4 Words That Trigger Love in A Man | Dating Advice For Women By Mat Boggs

Words are the tools of relationships. Having the right words in the right moment can create a beautiful response with your partner. Last week, my wife said something to me, and the moment she said it, I was like, oh, she got me. She got me good. I could feel my love response increasing just because of the way she asked me with this particular phrase. Today, I'm gonna share with you four words that can trigger a man's love response. Check it out. My name's Matt Boggs. I'm the founder of the Love and Relationship Division of the Brave Thinking Institute, and our mission is increasing love in the world one heart at a time. So if you like this video, take a moment, get subscribed because we put out new videos each and every week to empower you in your love life. Now, I'm gonna share with you the phrase that my wife gave me in just a moment, but first, it's important to understand that men have certain mental triggers that trigger our love response. One of those mental triggers is accomplishment. Now, you might be asking, well, why does accomplishment trigger a love response in men? Because every man has the desire to feel masculine. When we feel masculine, we feel sexy. We feel powerful. We feel this overall good sensation that comes over our body when we feel masculine. Accomplishment triggers our masculine energy. When we feel like we've accomplished something, that triggers our masculine energy. We feel powerful, we feel sexy, and we feel good. So when you invite us to do something for you in a way in which we feel like we've accomplished something that naturally triggers our masculine response, helps us feel powerful, sexy, and good, and we attribute those positive feelings to you, it evokes our love response for you. So here's the phrase that my wife shared with me. There are four words inside this phrase. See if you can pick out which four words it was that triggered my love response. My wife says, hey babe, I'm really tired of feeling cooped up with COVID. Will you take me on a date night where we can get some sushi and eat it on the beach? Which of these four words triggered my love response? Can you see them? Do you know which ones they are? They're right here. Will you take me? Will you take me is such a powerful phrase that ignites the masculine love response in a man. Why? Because will you take me gives him the leadership role in that moment. Will you take me gives him a mission to accomplish. Something that he can deliver happiness through to you is a very, very powerful response. Will you take me? Now, there's two specific nuances to this that I wanna share with you in just a moment. But I know that having these phrases can really empower you in your love life. So I wanna give you a gift. I've created an ebook that has 15 phrases that ignite desire in a man. So I'm gonna link that ebook. It's free, it's a gift from me to you. I'll link it in the description and in the video. Go ahead and click that link, get that ebook, because it will take this topic to a whole deeper level. So notice, two things we wanna talk about about will you take me. Number one is, well, before we talk about those, I really wanna say, I know some of you are watching this going, I don't need a man to take me. Why do I need a man to take me? Why can't he just join me? Or I can do it myself. So notice this. You can do it yourself. You don't need a man to take you. You can have him just join you. You can. But if you do that, you miss out on an opportunity to trigger his love response based on his hard wiring. There's an opportunity to create extra chemistry, extra desire with each other. You don't need him to take you. You're an empowered woman. You're choosing to allow him to take you. So any objection in your mind about, oh, that disempowers you, that puts you in the submissive, or any of that is completely rubbish. No, it's not. You're an empowered woman and you're choosing him to take you. You're choosing to give him this opportunity to serve you. So now, two nuances in how you say this phrase. Number one, you notice that my wife didn't say, can you take me? Can you is interesting. Can you actually, in a very subtle way, questions his ability. Can you take the garbage out? Can you take me? Can you? Can you really? Can you? Can you take me to the beach? Can you take me on a date night? It subtly questions his abilities. Will you requests his abilities. So will you is you believe in him. You know he can and you're requesting his ability to serve you in that moment. Will you take me? That's nuance number one. Don't say can you, replace it with will you and it will have an even deeper impact in him. The second nuance is the word me. Notice, will you take me? Will you take me? She doesn't say will you take it. Will you take the garbage out? Sure, he'll take the garbage out. Will you take this to the grocery store? Sure. Will you take this to the post office? Sure. Will you take the kids to school? Sure, he can do those. Those things, will you take it is a chore, right? But when you add the word you, it becomes a cherished moment. He cherishes the moments of will you take me? He's gonna cherish those moments. So next time you're with your man, use the words will you take me and notice the love response that happens. Make sure it's something that he can deliver. Make sure it's something that will ignite happiness in you and when you celebrate him and honor him for how he's serving you, you will feel him puff up, become even more masculine and he will attach that good masculine love feeling to you. So I would love to hear from you. What phrases have you learned trigger a man's love? Post those in the comments below. 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