Women Can't Process Why Men Stopped Trying To Get A Girlfriend In Modern Dating!

I genuinely hate this freaking generation of freaking dating because why the f*** are you gonna be obsessed with me freaking one day? Legit obsessed with me. I'm talking double snap, triple snap, quadruple snapchatting bro. Talking on the phone saying he gonna take me on freaking dates and all this other s*** and he gonna treat me right. All this other s*** and then all of a I hate it here. Hashtag single f***ing life because f*** these f***ing men for real. F***ing men. I think the problem with modern dating in like 2026 is the mindset is not I like you let's try to build something. The mindset is now I like you let me keep evaluating you until I figure out that I could probably do better but then I'm constantly going to be in the pursuit of more and I'm never gonna be happy. The reasons guys are not getting girlfriends in 2026. Number one is that they're treating girls like a test that they have to pass overthinking every message trying to impress instead of connect and we're all just like too worried about saying the wrong thing. Number two is that they keep their guard up. I get it masculine energy and all but sometimes you have to relax. Girls love when guys open up like it feels like you finally trust them. Don't push her away and ask for help. And number three is because you're using dating apps like tinder and hinge. What are you doing? Like seriously when do you expect that to ever work? They're literally known as the hook apps like you need to be using something more along the lines of cuff because that's where you can only match with one person like so you know that the girl is like really focused and wants a long-term relationship and vice versa you want a long-term relationship so it makes sense but let me know if you think I'm wrong. Girls don't realize that when you are with someone and you are begging for scraps like you are begging them to treat you the way that you want to be treated even if best case scenario in that world is that they wake up one day and give you the life that you want you are still living a life that you begged him for not one that he freely wanted to give you. I know the girls are feeling the same way we're this close to becoming lesbians okay I'm that close okay if there if I handle another failed situation trip I'm going to you know off myself. What's good guys it's your boy Justin J coming to you with another video let's cook boys let's cook. Aight women can't process why men stop trying to get a girlfriend in modern dating we got action let's cook. My friend's been dating a guy for four weeks and today he said do you want to go 50-50. A good friend had just rang me she was meant to be going on a dinner date I said why haven't you gone well you know he said it's four weeks of dating am I going to go 50-50 now because he hasn't got the cookie because he hasn't got the prize now he's asking her for 50-50. Babe it's only been four weeks you're only just getting to know the girl you're in the beginning stages. Like no sir of course she's not going 50-50. I told her well darling I'm coming around right now I'm going to order us the Chinese we're going to have a girly night because as women if if the guy is not bringing anything what is the point we might as well just stand on our own two feet have no one disturbing our peace because that's all they do all the men do is disturb your peace be honest. The worst part is that she actually likes him and now he has gone and ruined everything he's ruined it. This generation of dating is the reason that I don't want to date because they all want one thing and it's draining and tiring because I am not into all of that so what I value is connection and I just feel like I'm never gonna be able to date and experience what I had with my ex that is just how I truly feel. Let me know where you girls are finding the ones that... Why is her friend worried about why this guy is asking her to do 50-50 if what he won't do another man will? Stop and think about that for a second. So what's happening here is she likes him so she isn't a dilemma but she likes him as boyfriend material. You can tell because he's tired of paying for dates and he's not getting anything in return. What probably happened is he's trying to get physical we're not even talking about sex he's trying to get physical and she's bobbing and weaving but she's still keeping up with the communication as if she's actually interested in him so he's like you know what let's see if she's actually interested let's see if she's gonna put in effort now she has a problem with it. See men know the game they know what's going on cannot use dudes for boyfriend energy but it's his fault for taking her on dates and leading however he was leading but she thought she had him on the string and now she realizes that no she doesn't have him on the string he's cutting his losses. Men ain't trying to give out boyfriend energy for these exact reasons. You will waste your time and you'll end up frustrated but it's your own doing and women end up frustrated because yeah they like you but they don't like you as the guy that they want right now they like you as the guy that will be consistent with them the forever guy this guy woke up let's get the next one. No because I don't think men want to take women out on dates anymore like I feel like they don't want to take women out on dates their idea of like a date in some way is like saying hey like let's meet at the bar let's like meet at the bar and like just have some drinks you know just meet me there let's like spend some time together um and it's not even a proper date like that's what they will suggest 100% or better yet better yet if you are on hinge I'm so sorry I'm like all out and about I just got done working out but anyways um even when even on hinge even on hinge you will literally see like men like not want to go on dates with you like I have matched with like so many people on hinge and the matter of like men like the amount of men the amount of men who do not want to pursue anything after like the first two messages it's like really crazy like there was no effort from them to like or even any incentive to take you on a date it's just like they just want to match just to match and they're not really there to be intentional and mind you am I being like super dead serious on finding somebody on hinge not really I'm just there to like kind of see like hey what's out there you know maybe to go on a date or two just to get to know somebody like that'd be nice but the problem is nobody is asking me out like nobody's asking anybody out like they're like we're just one or two little sentences and it stops there it stops I don't know if I'm doing something wrong I don't know what's going on but I do engage with the conversation and it just dies it's just like nothing they don't care enough to like take you out so honestly I don't think men want to take out women anymore I don't know what they expect it's definitely not dates not romanticizing or no romance anymore it's wild out here yeah men are trying to hang out they're trying to vibe see your energy they're not really trying to shell out cash and go on a bunch of dates for nothing it doesn't really prove anything and another thing they're manipulative this whole word intentional just basically means are you going to open your wallet because a guy can plan a picnic that's intentional he's leading with intention but that still won't be good enough somehow men don't want to take women out on dates when you're on a dating app men are trying to see which women are coming at them for a good vibe it's not about a date they're so thirsty for dates they're panhandling they're dry begging please take me on a date sir please more please more relax you don't need to go on a fancy date or do this and do that to get to know someone the fact that your expectation is going on dates is what's leading you to be like yo what's going on out here and she said she's not seriously looking for something the thing that's bothering her is that the access to simps to losers to guys that want to give them boyfriend energy it's not there so they can't use they can't get their ego inflated more they can't get souped up like oh look at this sucker that wants me look at this sucker that wants me there's less opportunities there that's the only reason why they're mad it goes back to the whole why aren't men approaching us thing why do you care if men are respecting you they're respecting your space they're not badgering you they're not bothering you why does that bother you because it's less men to reject is less men to look at and be like yeah i still got it like that they don't know where they stand when men aren't coming up to them when men are in their dms when men aren't willing to take them on dates from the dating app they're like is something wrong with me it's not that anything's wrong with you it's just that men aren't looking for girlfriends let's get the next one this is how you know the dating world has ended it's not like it used to be and i don't want to do it anymore like i just kind of got fed up with this like back then when you would go on a date it's to get to know somebody now it feels like whenever i give a guy a chance they expect so much from me they they think they could kiss me they think that they could like **** me on the first day it's like if i wanted that i could have it anywhere because it's so much easier for a woman to sleep with any guy but that's not what i'm looking for like the older you get you start to realize that i don't want attention for men i just want the one person that i can take serious because i want someone that wants the same thing as me the same goals the same future you know someone that you can grow with and a lot of men don't want that a lot of men are so like low mindset that they just want to sleep around with girls and think that they're so cool like that's not cool like a real man knows how to respect himself and will take his time to get to know somebody and when the right time comes and we'll see what happens you know but it's so sick it makes me sick to the head that things have really changed and we cannot go back see this is where they fail too they act as if they're giving a man a chance a chance at what literally ask yourself a chance at what they expect so much out of you is very telling you when two people are attracted to each other most of the time getting close to each other it's not really a big deal a hug a pet kiss you know some people don't like people in their space and i understand that but typically the way it goes a lot of times when two people are attracted to each other they want something to happen sooner than later this chick is aging out of the dating market so now it's time to have these standards up these standards up the ante no man ain't going for that all that signals to him is you're a waste of time she instantly went into this real man argument or this real men spiel and it just doesn't work anymore it does not work anymore a real man does what he wants to do and moves on his timing that's it he wouldn't be a real man if he was bowing down to what you want over what he wants it's not a real man and she's talking about grow together you're grown see that's the problem you're aged out this is for when you're younger you want somebody to grow with you're grown already knock it off let's get the next one you mean you don't want a relationship we met on a dating app like i'm confused what exactly did you think was happening here i feel like if you're on cuff or hinge or raya or whatever you should at least be open to something real like something could develop i'm not on them to just pass time respectfully it's just interesting interesting to see why certain people are on them if they're not even open to something potentially becoming real or whatever no matter what app you use and it's funny she threw raya in there and there's these apps that the men need to qualify for you guys don't need to qualify the men need to qualify which means that the men are the prize you're going to have to put in more work hinge even if you don't have to qualify to be on the app the guys who you're like okay i like this guy other women are going to like this guy it's going to require more work on your side but the work is minimal it's just being feminine bubbly energy getting together with him connecting with him not so much of i'm expecting this and i want this and i want this and i want this and they think that just because men are on a dating app that means that they want a relationship no men know you guys are the ones looking for relationships so they get on there that's really all it is men who are attractive get on dating apps and they score a lot because they know that women are looking for relationships this is why women have a problem with men ghosting them getting the box and then dipping because they had their relationship as short open to long they're thinking they're gonna go in this guy's direction and change his mind from short to long to just long term life partner as they say because that's an option on the app right men just go on there whether they sell women a dream or not women gravitate towards the men who are more sexually attractive and then they play themselves out while simultaneously overlooking the guys that would give them everything that they're asking for so can you really feel sympathy for women and once again i'm not saying women need to go for the guy with the beer gut the beer belly the guy who's unattractive doesn't take after his grooming dress is bad short you know they like you know dunking on short guys you know if he's short that too all that stuff i'm not saying they need to go for those guys but let's not ignore the fact that there's guys on there that come at them that want to talk to them be very intentional with them they bypass those guys so why should you feel sorry for them why should you feel sorry for them i know guys can't they don't understand what i'm saying it's like this women say men don't approach me when in reality men do approach them and they know when a guy's into them anyway these guys can be unattractive kind of dorky corky off a little bit nervous not confident same thing on the shorter side heavy overweight why are you acting as if these guys aren't approaching you i'm not saying you have to take them up on offer but don't act as if they're not giving you some sort of attention while complaining about the guys that you actually want just say the men i want don't approach me you understand they talk in code it's no different on the dating apps guys are trying to get at them and it's funny that they think that they're giving someone a chance well why aren't you giving them a chance you think you're giving the attractive men a chance bro they're never gonna get it let's get the next one at 34 years old i'm i mean i'm not really looking for anything i mean like the basics i mean i don't want to say it like that but like honesty trust respect love and like someone who wants to do the shenanigans that i want to do i want to go on on road trips and i want to go out to dinner and like we always are going to get a snacky snack after dinner ice cream you know she's saying at 34 she's not looking she's not asking for much right but that's a lie because you're single at 34 if you weren't asking for a lot you'd be on with a guy when these older women and she's not even that old but you're still saying i'm 34 and i'm not asking for much that's obviously a lie because you would just be on and when they say i'm not looking for much right the reason why you know it's a lie so many dudes have a place to live so many dudes have reliable transportation so many dudes have investments so many dudes pay for all their own stuff they don't rely on other people they're not users they're not losers basically is what i'm getting at so many men meet all of that so how can you not find a guy it's you not wanting who actually wants you and there's nothing wrong with that but don't complain about it please don't complain about it it makes no sense i tell guys the same thing bro if you're not gonna put an effort with your appearance how you feel about yourself how your life even goes bro don't even try to date keep your head down and grind and work become the man that you want to be so then at least you could say you know what these people don't meet my standards but actually mean it from putting in the work when women say guys don't meet my standards is just from delusion it's crazy how they should know what men are looking for at 34 and be easily able to get on with a guy but the problem is they will never humble themselves they're only worried about what they want they're not worried about what men want and this is exactly why they can't find a guy let's get the next one when a guy likes you he will take you to dinner in public with other people around at normal dinner time right like in the evening he's not gonna call you and invite you over at midnight even 11 p.m like that's not he's gonna ask you on a date and he's gonna be okay with being in public with you he wants to be in public with you it's not a sneaky thing he doesn't like you if he does that and you deserve someone who takes you on a date yeah but the problem is she's trying to get women to understand that the men that actually like them will do all of this stuff but women don't like those guys and the guys that they do like don't have to do any of that stuff who are you explaining like what are you explaining what are you explaining yeah a man that likes you will do all that stuff now do the women like that guy no no so what are you explaining this is why i tell dudes a woman that deserves all of that stuff she'll just naturally move in your direction she won't make things hard for you and through that she'll earn dates and all of this other stuff but women don't require men that they're actually into to do all of this stuff so much so that they make themselves look bad imagine that they don't like looking bad but they will make themselves look bad to other men that want to do this for them with the men that don't want to do it for them so what sense does it make trying to give a woman boyfriend energy off rip for no reason other than you like her nah men are waking up no more boyfriend energy no more trying to impress people around you to make them see you as the best option so her girls are like yeah you should jump on that that don't work either that don't work either men are realizing this and they're like wait a minute me trying to prove myself to pay for her and tap dance for her how does that benefit me it doesn't the only thing it does is it always has you second guessing yourself will she like this will this be good enough i don't know maybe i should do it this way and do it that way confident men don't think like that they're strong in their spot and even the dudes right that aren't having a lot of success in dating they're saying you know what i need to work on myself because if i don't work on myself i'm gonna be a slouch and i'm already sick and tired of feeling like i'm not good enough how about i start to feel like i'm good enough for myself these women bro you're not missing women when you take time to work on yourself you're not missing anything you got the example i'm 34 i'm out here i'm not asking for too much she's still out here there's a bunch of guys that she rejected that didn't think that they're good enough that are probably good enough now that she has no access to i'm telling you bro focus on yourself is never your loss men are not going for any of this boyfriend energy stuff it does nothing so this was women can't process why men stop trying to get a girlfriend in modern dating hope you guys got a lot out of it it's your boy justin j get with you boys in the next video like comment subscribe let's go boys let's go people ask me why i'm single you want me to compete with this generation of baddies that we grew up with our whole lives i don't know what people be acting because this new generation of men the new generation of men are gen z-ers they're in their 20s or whatever these men are the same men that have been around generations after generations and they watched their moms or their parents okay whatever so the fact that they're act here acting like that i'm not gonna give them grace you want me to date them they don't even court these men don't court i like to be courted i grew up watching my mom be courted yeah i don't want to order a chifollet a carmine nothing for these big-headed ass kids to try to impress me i was in the liquor store the other day and there was a guy he bought a big-ass thing of wine and he was having it delivered to some lady i'm like oh wow that's really nice uh i would have picked out a more expensive wine but whatever and i said it's not whatever thank you for the gift um but are these these baddies they think it's we're name-brand this and name-brand that and posing off guard and and whatever and being whatever and they don't court women you want what do you want from my life i'm a single mother you don't want to try to impress me with something you don't want to surprise me my pay my rent you don't want to do something my rent ain't even that high you could afford it no not even that you don't wow no but you know i'm single no thank you no thank you um generation of men i'm gonna go back to being a baby cougar because i think that was fun