Sep 23, 2026
My LIVE streams are always a mix — people ask about my books, my movie Fortuitous, my makeup, outfits, and of course about Mama. But this time, someone commented that they “only wanted to see Mama and Dementia.” And yes… I snapped. 😅
Some people ONLY want to see the struggle. They don't want to see the wins!!! NOT ON MY WATCH. IT IS TOO EASY TO SCROLL.
I’m human. I’m a caregiver, but I’m also a filmmaker, author, and woman with her own journey. This channel is about Mama and me — our story, our lives, and the purpose God placed on my steps.
This is a reminder that dementia caregiving is layered. It’s not just about one person, but about the whole family dynamic, the sacrifices, and the balance of still honoring who we are as individuals.
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Robin Ratliff if you just here to see mama get the **** off because that's not
always what you're gonna see this page is called divas and dementia I'm not
your flunky I'm here I'm a human I'm a person if you only want to see her wait
until videos because she can't hold the conversation she can't talk she cannot
hold the conversation with anybody so if that's all you want bye don't come on
here respect so bye exit stage left my two-year-old nephew knows how to scroll
and move around so move around that's all you gotta do so what was I saying
y'all had asked me something oh y'all asked me what I was wearing to the
premiere somebody asked me that today on Facebook and I said I don't know what
I'm wearing yet but I will be overdressed let's be crystal clear that
I will be overdressed and know that oh mama just came back and said that you
tired of waiting for me she sat down okay come sit over here then come sit
over here so they can see you on here with me yeah because people get on my
nerves like this this page is not called diva with dementia this is called divas
and dementia people always want to know how I navigate it how I balance life how
I still chase my dreams how I pursue this is this is my life I'm the
motherfucking I'm the director the producer the ******* cameraman the
editor I'm all the things mom can't respectfully she can't do
nothing okay I have to do it all and whoever don't like it can move around
cuz this is hard work for me okay this is not easy none of it is easy okay
physically and mentally emotionally this is taxing on me so all day 24 7 I ain't
talking about no motherfucking dementia okay I need a break from dementia so if
I want to talk about my movie or my damn books we gonna talk about it if I want
to talk about my outfit we gonna talk about it okay and anybody that don't
like it can exit stage left not one time but to kiss my whole ass not one cheek
but two okay people not gonna come and disturb my peace okay cuz they don't
know I'm Norma's daughter okay y'all think I'm out smart I keep it cute on
here cuz I don't be wanting to embarrass my son now mama ain't give a damn about
embarrassing me though but I care about embarrassing my kid so baby they don't
know everybody be like oh Norma or Leo Norma or Leo uh-huh Crystal or Leo too
okay I'm a Leo too okay anyway my come over here come here pumpkin mom say
she's sick and tired of waiting on me okay all right you can wait on me just a
couple more minutes I'm just clearing up things with my family on here okay
there's our family Jay Poo said don't play with us Leo's okay a Leo and for
Baltimore they don't want this
