TED演講：如何正確地“調情”，而不讓人覺得油膩和反感？

The speaker redefines flirting not as a game of manipulation, but as a \"superpower\" used to make others feel seen, special, and acknowledged. By shifting from superficial small talk to genuine curiosity and presence, anyone—including introverts—can use flirting to build new romantic connections or reignite the spark in existing relationships.