The Less You Understand, the More You Feel

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Have you ever noticed that the less familiar a language is, the more likely you are to find it beautiful?
For example, like a song you don't understand a single word of, a film in a language you've never heard before.
Somehow it feels more, how to say, more emotional, right? Or more atmospheric.
Sometimes even more beautiful than something in your own language.
So actually, that got me thinking.
Is it possible that the less familiar a language is, the more beautiful the word becomes?
When you don't understand a language, your brain gets to listen to it purely.
I mean, the rhythm, the breath, the way emotion moves through sound without being interrupted by meaning.
There's actually a whole field of research on this called phonesthetics.
The aesthetics of language sound.
It's real. Things like speech, tempo, and pitch generally shape how beautiful a language feels to us.
So that's why so many people feel the Japanese dub of Spirited Away more deeply than the English one.
It's not that the English voice actors did a bad job.
It's just like in Japanese, our ears are hearing an uninterrupted emotional current.
One that hasn't been filtered through comprehension or meaning.
Actually, two weeks ago, I watched a great movie, a Teachu language film called Dear You.
And it went viral, right?
A lot of people crying the hardest didn't even speak Teachu, including me.
That is because they were responding to the sound of it before they were responding to the story.
That's the same thing.
There's a concept in psychology called psychological distance.
The basic idea is like when something feels far from your immediate self, far in time, in space, or in a language,
you process it more abstractly.
You stop getting caught in details and automatically reach for the bigger picture.
There are researchers backing this up.
Encountering art through a foreign language creates a natural psychological distance.
And that distance makes you more likely to grasp the world's overall emotional core
rather than getting lost in the specifics.
Here's what that looks like in practice.
When Reply 1988 aired in Korea, Korean viewers picked up on hyper-specific things
like dialect jokes, class markers, regional identity, incredibly local.
International viewers, on contrary, reading subtitles, could only catch the big things.
Friendship, youth, loss, a time that's already gone.
And a lot of them cried harder, not because they're more emotional,
but because the language distance filtered out the local noise and left only the universal signal.
That's the same thing for different movies and TV dramas in different languages.
This is also why so many of us are drawn to watching things in the original language
with subtitles rather than dubbed.
The voice is the character.
The brisk, the hesitation, the specific texture of a performance is built for the language.
Swept out when something about the person is gone, right?
Watching with subtitles, your ears process emotion while your eyes process meaning.
Two tracks woven together.
Dubbing collapses that into one and it flattens.
So, does distance actually make art more beautiful?
I think the answer is yes.
Not because only the unfamiliarity has some magic to it,
but also because the distance frees us from the illusion of full understanding.
It pushes us out of information processing mode and into feeling mode.
I think that's why I cried so hard on the movie Dear You.
When you understand everything, your brain is busy.
You will understand just enough.
Your brain relaxes into the experience,
which might be why a song in a language you don't speak can sometimes reach you more deeply than something you're on.
Has that ever happened to you?
Tell me in the comments.
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