Sagitarius love tarot| Your intuition is right about their feelings for you, but…

Hello Sagittarius and welcome to my channel Tarot by Gabrielle. This is going to be a general reading for Sun, Moon, Rising, and Venus placements, looking at your connection between you and the person that you are dealing with and are needing to learn the most from right now. We'll be pulling for all three sides of the connection, so we'll look at your energy toward it, their energy toward it, and the energy in between it. The concept being that there are three sides to every story, so we'll be looking at your version of the truth, their version of the truth, and this higher level unbiased truth in the middle. This middle section, we'll be looking at what is the deeper purpose of the connection and the best way for you to move forward in order to align further with your higher self. Further reminder that these are general readings and they are not here to resonate fully for everyone and they won't resonate fully for everyone, so do please remember to take what does resonate and helps your personal situation and to leave what does not. On that note, and especially if you are a cross-watcher, just know this whole reading can be reversed. If that is the case for you, that is totally fine and totally normal. Again, the point is to take what helps and to leave what does not. Last thing is that any information on the extended reading or on booking a personal reading or coaching session with me can be found in the description box below. All right, Sagittarius, we're going to jump on in. We're going to start with looking at overall energy for your energy toward the connection, their energy toward it, and the energy in between it with oracle cards first, and then we'll dive deeper into the reading with tarot as we progress, but let's start here, Sagittarius, with your energy toward the person you are dealing with and are needing to learn the most from right now. Sagittarius's side of this connection, please. You have detachment and you have breakups and makeups here, so you're in a cycle with this person of reconnection, disconnection. Now, that doesn't need to fully mean, like I know the card says breakups and makeups, it doesn't need to fully mean like breakup, makeup, or like full-blown separation, come back together. It can mean that though, but I feel like in general, you are kind of stuck in a cycle here, and I feel like for you, I feel like there's a part of you that the energy feels really split, and I can't tell that this is like split between the collective or split within like one individual, but it's like there's two kind of like perspectives on this where it's like, I deserve better, I don't want to invest in this anymore, like I can't keep doing this, but then there's this other collective that's like this would be worth it if things would, you know, would eventually kind of get to the place that I know that things can be. And again, it just, it feels as if the, as if it's split. So maybe you fall on one side or the other, but first, for some of you, like I feel like you could really kind of be stuck in conflict when it comes to this connection. Is there anything else here? Robotic, interesting. It's like there's something, some sort of pattern that just seems robotic, almost like it's just like, I know this is going to go like it, but like always kind of hoping that things turn out differently. This person's energy toward you, Sagittarius, triggered with codependency. Something about this connection, and it's nothing I don't think that you do necessarily, but something about this connection triggers, um, unhealthy patterns in this person. I feel like they, you know, we all have kind of like protection mechanisms, right. That we've acquired throughout our, um, throughout our life. You know, we go through certain experiences and in early childhood and into adulthood where, um, you know, we get our heartbroken, we get hurt, we experience betrayal or abandonment or whatever it is. And we learn, um, to protect ourselves in certain ways from those patterns or from those experiences, excuse me. But the thing is, if we don't ever fully heal from the experiences that we have, we might actually stay stuck in our protective patterns where we don't only protect ourselves from people that hurt us, but we also protect ourselves from people who, um, who don't, which means that we, we almost keep everybody at a distance because we're so afraid of letting anybody in. And I feel like there's something about that with this person and in this connection, where it's like, they have their guard up a lot when it comes to this connection, but they don't, it's not that they like, don't want the connection. It's not that they don't want things to work here. It just feels as if there's a part of them that's so deeply afraid of getting hurt that it's like, they probably struggle with trust. And I think that the way that they show up, um, has, you know, because they are struggling with trust has made you kind of struggle with trust because I feel like, um, or maybe you also do from your past, but I feel like this person kind of triggers out a little bit within you based on how they do show up. So I feel like it's very complicated because I think that there is a lot of love here. Like I do feel like that is very genuine, but I just feel as if, um, there's kind of these, these protective patterns that this person carries. I mean, we all carry them, right? You, I'm sure you carry some too, um, that are keeping the connection from fully being able to, um, grow into what you both know it can be. Truth of the connection between Sagittarius and this person. Redacted. An ego. Interesting. Okay. Ego, um, isn't an enemy. We all have an ego and our ego's primary goal is survival. It's to make the decisions that it knows is going to keep us alive. So the problem isn't in having an ego because we do all need an ego. Our ego is what keeps us from stepping in front of a bus. Like it is important to have a survival mechanism. However, the issue is when we allow, allow our ego to make every single decision and choice for us where our ego might actually choose. And this is kind of what I was getting at with these protective patterns with this person. It's like for them, if they have learned that like being alone or like never really letting anyone in is the only way to feel safe, then their ego is going to make decisions that keep them from fully letting people in because they don't believe that they're ever going to be safe that they do truly open up. And I think because of that, you, because I feel like you're caught here between like your intuition and how like this person shows up, because I feel like intuitively there's a part of you that knows that this person does really care about you. Like that's what I'm kind of getting with this redacted card. It's like, you do know that this person has feelings for you. I feel like you can pick up on that intuitively. It's just, I feel like it's very complicated because the way that they behave or like some of the things that they do, it almost feels like they don't. Um, and I think that like, I'm not saying it feels to me like they don't, I'm saying it feels to you based on how they show up that they don't care about you. But I do feel like they do care about you. There's just some things that are in the way. So I do feel like, um, there's a lot to break down here because I think that there's a lot that exists. Maybe that you're needing to like a lot that exists below the surface. That spirit is trying to draw your attention to, to help you see things a little clearer here or to help you find, um, ways to move forward in this in a healthy way. Overall theme of this here for you, Sagittarius. I don't know if this is a separation or not right now, but I do definitely feel like this breakups and makeups card just represents like, kind of like this cycle maybe of conflict or, um, of never fully like developing into what you know this could be. Okay. Overall theme of this. Oh, okay. Okay. Unlocked potentials. And then you have inevitable. So the inevitable repetition that keeps happening, you both see the potential in this. Um, interesting. Okay. I need to reach out with, I was disillusioned. It's like, and this is what I'm gathering. It's like, I feel like you've been burned a lot by this connection. And I think there are things that this person has done that have really hurt you. But I feel like, I feel like you still feel so drawn to the connection. And I feel like that's kind of like that conflicted energy that I was picking up on where it's like, even if you don't want to care, even if you wish you could just, you know, move forward, put it behind you. Like, I feel like that's something that you really struggle to do because of that, um, you know, that potential that you, you do see here. So still feeling really drawn toward this. Um, let's just, let's break this down piece by piece. All right. Breakups and makeups with detachment, the Sagittarius side of the connection to the person they are dealing with the aid of swords. And there it is. It's like feeling kind of trapped, feeling stuck. Um, I think because you see that potential, it's so hard for you to like, let go of it. And it's like, even if you want to, I feel like you're struggling with that. The world, there's the cycle that keeps repeating. Um, which we already kind of saw. Let's dive into this deeper here. Okay. Ace of cups in reverse, seven of wands in reverse. Oh, that's kind of unlike you. Sagittarius eight of cups, 10 of swords, the hang man. Okay. Um, this is kind of unlike you. And what I mean by this is I feel like this person carries, um, this energy that like, it affects you so greatly that it's almost like it's, I feel like it's hard for you to set the boundaries you typically would like, almost like they're a weakness for you. Not that you are a weak person or that like they make you weak. That's not what I'm saying, but I do feel like you have a soft spot for this person and for this connection. So again, I feel like you maybe allow certain things that you wouldn't, or like allow more chances than you typically would because it's them. And because you do see that potential here, um, ace of cups in reverse, I think that there's this part of you that has, this is just so complicated for so many reasons, because I think that there's so much promise that you see, right? I keep talking about the potential that it's almost like you're, you're kind of pushing down how you feel or pushing away kind of like past experiences or past pain or things that this person has done and said, like, like trying to say like, let's just move forward. Like, let's just try to make this work moving forward or whatever. But like, I feel like that hurt is still really there. I mean, I don't necessarily know what happened with this 10 of swords, um, betrayal, abandonment, just like a lot of hurt is still here, but I feel like you still kind of see this as something that you really want, but it's like you want it in a way that aligns with what you deserve. And I think that you do see kind of like potential in this person that kind of keeps you holding on in a way. But again, I feel like it's very unlike you. So for you, it's like, if I feel this way and I feel as strongly and like, I care about this person as much, like this is, you know, I'm going to go above and beyond, or like, I'm going to, you know, be willing to do what it takes to make it work. I just, I in general feel like there's a lot here that, um, like I said, is kind of like very unlike you specifically the seven of wands in reverse, because I feel like the way that this person has shown up in this connection, it has you doubting yourself, like doubting maybe your worth or what you're deserving of or what you're capable of having. And I feel like a big part of that is because this person has been so like inconsistent, like that's kind of what I'm gathering. Like their, their behavior is very inconsistent, like their, you know, maybe their words versus their actions are very inconsistent. So there's this part of you that's like, you know, I, I see moments with this person when it feels like things are good, but then when things are not so good, I feel very, um, you know, I don't feel good. Like I, I want things to be better. And I think that you're wanting that consistency, but it's like, you keep getting, you keep getting hurt here. So I don't know. Let's look at this person's energy toward you. Codependency with triggered. And like I said, like intuitively, I feel like you really can tell that this person cares about you. And I think that's what also makes it so complicated for you is like intuitively, like I feel like you're right about their feelings for you, but there's something else. Okay. This person's energy toward you. Cause remember how somebody feels about you and their capacity to show up for those feelings are two very different things. Somebody can care about you all day long, can feel for you all day long. But if they're not, you know, if they don't have the capacity to show up for it, then like their feelings don't even matter. It doesn't matter if somebody, in fact, somebody having feelings for you is so bare minimum, like you deserve, you know, people who are, who, who show up for you in the way that you do deserve here. Um, okay. 10 of wands. Interesting that this, uh, world came out as a second card for both of you here. Oh, and the eight of swords. Okay. We're mirrored. Cause look at that. You had the eight of swords here. They have it here. You have the world here. Yeah. Six of wands, six of cups in reverse. Oh, four of pentacles in reverse. Interesting. Okay. Three of swords. Okay. Mirrored connections are probably some of the most, um, complicated connections that exist because although all people on this earth mirror us to some capacity, some people mirror kind of, they mirror us in more ways than others and in deeper ways where it's almost like the way that they behave triggers wounds and beliefs and feelings of unlovable Ness and unworthiness and undeservingness to the extent where it's, it's so intense and, and, you know, you do the same for them. And I think that in this connection, it's really, you know, interesting. Cause I see this six of wands and the six of cups in reverse. And like, this is what I was like, you know, this person wants success in this connection. They do, they want to experience, um, that potential that you both see yet six of cups in reverse, they keep repeating a pattern from, um, their, their past here. It's like, they keep like making decisions that don't like serve their actual desires. And I think this goes back to what I was saying about this person having the caring a lot from their past. Cause with the 10 of wands here, I do feel like this person's been through a lot, especially maybe in relationships, like not even necessarily romantic relationships, but just in general, I feel like they've been through a lot in their relationships. And I feel like they've really learned that they can't trust, um, other people in a way, like, it's almost like, even if you have, you know, the purest intentions or all you want to do is like, you know, love them and be with them or whatever. It's like, they don't know how to believe that. Or like, yeah, I think, I feel like they don't know how to believe it because they've been through so many experiences that have shown them otherwise, or maybe like they've had people say, you know, Oh, I want to be with you. And I care about you and I love you, but then act a certain way. So it's like, they're in this place of, um, really feeling like they have to protect themselves, even though they want to open their heart, even though they want to deepen this connection. And I think that that's what I was kind of getting at with this triggered and codependency card here is like, and that's what, why mirrored connections are so complicated is like you trigger each other without even trying to, like, it's just naturally like the way that the energies interact, the way the dynamics that are carried, the patterns that exist, like those are going to trigger the other person's like, no matter what side you're on wounds, fears, insecurities, beliefs around unlovable, whatever it is. And the thing is, is all relationships do that. Okay. All relationships are going to trigger those things. But if we don't have the awareness of our, of our triggers of our beliefs and therefore aren't in control of the way that we respond, when those things are triggered, then what's going to happen is we're going to respond from a place of our wound. And if we're responding from a place of our wound where we might actually do things that either rewound us or that block us from being able, cause I said this at the beginning, it was like, this person is protecting themselves so hard that they're, they're like, yes, they're protecting themselves from getting hurt, but they're also protecting themselves from being loved. It's like, they're so closed off. And so, um, kind of trapped in like this fear of getting hurt that like, they're not even allowing anybody in who does have good intentions or who really is here to, you know, to love them well, or to be with them in a genuine capacity. And I think that this is where we have to understand that, you know, people serve certain purposes in our life and those purposes, um, are going to be dependent on what it is that they're bringing forth in us. A lot of times we like to focus on, you know, how other people need to heal, grow, evolve, be different, show up different or whatever. But other people are always showing us what we're needing to see within ourself. And especially when we're choosing people who are inconsistent or emotionally unavailable or aren't showing up in the way that we deserve, like there is a part of us that is choosing less than what we deserve, um, in those situations without realizing that we're doing it. And there's a reason for that. We, we accept the love that we deserve. Sorry, I have a dog hair in my eye. Okay. Got it. We accept the love that we think that we deserve and the relationships that we have in our life show us the level of love that we do think that we deserve. And certain people come in our life not to show us what we can't have in love, but to actually show us the wounds that we're needing to heal, to help us move closer to the love that we deserve and desire. And I think that like with this person, you know, I actually have a lot of like empathy for people who struggle in this way because, um, you know, I certainly used to, and I've talked about this on this channel before, so they shouldn't, you know, if you've watched my readings, you've heard me talk about this. Um, I used to be very unhealthy in my relationships, like especially in my early twenties, like I was, I was very, I was very selfish. I was very, I was so scared of getting hurt that I made really, really hurtful choices in the name of like protecting myself, but it ultimately ended up hurting me and hurting other people. And I don't, you know, I don't have justification for this other than, and this isn't necessarily a justification, more of a reason. Um, I was hurting very deeply. I had been hurt a lot in my childhood and then throughout my life. And like, I learned that, um, like learned quote unquote, that I couldn't trust people. And I used to have this thing that was like, people are guilty until proven innocent. Like I always expected people to hurt me and to not have my best interest in mind. And I ruined a lot of relationships because I carried this belief and I pushed a lot of really good people away because I didn't know how to allow myself to be loved. And I had a lot of work to do on myself. Um, you know, when I met my husband specifically, like that brought up a lot of those wounds and luckily I had done a lot of work and I had a lot of awareness to this point where I was like getting clear on, you know, how I push other people away so that I didn't do that. But that took a lot of conscious effort and intention. And honestly, a lot of not so fun shadow work where I had to really address the ways that I showed up that actually went against the very thing that I desire. And I think that when it comes to dealing with people who push away love or who are avoidant or emotionally unavailable or whatever, there's always this empathy for them because it's like, you can understand they're just trying not to be hurt. Right. Um, but you know, that doesn't mean that you were put on this earth to tolerate anything less than what it is that you deserve. And anytime we're dealing with people who are stuck in their own cycle, we're typically stuck in our own as well. And so that's where the mirror really comes into place. Because if we choose love that aligns with what we think we deserve and what we think we deserve is a lot less than what we actually deserve. We're never really truly going to have what it is that we, um, that we do deserve. So I feel like spirit is trying to help you understand this in a deeper pattern. Cause I think like you're getting really caught up on like, well, I know they care about me. Like I feel it, you know, intuitively. And I, again, I going back to what I said, like your intuition is right. And they maybe have even told you, I care about you. I love you. I want this to work. Like you're right about that. But the thing is the decisions that we make, can't we be made, can't be made based on how other people feel. It has to, they have to be made based on how, what other people show us they're capable of. And also understanding that how people show up doesn't have anything to do with us. It has everything to do with them and where they're at in their own journey. And we have to make the decisions that serve us to lead us to the love that we do actually deserve. And so I feel like spirit is, is trying to draw your attention to something a little bit bigger about this. Um, yes, I feel like this person has feelings for you. Yes. I feel like they really care. Yes. I feel like, um, you know, they want this to work, but I also feel like there's the question of like, are they genuinely doing the work to make that happen? And maybe they are, but you have to get honest with yourself about whether or not, um, you know, you're in a position where you're, you know, you're aligned with what you deserve. So we're going to dive into this deeper. You have ego with redacted. We're going to look at the deeper purpose of the connection and the best way for you to move forward in alignment with your higher self. So I'm going to pull 12 more tarot messages, looking at that deeper purpose. And then I'll close that reading out with an advice card from your spiritual team at the very end with my postcards from spirit deck. I lied to you. This is actually my soul truth deck. I don't know why I said that. Maybe I'll pull it out and pull a card from there if I'm feeling it. Okay. Anyways, thank you so much. Um, as always, well, any information for that is in the description box below, but thank you so much as always for your support of me as a reader. I do obviously hope that this reading helped and resonated with you in a way that you were needing today. And as always, I wish you nothing but love and healing and all of the wonderful things that you deserve and desire on your journey moving forward by Sagittarius.