Empowering Recovery: How To Take Back Control Of Your Life

Oh guys, how are you guys doing? Hello everybody. So good to see y'all. Happy Monday. Oh my god, y'all bear with me. I gotta catch my breath. Been ripping and running all day. Anybody else feeling like it's a Monday today? My goodness. That's why I want to talk about empowerment today people. It's so needed. How are y'all doing blessed family? Hello thrivers. What's up survivors? Let me see who's in the house today Elisa Williams hello queen how are you doing Sylvia Aunty hello my sister how you doing Sue Ellen Smith hi sister Corinne what's up warrior fam what's up what's up Superior King what's up what's up the desert target 6891 shout out to you member how are you how are you so blessed that you're here with me on another day y'all make me feel so blessed when i see y'all in here Lore of the I am oh i love that hello fam how are you doing it's your first live okay okay i'm so happy you're here thank you for dropping that compliment in here real can see a real she says i love that i love that Mama D8X yes what's up Mama D8 Alicia what's up my sister Miss Love hello hello hello oh my god it's such a blessing to see you guys here Rosie or Rosy Awake what's up what's up so good to catch you on the live thank you for moderating for me love so happy to have my support and my backbone y'all make me feel so good oh man i feel better already just knowing that you guys are there got my back got my just showing support and love man y'all are my biggest motivators i hope y'all know that i hope y'all know that and if if you're watching this for the first time you don't know who i am my name is mommy so true and um i am going through probably what you're going through what you've escaped so if you're here this is where you need to be that algorithm sent you here for a reason so dive in and let's talk about empowering your healing journey because you have to snatch your power back there's thrivers in this chat that are going to confirm that to you there are there are survivors in my community that are going to agree and say yeah you do that's exactly what you do coming through this when you get tired of this you know toxic relationships are ridiculous if you're watching this my only question is have you ever dealt with a manipulative toxic person relationship parent mom dad sibling uncle grandma grandpa it don't matter if that's you you're in the right place i'm happy you're here thank you for joining me for those of you who are always showing love i'm so happy to see you on another live it's monday with your girl mommy so true and I'm so proud of you for being on this healing journey man and keeping me up to date with what's going on in your lives thank you so much for those who show love you know purchasing merchandise booking life coaching sessions reaching out to me just to say hello whatever it is showing love on my channel watching your likes your comments your views all of that man I greatly appreciate it you guys I wouldn't be mommy so true if you were not here with me. So thank you so much, everyone. I appreciate the love and just, man, y'all are amazing. Adrienne, I see you. Kwanda P, I see you. Skylar Black, I see you. Tawanda Harper, I see you. I just want you guys to know that I see you. I see you. And I want to validate someone that's going through this crap today. I want to encourage somebody today. I think we can all use a little encouragement it's monday it's another week that we have to face maybe you're dealing with the narcissist again for another week or maybe you're you're successfully thriving on with your life this week let's talk about it guys thank you so much in advance for subscribing for the likes for the comments i greatly appreciate it kings and queens it's a blessing to be here in your midst today um of course i don't want to hold you too long i really don't it's monday night and it's just it's just a quick tap in to empower it's just a quick tap in charmaine i love you so much unbroken boundaries i love it thank you for being here love shout out to you shout out to all of my thrivers you guys make me so proud you guys make me so proud i want to talk about empowering healing because man guess what the secret sauce to actually heal there's only there's only to me one main secret key. You must snatch your power back. If you already are doing that and you see the results, you see the beauty of snatching your power back, man, please drop confirmation in the live chat, in the replay chat, because you know how powerful taking your power back means. That's the special ingredient here as a survivor and a thriver. Snatch your power back. You're dealing with a narcissist that means you're dealing with some con artists you're dealing with some thieves you're dealing with some wicked people who do not care about your well-being how you feel doesn't really matter to them but they what they look for from you is for you to allow them to control you on every aspect of your life mainly mentally control you that's why by the time you wake up to what's happening dealing with a narcissist your mental is all over the place you don't even you don't know what you're looking at you don't know who you are you don't know what's what's happened you can't believe 10 20 30 years has gone by they've been playing with your head because why they're narcissists and they they enjoy mind games you gotta snatch your power back i don't care where you're at with the narc especially those of you who are dealing with a discard right now those of you going through a divorce right now those of you trying to come up with an escape plan right now because you got that crazy narcissistic parent you got that crazy job with a narc boss or you're just dealing with a narcissistic partner you have the power they know that the only reason the narcissist is so determined to destroy you because they know how much power you have and they know that if you walk away if you take your power away if you really change your mind about how much you love them like you have been they're defeated so why not convince you to think that you owe them your life or that you're obligated to be loyal and faithful to someone who isn't giving that to you you must snatch your power back dealing with narcissists y'all and that's what i'm stopping and to share with you guys today there is no winning dealing with a narcissist until you understand how powerful you are a lot of times i have to remind people to think back to the first time if you're dealing with a narcissistic relationship just think back to how how they worked so hard to get you to fall for them I know a lot of us believe that the narcissist lies but that one time they told you the truth was was early on in the relationship when you weren't awoke to things yet when you were still naive that's when they were telling you the truth the truth is that you are an amazing person they told you they prayed for you they told you God sent you. They told you nobody's ever treated them the way that you have. They told you no one's ever seen them the way that you see them. They could not believe that you even were giving them a chance almost. You were so angelic and so God sent that it blew them away. They were narc. They were love bombing but you were love bombable. You had everything in this world to offer that demon and so they told you the truth about yourself you heard them tell you your qualities you heard them validate your values you heard them tell you things that they may not say no more because they ended up getting you where they wanted you but before they got you where they wanted you they told you what you were that is the power you need to snatch back don't forget how much you blessed them with you how much you brought them into your life and you catered to them you didn't know they were a demon and you catered to them you gave your all don't forget that heal your life and snatch your power back even from that narcissistic parent watch how surprised they become when you start to set boundaries even as grown as you are because they're so used to you being quiet sitting there taking it dealing with it putting up with it when you start to reintroduce yourself to the people in your life that are narcissistic the game is going to change it doesn't it's not the same anymore when they know that you can't be played with things change they become demonically frustrated when you set the tone you gotta snatch your power back and set the tone you're the boss because it's your life you run your life you control your life not them and the last thing any narcissist who thinks they got you on dummy mode on puppet and doormat mode the last thing they expect is for you to snatch your power back the last thing they expect for you is for you to wake up and look at them and say i'm done they don't expect that y'all the narcissists think they're so clever they're so calculated they're so wicked they're so good at isolating and stripping us with and leaving us with nothing so we can depend on them so deeply and severely just pay attention some of you have dealt with a narcissist that was never trying to marry you but been talking about it and you've been with them for x amount of years and they've programmed you to the point where you now pretty much probably fully depend on them you may be married and feel that way there are some that are married to narcs that that that could have never happened and because of that you probably get discarded all the time it's always a breakup and makeup toxic love situation in this marriage because you're so strong please know that if you're dealing with a narcissist and they get mad if you get discarded if you see rage if you see them irritated if you if you are dealing with someone who's narcissistic that acts like they hate you cannot stand you you're doing everything right your strength is pushing that narcissist right where they need to be and that's out there with the other demons that's out there with them other demons them other narcs they go on they they cheating on you they need to I need you to understand that if a narcissist is not fighting for you if a narcissist don't want to be around you if a narcissist has left you they don't want you in their life they're talking about you oh that's a good sign it's not a bad sign because what's happening is your strong self your strong self you're tearing down that ego that's what you're doing you're destroying that ego you're destroying that demon who thrives on an inflated ego you're shitting on them in other words snatch your power back some of you got to understand what that even means all that empath empath i'm nice i'm nice i want to fix i want to fix you got to stop that snatch your power back and know that it's not your job to fix nobody especially people who don't want your help don't want to be fixed are okay being demons like a narc they're good where they're at they're only satisfied if you're willing to accept that don't accept that snatch your power back and step away and say no i'm not taking that that's not for me i want no parts of that you know it's it's up to us it's up to us to cut those narcissistic cords that we're attached to you didn't know that's what this was but now that you know you cannot ignore it one of the most painful things to see is someone who's educated about narcissism someone who has learned about narcissism and narcissists but is it taking their power back that is one of the most painful things for me to witness and see I'm like oh my god so you know what it is you see what it is you hear what it is you smell it but you're not taking your power back because you've been programmed to think that there's something you can do for this person. Or you've been programmed to feel that you need to depend on this person. Or you've been programmed to feel like if you leave them, there's nothing better for you. You're too old. You didn't gain all this weight. You ain't got no job. All these things. And I'm like, no, snatch your power back. None of that matters. Age is not a factor. Finance should not stop you. Lack of things, material things should not be in the way. Snatching your power back means I'm going to sacrifice. I don't care what I have and what I don't have right now, because the being that I am, I'm intelligent. I'll figure it out. That's snatching your power back. I will figure it out. I'm going to make it. I'm going to find a way. I'm going to be determined enough to stand on my own two feet because I have it within me to do that. That person met you. They knew how solid you were. They took all of that from you, drained you, made you gain weight, got you looking crazy, got you lazy, got you all discombobulated on purpose. It's intentional. I need somebody to catch that and wake up and snatch their power back because it's calculated. They are enjoying watching you lay back all depressed and defeated and just not feeling strong enough to get up and get it. They're enjoying that. You want to make a narcissist happy? Be down. You want to make a narcissist happy? Beat yourself up. You want to make them happy? Take all the blame. Keep trying to fix them. Keep talking to them. Keep accepting their garbage excuses of why they did it, why they don't why they did well like keep keep dealing with them hoovers you want to make them happy break no contact give them the supply that they are thirsty for so many people don't understand how much power they have in breaking those trauma bonds you can be trauma bonded to your parents there's many of us who have narcissistic parents that we're unable to detach and cut them out of our lives because we're bonded to them in this weird way because we're not seeing how worthy we are we're not seeing how valuable we truly are and that we don't need them we don't need their validation we don't need none nothing from them they have nothing to offer your life you're a high quality being and in order for a high quality being to thrive you need real people in your life you need assertive people in your life you need real godly beings in your life not people who fake around with the Bible in their hand you know twisting scripture to make folks feel bad not not that fake mother of yours who who when it comes to Sunday and church service she up there and shouting and and doing all that Christian stuff but at home she's a demon to your dad to your siblings to like I mean it and it could be father when i talk about a narcissist i'm not just talking about one particular sex this could be a man this could be a woman the dynamics don't make no difference to me i know that ultimately if you're going through this and you want to survive it you got to snatch your power back you got to snatch your power back but how do you snatch your power back if you don't even believe you have it how do you take your power back if you don't even believe in yourself how can you snatch your power back when you don't even see it you know who does see it though those narcissists every narc in your life they recognize your power their only job is to keep you from seeing it and walking proudly in it that's why they have the no contact rule no contact helps you take time to yourself so that you can see them for what they are so you can step back and get clarity on what's happening the longer you're no contact the stronger you become, can anybody say yep, that is true? Can I get a witness out there? Can I get a thriver to say yes? It might have been hard, it will be hard but man oh man, as you remain no contact, as you remain no contact you are empowering yourself to move forward as a thriver coming out of this darkness no contact forces you to look at the light, the more no contact you are the more you're snatching your power back because every day you wake up there's more and more clarity, there's more and more light coming towards you, the more you are away from this demon, the more you are disconnected mentally from this demon this is why we say stop talking to them, don't even, don't even feel the need to try to conversate with someone who's not a logical human being. There is no getting anywhere with a narcissist. I don't care what you say and what you think, especially those of you co-parenting. That is a battle that you're not even trying to sign up for. You need to let that duck be where that duck want to be. Don't force nothing. Don't expect nothing. Just give the bare minimum because you have that child. If you have to communicate, give the bare minimum. Don't get all involved and exhaust yourself with their narcissistic behavior, snatch your power back that narcissist got you pregnant on purpose anyway, it was a trap, they knew after that kid they would discard, they know what they're doing it's all strategically planned, so why not snatch your power back and be like, you know what, I'm not falling for the tricks of the enemy, I'm not falling for the deceit of Satan no longer, I am no longer, I'm not listening, when you snatch your power back triggers aren't even triggers like that anymore, you laugh at them, you laugh at them you seriously laugh at them, you take your power back, everything becomes funny, you sitting there talking about me, it's funny, okay jokes on you, I'm over here thriving though, I'm doing good though i'm happy though i'm blessed you become so unbothered those smear campaigns they become comedy to you because snatching your power back means i'm holding the truth within my heart i know what's up i know the truth and i don't need to prove nothing to nobody i don't need to prove nothing to nobody i'm good because what's done in the dark comes to light that's the life of a narcissist their past always catches up with them they're they're living a life full of regret they're just good at pretending that they're okay because they are narcissists they're not okay they know they've been duping people all their life they know they're opportunists they know they've been spending their whole life conning people they know they've been stealing supply from folks their whole life a lot of people don't think a narcissist knows what they're doing they know they know they're evil they're just they're just hoping you don't figure it out they're hoping you don't see it enough to where you get stuck you snatch your power back i promise you they'll run away when you become strong in the face of a narcissist you irritate their demons i've told you i told i've told you guys this before and i mean it there's nothing more scary to a demon than someone who knows who they are and have snatched their power back. They don't know what to do with themselves, y'all. When you become strong, strong enough to walk away, even stronger enough to stay away, when that becomes you, they don't know what to do with themselves. Many of you have seen it. You're watching it right now. This person doesn't know what they're doing. They think they're so clever. They think they're so smart, but they're doing stuff that's exposing the narcissist that they are. They don't even realize it. No matter if the smear campaigns, you know, the flying monkeys are falling for it, that's because they're fools too. The narcissist usually manipulates other idiots. So any idiot that's listening to the lies that are being created about you, leave all them idiots where they need to be because that's what they all are at the end of the day. When you snatch your power back, you see right through all of that and you don't become bothered by it. You focus on your goals. you get tunnel vision and you become unbothered by what's happening outside of you because you're tuned in to you that is snatching your power back no longer allowing this demon to defeat you mentally emotionally spiritually snatch your power back you got to know it's a demon somebody somebody needed to hear that today you needed to just grasp the fact that you are dealing with a wicked person maybe that'll give you the motivation and the strength to become unbothered because you were designed to fight against demons. You weren't designed for them to destroy you. All they can do is attempt it, but you were created to destroy it. You want to crush that narcissist? You want to see God's wrath step in on your behalf? You need to snatch your power back. A lot of you need to know that the universe is waiting for you to see how beautiful and how much light you have before they allow you to see and get the things that you deserve in life you're still blinded by these demons in your life these narcissists are preying on you they're preying against you these people are going to to the voodoo people on your behalf I'm telling you right now they love black magic they love witchcraft they are operating on witchcraft if you do not take your power back that witchcraft will destroy you it will pull you down I know people sitting around with narcissists not realizing how much their lives is being destroyed your job sabotage every time you turn around is bad luck you have these witchcrafty ass narcissists in your life and you have not taken your power you haven't snatched it back so they're playing with you they coming around your house and taking pieces of your hair and taking it to their witch doctor baby they somewhere putting spells on you at least trying to if you haven't taken your power back that means you haven't gotten close to god so if they're doing something to you it's probably gonna work i'll tell you that right now some people are caught up in spiritual battles with narcissists because they out here they out here trying to trying to take you down spiritually they learning how to read these cards and playing with crystals and doing all this occult bs bullcrap trying to curse your life and if you sit somewhere so hurt and broken and lost in the sauce it's gonna work because you're not protecting yourself. Snatching your power back includes growing spiritual Narcissism is not just a psychological thing. It's spiritual It's spiritual. You got to learn how to pray. You got to learn how to take this thing to God or it's going to eat you alive The unexplained illnesses that you see that's involved with narcissists and the diseases and all that weird stuff, it's attached to the spiritual aspect of this. These people are preying on you. I got people in Africa watching this. My foreigners, maybe not even just Africa, just my foreigners, the people who are deeply rooted in witchcraft and voodoo and have access to that type of life, snatch your power back. You're dealing with people who are really into that kind of stuff. They go to church all day. It means nothing. It means nothing. Those foreign countries, they are master manipulators especially when it comes to religion. They are using Islam to weaponize you. They're using Christianity to destroy you. They are after your soul. That is the narcissist's goal. Destroy your soul. I want to kill, steal, and destroy your soul. Take your power back. Snatch it from them. They can't kill, steal, and destroy your soul if you wake up to their tactics. If you learn the playbook and you embrace it and seek empowerment through what you're hearing. Don't just keep listening to this stuff and just you know go to sleep wake up and then it's nothing for you take it in your heart let it speak to your soul and let it empower you so you can snatch your power back snatch your power back from these evil narcs that are trying to destroy you y'all and i know my i know i got thrivers in the building that are like yup oh my gosh oh my gosh yup because you know many of you dealt with some things that are unexplainable and you you just listen it's spiritual it's spiritual narcissistic abuse is linked to all type of things y'all miscarriages early births inflammation extreme inflammation it's like the type of inflammation that causes pain in parts of your body that you probably didn't even know you could get it they create stuff in the body that that nobody has ever really even understood as a result of evil doing I caught my empress watching from Bermuda hi Papa Cheesy it's a say minding my beautiful african business drinking water true that i suck this hey i love that i love that minding my beautiful african business chosen by god what's up what's up said master manipulators i am so proud of those of you who have snatched their power back everybody in this life may not be on the same level of where they're at after dealing with a narcissist or coming out of narcissistic abuse but everybody watching this at some point in time you're snatching your power back slowly and surely i'm just proud of those who have joined my community and found some sense of hope strength because trust me nobody knows your girl mommy so true i know i know it too much for my own good how important it is for you to snatch that power back drink your water and mind your beautiful business somewhere worrying about yourself be unbothered by these jokes because they are they're demonic clowns they're evil clowns i am telling you when you snatch your power back you become unbothered by their wickedness and you laugh at their clownness that's the power in snatching your power back estoy muy deprimido y'all got me speaking spanish what's up much love much love much love oh my gosh going through these comments going through these comments on and let me see was never on our level chosen by god you're right never on our level so underscore what i see that super chat thank you so much love god bless you for that thank you for the gifts so appreciative so appreciative facts i bought my narc an suv truck she she was ungrateful someone says that was elite ebay 2021 we are powerful on broken boundaries we are powerful sis we're very powerful that's why they don't like us they don't like us y'all with some of us we're so powerful man our own parents can't stand us our lights irritates our own parents you gotta understand how much power that is for you when you know you haven't done nothing to somebody and they are just so mad at you and just can't stand you giving you silent treatment and no no no connection don't want to talk to you just wishy-washy with you just don't know if they coming or going with you that is indication that there's something about you that's irritating the demons in that person and you must snatch your power back that person is not worth it they're scared of you they're they're jealous of you you're dealing with a narcissist you're dealing with a fragile ego somebody who's so fragile it's like a mirror all you got to do is have a job all you got to do is buy a house something they could never do all you got to do is be a strong and resilient person something they're not and you'll be forever hated because you are a real one and they're so fake and you being real makes that fakeness show it exposes it it exposes them miss a champion he won't take the i'm done he thinks that i'm just mad but i'll but i'll be back but i'm done sounds like you changing the game man one thing about it you don't want an empath to get tired and be and be done we change the game elisa thank you for the super chat i really appreciate you so much it's okay thank you for the love she says you're worth so much more thank you so much look i i'm just so appreciative i really am god bless you elisa dc jones says she keeps hoovering oh it sounds like you're dealing with a narcissist that's that salty that you walked away she can't leave you alone after she messed up huh yeah hoover away till you fall dead yep fake ego fake pride fake person everything fake ain't nothing real about them we have all the power we're so real we gotta really embrace how our authenticity and our genuineness is our superpower our empathy is our superpower they don't have nothing on us y'all they never will miss a champion they gotta go thank you so much for the super chat they gotta go snatch your power back they got to go open that door and watch that demon run up out of there you got all the power I'm telling you I am telling you and you and you won't notice it until you finally say I'm done I'm cutting the scissors I'm walking away I don't want you especially those of you that's been discarded this is the moment where you proclaim your power this is the time right now where you stand up and you say you know what you left stay gone stay gone enjoy your life out there enjoy whoever it is that you got now Because you're showing me that I need to really see my worth. You don't deserve to be walked out on. You don't deserve for someone to have future faith with you all this time just to have walked away like the coward that they are. You don't deserve that. So if they've done that, they've done you a favor. See your worth and snatch your power back. Thank you for walking away from me y'all because you are a fool. Just look at yourself. Have you looked in the mirror lately, Thriver? Do you see how beautiful you are? I don't care if you've gained weight. I don't care if you lost your edges. Do you see how beautiful you are? Let them walk away. There is not another you. There is not another you. God didn't make 10 of you. God made one of you. There's only one of you with that special fingerprint that you have. They won't get that again. They're going to always find supply. There's always somebody out there that's going to fall for their BS, but they're still not you. So if they walk away, let them walk away. Bye-bye. y'all bye-bye enjoy your life because in that moment that's when you are supposed to remember what you've done you've given your life to this demon you didn't know it was a demon and you laid your life down you've given your time you've forgiven them over and over again you've looked up now it's been 10 years and they haven't poured nothing into your life it's just been a lot of deceit and lying and cheating and all kind of nasty dirty stuff so if they walk away they've done you a favor. They are freeing you. Literally, it's like God is like God. It's like God allows them to get so tortured and bothered by you and your strength and your greatness that they find themselves running from you. I think that is a major sign for a thriver, a survivor. If you're going through this and they're running, they're shaking in their narcissistic socks. They're acting like you've done something to them and they're just so mad at you. Pay attention to that. You ain't do nothing that demon gotta go their time is up the gig is up the gig is up there's no more there's no more using you there's no more lying to you they gotta go do it with somebody else let them go snatch your power back in that moment in that moment that's when you look in the mirror and you say okay i'm taking my power back because you are not me me me i'm the one you're gonna do that too all right say less say less I'm going to get on my ---- I'm finna work out I'm finna lose this weight I'm finna get my life back I'm gonna shake off this this crippling crap that you done put me in and I'm going to take my life back because before that narcissist came into your life you were probably doing quite well for yourself and I'm pretty sure they weren't though many of you can attest to that I I brought you up I lifted you up you met them they didn't even know how to dress you styled them you put them on game you taught them this that and the third you you bought them things nobody have ever bought them you invested real quality time and real money into this person so when they start treating you like you are the problem that you're unworthy that you carry no value that's when you snatch your power back and you remember who you are and you take that power and you run with it don't sit there and fight back and forth with no demon and beg them and plead for them to come back into your life once the narcissist shows you who they are you accept it and you run with it and you don't look back you want to heal you want to recover from narcissistic abuse snatch your power back remember who you are learn how to say no learn how to be really firm on your boundaries in spite of who likes it speak your mind when you're being done wrong don't sit there and take harm from nobody they're calling you their your mom who cares what you are your title doesn't mean nothing because if there's no respect if you're not valuing me as a human being i have nothing for you i have nothing for you i'm gonna treat you like the demon that you are i will cut off all contact you will have no access to me that's why the hoovers come they don't expect you to cut that cord sometimes they run off thinking the grass is greener on the other side six months to a year later two years later here they are running back oh i need you i miss you I've seen many situations where a narcissistic partner loses a real one ends up with trash getting their butt beat all kind of disasters going on with this new supply person that they thought was some new king because they're they're sick everybody they meet they fantasize a life with them don't even know who the hell they are so they done left you got with somebody else and now it's not going good and you want to hoover they done left you went out here thought there was a lot of supply and realized it ain't really too much out there ain't too many people willing to to deal with a toxic person because it ain't too many empaths out there and now supply running low running dry you trying to creep around and hoover and try to figure out you know how you can sneak back in don't let that happen because you got that power you take over the game there's nothing more serious than an empath who wakes up and switches the game on a narcissist they don't ever see that coming y'all they do not see that coming somebody said they're inconsistent with the kids just as they are with you oh I lost the comment I think that was my sister Charmaine um DC drains I told her I love her then oh dang hold on let me just scroll down let me scroll down y'all going ham with the comments I'm gonna have to go back to the replay so I can see what y'all were saying Ernada White says yes started no contact and I have been lighter in my mind and able to just sit quietly sipping tea if i like i love it you see you you you the more no contact stays in play man the more you realize wow the joke is on them the joke is on them this silly rabbit this silly rabbit didn't realize that tricks are for kids they didn't realize tricks are for kids sylvia says sad reality it is it is deanna b says yeah it took me 13 years later yeah when you're in this narcissistic web you don't know what it is until you wake up sometimes it takes decades sometimes it takes years they they they're you ever seen a spider snatch their prey on their web how they go hard with wrapping them up like they they don't stop that's the narcissist they just become so in tune with destroying you that you you get so foggy minded you get so isolated from your support system you get it just becomes you and this demon and it takes a while to wake up to it but once you do oh my god somebody said jason burns what's up they put a whole lot of work into the smear campaign oh yeah they do yes they do oh my goodness no contact is your protection it is your strength jasmine holland when people you thought were your friends start showing their true intentions and the bad comes out so now you have to reassess everybody in your life oh yeah going through narcissistic abuse it'll wake you up to everybody in your life it'll wake you up to all the narcissistic demons that's that's just in your circle period it just opens your eyes you start to see life in a whole different lens man and and for me i feel like once you start seeing that it empowers you so much you're like wow i'm really different i'm different different I'm nothing like these people and for me there's beauty in that because it forces you to like really protect your peace and and be careful about who you mingle with and and all of that like it just it sets you apart you notice how beautiful you are you're just a unique person and you just don't need contamination and you you you restrict yourself that is so beautiful to me that is so empowering when you start to see that you're different you're set aside. There's a reason why you've been hated on and it's okay. You embrace it. You embrace your uniqueness and you embrace your isolation. And you're like, yo, I'm a child of God. I don't belong around y'all ducks anyway. I don't belong with y'all anyway. Y'all stay in y'all lane and I'm gonna stay in mine. You feel me? So I just, man, it's just beautiful to heal. It's beautiful to get here it's beautiful to get here it's definitely spiritual I really agree um sister I'm I really agree Sylvia I really agree um let me get through a couple let me see before I let you guys go thank y'all so much for being here and listening to me this was so great this was so great oh my gosh let me see shout out to everybody who dropped a super chat so blessed thank you for the love I see that that you gave me some love today I truly appreciate that you're awesome you're awesome uh Cora says we are called black sheep in the family that allows that always being light to any situation yeah we're called black sheep it just to me it it screams how unique we are I used to see those words like black sheep and scapegoat and and I'm like oh my god so that just means I I'm just not worth anything no it's the opposite it's the opposite snatch your power back if you are your family black sheep i need you to know how how how unique that means you are that means you are a truth seer it means you're also the truth teller they want you to fall and die so their secrets can be safe they want you to never glow and grow in your life so that they can continue being the narcs that they are but you black sheep are the generational curse breaker don't take it lightly you're not just some black sheep or some no it's deeper than that they don't want you to be great because they know that you they know what you are you're a threat you're a threat we will always rise y'all we will always rise and I encourage anyone who is struggling and just trying to take their power back and just need support love coaching please utilize my services as a certified life coach reach out to me reach out to me book those sessions work with me and let's help you proclaim your power let's help you step into the realm that you need to be in embrace the light that you are let's let's let's put you in a position where you feel stronger coming out of this you are a thriver I strongly believe if you're here if you're catching this on replay you were meant to watch this it's time to take your power back and if you're that thriving king or queen watching this this is confirmation and validation for you yet again to keep going to keep thriving and to know that I am proud of you for staying on course for remaining no contact for dodging those ridiculous pathetic hoovers from that demon I am proud of you and I want you to keep going I want you to know how blessed you are I want you to know how much they probably never stop chasing you a lot of you need to realize those hoovers are going to last a lifetime because that narc is never going to find nothing close to it's it's unfortunately the saddest reality ever they're gonna spend the rest of their life whether they move on or not they're gonna still be poking their head and wearing their narcissistic binoculars sitting on somebody's tree looking at your life and watching you and trying to figure out how they can sneak their little demon spirits up in there they're stuck on stupid but i'm proud of you for becoming unbothered by their stupidness and moving on with your life those of you that are moving on new relationships new jobs new cars new everything new you I'm proud of you keep going stand strong you got this the power lies within you it does truly oh my goodness I appreciate you guys man I want y'all to to just keep hanging in there stay strong stay motivated keep thriving what's up ashley renee how you doing sis so good to see you it's just man this is a time of empowerment for us drivers we are we are blessed and we're highly favored and it's not going to change if anything once you snatch your power back if anything you're just going to keep glowing so many of you i i'm just i'm awaiting your testimony of growth your testimony of glowing your testimony of strength I'm just awaiting it I'm just looking forward to hearing how you're thriving once you snatch your power back once you said I'm walking out of this relationship this person is not going to change and I know that I see that and I know what I'm worth once once you once you fight and put the work in to dissolve the depression and the anxiety you're going to see the glow and I'm looking forward to seeing that I'm looking forward to celebrating with you thank you guys for watching this video being on this live you're supporting your love is so appreciated it's so appreciated thank you all for your engagement in the chats i'm gonna go back to the live replays but i've told you guys the best thing to do on my lives is to drop a super chat so it can stand out and i can see it because there's so many chats coming in and it's so hard to catch it i'm not gonna lie you know and these lives get a little lengthy so i don't want to spend my whole evening reading comments so if you want me to share your comments while i'm on live utilize those super chats guys you know it's there for us as a tool so just an fyi but thank y'all for the likes the comments the the the subscription if you're new you know thank you for being here for your continued support look forward to seeing you guys on winning wednesday we'll be live again wednesday 7 p.m i look forward to you got to to seeing you guys there thank you again for being here tonight it was a blessing gosh i hope that you know that someone gets an empowering sense of moving forward with their life through this message i leave you all in peace have a blessed rest of your monday thrive all through the week stay beautiful and unique stand strong and firm in the light that is within you much love cora thank you so much for the love i appreciate it she said thank you well i shouldn't say she i don't know if it's a man or a woman i'm sorry but i appreciate that so much god bless you 7 p.m wednesday yes eastern time we will be here winning wednesday to all my survivors and my thrivers and those that are going through it that want to get to that point come and join us on wednesday at 7 p.m we're gonna talk about it god bless you all god bless you all god willing we'll be back wednesday y'all have a beautiful rest of the day. Thank you so much guys. I love you all. I will see y'all later. Take care Thrivers. Snatch your power back. Snatch your power back. Bye y'all. Virtual hugs. See y'all later. Bye.