to come with me. I'm about to hurt this fly, bro. Someone finished eating, gave a little fit. It's always unpredictable, man. We have good mornings where he's just happy eating, and we have mornings where he's just not in the mood. But it's all good. It happens. Let's go check on Mommy. Okay, well, I finished working out. He's already dressed. It is more later into the day. We didn't get to walk yet because he took a nap, but he woke up in a bad mood, so we're waiting for Zamir to kind of get up. Papa, you can't have that. Oh, you want this? No? Got it. We will go walking soon, and our routine has been, as you can see, this is every day. This is what we deal with. I don't know what he wants. We never know what he wants until he gets it. Now he wants to come up. Okay. You're not in a good mood? You woke up in a bad mood? Grandma put him to sleep, so he's not in the best mood. You want to go for a walk? No. You want to go walking? You want to go to the park? No. Okay. We'll go to the park. Adios. No. What are you trying to grab? No, that's bad. I actually got to throw that out. I'm sorry. Okay, we're about to get ready to go and take him on a walk, okay? He's just going to do it. So we are finally going to get to go ahead and walk. We're going to start making that as a routine every day, just taking him out, taking his eyes out to the park. Not every day, but just to get them out of the house, both of them. Miramir gets some sun. I'm about to just go warm up Sashi's oatmeal so she can eat, and I'm about to bring up the car seat because right now he is very clingy to Sashi that if she moves, he gets all super emotional. So I'm just going to warm up her oatmeal, and then we're going to keep it moving. What I thought was Sashi's oatmeal from my mom was actually just the packet from Zaza, so he didn't eat much of it, so I'm just going to give it to her so she has something to eat because she hasn't ate yet. I already ate one of my meals. I'm currently cutting right now, so I've been on a strict diet, but it's been working, and I've been seeing the results. I just need to feed her, so we can go on this walk, and I can't wait until they're old enough and they can just play with each other. It's going to be so dope to see. Zaza just got to thug it out with me and his uncle or his grandma and his mom. Bro, it's like I got a palm of basketball. Okay, so what I thought was what my mom made is actually what Zaza didn't finish. You don't want it? It's still good. I got you. I'm going to go grab the car seat. He's still eating? As you guys know probably from Sashi's side, that boy did not sleep well. He was waking up every two hours. Zaza didn't sleep well either, but I can't imagine what she was going through, obviously. I got to put him to sleep, and then she puts him to sleep, so. If he didn't sleep well last night, that means he's going to be sleeping all day, but hopefully he can sleep with some sunlight on his face, so I'm going to go grab the car seat and be right back. Okay, I'm going to grab the little one, try to put him in the car seat, see how he reacts to us doing that, but I'm hoping he'll be all right. We'll have to see right now. Come on, son. You want to go for a walk? I got to change him. Daddy has to change him. Okay, I'm going to change his diaper first, and then we're going to put him in the car seat. And we're back to just trying to get ready. So, Dad has Zameer and Zaza. He is putting Zameer into his car seat right now to get him situated for the walk, and Zaza's watching Shrek. So, I'm going to get dressed real quick, and we'll get this show on the road. We have big boys, so I'm going to put him in the car seat. You are all secure. All secure. Sasha's just changing. Do not make noises. You ain't got to mock him, sir. We're going to head out. We're heading downstairs. Mommy's getting ready. He's already all set to go. Okay. Good job. Oh, sorry. Grandma has Zameer, so I'm just going to pee. You excited? You excited for Big Slide today? Yeah. I think he can do Big Slide. By himself? Yeah. Are you crazy? No, he wanted to the last time. Yeah, because he's crazy. You're a big boy. Boy got no fear. Okay, what do we got? He's all locked in and strapped. Come on, Zaza. He goes down there. Yeah, you go down there. Let's see, because... Oh, nope. Come on. All right, this is how you go in, sir. He's like, what the heck? Bro, you are low-key big. I'm like your mom. Low-key. This is... Let me get you in. I'm going to set you up. Probably would have been easier to put him in first, right? Okay, I know. Okay, we're good to go. You ready? Take one last walk. You like it down there? How you like it? Got your own room and stuff? Look at you. Yeah. And then he's up here, chilling. Boy is already locked. Zaza's down here. Yeah, adjusting to this new routine for sure. We're definitely trying to. It's late, but you know what? It's just my bad. The weather is great. Yeah, the weather is great right now. So, we're good. We're here at the park. We're going to let Zaza play for a bit. Tamir is already asleep. So, we're just going to let him sleep. And just stay at that side. Unless he likes to be moved. But we're going to let Zaza play for a bit. And yeah, our morning definitely took a lot longer than it should have. It wasn't supposed to take this long. So, we're just working on that. But we're definitely going to get accustomed to it. And learn from it. And learn. We should be good after that. But we'll get him on our side. Go, go, go. Where you going? You gotta go that way. He sees all the other kids. You're not big enough. Be careful. Watch where you're going. There you go. Huh? Take your time. Hey. Whoa, whoa, whoa. Oh my gosh, bro. He cut me. Mama. I feel like I'm bleeding. No. No? You ain't gotta take your time like that. Just go down. He wants to be with all the big kids. Got mommy over here. This boy. Tired. There he is. You want to go down the slide again? Huh? Oh. Get up. Yeah. Am I bleeding? That boy cut me, man, with his nails. Yeah, you guys. We've had fun. This is how our morning slash afternoon goes. So it's just us adjusting. And look, see? He wants to go up the big slide. But yeah. I'm just adjusting like always. OK. We're going to head back home. He's been playing for a while. There's a lot we didn't even get to catch or record. Zamir's sleeping on Sashi right now. He's been having his best time, huh? I don't even know. He's been having his best time. But yeah. We're going to head back home right now and kind of settle in for the rest of the day. We're back home. We're beat. It's a lot hotter outside than we thought. Definitely would have been better if it was colder. But again, that's why we're showing you guys the raw of how our days go. Yeah. This is parenthood. It's 202, man. Ain't no sugar coating it. At all. But if you guys enjoyed this video, please leave a like. Come subscribe to me. Turn on notifications. Get them to the video. And we will see y'all in the next one.