Empath vs. Narcissist: The Ultimate Showdown!

What's up, guys? TGIF. What's up, guys? I hope y'all enjoying this Friday like I am. Bear with me, guys. The braids a little tight. Show. What's up, beautiful people? How y'all doing today? Welcome, everybody. Welcome, everybody. Chosen by God. What's up? Hello, Chosen by God. Good evening. Elisa Williams. Hello, beautiful lady. Queen Leandra, how are you doing? so good to see you, the Sarn Target, so good to see you queen what's up Sylvia Alpha, what's up love, what's up my sister Corinne, how you doing? I hope you are doing well, i hope all y'all are doing good so good to come on here and see y'all ready to talk about it, ready to talk about it, oh man listen, we gonna have a conversation today, shout out to my empaths out there, i know y'all ready for it, empath versus the narcissist, the ultimate showdown man, let's go let's go because that's what is, that's what's happening that's what's going on now y'all welcome everybody, welcome everybody, thank you so much Corinne, i appreciate that, Stacey thank you i appreciate it guys, i appreciate the love, the compliments, the support y'all already know, y'all already know i'm so happy to see all of you who were able to make it into the live, anybody who's catching the replay, shout out to you for even watching it man, i'm just so appreciative and happy to be here and share another moment with y'all on this wonderful Friday, God, God bless us man for for thugging it through and thriving through another week, thrivers, like we we did it again, it's it's it's Friday again, we're still standing, we're still going, shout out to you all for just being the the amazing people that you are more specifically the empaths that you are the empaths that you are we gonna talk about it because man this your girl mommy so true and y'all know i'm coming with the real i'm coming with how i feel and it is what it is i think there's only two types of personalities on this earth it's either a narcissist or an empath flat out it's only it's only one or the other you either gonna you either gonna be a narcissist or you gonna be an empath what's in between that doesn't matter because both of those personalities are on a spectrum there's different types of empaths there's different types of narcissists we got extreme empaths we got extreme narcissists it goes from low to high to extreme or yeah it goes from low to very extreme very severe and so that's why i am saying that so shout out to all of you joining the conversation today. I'm ready to talk to you guys about the ultimate showdown between that empath and that narcissist. We're going to break it down a little bit. I'm going to share my perspective with you a little bit, praying that it encourages and it empowers you. If you are dealing with narcissistic abuse, trying to get out of this, want to walk out of this, proclaim your power. Man, you're in the right place. If you're new, welcome to you. I'm so happy you're here welcome to you join the family join the community hit the subscribe button you know hit the notification bell don't miss when i go live don't miss when i post my videos because this is the place you want to be if you're trying to heal post-narcissistic abuse even if you're dealing with them right now you're living with that parent you're married to that man you're still dating this person because maybe y'all live in the same house you're co-parenting whatever it is maybe you're raising a child that that is narcissistic i don't think the dynamic matters this could have been a parent it doesn't matter a sibling it doesn't matter co-workers bosses whatever at the end of the day we're living in a world full of empaths and narcissists we're living in a world full of empaths and narcissists and i know for sure that my community is filled with so many true empaths that's why we're thrivers now man you guys i'm so blessed to be here shout out to anyone that's new joining in you are so welcome to be here i'm so proud of you for taking yourself serious to be here on this healing journey oh my god i am so i'm just blessed man wherever you are shout out to you all over the world man from from new york to freaking maui from hawaii to zimbabwe i don't know why i keep talking about zimbabwe i don't know i want to go there so bad one day i just want to i can't wait to travel the world anybody out there just just can't wait to see all parts of the world that's me i have a longing for that but man we are here to talk today guys i'm so i'm thrilled i'm thrilled shout out to my moderators in the house um they're here to help you guys and also block you guys if you were if you're about that life if you're ready to get blocked they're gonna block you up out of here because this is a this is a no narking zone we don't condone negativity we don't condone bs we don't condone narcissists that are here to try to torture make fun of play games and bully we don't do that matter of fact many of us are empaths you don't want to bully a true empath especially not a super empath like me because the the way i'ma come back the way i'ma shut you down the way i might embarrass and humiliate you you may never come back from it so yes like queen leandria says right there positive vibes only if you're not here to thrive if you're not here healing if you're not a true survivor go ahead and excuse yourself now before i even get started because part of part of part of what i'm going to talk about is how strong empaths are how strong empaths are everybody think being an empath is is a weak thing or a bad thing no it's not absolutely not this is why many empaths are coming out as winners you're coming out on top after dealing with a narcissist you are a champion you see it you feel it your life is showing for it yeah empath versus the narcissist the ultimate showdown the ultimate showdown how many people can agree with just the title alone like oh the ultimate showdown oh intimate oh empath versus narcissist the ultimate showdown oh my god oh my god because ladies and gentlemen i want to just take this opportunity to address all of those who have survived the ruthless claws of narcissistic abuse because that's what you survived. You survived hell on earth. You were being clawed on every level by some evil narcissistic person that came for you, tried you, tested you, tried to break you, destroy you, rip you completely apart. So I really want to address those of you who fit that, who resonate with that because I know how deeply you've been scarred. I know how tirelessly you have fought to break free from the shackles of this narcissist I know and many of you watching in this chat many of you listening back home wherever you are you know you know you know you know you know because you are walking testimony of of someone who has escaped such a manipulative toxic relationship manipulationship relationships situationship whatever and however you want to put it you survived it you did it you see the battle between an empath and a narcissist is to me is is it reminds me of the scene of like from a gladiator movie or like some type of a war movie a movie where you have good and evil and what's interesting about this dynamic is both of these personalities are highly skilled y'all know this is mommy so true so i'm gonna come with the truth we're gonna we're going to talk about it however it hurts however it feels we're just going to spit out the truth both of these personalities have their own skills but their intentions and the methods that's what that's what vastly is that's what's vastly different the intentions behind what they do the methods of how they do it that's what makes both of them different they are not alike they are not alike of course initially narcissists and empaths empaths and narcissists are very attracted to each other they both get pulled in to to the skills the empath sees the narcissist as some confident person the narcissist sees the empath as some compassionate loving and caring person and it's like oh match made in heaven just to find out one day no this is a match made in hell a match made in complete hell okay on one side we got an empath on one side we got a narcissist and we got that empath who who has a heart full of love and empathy compassion and care then you got this narcissist who represents what demons are how they operate how they talk you know what they do they are they are just thirsty for control thirsty for admiration thirsty for power that's the major difference between these two so we're going to talk a little bit about this dynamic in this perspective because i want to educate i want to inform i want to help somebody empower themselves to make today be the last day that you feel defeated by a narcissist whether they discarded you walked away they they've insulted you they've smeared your name you need to understand that you are truly the winner here and that that you need to get with the program and see and and see about how this showdown goes how how it really go when an empath wakes up to the manipulative tactics of a demonic narcissist the game changes because it's a game it's a game to the narc but it's not a game to the empath the empath doesn't know that until they wake up and realize that they're being played with that their life is not being taken serious so you need i need to put you on game i need to put you on game because when it comes to an empath and a narcissist yeah it goes down it get real dirty it get real crazy it get real real crazy man those of you who know you know shout out to everybody joining the chat i see y'all in here of course i'm gonna go through the comments right once i wrap this message up i definitely will for those of you who are not familiar with what an empath is i want you to fully understand what i'm about to say here an empath i don't care what type of empath what level of empath where you fall on a spectrum if you're an empath you're an empath you're a person of light you shine bright bright you are what i call the superheroes of human nature. The world needs you. You're the reason why good things happen. You're the reason why blessings are being bestowed on good people. We bring good karma. We manifest good things. It's not until we get entrapped in a narcissistic cobweb that it seems like maybe we're not being blessed or that life is a little negative or unhappy or sad. But truly who we are to our core we are walking beacons of light i'm gonna just put it that way empaths we are the ones who feel deeply and have the natural ability to understand and share feelings of others that means we care sometimes some of us we care too much we care so much that it gets us in these narcissistic relationships we are the target for narcissists because we are opposite of what they are empaths are natural caregivers did you hear me we're natural caregivers so naturally we thrive on helping people being there for people helping people elevate in life this is what we do that's why you were with that narc for so long you cared that much you're a caregiver you cared even when they were doing you wrong even when they dogged you out even when they were lying to you on you about you you were still showing that you cared especially before you knew that this was a narcissist you were fighting for your life you were fighting for their life too you were fighting for your marriage your relationship a lot of you have spent years fighting for these people because you had no idea what you were up against this is your nature to really care you're not doing it for show you're not doing it for likes you're not doing it for comments you're not doing it for money fame you don't need the validation and admiration all humans need that but you don't you don't need that to live you don't need that to survive but they did and you gave all of that you now know that this is called some type of supply everything you give as an empath a narcissist sees it as supply because a narcissist is an empty factory and they need you to fill it up and nobody does a good job like an empath nobody does a great job like an empath because by nature you thrive on helping people and a narcissist is needy they need all the help they can get whether they reject it take it or don't you know what you brought into that person's life you know before they met you they were not who they are now because when they met you they didn't they didn't hesitate to tell you how they never had nothing or how they were always mistreated or how their exes dogged them out how they've been cheated on how no one's ever taking them serious how nobody ever cared enough to do this that and a third but then here you came you made it easy you made it look easy you did it so well that it probably scared them off they weren't ready for that real love they weren't ready they never really are ready they never really are ready so that natural caregiving quality the fact that you thrive on helping other people you want to be there you want to support you want to give your last whatever it is that you do this is the same quality that makes you prey for that charming cunning narcissist it's the same qualities that makes you a target a target and before you know it you fall into their their their cycle of abuse the narcissist let's talk about the narcissist on the other hand briefly for those that may not know many of us do know but the narcissist is someone who is self-absorbed, lacks empathy. They know how to pretend to care. I'm going to throw that in there because a lot of times you guys are being told a narcissist doesn't care. Narcissist doesn't have empathy. Depending on the type of narcissist, there might be some type of empathy, but there's different types of empathy. Most narcissists will give cognitive empathy. That's the kind of empathy where you can just you know relate to people but there's no deep connection to how those things may affect somebody if that makes sense or narcissists can make comments talk about stuff this is why they can preach this is why they can even be content creators like myself claiming to be life coaches they can make it sound good they can make it look good but actions not there when it gets real they're gonna run they can't they can't show true empathy when it really matters because it doesn't live in there narcissists constantly seek validation and attention constantly and if you're an empath that will drain you it'll irritate you it'll piss you off it'll confuse you and it will drain the crap out of you those of you who know you know narcissists will do anything to maintain their image of perfection and will manipulate and exploit anybody to feed their ego this is just a gist of what a narcissist is so the interesting thing here y'all is what i this is what i want to talk about when when these two opposing forces collide it becomes an ultimate showdown when you and a narcissist get together when you and a narcissist get married when you and a narcissist live in the same home when you get raised by a narcissist when you are raising a narcissist when you're dealing with them at work these two opposing forces when they collide when they meet when they get together the ultimate showdown it goes down because the empath has genuine love and compassion all empaths have genuine love and compassion okay and the narcissist uses that against them this is how this is how things get ugly real quick at first you meet them you love them but eventually you you fall into this toxic cycle of wash rinse repeat fake loving me next day hating me you know waking up to a demon next day waking up to a saint you just don't know what you're dealing with what you're gonna get what who like you just it's so much up and down swirling around confusion it's just it's just it's confusion and most empaths cannot thrive in that we can't we just we don't do good in that type of environment we just don't this is why you start to deplete physically mentally emotionally spiritually you're falling apart because you and a narcissist just don't make it just don't make sense it just don't make sense it's like it's like chemistry class you know let's put some chemicals together and watch it blow up to the ultimate showdown the ultimate showdown a narcissist and an empath can never work together it just doesn't work not scientifically not spiritually it just doesn't work it just doesn't work because your genuine love and compassion gets used by used against you by the narcissist and it leaves you drained and broken to not have love reciprocated to to be treated like you're a problem to be treated like you stink or something it's crazy it bothers an empath like when you know you clean you know you thorough you you know you solid and somebody is acting like you have a fault you you just you sitting there smelling yourself like is there something wrong with me is it what is going on with this person it's not you it's them it's not you it's them let me tell you dear survivors i'm here to let you know today that the fact that you are here right now the fact that you are standing tall and strong it is a major testament to your strength and your resilience a major testament to your strength and your resilience because remember an empath's heart is like diamond your heart is like diamond it's strong and it's unbreakable that's what that means you've ever seen a real diamond you've ever touched a real diamond you've ever owned one you will know what i'm talking about a diamond is so tough so strong it just it's unbreakable it's unbreakable despite the constant abuse and manipulation you continue to love that narc you continue to care about this narc care for this narc you continue to be there for your narcissistic partner parents whatever whoever because your heart it's like a diamond no matter what gets done to you you bounce back you still love you still give because that is who you are to your core the devil can't do nothing about that the devil can't change that can't do nothing about it man the day let me talk let's talk about that showdown empath versus narcissist the ultimate showdown it gets crazy the day that you choose to walk away the day that you choose to set boundaries the day that you choose to put yourself first because you haven't you never have you never were you never you were never putting yourself first not because you're stupid but because you're selfless and not selfish the narcissist is selfish the day you choose to walk away the day you chose to walk away and break free that diamond my god that diamond is it turned into a shining armor a shining armor that protect you from their toxic ways their toxic energy this is what makes you a winner ultimately you being true to who you are being true to yourself being true always always being a good representation of the empath that you are that same heart is what's making you a warrior now oh my god that diamond has turned into a shining armor the day you chose to take your power back the day you chose to stand up for yourself the day you said no the day you finally said i'm done i'm finally done i'm tired i won't do this anymore i can't do this anymore i won't give myself like this anymore why what am I doing the day you finally put your foot down maybe the day you walked away the day you finally decided to go no contact that's the day being an empath played in your favor that's the day it all changed even if you were still in the relationship this is when the showdown went down when you started to proclaim your power and show this narcissistic whatever that you're not nobody's fool that you are not gonna sit here and allow somebody to abuse you misuse you lie to you cheat on you and you're just gonna keep on talking about but I love you that was the day it went down the day you looked your mom and dad in the face and said you know what you don't love me you don't care about me so I'm gonna protect my peace and I'm gonna stay away from you and if you didn't say it you showed it because if you're like me an empath like me you will show them better than you could ever tell them I will block you I will go no contact. I will move away from you. I will change my number. I don't care. I don't care because when an empath gets tired, when enough becomes enough, we don't care. We'll do whatever we got to do to protect our little empathetic piece. You don't want an empath to get fed up. You don't want to push us too far because it's going to change the whole game. It's going to change the whole game because that heart that you had for them, the compassion that you had for them, They took it for granted. They laughed at it. They saw it as a weakness. They talked about it. They lied on you. They even had the audacity to go and, you know, make new supplies and other people and try to treat them better than you. It's just all kind of betrayal. So when enough becomes enough, you're no longer this weak person who is just laying there like, oh, I love you. Use me, oh, eh, no. Do what you want with me. Uh-uh, no. There's nothing more beautiful than watching an awoken in an empowered empath who becomes unbothered enough to set some real boundaries they don't even have to say it you get to the point where it shows in your face all you gotta do is give people that eye raise your eyebrow in one certain type of way i've been i've become a certain type of energetic boundary setter i've gotten to the place where i don't always have to say something it's going to show in my face and you are going to fix yourself you're either gonna leave me alone, block yourself, run away, or just cut yourself off. I'm talking less and less the stronger and stronger I'm becoming. My demeanor and my energy tells it all. The way I'm gonna respond to you, it's gonna tell you how I'm feeling about you. I know how to set boundaries without telling you that I'm setting a boundary. I don't have to sit there and tell you, do not talk to me like that. I'm just gonna make it in a way where you can't even talk to me. You figure it out why you blocked you figured out why you ain't heard from me in a while we ain't got nothing to talk about that's me setting a boundary sometimes boundaries you ain't got to explain nothing you don't have to tell nobody how to respect you you show them by taking your presence away you disconnect you detach you get the hell on and you go somewhere and worry about yourself when an empath becomes like this when this becomes your attitude the game is changing man this is the ultimate showdown this is when you really start to piss the narcissist off and then this is when you realize they're getting worse they're being meaner they're trying things they're really really trying to get you and really really try to hurt you because this is the ultimate showdown when you show strength when you show you can't get me like that you're not no this is not that this is not that type of party it never was it never will be this is this is this is if you had me before you'll never have me like that again the ultimate showdown that's why they're smearing your name they never expected you to boss up they never expected you to try to make moves walking away getting away trying to trying to find your own way because they thought you always would lean on them because they stripped everything from you they're so needy they tried to break you so you could be needy but a real empath true empaths have some type of strength and when that thing comes out you don't need nobody you don't need nobody you damn sure don't need the narcissist when you wake up like that oh the ultimate showdown they can't believe you don't need them they can't believe you making your own moves they can't believe you got the strength to finally move out they thought you couldn't do it on your own because they've isolated you this whole time they've been taking money from you this whole time they didn't they didn't think that you would be willing to go be homeless you can have your money keep the house keep the car i'm good i'm leaving i'm gonna go start all the way over i'll be all right i don't need you to survive i'm more than good and i'll be even better without you because being with you ain't is no good nothing good came out of it nothing good comes out of it nothing y'all feel where i'm coming from the ultimate showdown it it happens when an empath realizes who they are, remembers who they are, take their power back stand strong, stand firm, start moving different stop explaining, stop you know defending, stop falling into their narcissistic abusive traps because they want to get you in arguments, they want to get you all in your feelings, the ultimate showdown is when you become unbothered, when you show them that what you used to care about you don't care about anymore because caring was wasn't wasn't it didn't do nothing for you, they taught you how to not care, they taught you what to care about, which is yourself, care about you, care about people that love you back, people that will give back to you and care less about this abusive manipulative demon. You understand what I'm saying? You have so much power over a narcissist that being the empath that you are they'll never win. They can never win. They're actually never quite ready for you to wake up and step into your power. Empath versus the narcissist, it gets real ugly when an empath wakes up to what the narcissist is, when you become sort of like bulletproof to their tactics and their ways when it doesn't bother you like it's supposed to like it was intended to like they've created and set it up to those of you going through parental alienation, please know it's the ultimate showdown, smear campaign, that's the ultimate showdown, they want to see what you gonna do, they want to watch you exhaust yourself trying to fight in the way that they're used to you fighting, but let me tell you how you're gonna win this fight, don't show them what they're used to, don't keep, don't keep letting them see you all broken and tore up and sad, no, look at the others look at the other side of what you are, empath, behind your brokenness and your sadness from trauma and abuse you are strong as hell you are so strong because you are a liver of life you are a lover unconditional lover and that is strength in itself to be someone who is compassionate and caring to the point where you don't judge you go out and you just love freely because love is free to be someone who walks and symbolizes that you are so powerful you are so powerful you you are the superheroes of this earth I'm telling you I don't care how anybody feels about that you really are you really truly are a narcissist cannot compete with you because they're pretenders they're fake they're con artists they're opportunists you are real you ain't using nobody for their time you're not using nobody just to have kids you're not using nobody for their money most of the time you are the empath you came in the door with all of that you came with the house when you came with the credit you came with the money you came with the with the with the ideas let's talk about that the creative mind of empaths you're the one even at those jobs you're coming up with the ideas and and the narcissistic co-workers and people who want to steal your ideas want to shut you down because they're jealous of your light i'm telling you there's two of us on this earth man there's narcissists and there's empaths there's no i mean it just i don't think there's any other way to look at it and the ultimate showdown is actually happening right before us now because god is god is bringing all his people together we are educating ourselves about what's happening what's what we've been living with what we've been dealing with who we've been raised by and it's changing the game we're putting a lot of people on game we're saving souls we're saving lives we're educating younger people so they don't make those same generational mistakes the ultimate showdown it's going down these narcissists are not ever going to win and if they've ever thought they were winners before oh we're changing the narrative because empaths are woke baby we are wide awoke we are on to your game we know the playbook so well we got we got PhDs and NPD and we ain't even we ain't asked for it but y'all done forced us to study this crap for hours how many of you done watch hours of content you could create your own if you wanted to at this point based on what you done learned with your experience and what you done learned you you can educate somebody about this crap you can save a life or two or a hundred or a million if you really wanted to because now you have that as part of your power and your light not only are you naturally a healer already now you got a PhD in NPD and for many of us that means we can't be narked anymore our our narc radar is on high you might be able to creep into our world but you ain't gonna last that's how serious it is it's the ultimate showdown we're not going for it the pain them pushed a lot of us onto our knees we've learned how to pray different some of us were pushed into just growing spiritually with them we're picking up the Quran more now we're reading them Bibles now we're taking God's words serious to our heart now we're looking at it from a whole different lens now the ultimate showdown they will not win they cannot win they cannot win they will never win they will never win I don't know who needs to hear that they'll never win and if you're watching this I know you're a soldier I know you're a warrior and I'm proud of you I am proud of you for standing tall standing strong walking away I'm proud of you if you're no contact and you're fighting through it because as an empath you may be no contact with somebody you still love but because you are learning to love yourself more now you're like I'm never going to look back i'ma love them from a distance i'm good some of you you're so you're so amazing i'm trying to get on this level here i got empaths who who are so full of forgiveness sitting somewhere praying for the narcissist i that is that you you are so powerful you don't even understand the power of carrying love and empathy you represent what a human being should be like a good human being a human being that's not full of demonic bs demonic crap demonic trash i've said it before you're you're the walking symbol of godliness that's what an empath is to me and now because of the ultimate showdown we're licensed to handle narcissists y'all we're licensed to handle them so we become demon slayers demon slayers many of us we got to put a warning hat on now when we're out here because we got to warn these narcissists you i'm not the one you want to come over here and try i'm not the one you want to come over here and narc I promise you because if you try me your life is not going to it ain't going to be good for you some of us god god god is is so crazy about us our enemies don't make it too far when they try to when they try to do us wrong they turn around and stumble right into their own pits the pit that they thought they put your name on it they turn around and fall right into it and never crawl back out that's why you still getting hoovered because they fell in their own pit they thought the grass was green on the other side but it's not it's not what they thought it was the ultimate showdown while you thriving they sicker while you're doing better they're doing worse they still narking they still doing trash still still bringing trash in people's lives still lying about everything still lying to people just to feed their ego they are still who they are demonically possessed and you somewhere doing good you somewhere thrive and it's and it's messing with them so then they got the audacity to hoover you and the ultimate showdown is when an empath knows to shut down those hoovers ignore it let them hoover their self sit back and continue to watch me glow up and do good because i was a good person i was good to you too bad you ain't wanted didn't see it couldn't take it oh well that's too that's not my problem that's a narcissistic personal problem they not ready for us y'all let me go through these comments they not ready for us y'all the ultimate showdown it's going down it's going down there's so many awoken empaths now there's so many empowered empaths now these narcs don't have a chance man so many people discovering content like mine and it's saving their lives it's releasing them from this narcissistic imprisonment that they've been sitting in for decades and now whatever however amount of years they got left they can live it freely in peace they'll never win they'll never win what's up crystal madison scrolling by and hear about me and my husband we've been together oh oh gosh here goes these comments just leaving i'm sorry the comment went away the comment went away okay let me scroll down shout out to all my members in the house man chosen by god so good to see you so good to see you thank y'all for being so positive in the chat talking to each other helping each other out that's what i'm talking about this is the ultimate showdown man these narcs don't have a chance and some of us we are so beautiful as empaths that we hope that some of these narcs get it together for the sake of maybe their children you know that's why you somewhere praying for them you still have a heart of empathy towards the narcissist and that is real you know oh my gosh we have crazy resilience in tenacity says jill brown hey jill brown what's up one second they're calm the next moment they are wild strange Sylvia you couldn't you couldn't have said it better you couldn't have said it better you know no contact is a shelter i see somebody says absolutely queen Leandria says my comeback is my comeback now the narc gotta run back to that cat in the hat yup eating green eggs and ham dr seuss silly ass you know they they they after you some of y'all man that narc had to run back home to their mama's couch run back home to an ex baby mama that treated them bad before run back home to old old people people that have already shown the narcissist that they could care less about them but they're so out here desperate for supply they they they get caught up with people who do not care about them a lot of y'all are seeing it right now you you know what i'm talking about this person left and they went somewhere else and it is not what they thought it would be matter of fact they're just backtracking they're just going backwards while you over here going forward in life man sore losers sore losers i'm telling you that's that's what smear campaign is you're dealing with a sore loser that's why they're smearing your name i love to let people know that i love to let people know that so i see elisa said something about um the amount of people watching so that the number you guys see 263 that's the amount of people in the chat you won't see how many people are watching um on my end there's over 5,000 people in the live watching live but you can see the number of people in the chat just an FYI just to give you um a tip on that Elisa because i think she's i think she's talking to you guys about you know like comment subscribe shout out to my moderators i love y'all so much thank y'all for doing this work for me it makes life so much easier please i want to tell you to please utilize those super chats you guys drop a lot of chats in this in these lives when i'm talking and i promise you as time goes on i am going to i'm going to it's going to be harder and harder for me to get to them there's so many of you guys that come in these chats there's so much in here there's no way I can sit here get my message out and read all of that so I encourage you to use a super chat just pay a dollar or two so I can see your message if you want me to see it because sometimes I feel bad that I don't read all the messages but I just can't it's just too much guys I'm just being transparent if you want a message to be seen you know utilize the super chat that's what the um that's what YouTube has in place for you guys during these lives to make communication with me easier so um just an FYI just to help you guys out um let's see here Dana houses i left my Italian leather furniture my clothes i got triple now boss up because i don't care anymore i love that the ultimate showdown they are not ready for this type of power y'all they're not they think that you're gonna be stuck on stupid with them for the rest of your life when you can show and prove to them better than you can tell them man you're such a winner you don't even know i'm so proud of you donna thank you for dropping that in there i really appreciate you doing that i really do um to all my to all my survivors before i let you guys go i want you to know that you are the true heroes of this showdown period between you and a narcissist you will always be the winner especially if you choose yourself especially if you choose to be the awoken version of yourself because being awoken means you'll be empowered which will help you become unbothered unbotheredness protects the empath we care so much we got to learn to stop caring so much i hope that makes sense for those of you who walked away stood up for yourself have learned boundaries i'm proud of you you stood up against a manipulative toxic individual who tried to break you tried to break you down but instead you've emerged stronger you're wiser now you're more resilient than you've ever been there's so much power and beauty in that you didn't just survive this you are thriving past it you thrived like donna just said i left all of that i chose me i chose my sanity and now i am thriving i'm a thriver i'm doing good god gave me back three four five times what i had Because that's exactly what's on the other end of your darkness that you're in right now. The sadness that you're feeling. There is light on the other end. I promise you. I promise you. It's unfortunate that we let our empathy get us in these situations. And we go, you know, we lose so much. We give up so much. And it's okay. If you're truly an empath, stay on course. Rebuild. It's going to come back to you. You will manifest and you will attract everything that you deserve. Because you deserve it. You deserve it. as you continue on this healing journey just remember to always put yourself first set those boundaries don't let anybody dim your light nobody surround yourself with positive people if you can supportive people if you can and if you don't have that join this community meet us back here on lives mondays wednesdays fridays at 7 p.m get you some empowerment get you some inspiration meet and and and network with people in these lives there's a lot of empaths in my community y'all need to network with each other we need each other not just in these lives maybe outside of these lives some of you have resources that another empath brother or sister can use remember we're not selfish we're selfless be around people who appreciate you and support you appreciate you for who you are the most important part of my message today is if anybody is struggling with self-blame for going through any of this or for being an empath you just feel stupid i'm weak i should have never and I should have never and I should have never. Please forgive yourself. That is so important. Please forgive yourself for trusting and loving someone who didn't deserve it. Please. You didn't know. You didn't know. Forgive yourself for not seeing those signs earlier. Please forgive yourself. Forgive yourself for the times you may have doubted your own worth. Please forgive yourself. And I'm reading this off of a journal that I wrote to myself last year. You guys wouldn't believe it a lot of times my messages are created off of things that I've written not just for my book that I'm working on but journals that I've written in as part of my healing journey and I just go back and I reflect to some of the things that I've written down I wanted to forgive myself for these things that's why I'm sharing these with you forgiving yourself for the times you may have doubted your own worth that was me because at the end of the day y'all it was never our fault. It's not your fault that you're this nice, kind, loving person. Just because you're kind, loving, and compassionate and giving doesn't mean that these people had the right to do what they've done to you. So you must learn how to forgive yourself. You were just caught in the crossfire of an empath versus a narcissist showdown. Forgive yourself. You didn't know what you now know you know so in conclusion I just always want to end by telling everyone you're not alone don't think that you are utilize your resources reach out to me and work with me as a life coach if that's what you need find a life coach if I'm not the one for you that's okay too there's many of them out here there are therapists find some help practice self-care self-love is the way to go you were pulled into something you didn't know about because of your nature but that same nature is where your power lies. And I pray that that message helps somebody. If I could just help one person with what I'm sharing, I will feel very good. I want you guys to keep thriving as the warriors that you are. Keep growing. Keep going. Keep glowing. Stay beautiful. Stay true to who you are. Somebody said, when we're done, we're done. Uh-huh. Stay true to who you are, man. I just had to come and share that with you guys on this beautiful friday y'all know i look forward to seeing y'all monday at 7 p.m but it's friday let's go and enjoy our weekends let's keep pouring into ourselves let's remain amazing Alana New thank you so much for being here i see your comment thank you so much um Max Ameria thanks for being here said love and empathy is our superpower i love it i love it i just thank god for how far we've all come and how far we're going it's just it's it's a it's a journey but we're on it we're gonna be okay we're gonna be a-okay guys they smell like trash old wash rags whoo i say worse than that i say worse than that i think my dog's ---- smells better than their nasty butts why do empaths attract narcissists we attract each other we attract each other there there are things that they mirror and come off as if they are you know good for you we're attracted to what looks like confidence initially we're attracted to how much it seems like they just want to be so involved in our lives they seem so supportive at first they're so willing to do certain things they're so willing to take care of certain things they're so willing to act like they resonate with your traumas we attract each other they love how nice and caring we are so they are attracted to our empathy that's the biggest form of light we have because they know that empathy is going to get them in our life if we care enough we're going to care about any lies they're coming up with we're going to listen to all the sad stories about the exes, my ex did me like this and like my dad and they got so much baggage and there's nobody willing to carry baggage like an empath, you hear their stories and you you think you can help them you think you could fix something, you think you could bring them into your world until you learn and witness that you fell for a demon, you know, Tiki, hey I just made a very special video chatting about narcissists and abuse and I need you to watch it and share it with your friends and family members, it will really help, okay okay yeah send it to me, I'd love to check that out if we keep it real though, narcissists will never change, we pray for us, oh yeah I agree, I mean I agree but at the same time though, remember it's a spectrum, it's a spectrum guys, um you gotta really be realistic about the true information, all narcissists are not in the same realm, on the same level, there are some narcissists that go and get help and learn to do better, that does exist but I don't think that that changes their heart though because I think the problem with the narcissist is deep inside it's internal, it's it's a hard thing, I don't think therapy can change your heart I think the only the only hope they have is God, that's the only hope and I will never take that away from God, I will never say that nobody can change because I'm not God I don't control that. I don't have that ability. I can't judge that. That's not for me to do. God can do all things because even some of us empaths, we are messed up. Some of us got narcissistic traits. Some of us got issues from trauma in past situations. We're not perfect either. And a lot of us, God has changed us God has worked on us. God has renewed us. God has helped us. So that's just how I look at it, you know but all opinions welcome, I don't know everything, I'm not always right James Mould, what's up, I went no contact with my parents no toxicity in my life anymore when my aunt passed on they never told me i had to ring the hospital i have an amazing friend network now and i'm glad to be out so proud of you keep thriving keep thriving suya man thank you for the love i see the gifts i see you did a super chat it says do you do any affordable zoom sessions one-on-one i do i do i'm gonna ask my moderators to drop in my um zoom or my life coaching uh coaching link and also you'll see it in the description box after the live as well it should it should be on my my bio and my profiles on every platform um you can also email me if we if you want to talk or um contact me on whatsapp they'll drop all that information in there for you guys in the chat to just screenshot it and reach out to me i do have affordable sessions um and i also create custom packages to meet people's financial situations so you just got to reach out to me talk to me and we can work something out hey cindy s how are you doing love good to see you on tonight says to those who are saying they don't pray for satan we don't pray for him we pray against him in jesus name wanting to encourage peace that's true that's true you're right you're right oh my gosh twanda harper hey love erica fields so good to see you eman what's up remove toxicity and find peace absolutely alicia hey love hey love so good to see y'all on tonight i wish i could hang around and read all these comments but i'm telling y'all it's not it's not always possible because we'll be sitting on these lives all freaking night and i don't want to do that to y'all as long as i get my message out that's all that matters to me moon woman what's up thank you so much for that super chat i really appreciate your love and support you guys are amazing you're amazing i just thank you for taking the time to listen to me of course i'm gonna take some time this weekend i'm gonna go through the live and read those comments i love to see what you guys have been writing while i was talking so it'll be good to go back um but i encourage you to subscribe if you haven't if you're new to the community welcome i'm so blessed to have you here with me while i am going through my healing journey you know um those of you who continue to show love and support it's so appreciated please know that if i don't say it enough please know that i mean it and um yeah keep thriving guys i i look forward to seeing you monday live at 7 p.m eastern time if you're available but if not just make sure you've hit the notification bell so you don't miss when i post um videos as well okay guys but i'm gonna let y'all go enjoy your friday stay blessed guys i'm gonna go enjoy the rest of my friday thank you mika love i appreciate the comment sis god bless you thank you guys so much i appreciate all of you y'all stay blessed and stay true man keep going keep going keep slaying these demons guys i'm gonna see y'all later y'all stay blessed guys have a good beautiful weekend until next time everybody take care