Today's video is a conversation on the Money Buys Happiness podcast (@moneybuyshappiness), where I get into why followers don't matter anymore, going all in on a viral campaign, how to know when to walk away from something that's making money, and why I believe we're in the age of "interest media." Hope you enjoy!
00:21 - The rise of "interest media" and why followers don't matter as much 02:24 - Why starting over is a good thing 04:47 - Should you go all in on a viral campaign? 07:17 - How to use AI to help with your business 14:15 - How to decide when to quit something you hate, even if it's profitable 17:11 - The value of pattern recognition and putting OGs on a pedestal 25:13 - The difference between money buying happiness and your brand 31:11 - Are AI-enabled robots scary? 33:50 - Why you need to take the "AI sword" and what the "bare minimum" is 43:16 - Why people are allowed to live their lives the way they want 44:31 - Does money buy happiness?
Did you catch my Q&A with Andrew Cordle about social media and AI that's a must-see for anyone building a business or brand? Check it out here: https://garyvee.com/mastermind — Thanks for watching!
Known as "GaryVee," he is described as one of the most forward thinkers in business. He acutely recognizes trends and patterns early to help others understand how shifts in consumer attention impact the realities of the business world today. Gary's approach sits at the intersection of business and pop culture. He keenly understands how to bring brand relevance to the forefront. He is a prolific angel investor with early investments in companies like Facebook, Twitter, Tumblr, Venmo, Snapchat, Coinbase, and Uber.
Gary is an entrepreneur at heart – he builds businesses. Today, he helps Fortune 1000 brands leverage consumer attention through his full-service advertising agency, VaynerMedia, which has offices in New York, Los Angeles, Chicago, Miami, Toronto, Mexico City, London, Amsterdam, Sydney, Singapore, Tokyo, Bangkok, Delhi, and Kuala Lumpur. VaynerMedia is part of the VaynerX holding company, which also includes Eva Nosidam Productions, Gallery Media Group, The Sasha Group, VaynerSpeakers, VaynerCommerce, and Tingley Lane Trading. Gary is the Co-Founder of VaynerSports, VCR Group, VaynerWatt, ArtOfficial, Resy, and Empathy Wines. He guided Resy and Empathy to successful exits -- which he later sold to American Express and Constellation Brands, respectively. He also owns a Major League Pickleball team called the 5s, is part owner of a Big3 basketball team, and is an investor in the revival of the SlamBall League.
In 2021, Gary created VeeFriends, an entertainment company that has become a rising powerhouse in modern entertainment and collectibles. Often described as Pokemon meets Sesame Street, the company leverages stories, games, events, collectibles, and technology to scale its character universe. Vaynerchuk also has negotiated partnerships with brand powerhouses such as Crocs, Fanatics, Macy’s/Toys “R” Us, Mattel’s UNO, Mattel’s Masters of the Universe, Moonbug Entertainment, Reebok, Squishmallows, Topps, and more.
Gary is also the founder and creator of VeeCon – a contemporary super conference that converges business and pop culture with innovation and technology. He is a six-time New York Times bestselling author, with titles including Crush It!, Jab, Jab, Jab, Right Hook, Twelve and a Half and Day Trading Attention. In addition to running multiple businesses, Gary documents his daily life as a CEO through his social media channels, which have more than 45 million followers and garner more than 300 million monthly impressions/views across all platforms. His podcast, "The GaryVee Audio Experience," ranks among the top podcasts globally.
Gary serves on the board of MikMak, Bojangles Restaurants, Global Citizen Forum, The Paley Center, and Pencils of Promise. He is also a longtime Well Member of charity: water.
Gary's life ambition is to buy the New York Jets.
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I'm scared every day.
If you're an entrepreneur, you should be scared.
But in any big technology, you either take that sword
or that sword will kill you.
Either you go to the gym or you think about going to the gym.
Either you go to the gym or you read
about how to do the proper exercise.
But until you're doing, you're not doing.
Every, all you five youngsters,
must be interacting with AI apps every day.
Must.
At bare minimum chat GPT and thinking and talking.
You've been saying that in the next five to 10 years,
followers won't matter as much.
Yes.
Why is that?
Because they don't matter as much right now.
And what do you think's happening?
Why can't it happen?
You know, just to kick off the show right away,
like I don't predict.
Yeah.
I talk about things that are actually happening
that I'm aware that I might just be a little faster
to the observation because of what I do
when I wake up in the morning.
In the same way that I know some people are skinnier
or stronger or better at golf.
When I wake up in the morning, as I did this morning
at 4.30 a.m., which is unusual.
I actually believe in seven to eight hours of sleep,
but I was in Oklahoma City for game one.
Even on the way to the airport,
you know, at 4.45 in the morning,
I'm looking at what's happening in culture.
Like, how's this Trump Elon beef going?
What's going on with the boo-boos and that ******* toy?
Like, what are the it girls doing?
What are the ******* golfer bros from Yale doing?
Like, what's the lacrosse girls at Duke doing?
What's the Jamaican bros that like skate?
Like, I am a cultural anthropologist.
And then, where does that culture play out?
Well, it plays out in social, right?
So then the next thing I'm looking at is like,
what are the platforms doing?
What's the algo doing?
You know, is there a new feature?
What's happening with live?
Why is this happening?
Why is this person popping off?
Why is this person declining?
So that all leads to when I started saying
like followers don't matter as much,
that started happening three years ago.
That happened when I was yelling about TikTok in 2017.
That's why I was yelling about TikTok
in some reason of 2017 and 18,
which was, A, I knew that a lot of tension
was gonna go there and that was good for all of you.
Like, oh, you missed Instagram?
You missed ******* Facebook and Twitter?
Well, here's your chance.
Ironically, and not ironically,
so many people that had 80,000 on Instagram
that were crying that they didn't have a million
couldn't go over to TikTok and get to their million
because they had the insecurity of having no followers there.
And they didn't want to start over, right?
Whatever the **** that means.
All that life is is starting over.
Every day is starting over.
Like real talk, especially for winners.
So I think that, you know, I think we're there.
I mean, like, and I actually think
we will continue to decline, I think,
meaning, now, actually, actually,
if I was sitting with, you know,
Facebook, MetaZuck, the product team, TikTok,
I would say, yo, you need to go to the extremes.
On the left, like, I think when I open my feed,
there should be a toggle, two options.
Left side, full interest graph.
Just give me nothing,
which is where some of the platforms are heading.
Just give me nothing, but at this moment,
I give a **** about trading cards and comic books
because of V Friends, the Knicks,
the Jets training camp starting, wine.
Like, give me my, the 80s, nostalgia, give me my ----.
And then on the right,
let me have 150 followers that I can have,
but I wanna see every ******* post from them.
You like that?
Like, that's what I would do
if I, like, ran TikTok or Instagram or Twitter right now.
That would kill.
And I actually think there's no outcome
that that doesn't become possible
because I think it's pendulum swings.
We only got content in 2008, nine, 10, 11, 12
from who we followed.
Now, we're starting to get to a place
that I think it's gonna keep going
where you're just getting ----
from whatever's popping to you.
And I think for all of us, even when I said it,
I could feel you two and the other three dudes in the room,
everyone's like, yeah, that'd be fresh
because I'm pissed that I'm,
I mean, every day I get 50 comments in my feed that say,
yo, Gary V, Gary V, where you been?
Like, ****, man, this is awesome.
****, you know, like, so like,
and I feel that way about people I follow.
So anyway, that's why I say it, bro,
because it's already real.
Yeah, you've been calling it interest media.
Yeah, I think that's where we're at.
You know, social media was like your social graph.
The people in your social circle,
that's where this came from.
I think we're fully in interest media now.
When I open my app, I get stuff I'm into of the moment.
And the second I start to deviate
and get into something else, that ---- starts to show up.
The AI is getting that strong.
Yep, very strong.
Okay, I wanna ask you this.
This is a little more personal to us.
I'll say so.
We're just telling Zach off camera.
He's been seeing it.
We recently launched this thing on our social media
where we're giving away $1,000 every single week.
And what we do is we pick a random location
all around the greater Toronto area.
It's where we're from.
We really niched into there.
And we pretty much pop up with a reel
being like we got $1,000 cash.
We're gonna hide it in a secret location here
in Brampton, whatever.
First person to show up, 1,000 bucks is yours.
Or we've recently integrated something
where we said first 32 people to show up
are gonna participate in a rock, paper, scissors challenge
for the 1,000 bucks.
And in six weeks that we've done it, once a week,
we've already grown a text community
of just under 5,000 people who are waiting for the hints.
And obviously these-
What app are you using, Community or something else?
Just MailChimp right now, MailChimp Basic.
And so I wanna actually show you one
if you wanna pull it up.
And I just want your opinion on,
obviously we run the podcast,
we do some other content series,
and then we've really dialed in on this.
And it's just been super viral.
We've been getting more corporate sponsorships,
like sports teams wanting us to do their halftime show.
Things like that, right?
So we just wanna, I wanna know what you think about it.
And what the future of it could be.
$1,000 cash, we're gonna hide it
in a secret location in Toronto.
Be sure you where we put it.
Shout out my guy, Josh, for making this happen, okay?
If you guys know where this is, share it with-
Why, Josh is the one that put up the money?
And the money is-
You guys are just sitting in the middle.
Do you tag Josh?
Yeah, of course.
Collab with his page.
So this thing has like two million views,
15,000 shares, like ridiculous engagement.
So we do it every week.
And it's been growing rapidly.
So it's kind of a double-ended question.
One, are we like, do we say **** it to everything else
right now and just go all in on this?
Because it's like-
Well, I think, you know, I think there's a couple things.
My first reaction, and we can talk,
let's break it down,
because it'll be fun for everybody.
My first reaction is the audience is not high value.
True.
Right, like as a shopper, like size of wallet.
Right, LVMH has become a huge company
because their average shopper spends $40 trillion.
And like, you know, other companies are struggling
because their average ticket size
of what they sell is like $1.30, right?
Because they sell pizza.
Yeah, true.
So I think one thing to think about
is you're very young right now.
And is volume always the most interesting thing?
Would you rather have 50 people
who are million dollar customers
or 500,000 that are hundred dollar customers?
True.
So, but by the way,
I'm gonna say something also that's very important.
Ish, to what I just said.
Like, I won't find 1,000 bucks.
I'm a human being.
But my intuition is that you've got people
who've got time on their hand,
because **** you running around Toronto
to find some ---- and play, right?
Who, you know, who that 1,000 is,
that $1,000 is worth their time.
It's entertaining.
Look, you guys are smart.
You don't need me.
What I would tell you, like,
let me teach you how to use AI.
**** Gary Vee.
Go, hey, we're doing this.
Upload the video.
Be like, we're aware that this has been done
a hundred times over the last decade.
What has transpired to those people?
What businesses were built?
What worked for them?
What didn't work for them?
I'm teaching you guys how to prompt engineer right now.
I can give you my opinions.
I can give you my angle that I see it from.
That has been valuable.
That is what's been me.
But this is where AI is gonna become really valuable.
I just gave you a prompt that you can do
that will really help you and think it through.
I think that's what you need to think about.
Look, personally, on just gut,
I would not go all in just on that.
I think that's campaign energy.
I think that my intuition tells me
that you guys have the talent
to build something more sustainable and bigger.
Okay, so with that being said,
we kind of use it as a marketing tool right now as well,
like a campaign.
You have an agency,
and we do have the network that we started,
like we spoke about last time.
So it is a big marketing play.
That's why I like it.
But I don't go all in on a campaign.
For sure.
And I think it's fair.
By the way, do I think that could lead
to an $8 million a year business?
Could.
Yeah.
But all that energy, all that time,
and again, it's what brand positioning
is that doing for you?
For sure.
Today, again, I think too many people,
let me say where I'm actually going,
and then you guys can think about it.
I think too many people are binarily addicted
to the views and the followers
without really breaking down the next part, right?
Not all views are equal.
Not all followers are equal, right?
And so you want to just break it down.
And would you wake up in five years from now
and being all in on this,
and if everybody in the Toronto area around the world,
like, hey, you guys are to hide the cash, guys.
It's a lot of work to rebrand for another day.
It's a lot to think about.
I think we see it as it fitting
into the money buys happiness brand already,
because of the name, obviously.
I get it, of course.
So I guess that's the way we're,
and the text message community is a big thing
that we believe in,
because if we build that thing to like 30,000
and we can pull up somewhere and 20,000 people are there,
I think that as marketers, we see that as power.
I agree with that as well.
Right?
I just don't think you need to go all in
as like, this is our business.
I think you'll be able to achieve all those things
as you're doing now in parallel while you do other things.
Yeah. Okay.
Okay.
Does that make sense?
No, no, it makes sense.
It just, we're just got excited.
The biggest excitement is the fact that like,
we would literally with one Instagram post
and one text message,
we can have 500 people show up annual.
Of course.
So it's like, we're looking like,
we see these massive streamers.
I show speed and all these guys,
if they go anywhere outside an IRL stream,
they have a mob of people
and look at the power that, that.
Of course.
But they actually have that power.
Yes.
This is a, this is a, a, a.
Kind of like buying the power.
You're saying it's a gimmicky thing?
It's not gimmicky.
It's those people are there for the money.
Yes.
And, and, and, and you've seen it already.
It starts to become a little micro community.
It like.
Yes.
But it's, you know,
when I show speed shows up in the middle of Brazil,
like they're all there for speed.
Correct.
So keep that in mind.
Just find a way maybe to bridge that gap.
Yeah.
And like find a way to bring more value
as you have that text community,
instead of just keeping throwing them around
the greater Toronto or Canadian area.
What about putting out a meaty piece of content
that can really help them?
That could help someone who needs a thousand bucks.
Like the ---- I do with like garage sale
or like flipping from a dollar to a hundred.
Like start thinking about how to provide value.
Got it?
Okay.
So that's what I mean.
Yeah.
Like it's good.
Yeah.
But like, don't get, you know,
like there's a lot of it.
It's like everything.
Everything is so nuanced.
There's, you're right.
Like, that's why like this clip, you know,
five second world we live in,
the advantage is going to be for the people
that are thoughtful.
You know, the advantages for the people
that can get under the hood of the headline.
True.
The advantages for the person that doesn't overreact quick
on just like, you know, you know,
a little, a little thoughtfulness,
a little before I decide who I hate
or who I like or what I'm going to do.
Like, you know, go into your,
go do like the OGs, go in your den,
******* put on some classical music,
pour some Scotch, pull out a cigar
and just think for five hours.
That's what I think has ultimately been my advantage.
I don't do, I don't do that scene.
My thinking is happening kind of weirdly always.
It's kind of like, even while I'm here,
there's a part of my brain that's somewhere else
and definitely flights and showers and long drives.
You know, I think I'm in my feels a lot more than people.
I think I'm more thoughtful.
It's funny, V Friends, there's 250 characters.
Every character you know, it's an ape, it's a shark,
it's a duck, it's a hedgehog, it's an alien,
it's an alligator.
There's one character called
the thoughtful three-horned harpic.
In fact, we have our comic book coming out
that tells the origin story of him.
He's the only character I made in V Friends
that is not a character that exists.
There's no such thing in the world as a three-horned harpic.
And I did that on purpose
because I knew I would develop this character
and I wanna impose on a generation of kids
and young men and women that thoughtfulness.
When the **** do any of us
see the word thoughtfulness in a clip?
Zero.
I've never seen it.
This clip is gonna be the first time.
We're popping cherries in this ******* podcast.
We're not thoughtful.
Everyone's so ******* triggered.
Hot takes and everything's,
like, even Elon Trump, like this.
Literally people in a hundredth second
decided whose side they're on.
No thoughtful, like, everyone,
like, what, like, my name gets,
I love him, I hate, like, nobody's, like, in it.
So I would just say to get deeper,
and that's how I was breaking that down.
Notice what I was doing, and that was four minutes.
Yeah, you're saying go deeper.
Like, just think about all the things
I said in four minutes.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
And I just want you to do that for four weeks,
and then you'll make better decisions.
Makes sense.
Okay, one more question before we,
I wanna crack open some cards with you.
Because we come across this all the time.
We'll start a project or a content series or a business,
and we love it at first.
And then you don't.
But it's still making money.
Yep.
So how do we decide whether to?
By realizing there's something called opportunity costs.
Yeah.
Right?
I know, yeah.
You know where I'm going.
You're making 4,000 here a day, a week, a month, a year,
and it's costing you this much time,
but you hate it, and you don't realize,
and this is why people should quit jobs
and go for their dreams.
You don't realize that if you cut that $50,000 a year thing,
all that time, even the hours you spend
being upset about it, given back to you,
will make you 100K.
Even the time, forget about even the time
you need to do the thing, whatever that thing is.
The time you get back that you're spending
on like this, ****, I don't want next Tuesday,
gotta do the consulting thing that, you know?
Yep, yep.
And so you would suggest cut it off
as soon as you feel that way?
Yes.
Well, again, thoughtfulness.
Of course, yeah.
As soon as you know now, right?
You know, my team knows, I call it smoke and then fire.
I'm always like, I'm always talking to them.
I like teaching them this thing.
I'm like, for me, it's always like, nothing's happening.
Then all of a sudden, out of nowhere, there's smoke.
Starting to get these feelings, smoke.
Like, wait, do I wanna be doing that?
Wait, is that the right price to charge
for how much I charge for speaking?
Wait, do I need to be involved in every meeting of this?
It used to be way more important,
might be less important.
Smoke, right?
Week later, I'm like, yeah, I need to raise my speaking fee.
I'm talking to myself.
A couple days later, I'm like, damn, three people said no
to the current speaking fee.
And I'm trying to say, I gotta go up.
Am I right?
Next day, I'm like, no, I'm ******* right.
And you're, smoke, smoke, smoke.
And then it goes into fire.
When it goes into fire for me, I start to act.
In the stories that I'm telling right now,
I'd be like, yo, Zach Nadler, who runs VaynerSpeakers.
I'm like, I'm up.
Put another 50K on it.
I don't wanna really be speaking.
I'm in my ******* BeFriends bag, right?
And so, I'm up.
And I start to act.
The fire starts to cook.
So, you know, sometimes that ---- takes three days,
that whole process.
Sometimes that ---- takes four months.
Sometimes that ---- takes four years.
Smoke, fire.
So, like, you just wanna keep checking yourself, you know?
Self-awareness, a lot of self-awareness, always.
And then, how old are you?
I'm 29, 31.
Like, you'll see, like, at 39 and 41,
here are the secrets.
One, you're gonna feel exactly the same.
I'm straight up.
Like, for real.
Maybe not physically, you start to lose a step on the court,
but, like, mentally, you're gonna feel the same.
You're gonna be just as hungry, promise.
I'm real ----.
You might have new dynamics in your life, love, children,
whatever, you know, those things that happen
between 30 and 40, but, like, in your soul,
like, it is who you are.
But you're gonna have more pattern recognition.
You're gonna know yourself better.
Like, these gray hairs, they come with real value.
Like, we really, you know, we've been so obsessed
with youth culture, everything's about looking younger,
you know, acting younger, dressing younger, being younger,
and we've really lost our way
on putting the OGs on a pedestal.
You know, 100 years ago, 15-year-olds weren't the culture.
151-year-olds were.
You know, like, you know, when you come from immigrant DNA,
like, we put those ******* OGs on the pedestal.
But we've lost that.
We now make fun of 80-year-olds
because they don't know how to use TikTok.
Meanwhile, those motherfuckers know how to live.
They know what life is, and we ******* make fun of them.
It's crazy.
I actually want to see the rise.
In fact, I'm thinking about starting a company,
both human and AI-influenced versions
of only 70- to 90-year-olds.
I think ******* podcasts with, like, 80-year-olds
that are still, like, look, there's plenty of 80-year-olds
that are, like, pretty non-vibrant
and, like, it wouldn't be good content,
but I know so many 80-year-olds that are still doing it,
let alone vibrant.
Those motherfuckers would crush,
and all the motherfucking kids that listen to this
should listen to that person.
Not do what they say, but just hear wisdom.
Perspective, too, yeah.
That's what ended up happening with me.
Because I had, like, a 10-year head start
in this whole game, I became that person.
I became worth listening to,
because people were like, damn,
Gary was there in the MySpace ******* Facebook, Twitter,
like, you know, it became, and, you know,
as I continued to stack things that made sense.
Trust built.
Right, and so, like, you know, so.
How do you balance building something you genuinely love
with making sure you're not leaving money on the table?
Selling out.
Well, I don't know if it's selling out.
I actually think it's selling in,
what you're saying, right?
Selling out's the reverse,
at least the slang cultural term that we've all used, right?
I think selling out is, like,
if I decided to just become a ******* Wall Street executive,
because that would be me maxing out money.
I think, to your question, how do you do it?
By knowing going in, and this is my life,
I knew going in from the get.
I'm talking 18, I'm talking,
my watershed moments are 18, 22, 34,
you know, going into college
and just, like, really not wanting to be there
and being like, I'm really gonna build my dad's business
while I'm in college, launch the website, all that.
Then 22, actually doing it.
And then 22 to 30, 30 was like,
****, man, I have no money,
and I built a huge business for my dad,
and my dad's not a bad person, he's an immigrant.
He's like, I'm not gonna pay you,
because I'm not really paying myself either.
It wasn't like my dad was making a million
and I was making 50,000,
but the business was getting all the money,
but he owned the business.
Like, you know, he was able to do ---- with that asset.
I was like, hello?
And then 34, when I started kind of going on my own
and doing my own ----,
every one of those chapters, I knew going in
that I was gonna leave a lot of money on the table.
When I wake up in the morning today,
I know I'm leaving money on the table.
But that's because that's the combo I'm having with myself.
How do you do it?
By being honest with yourself.
I think one of the big issues for humans
is they struggle with their relationship with themselves.
Like, they're deeply, you know,
so many people are insecure, at least minimally insecure.
All of us are insecure in some things.
And I think we're delusional
and I think we sell ourselves bullshit
because we're selling other people bullshit
and we start to believe it.
So I think for anybody who wants to go into passion,
there's millions of people who've done this.
There's millions of people
who've decided to be public servants
who know they have some money-making talent,
who decided they're gonna serve God
or serve children as a teacher
or serve the local community as a cop
who are leaving money on the table.
But it makes them tick.
Listen, I understand those people heavy.
I'm a little weird because I make a lot of money anyway,
but ****, man, I leave a lot of money on the table.
In a real, real way, you know?
And I'm not even talking about like not compromising
by doing like a $5 million deal
for like a cannabis on Mars company.
I'm talking about like,
oh, I could do a private equity firm
or I could be a hedge fund manager
or I could be a VC full-time
or I could just raise capital all the time
or you know what I mean?
Not like selling out,
more just like making a decision
that I'm gonna spend my day-to-day to maximize dollars.
I spend my day-to-day to maximize my happiness
that I believe is my happiness.
Happiness I define as what I know
will make me happiest-ish today, 70, 80%.
And that what I believe will make me happiest
that I did it five and 10 and 50 years from now.
So it's like a mix of like enough,
like a lot of happiness today, 60, 80.
And the reason I say 70%,
last year, I would argue that when I woke up,
I was happy in the macro,
but my day-to-day grind last year
into the first half of this,
into the first quarter of the last 15 months
leading up to the launch of this,
I knew that this is coming.
I know Be Friends is coming,
but I also know that VaynerX
is a ******* $350 million business
that I've gotta get proper
and put the pieces in place.
So last year, you talk to Zach and Mike,
you ask them like, what did Gary do last year?
They're like, he was in that office in the corner
from nine to ******* nine every day.
That was it.
And by the way, that's why I wasn't on a lot of podcasts.
Like if you look last year,
almost all my content,
like for the hardest core GaryVee fans,
most of my content last year
was refurbished from prior times.
That's why I've been popping off
a little bit more in the last month
because I'm back, you know, I'm back.
And I'm really coming back post-Labor Day,
like really coming back.
So I think 2026 is gonna be a year of GaryVee.
2024 was the year of Gary Vaynerchuk,
the operator, the businessman.
And so it ebbs and flows.
And like when I'm more creative,
when I'm more chopping up with you guys,
look at even the goosebumps.
When I'm being more creative, I'm happier.
But I have the resilience and the understanding
and the lack of entitlement and the ******* grit
and the ******* patience
and all the ---- I talk about
to have had to have these last 18 months
because that's what I ******* signed up for.
I'm comfortable sleeping in the bed
that I ******* built, right?
People go out and ******* have a child
with two different people
and then, you know, don't marry either of them
and they're 25.
And like I have some ******* character homie friends.
Like not all my friends are bougie.
I grew up ******* kind of a certain way.
And then like my boys are like,
yo, this is fucked up.
I can't chase my dreams.
I'm like, bro, you fucked a bunch of girls
and created a bunch of babies.
You have responsibilities.
You didn't have to do that ----.
Sleep in the ******* bed you made.
People ******* complain about ---- that they created.
People complain about ---- they created
and then start looking for who to blame.
The government, their dad.
You know, if my dad didn't **** girls,
like, you know, like as if every son
follows the exact path of every dad.
Not true.
So what, you know, of course,
you share DNA, you see what you see.
But like, that's the ---- I think about.
Self-awareness aspect of it.
And the accountability, right?
To your point, it starts with self-aware.
If you're not aware,
if like you can't see that you're fucked up,
you're in trouble.
Once you understand that,
and you'll see it over time,
everybody eventually sees it.
Are you ready to like own it?
Or do you believe you can trick everyone
into not seeing that you are that?
Okay, that is interesting then.
I want to ask you this question
because I've been going back with Ernesto about this.
So, I drive a Range Rover back home, right?
And I've been recently considering downgrading
because I just personally am looking at it like.
You're listening to too much Gary Vee content.
Why, I'm like, why is there like,
why is this massive car payment
and insurance payment coming out of my account every month?
Like, can I afford it?
Yes.
But also, I don't really know if I care for it.
But then on the flip side,
I have this like thought process of like,
well, I'm an entrepreneur.
Money buys happiness.
Maybe it's not a part of the brand, so.
Well that, there's a, let's break that down.
Money buys happiness.
If it's not your happiness,
I mean, I've never had a nice car.
I've zero happiness on that.
But, I'll buy a ******* six figure trading card.
Like, I buy, I bought,
like I bought millions of dollars of things
but yet have never had the jewel,
you guys know me, enough-ish.
You know, like, money buying happiness
needs to be defined on what's your happiness.
Now, the next part is also a problem.
The brand.
Look, you're sitting with a very popular entrepreneur.
I'm comfortable, and I say this with all humility,
but I'm in the mix as like top 25 known entrepreneurs.
I'll go there.
And I feel like I've got a little bit higher than that.
I don't do that ----.
So, and I'm not saying, by the way,
I don't think I'm right.
I don't judge.
People, sometimes people come up to me like,
yo, **** you, Gary Vee.
You always say like, Rolex and Lambos, **** you.
This is what makes me happy.
I'm like, could.
If that actually makes you happy, do you.
But if you're doing it to get ******* girls
or if you're doing it to ******* posture and disguise
or if you're doing it because you think
that people will then join your mastermind,
well, then we gotta talk.
That's different.
That's different than you really know what a Porsche feels.
Like, I would not know what it feels like.
Like, I don't get off on like driving stick
and understanding the smooth ride.
I don't give a ****.
But on the flip side, I know owning
one of the only Spider-Man rookie cards
from 1966 Donnerist gets me off,
and I have a very funny feeling,
99.99999% of the people that just listen to that sentence
are like, what the ****'s he talking about?
That's stupid.
And that's awesome.
That's what life's about.
Some people wanna spend their money on sitting courtside
because they both think it's good for the brand
and it's bougie, but they actually **** with basketball.
And then I see people sitting courtside
that are there for the selfie who couldn't tell you
any of the 10 players on the court.
That ---- is what I'm interested in.
Everyone's allowed to, first of all,
by the way, on the record,
my subjective opinions mean nothing.
I'm one human being.
Like, I don't think I get to say how to do it.
What I do and what I talk about
and what I'm passionate about
is I've lived a little bit of life
and I see who's happy and who's not.
I just see a lot of people that look happy on Instagram
******* taking drugs every night to just go to sleep
to get the voices out of their head.
That fucks with me.
And I do not want others to go down that path.
And I want the ones that are in there
to break the **** out and get to simplicity.
I do think materialism is a problem.
Do you think as a business owner at the beginning,
there is an image you want to kind of have
when you're dealing with people
that might be signing big contracts for you or big clients?
Do you see what we're-
It depends on, yeah, of course.
It depends on what you're selling.
But let me give you a story.
We sell marketing, let's say.
Yeah, but let me give you a,
I wish AJ walked by right now.
Do you know what the ultimate story of Vayner is?
Tell us.
In 2011, we signed a huge deal
from a, not one of our biggest clients,
we had much bigger clients, Pepsi, Campbell's,
but it was like a mid-size, it was a magazine.
How the **** do I know that?
I don't remember what.
Dude calls AJ, because AJ, I took the meeting,
but AJ was in the meeting, I was traveling.
Dude calls AJ, AJ texts me, he's calling me.
I could tell it was good.
Because we always are like, if something's bad,
like, call me, heart, so I'm good.
You know, like it's, guys, please text with context.
Everyone's ******* everybody up.
Like, if you really call me, like, give that person,
like, they think your mom died.
Like, you know, like, **** it,
like, give people context out there.
We gotta fix this, it's a pandemic.
Anyway, he's like, call me, I'm excited,
because I knew it was good,
because of the way he, whatever emoji he put in
or what he said.
I call him, he goes, bro, we got the ******* thing.
I'm like, we got the ******* deal?
It was a good deal at the time,
hundreds of thousands, which was big for us, we were small.
And then he goes, guess why?
Like, I have no idea.
He goes, the dude said the reason I went with you
is because your offices were a piece of ----.
And I know that you spend your money on the right stuff,
and that's who I wanted to work with.
So in that story, it was the reverse.
Literally the actual reverse.
Now, there are many people that look at it the other way.
Look, if you're doing marketing services,
the reality is, is you're actually only,
and this is something, you know,
I'm very comfortable saying,
because I've lived it and watched everybody else
for the last 15 years in this space,
your work is gonna be the punchline.
Like, real talk.
Like, if you're gonna build something big,
and that's why I've always focused on,
like, we need to be the best.
That's, by the way, that was a lot
of what last year was about for me,
getting VaynerMedia and the Sasha Group,
which is the other big agency in my holding company,
to get ******* great.
Because social was changing.
Marketing was changing.
I had to teach them about live social shopping.
I had to get everybody on board
with ******* using influencers and creators
in addition to the content we make.
I had to get everybody on board with AI tools.
I had a lot of things to get 2,000, 3,000 people
from here to London to LA to Mexico City to Toronto
to Amsterdam to London to ******* India
to *******, you know, Malaysia and Australia all aligned.
That's work.
Yeah, it's true.
Okay, so let's talk about AI a little bit.
Do you think it's dangerous for humanity?
Of course, it can be.
Like, if Russia and China and America
and Saudi and India create AI-enabled robots
that act like humans that can police and fight war,
like, that's some, you know, gnarly ----.
Yeah, it could get real scary that way.
Yeah, I mean, I think, I don't really even see
an outcome of where they wouldn't do that.
Fair, true.
Like, that's what governments do.
They try to protect their sovereign soil
and they try to control their citizens.
Okay, but from the flip side, as a, let's say,
somebody in the marketing space or the creator space.
Oh, you want me to go way down?
Yeah.
You got, like, 10 levers down, go ahead.
How are you leveraging it?
I know you've spoken about, like,
podcast hosts are gonna be AI, creators are gonna be AI.
A, what do you think is the timeline on that?
I don't know.
And if you're a creator, do you be scared?
Like, or how do you set yourself up?
I'm scared every day.
If you're an entrepreneur, you should be scared.
If you're a creator and it sounds,
you're an entrepreneur, right?
You're trying to make money by being a person.
So, now, I wouldn't use the word scared.
I would say, am I awake?
Am I woke to it?
Am I focused on it?
Did I spend three hours on a flight yesterday
looking at three different tools
that could do tasks that my employees do,
which eventually means my clients will expect,
like, do I think about those things?
Yes.
Like, do I think about people,
do I think about, you know,
understanding how to police
and maintain my intellectual property
and my copyright?
Yes.
I mean, you think about these things,
but yeah, like, I mean, look,
in any big technology,
you either take that sword
or that sword will kill you.
So, what I would say to you guys is,
you can be like, ****,
just as we were ******* getting going,
this ---- came along, ************,
or you can be like,
we're gonna keep building our brand,
which is always gonna matter,
and doing this,
while over here,
we're gonna create a podcast
with two girls that talk about fashion.
You're allowed to do that.
You're allowed.
True.
So, right, you could take the sword
and be the one that wins.
Yes.
What if I told you,
in four years,
you're making three times the money
that you make on this podcast
with that girl's podcast
that you just write the script
in the morning for 15 minutes,
and that's life?
That'd be amazing.
Depends.
For me, that'd be devastating.
I'd be like, what the **** else do I do
with my other 23 hours?
I'd be like, ****,
now I gotta start 10 more of these,
and I'm gonna go garage selling
in the middle of the day.
So, it just all depends on what one wants,
but what do I think?
I think it's very big.
Like, big, big.
Yeah.
Like, big.
And you're just saying,
just take the sword yourself.
Yeah, I mean, I think for you two young dudes,
everybody in here,
everybody, Mike, you, man,
Zach, you gotta kinda spend an hour a day,
chat GPT, like what I do every day,
I go to chat GPT,
I'm like, what's the 10 best image apps
created by, you know,
AI apps that were created in the last 30 days?
Then I click them,
then I download them,
then I play with them.
Like, either you go to the gym,
or you think about going to the gym.
Right?
Yeah.
Right, you got it?
That's the analogy.
Understood.
Right?
Makes sense.
Right, either you go to the gym,
or you think about going to the gym.
Either you go to the gym,
or you read about how to do the proper exercise,
but until you're doing,
you're not doing.
And so, like, every,
all you five youngsters
must be interacting with AI apps every day.
Must.
At bare minimum,
chat GPT and thinking and talking.
Last night, me and AJ,
at one in the morning,
after a game,
we're doing ---- like,
who's Curtis Martin's WWF comp?
Who's LeBron James' NFL comp?
Who's Lamar Jackson's NBA comp?
Who's Gary Vee's cartoon comp?
Like, my NBA comp stream on Green by the way,
I was like,
I like it too,
I'm so that person.
I think that you guys need to use it every day.
Of course.
Okay.
Wanna open these cards or what?
Yeah, let's open cards.
I wanted to bring you a gift.
Please.
And we went to our friends at Mint Inc.
Yes, they're fast.
Right?
And he goes,
I go,
yo, we need to get him a gift.
He's like,
he got everything he wants already,
all right?
I said,
why don't you crack some cards with him?
So I would love to crack a pack of these with you.
I would love for you guys to open a pack
and read the back.
Yeah.
Here's what I wanna talk about
to everybody who's listening.
I'm gonna assume,
let me do a public service announcement
for Vee Friends.
All of you have to go to eBay
and type in Vee Friends
and go to Completed Sold Items.
It will blow you away.
I'm actually,
genuinely,
really building the next Pokemon in Marvel.
And I'm doing it in everyone's face.
But because everyone's so distracted
about Gary Vee of it all,
they don't even see it.
In the same way that a lot of people
think I'm a motivational speaker.
Isn't that crazy?
Like,
like really.
And I'm like,
like when they come here,
they're like,
what the **** is this?
I'm like,
the company.
They're like,
what company?
I'm like,
Vayner.
They're like,
what's Vayner?
I'm like,
you know,
$350 million a year revenue.
Revenue,
not valuation.
Revenue business
that I run,
that I'm the active CEO of.
Like I actually run it.
And I actually run Vee Friends.
And I'm actually massively impactful
on the VCR group,
my restaurant chain.
And I'm massively impactful on Vayner Sports.
One of the hottest,
biggest emerging sports agencies in the world
that my brother runs.
And I still am super involved
in my dad's wine business.
And Vayner want my TV production company.
I'm a businessman
who happens to do content charity
for the kids out there
on a daily basis.
I want you to focus on the back of the car.
So anyway,
these cards are red hot.
These boxes were $99
when they came out six weeks ago.
They're selling for $550 a box on eBay.
Oh,
I should have sold this thing,
man.
You guys talking about making money,
you're ******* glowing it.
Now,
check this out.
This is why I'm so excited about it.
If you look at the cards,
creative crap,
but look on the back.
You'll,
this is where,
this is,
so you guys have probably not gotten deep enough,
but you know me,
you're gonna like this.
You know what VFriends is?
It's 250 characters
that I'm gonna use to expand
on what I'm trying to get the world
to think about as Gary V.
I can't get to everyone.
I'm not everyone's cup of tea.
I don't look the part for everyone.
If you're like,
you know,
I'm still kind of hanging in,
being cool to the kids,
but **** man,
I'm 49.
Like,
like it's not gonna,
like,
I don't even know how this has gone this far.
you know,
68 year old me,
I gotta be empathetic that if you're like a 16 year old,
you know,
Puerto Rican kid in the hood,
like 69 year old me is like doing my thing.
Like,
there's a,
there's a place where that just,
I'm not gonna be able to penetrate.
Plus there's been many audiences
I've never been able to penetrate.
Maybe a mom that doesn't like cursing.
Yeah.
Right?
Maybe,
you know,
somebody who's like,
wants to look up to somebody that looks like them.
So they're an Asian woman and like,
this white dude's not gonna do it.
They gotta find,
but V friends,
these characters can get to everyone.
From the corners of Brazil,
to ******* Melbourne,
Australia,
to ******* Tokyo,
Japan,
to Belgium.
I can get to everybody with these characters.
And that's why I'm building it.
And then that's why like,
when a kid gets focused Falcon,
read the back of Focus Falcon.
Focus Falcon,
competitive advantage,
laser focused on every goal,
soaring with precision and discipline.
Focus on the goal and everything else becomes secondary.
And then quote.
Yeah, that was a quote.
Oh, that was a quote.
Sorry.
Everything else becomes secondary.
But like,
now let's think about it.
There's a bunch of us in here right now.
Nine year old us,
reading that,
that ---- gets interesting.
What about a parent who's trying to get their kid
to focus a little more,
and now they have something that looks cool
as **** to them.
And they're like,
all right mom,
I'll ******* focus.
Like I'm very,
this is the most selfish,
and selfless business venture of my career.
It is selfish,
because,
you Fatshubt?
Yeah.
Use it right now,
I want you to do something.
Okay.
Type in,
how much is Pokemon worth?
Whoa, this is scary.
Scary numbers.
How much is Pokemon worth?
Enter.
Okay, we're searching the web.
Oh, okay.
Which cards did you get?
I got Creative Crab,
which is.
That was your mule.
Love it.
Right?
I got the Capable Caterpillar.
Love.
Tough to beat a worm from the dirt.
That's my guy.
This is a scary number.
You ready for this?
I want everybody here.
How much is Pokemon worth?
As of 2025,
Pokemon is the highest grossing media franchise
in the world,
with an estimated lifetime revenue exceeding
150 billion dollars.
It's a big number.
So,
this is the most selfish thing.
I'm trying to build the next Pokemon.
Even if I get halfway home,
I have a 75 billion dollar entity.
But it's also the most selfless.
I'm gonna do it,
and I'm trying to build this for me and my family,
and we're all allowed.
But the fact that what I'm selling
has the potential to have a substantial
positive impact on modern parenting,
on mental health,
on the mindset of a generation,
that ******* gets me going.
Because as these comics and cartoons
and movies develop,
and I start teaching people about Decisive Duck.
Do you know 90% of my questions are like,
people just asking me for permission
to validate them to make a decision?
Because they're scared.
So no ---- Decisive Duck has upside.
You know what I mean?
But you found a beautiful balance.
Yeah, because I believe that we're allowed.
I believe that everyone's allowed to,
I hate when people demonize people
that are trying to make money and be entrepreneurs.
Especially for us men,
we are built,
wired,
to provide for our families.
We used to go out and ******* hunt
and kill a wolf and bring back the meat.
And today,
financial is one of those things.
Like, I don't know.
That's all I've ever known is to help my family
with my capabilities.
You're allowed.
You're allowed to buy jewelry
and join an expensive country club.
You're allowed.
But, for me at least,
I don't judge others who don't want
to give back to society.
I really don't.
Honestly, I just don't have a lot of judgment in me.
I don't give a **** enough.
To be honest,
and I'm too empathetic.
It's actually the extremes.
Yeah, it's crazy.
I don't give a **** enough
because what does somebody else's life have to do with me?
But I also have empathy.
Just because you made money,
I don't know you.
You might be secretly paying for your sister's care
because she was born completely non-functional
and nobody on earth knows that you have a sister
who's been in a facility your whole life, right?
And you pay for it.
And so what?
I'm gonna judge you that you didn't donate
at this charity event
even though I know you have some money?
What if I don't know that you're paying 150,000 a year
to give full care to your sister
that you've never had the emotional strength
to communicate about?
I have that level of compassion and empathy
that so few people have.
And I don't say that braggadocious.
I say that as thank you, mom,
for giving me that DNA
and then being the parent that,
she not only gave me the seed,
she ******* watered it.
So I don't talk from a place of I'm cool,
I'm talking from a place of Tamara Vaynerchuk is cool.
She made me like this.
I know that story I just told.
Most of the fuckers in this room
and definitely on the podcast
had never even thought a thought like that in their life.
Ever.
That, to me, is empathy elephant.
That, to me, is compassionate catfish.
That is what I'm gonna teach
because that makes your life better.
When you eliminate envy and jealousy,
because why would you sit at a charity event
and waste your energy judging someone
who didn't donate that you know makes money?
It's because you're jealous of them.
Right?
Because you're like, I just gave 5K
and ******* Rick makes much more money than me.
They're triggered by Rick makes much more money than me.
But I sit there and I'm like,
literally, literally, actually,
I'm like, man, I hope everything's okay with Rick.
Now Rick might just be a straight dick
and wants to buy a ******* other golf course
and not help the kids.
Everyone's allowed.
I have no judgment.
I like that a lot.
Everyone's allowed.
That's a hard pill to swallow.
It's a hard pill because everybody is too audacious
and thinks that the world should be the way they see it.
Now, people are not allowed to murder.
No, but I mean, I need to say this, unfortunately,
because people like clip it and they're like,
what about rape?
I'm like, no, people are not allowed to do that, dick.
No ----.
People are, you know what I mean?
People are allowed,
but people are allowed to live their life
with their money that they accomplished
the way they want.
But for me, I need to give back.
I need to still make content.
I need to be on nonprofit boards.
I need to try to help all you fuckers that are coming up
because I was one of you fuckers and I wish I had me.
Gary Vee is who Gary Vaynerchuk wished existed at 15.
Yeah, man.
Because I had nowhere to look.
I didn't have the internet.
My pops was like an OG dude, like different.
If I had Gary Vee, if Gary ******* Vaynerchuk at 15
had Gary Vee, I'd be happier and more successful.
I'm motivated by that.
I want to give back to the game that gave me so much.
You know what I mean?
So that's where I'm at, boys.
I gotta go.
Hold on, final question.
Does money buy happiness?
Absolutely not.
And of course, money is such a foundational part
of our world.
I believe that what buys happiness is living
within the money you make.
Got it?
So if you make $49,000 a year, you can be remarkably happy
if you have humility and you live a $37,000 a year life.
If you live a $90,000 a year life and get into debt
because you're trying to keep up with the Joneses,
even though you're not capable of making that kind of money,
you're gonna get hurt.
It's like sports.
If I went on an NBA court right now
and tried to play basketball, it would be bad.
That would be bad.
It would be ugly.
I'd get hurt.
I would get uncomfortably embarrassed.
And that is how I feel like when people are spending money
on Rolexes and vacations and going into debt.
You're not good enough to buy a Rolex.
Live within your means and you get very happy.
Thank you Gary.
Thank you.
Nice reply.