When A Real One Ends a Narcissist Game.

Hey Thriver, friendly reminder. The narcissist lost you. You're a real one but they lose real ones because they're afraid of real ones. You're an amazing person. Being real really just means that you cherish and honor genuine connections. You didn't just fall in love because you're an idiot. You didn't just get married because you were bored. You didn't just lay down and decide to start a family with this person because you had no other plans or that no one else wanted you because the honest truth is you're very lovable. I mean if you were taking applications for a husband or a wife you would be highly sought after. There would be a line wrapping around a whole block. So let's not get it twisted. This is why you end up winning. You're the game crusher here. You're the game ender here. You come and you put a stop to the narcissist and their narky nonsense. If you're new here special hello to you. Welcome everybody. This is your girl Mommy So True. So happy that you're here joining me on another video. If you're new please take a moment subscribe, like the video. You're all welcome to smash that like button and leave a comment. Share your thoughts and tell me what's on your mind as I talk to you today because I want to share with you what happens when a real one ends the narcissist game because that's exactly what happens. The narcissist was so intrigued with who you were. Your light was so triggering. It triggered a fantasy. They thought that they could pull you into their web forever because they pulled you in. It was very unavoidable because of how deceitful this person is. You're talking about a professional liar, a master manipulator, a snake like the like the serpent that appeared in the Garden of Eden. They will attempt to destroy you, ruin your life, block your blessings, curse you, and put you down or lead you down I should say a path of darkness because that's where they are. And you become entangled with this person who becomes obsessed with pulling you down to their level. You've always been above the narcissist. You were always way too good for the narcissist because the narcissist did not come in like you were a real one. You tried to warn them you've had bad relationships or you tried to warn them because you were ready to be a part of their life or ready to bring them into your life and they took it for granted. They viewed your love as a weakness and they tossed you around, threw you back and forth, got you caught up in this crazy experience that felt like hell. You went from being in love to feeling completely just unloved by this person and that is the the most devilish experience if I could describe it any other way. I don't know how I would and maybe you can in the comments. And if you're born in this, if this happens to be a parent or a family, you go through a lifetime of these type of devilish experiences where you're silenced, you become a professional eggshell walker, you become quiet, you become detached, you become highly sensitive. Many of you are empathetic people because you grew up around this. Thank God you're not the one who turned out to be a narcissist. Thank God for his hand upon some of our lives. We identify ourselves as chosen because of that because if it had not been, it had not been for God, a lot of us would not be here. We'd be destroyed and caught up in that same dark net that the narcissist has been caught because the devil's out here fishing for people, fishing for children, destroying marriages. This thing is not personal, it's spiritual. The narcissist is spiritually under some serious attack, y'all. Whenever there's a attack of the mind because they want us to believe this is a disorder, right? So this is a mental problem, right? So when there's attacking of the mind, immediately we should all see that, whoa, Satan's involved, the devil's involved, that's his playground. We all battle our minds because our thoughts become a manifestation of our life. This is why things get really real when a real one ends the narcissist game because you wake up, the pain is so deep that you're forced to wake up and choose you. And when you do that, you change your mind, you're no longer consumed in the poison, you start to see the poison, you identify the poison, which means you start to recognize the manipulation tactics, they no longer work anymore. The more the narcissist increases their narci, their narcissism increases and your wisdom goes up as well. Your intuition climbs, your discernment grows. This is what happens when you end the narcissist game. All you had to do was be yourself and yourself is a real one. You cherish genuine connections. So you were real, you were upfront, you were sacrificial, you were selfless, you were ready, you were determined, you were passionate. And because the pain was so deep, you learned how to recognize the manipulation, game ender, game killer, game crusher. You started to set boundaries. You realize this person's lying. Everything they say is damn near a lie. I can't trust them. So now I'm going to set boundaries. I'm no longer going to allow myself to be pulled in like some doormat. I'm not going to allow myself to be used like a puppet. So I'm going to step up. I'm going to establish and maintain healthy boundaries, which includes, I'm going to learn how to not be so reactive to the nonsense because that's what they want. They thrive off of me bouncing off the walls because of their, their chaotic demons. So what I'm going to do is I'm going to set boundaries. I'm going to pull myself aside. I'm going to detach. I'm going to stop being reactive. I'm going to stop letting my emotions get to the best of me. Game ender, game crusher, game killer. Even better, I am going to prioritize my self-care because the pain was so deep. I had to wake up and choose me. That means I had to wake up and really go to God and say, God, I gave it all to you. I surrender it all to you. You're going to get the glory out of this. And I trust in you to help me get to where I need to be. I see that you want good for me. And this isn't good for me. You want better for me. You want the best for me. And this isn't that this person doesn't want that for me. This person doesn't care. This person has wasted my time and played with my life. So now as a real one, you wisen up. The more awakened you become, the smarter you become. You start to move with wisdom, which means you start to learn the power in gaining independence. This person tried to weaken you so you could be needy like them. But in a way where you're stuck, they'll formulate a trap for you by keeping you codependent on them. Whether it's financial, whether it's a place to live, whatever it is, they will find a way to isolate you from freedom. A real one ends the game when they embrace their freedom. When they're willing to cut that narcissist off, willing to walk away. I don't care if you are my parent. You're a narcissist. You're not good for me. You're unhealthy for me. And I must pull myself away. I must move away. I must disconnect. I must block you. I must, for my sanity, for my peace, I must serve in ties, respectfully cutting them off, peacefully walking away, painfully walking away. A real one will do whatever you have to do because that's the game ender. They pulled you in game and you're not a game. You're not a gamer. You're not a game player. You're real. You're realistic. You're loving. And this person wants to play you as if you're the one living in some fantasy because you want to be loved properly. You're crazy because you want respect and you want to be admired and validated in healthy ways. You want to be cared for. You want to see some empathy. So the fact that you wisen up, gain some strength, get some knowledge, you're no longer engaging in their game. They will lash out at you. Now you're a problem, right? Now your character's being assassinated. Now they're aiming to have your children alienated from you. And this is the most crucial part of ending that game is that no contact. The narcissist had so much contact with you at some point that you, you almost forgot who you were. You became completely unrecognizable. You almost fell out of character and stayed, stayed stuck in toxicity. You almost normalized what was happening because you couldn't seem to let go. But once you did, once you got to that no contact phase where they couldn't access you, reach you, access was denied. The game ended. This is when you escaped. Although painful and challenging, this is when you escaped. They could no longer hear from you, find out what you're doing, get caught up on your plans so that they can pre-plan how to end your plans. They no longer could access your birthdays and holidays to ruin them for you and add, add to more tragic memories. The game has ended. This person no longer has access to manipulate your world, your life, play with your mind, torture you. You now have the space to protect your mental. Oh yeah. This is what happens when a narcissist tries to play you and gets played. A real one ends the game. They were always scared and then they ended out, they ended up finding out why because it became realistic through all the lies, the deception. The realest thing the narcissist had was you. Threw it all. You're always real. You reacted the way you've reacted because you were real. They were really crushing your heart with their words, their actions, the things you were catching onto. Once you realized this person bamboozled you into a marriage, fooled you into a relationship, has been lying to you and financially abusing you as a parent, whatever it was, you caught onto it, you figured them out and you end up ending their game and you're probably going to be an enemy for life because of that. But fear not my friend, congratulations. You're a winner. Thank you so much for watching and listening. Stay blessed and stay true. Until next time beautiful people, bye.