The Secret Of a Long Lasting Relationship by Allan Lawrence

My powerful people, I'm 100 percent Ali from Entertainment PA And by the way, the A is always for amazing Every day, I tell you stories to keep you company. At his different meetings You need to know two or three And you all love him, you always ask for him. You guys always say, Alan Lawrence, you're always late, you're always late. Aleo, we're here for your story And you know, of course, every time we bring him around It's always all about relationships. So, Viki, bro? Hey bro, thank you so much for inviting me again and again Thank you so much, people actually love you so much Wow, thank you so much And happy New Year, by the way Our energy is in the morning We hope to keep the energy We hope to keep the energy, spirit, and positivity all the way Today, I actually invited you because One of the things that amaze people Vito has caused many people to suffer. Do you hear people? You know what? He has been known as a man for 50 years He has been known as a man for 30 years. And we have always been happy And I want to know What are the secrets of a long-lasting relationship? Wow, thank you so much Before that even, allow me to share a story with you. A story is told of a young couple Extremely ambitious And they were living together. And at some point This man has been dreaming of a salary increase. He had been working for some time but had not received a pay rise. And the wife believed in him at all times. So one day he told his wife You know what? I am going to ask for a pay rise while fearing He dared himself. He went to the casino, but he was a bit nervous. Extremely nervous He tried in the morning Maybe to talk to the boss But it didn't work out He went to the boss and told him I am requesting a salary increase. Then to his surprise The boss accepted. He said, "Yeah, sure." By the time he was heading home He saw that the environment had changed. The wife had prepared something. A good meal Just an intimate dinner For the two of them So he thought maybe someone at work Or the boss told the wife That he had requested a salary increase Because he was wondering How things were So this guy went to the kitchen. And told his wife You know what? I went and I talked to the boss. Finally he accepted. His wife was also so happy for him. She told him she had prepared something for him. She went to the table. She told him that things had changed. The meal was so lavish You know You can't cook. So he ate. While he was eating There was a card. With some very nice words I appreciate you for who you are And no matter what happens We are just intact And this one brings us even closer. That letter was so emotional. To him again The wife came back. From the kitchen After the dinner So she brought him dessert. By the time he returned The card was on his apron. It was written No matter what happens I'll be there for you I will be your support system I love you for who you are And all those sweet words that were coming from deep down Herself So these are two letters One is positive. It's telling him I knew you would get the job And congratulations on that And the second one is telling him Even if you don't get a job We will always be together. So from that You come to understand That is what cements the two. People together is about People who have true love And being each other's support system Being the cheerleader At all given times You ought to be a friend to someone. Not their fan Because fans will always love you For what you can offer But a true friend will stand by you at all times. A true friend will be with you against all odds They are not interested in your substance. They are not interested in your presence.req But they are so interested In your presence So you want to say that One of the secrets You would share Is always No matter what happens in the relationship Be there for them Just be there for them because At all given times People want That friendship Because it is the friendship that will act as a cement That will put us even. At all given times Because today even a person who After a minor disagreement, they leave you. After a minor disagreement, they abuse you. After a minor disagreement, they start talking. Negative words about you Remember that this person was not a friend. They were just pretending. They are just waiting for the right moment. So that they may reveal their true colors But a true friend will be with you They will cheer you up In the public And they can also come and correct you. The secret So they will be there for you at all times. What happens in a relationship? Whereby you want The things to work But you don't feel like the same energy Being reciprocated And you really want To have that long-lasting relationship But you don't feel like This person is putting in the same effort. That you are putting You know, at the end of the day Good people That is why sometimes You have heard the statement whereby they say Good-hearted people attract bad people. In a relationship Because you realize that If you truly love If you are truly an honest person You expect the other person to be honest. With you That is why you will love accordingly. And you will hope that the other person Will vibrate the same energy upon you So in most cases at a scenario Whereby you feel like this relationship You're putting in more effort. More than the other person You need to understand that at all given times Nothing is set in stone Whereby all you have to do is open a window Of communication and understanding Why is this person doing all these kinds of things? Perhaps they are doing things like these. Due to their past experiences So you need to have a common meeting ground. A common place where You guys can have an honest discussion. And have proper communication Because it is only through proper communication That commitment can come out Do you understand? So at this particular point You need to encourage proper communication. Because you will agree with me That 98% of relationships It's all about communication. Is love enough? That is another question. Because people say I love her, but I can't be with her. Is love enough when it comes to relationships? Or people need to add 越来越投入其中 Love alone is not enough. A yardstick to measure The depth of a relationship But to some extent It plays a role. But it all comes down to your love language. As an individual It all comes down to the culture you've created. Into this relationship Because some people will never understand love And especially Let me take care of it from a male perspective. Men, to us, we don't understand love. That's why I've always advised ladies Don't struggle so much to love a man Respect a man Because a man Does not understand love as love A man understands love as respect. The moment you respect this person Because it is a man's duty To love a lady What do you get? So once you respect this lady And once you respect this man He will eventually Do everything and anything To love you back But loving a man Because to some extent, for us men The moment you try as a lady To love us so much We tend to rebel We tend to suspect But if you respect me as an individual And how can you respect me? Respect me for what I do Because men, all of us We are work-oriented. We'll agree with me If a lady truly respects me in my role In my life purpose I will love the lady in turn. But if a lady at any given time No matter what I'm doing, she's always putting me down. Believe me, I won't Vibrate the same love The same energy unto her At all given times, a lady Like the story I was telling You realize that this lady was encouraging the man. Even to go and ask for a raise So a man understands That this lady truly supports my vision This lady understands. My assignment So in return, a man will truly dedicate his life. With this lady If you really want to know Even a man is serious with you as a lady A man who is even willing to open up About his struggles at work His fears and everything That's a serious guy you've got there. And probably this is I'm going to ask you a question You know about a conversation which probably We are going to have in the future A bigger conversation, but What are some of the things you can do now? You know you want a long-lasting relationship. But now you need to know What are some of the things Which you can do To spice up a relationship Which do you want to last? What you need to do is As I have said earlier Encourage communication And spend more time To get to know this person Cultivate the art of friendship At all given times Because love can come and go But the friendship aspect is even more important. Because today I have said this You realize that most of the people Get into a relationship They start dating, then they begin friendship. No, it should be friendship. Then dating where you will not Fear this person, you will not fear To have any discussion with this person You will be able to express your feelings. And you will make sure that this person Is your safe space available at all times? So make sure that You talk about your feelings You communicate everything. About what you're going through And you, the other person Whenever this person opens up As for themselves, do not exploit their vulnerability Against them Amazing Conversation right there Alan Lawrence And you guys always ask for him Just comment below And say bring him back For more Conversation Which relates to Relationship Just comment down Any Conversation Which relates to Relationship For now At least once a week So you guys have already won. Our hearts Every time If you want to share anything with him If you feel like you're stuck anywhere And if you want anything Regarding relationships Advise, he is a relationship expert He also has a book. Before you think about dating If you want to buy that book Just call him And it's always a pleasure Having you here And people really love you And I appreciate you for your time And effort Thank you so much I really appreciate it. And I don't take this opportunity for granted. Let's grow together Let's encourage and empower lives out there My last word is If you realize that People have been taking you for granted. At all given times They have not been regarding your presence as a gift. It's high time you thought about gifting them. The gift of absenteeism And make sure your value is recognized And do not strive so much To advertise your value Because your value will always be felt And package yourself accordingly The right people will always find you. In your full element Amazing Behind the camera is my friend. Eric Ukaba He is also a presenter. Your entertainment is always amazing. And every day If you want to get rich Don't waste it