Women Are Worried Men Will Have To Much Fun Enjoying Being Single This Summer 2026

The type of lifestyle that she's used to so they get mad at you for being Independent and having things together to the point where they can't keep up with you But they will also get mad at you if you depend on them and you don't have the same amount of money as them It's because a lot of you ladies are either Extreme a lot of men don't even care how much you make or if you have less money than him The whole point is that you're not using him and you are using your resources to to better the relationship That you're not just being greedy, you know saying oh I should be able to keep all of my money and you pay for everything That's just not fair. And I feel like for the women that do make a lot of money and they make a lot more than The man they're constantly holding it against him. They're constantly bringing it up in every conversation They use it as a way of emasculating him and putting him down There doesn't seem to be a whole lot of middle ground with some of you women Why would a man be bothered by you making more money than him? You are bringing more into the relationship and you're not holding it against him and you're being super sweet and kind and you're doing everything That you can for the both of you. No, man would reasonably get upset by that It's the trying to compete with him Which disturbs his peace the constant nagging and getting upset over everything because you bring more money into the relationship Well, he forgot to do something around the house and you're really upset You're freaking out if you're not of either extreme a man does not care when she spends 1,500 a month while earning 1,000 a month and expects you to pay the rest if You're spending significantly more than you earn and expecting someone else to cover the gap That's not partnership a healthy relationship starts with personal responsibility Not handing someone else the bill for your lifestyle No, and we're finally going to realize that men are no longer afraid to be single I mean, yes They want you but they don't need you because they would rather step back build themselves up and then decide if a woman is worth That and that man is dangerous because he will see right through your pretty face your manicured nails and yes men are happy Being single they are they're definitely enjoying it more Than they used to before and I cuz I I see it, you know, I am it's gotten harder To date, you know lately men are very like Satisfied in their lives without women They are they're like, you know working a lot either working a lot or if they're not working then You know, they will hang out with their friends with their family with their kids. Well with their kids, it's a given but Yeah, they um They're happy being if they're not married they're happy being No bachelors and having their own space and not having to like commit to anyone so yeah, I This wasn't the case before but this is what it is now Men can't go out and have fun without women women can very happily Go to a club or go on holiday have a great time with their girls get their own table Section by themselves go on holiday girls trip by themselves. Have a great time men If it's not somebody that they see in the club that they're interested in or they don't have an ulterior motive with that person It's not a good time. Like their motives for doing these trips and going to clubs is because they're looking they're predatory They're looking for something It's better to be alone than anchored to misery and disappointment Being single isn't a failure if the alternative is constant conflict disrespect or unhappiness peace of mind is worth protecting and Sometimes walking away is the healthiest decision. Either person can make I want to go home. Okay, I want a beer I want an ice cream sandwich. I want to take a nap Breaking news I am now accepting applications for a man because what do you mean? It's 10 p.m. At night and I'm outside trying to put air in my tires What are we talking about right now? What is what is this? I the machine shut off on me and I can't turn it back on. I don't know how to get it started again I lost a little like little cat for my tires The air is just coming out of my tires and at this point I'm just gonna buy all brand new tires because this is this absurd I'm I want to do this anymore. So I'm gonna get back in my car and I'm gonna just pretend that everything's gonna be okay because I don't want to do this. I want to be a little lady Translation Now that I need something done that I don't want to do. I want a man not because I value his companionship or want to be his partner, but because I want someone to serve me a Relationship shouldn't be built around unrealistic expectations if both people aren't willing to contribute Communicate and compromise. It's unlikely to last Regardless of how strong the initial attraction is Okay, just one more thing and I'm getting off this app because I'm almost out of coffee and my brain is slowing down But ladies it is okay to hang up our miss independent titles Everybody knows women can do everything We're just not meant to do everything Let these men come in be protectors be providers and make our lives easier You have nothing to gain by trying to prove your independence You're truly just trying to prove it to yourself and that's okay But you don't have to hang it up be in your receiving energy. It is time to live a soft life You deserve it. You deserve it Well, you all went there and wanted to prove to everyone that you can do everything and then be little men for doing the same things that's what women want to feed their ego and Disrespect the male gender. I don't want to be a strong independent woman. I'll bar. I'm tired It's grandpa y'all women on our horse internet. Come on. I don't need a man for nothing girl. You ain't that rose I don't care. I'm ready for somebody to take care of me and I don't mean financially getting your Rubbed watching a movie after a long day top tier. I don't need a man financially But I want a man physically spiritually mentally I want somebody to take fire photos with and I can put on my phone and can never show nobody That's what I want. I want a partner I want to travel the world with somebody roast my kids with bill legacy meal prep every once in a while I hate meal prepping on time. Yes. I want to wake my kids up at 5 a.m Nerf guns and I want a man to be hiding behind a closet So when they think they safe he do a front flip out of it and them in the back of the legs I need that you got me bad because I got you Yes, girl, you mean financially because all of that doesn't exist on its own Healthy relationships aren't competitions over who can do everything alone respect works both ways and constantly trying to prove superiority Usually creates distance instead of partnership Black women are tired They're tired of being independent. They tired of being looked at as the strongest They're tired of having to take care of the kids by themselves They're tired of bearing all the weight don't believe the hype that you see on all of these social media networks Black women are tired And the reason why I noticed because I talk and have conversations with a lot of black women What a black woman really want she want to be able to go to the soccer games She want to not have to be the sole leader and sole provider of her family She want to support the man who God gave her to be with she want to be a help me The thing is she's been placed in this position where she's had to leave She's had to step up to the plate and become something that she really didn't want to be in the first place She want to support her man She want to nurture her kids she want to nurture her husband while pursuing things that she's passionate about That's it. It's that simple The thing is she just can't find a suitable leader that she trust to come in and relieve her of these Responsibilities so that she can finally get some rest because that's what she wants rest Don't all of them want the freeloader lifestyle Many of the comforts these women want require a lot of financial stability to maintain Whether it's a home lifestyle or long-term security Those things don't appear by themselves They take planning effort and resources Listen any girl that tells you like I want to work all the time. Oh, you know, I want to take care of myself I want to protect myself, you know, it's like, you know, that's like a survival tactic Because you feel unafraid in this world Right, so it's like every time I wake up for example I literally like hold myself and I'm like I'm safe today I'm saving my body right letting that feminine come in just for so long I was like ready to fight like try me say something to trigger my my fears, right? I'm gonna I'm gonna hurt you first and that's how I approach a lot of my relationships I was already waiting for that shoot to drop, you know, and I feel like that was like my masculine trying to protect me, right? So Back to your question. I feel like a lot of girls Have been hurt so much by their father either brother Relationship, you know like it starts it's like that male a male figure wasn't safe So they naturally have to be their own male figure to protect themselves So it's like it, you know, it's it's a distortion right because At the end of the day we are feminine since the feminist movement, right women have reported higher and higher rates of unhappiness So as women have become more and more free there's the typical data. So this is well Women have reported higher and higher rates of not being happy as women have made more money Become more independent become more successful climb the corporate ladder have more education. They're reporting higher rates of unhappiness Why well, it's because women don't derive the same pleasure from success that men do and there's statistical data to show that the unhappy the least happy demographic of Human being in the United States is a woman that makes a hundred thousand dollars a year and is over 40 years old That doesn't have children One for women is on antidepressant or anxiety medication so Tell me how you know Even though you might say women back then were oppressed They were happier the report of higher rates of being happy because women derive pleasure from from children and family The women are more social creatures, you know what I'm saying? So they don't derive the same pleasure from making money that men do they're told that lie But a lot of career women as soon as they have a kid **** that I want to go and deal with my child and also this this generation alone is more single women dying alone with cats and dogs any other generation before because once again Leaving prematurely because obviously treatment isn't well I get that part but now they're gonna be single but nobody versus back in the day like my grandparents 70 years together She might have been all the way happy But at the same time he took care of you know Traditional roles and she had her or her own roles as well, but they made it work versus here You know what? He's not the one I want. I'm gonna leave him Yeah, 80% 80% of divorces are initiated by women. But yeah, so tell me how you can say well women couldn't leave back then Why are they reporting higher rates of happiness back then? Versus now is women have become more single and more independent ever before women have more freedom now than ever before Yes, I think that before that they thought that that the way that they were being treated was okay now women are not okay And that's why we're leaving That's why we're so unhappy is because we're constantly being then explain to me Why the why that why the satisfaction rates are lower now when they have more privilege and freedom than ever before Because it's the realization that you're being disrespected and before they didn't have that realization They didn't know they're being disrespected. Oh, we're in a thing like They knew but they understood the family was more part than their personal needs The fact that they ended up alone and unable to make rational decisions about their future Makes them unhappy and they have been told and now look at their faces Right for all the ladies. Can we just discuss hyper independence, please? I don't even know where to start with this all I know is that It's sitting there and I need to get it out And if I need to get it out other people probably can relate to this as well So from such a young age, I have always been really hyper independent fiercely dependent on self and I Never ask anybody to do anything for me, even when people try to do things from for me I'm like, no no, no, because I don't want to put people out and I don't want to be a burden I know this is a pure contradiction for what I'm about to say, right? and I guess to an extent I have had a very much a Feministic mindset like if you can do that, I can do that as well like it doesn't matter if you're a female or a male, I just feel like I Believe I can do anything I want in life and nobody will stop me. So yeah, you could see that I'm actually quite feministic. I just want to make it clear that see girls that are like this. It's not a choice We don't wake up one morning and decide. Oh, I want to be so independent. It's forced on us It's forced on us and I am tired I'm tired of it like I could probably be like this for the next 40 years if I'm alive that long And it's fine because you just do what you need to do you just when you're in survival mode You just need to get ---- done. And if there's nobody there to do it for you Like you just need to do it. However, I'm still allowed to say that I don't want to be like this obviously, I've been doing my renovation for a Couple of weeks now and I'm just such a dafty that I decided to take on a full renovation Aye, it's just it's been carnage. I've ran out of money twice I've literally just you just spent like my last 200 pound on bloody skirting and coven and I'm just like what is this life? What is this life? It's not for me. I Think something is really that I've totally moaned about in this last 11 months or whatever is How people always say or you seen someone you talk to someone and blah blah blah Would you like to meet someone and I'm always like, you know what? No, I don't need a man. That's always my response I don't need a man, but can we just normalize and can we just normalize? Maybe not need no man, but actually wanting someone like wanting someone to come into your life and just make everything a wee bit easier and allowing you to kind of Become the female and become like the soft the soft girl That you're destined to be because that's okay Like nobody needs someone but it's okay to want someone. I mean, I'm seeing this actually however, what's ironic is the fact that The relationship that I was in for 11 years never enabled me to be the soft girl It never it never made my life easier. If anything, it was always just a current struggle. It was just always a struggle So maybe I'm after something that doesn't actually exist, is there a man out there who who is able to make your life easier and enable you to Be a little softie Anyway, so basically my point is I think going forward if anybody ever offers to help me with anything I'm just gonna be like I know it's uncomfortable, but it's only gonna be uncomfortable for the first so many times If someone wants to offer me help with anything, I mean anything in life in any area I'm just going to be like, you know what? Yeah, I'm gonna try this and see what it's like to to get help with something like Please does anybody else relate to this because I am just so I'm so tired I'm so tired and also this isn't like a tik-tok Of me being a princess saying that I want someone to come into my life and just do absolutely everything for me And that would be very unnatural for me to allow anyway I am just simply saying that I am tired of feeling in survival mode for so long I'm tired and This is actually just something that all the kind of independent girlies out there must feel because in order to be Fiercely independent you must be in survival mode and it's not all it's cracking out to be. Let me tell you Feminist ideologies are extremely toxic a healthy relationship should be equal and empower both genders Reality is some aspects of a relationship are always gender dependent and women realizing it Just now is a loss for all of us and that's it for today on Sigma traits Make sure you hit that like button smash that subscribe button and don't forget to ring that notification bell Support this channel through membership. You can also support through PayPal link in the description Let us know your thoughts in the comments below. See you all tomorrow