When 2 Narcissists Compete for the Upperhand in their Marriage #lindsayclancy #narcissist

Patrick and Lindsay Clancy pictured here with their three children who are now deceased. Of course, as you know, their mother, Lindsay Clancy, uh, unalive them. Uh, this video though, I want to talk about Patrick and all the accusations of him being the actual individual that, that took the children out. There are people on this app, a lot of women that are falsely accusing him of, of unaliving his own children when there's video evidence out there that uh places him at CVS and then he went to go pick up some food for his family you know and the whole time while he was gone running the errands which she i believe she sent him to go out and run the errands because she had premeditated everything was calculated so she did all this while he was out running the errands he she unalive the children okay but yet and still even with the video evidence of him being at CVS and at the uh the restaurant picking up the food there are people still accusing him of unaliving his children and framing her they're saying he framed her he framed her and he's the one that actually oh there were fingerprints on on on the um the the belts the ropes that she used to strangle yeah his fingerprints are on there because he had he removed them when he found his children deceased on the floor with the ropes tied wrapped around their necks after their mama strangled them he had to remove he removed them he was in shock so his first instinct was to remove the bands from around his baby's neck and probably he probably cradled them he was probably uh not probably he definitely wasn't shocked he was screaming that's what EMS said the police that arrived on the scene he was screaming to the top of his lungs she k-i-l-l-e-d the kids so yes his fingerprints are on the bands that were wrapped around the children's neck because he was removing them when he saw the children laying there i can't believe i just can't believe the ignorance and lack of critical thinking skills he did not off his own children she did she admitted to doing that and y'all are still okay but i i he's not as innocent okay he did not commit he did not do his own children in but i do i believe that there was any form of abuse in their marriage 100 percent so i this is this is where i i want to discuss um two narcissists in a marriage for my long time um followers supporters who have been following me for the last eight years especially on my YouTube channel, I've made so many videos on narcissists in a marriage. That means male, female, husband, wife, what their marriage is like when both of them are narcissists. And usually the dynamic is there's one overt narcissist and there's one covert. The overt one is the one that is more, um, that is out there with their behavior. It's more noticeable um the covert is the one that is more passive and laid back and they hide their narcissism very well so in this instance um he very well comes off as the covert and she's the overt being you know even um psychopath because to go to that extreme she she's definitely overt okay now what i have also explained in my videos um when it comes to two narcissists in a marriage is is that it becomes a competition of who can control who better than the other who can one up with hurting each other but they never really um um um cut free or break free from each other and if there's a divorce there's not going to be a divorce unless there are children if she hadn't had kids he would have still been been married to her I promise you because the marriage is what keeps him connected to her once she has children once she has children it's easy for him to divorce and move on to the next woman we've seen this with Kanye West Kanye West is a narcissist and so is Kim Kardashian before Kim had children they they was locked in, were they not Kim started having kids and that's when Kanye was getting more and more abusive towards Kim and Kanye was able to divorce and move on and remarry and you see his new wife, she's not pregnant now, that's not to say that he's, he, I think he's definitely abusing his wife Bianca behind closed doors but not as bad as he did Kim because the children, by having children with a narcissistic man it means she's locked and trapped with those children and he can treat her any type way because he knows she's not going anywhere for the next 18 years, I believe this is the case with Patrick Clancy, once those children these are very small children too, it was easy for Patrick to overlap relationships and move on very fast with his next woman, um this is textbook behavior of all narcissists, they overlap their relationships, they're serial cheaters but that to to get a woman pregnant is the guaranteed way to get her trapped and locked in so that he can move on easily to the next woman and the children also guarantee that he can always return to his wife whether she entertains the notion of having sex with him even you know with with with him having a new wife that opening is still there, the children provide the open access to mom, okay that's why it was so easy for Patrick to move on, he, you know he may not have put his hands on her but I definitely believe there was emotional abuse in this marriage, he, he and she, they're both narcissists, now the issue is the competitive behavior the competitive nature of a narcissist which means she was competing with him and he was competing with her, what were they competing over? they were competing over control and who could hurt who the worst, she caught him cheating and he probably cheated and this is not to excuse cheating i think it's horrible cheating is abuse but after going what he went through with her um with with all the doctors the health care the therapy the medications that that's a lot on a spouse and to help out with the children and to take time off from work hire a nanny he probably was like I'm tired of this ---- I went out and um she found out he was cheating but because he's a narcissist you know and I do believe he was doing things to to abuse her behind closed doors we just couldn't see it the final nail in the coffin was the cheating he knew that would drive her over the edge and he also knew she was abusing the children long before she uh unalived her kids there there were signs there were red flags now um hold on one minute let me let me just research this real quick so my understanding was he remarried and um remarried and relocated after the unaliving of his children now she caught him cheating that's what this boils down to and we women have gone through this cheating is abuse and a lot of narcissistic men use cheating as a way to one-up their partner it's a way to torment and torture your partner and it's usually the side chick is usually she's she's aware of the wife the girlfriend at home and she doesn't care okay so it's a it's a calculated way to show dominance and and to abuse your spouse and it is purely intentional I think the cheating was totally intentional on his part but he didn't intend to leave her he just wanted to torment her in the marriage okay like most cheating men do in their marriages it takes the wife to leave and divorce okay women usually leave and divorce their their husbands not the other way around the husband uses the marriage to control the wife and he abuses her within the marriage she got wind of the cheating and she said oh yeah you want to hurt me watch this I'm going to one-up you and that's when she unalived the children this is a game between both of them and in her mind she feels she's she won and now she has to cover her tail which is why she threw herself out the window and she did those light superficial cuts she didn't cut deep if she's really in psychosis she would have cut into herself much deeper than that both of them abused each other narcissists both of them