DESTINY SWAPPING IS NOT REAL #narcissist #narcissisticabuse

Okay. I don't believe in destiny swapping. I don't even know who invented the term destiny swapping. I've been sitting back trying to bite my tongue on this topic, but I figured with it being the new year, 2026, I'm going to speak on it now and I'll be done with it. If y'all notice and you follow me and you watch me consistently, you'll notice that all last year year before that you have never ever heard me say the words destiny swap swapping you have never ever ever none of my videos i absolutely do not use the term destiny swapping i can't stand it i don't like it um i don't know who the **** made it up i don't know why black people are using it like religiously you know um it just it's stupid to me and I'll explain why okay and I will not be using that word and I do get irritated when I read people's comments and I see people using it like running it into the ground even my platform educates the masses on what narcissistic abuse is and uh what I teach people with narcissists sociopaths psychopaths very toxic, abusive people. Um, they're any energy vampires. Um, now what I think people are trying to articulate when they use the words destiny swapping, it's nothing but mirroring. Okay. If you really like do your research, I've made several videos on this narcissist, male and female narcissists, whether they're sociopaths or psychopaths, they all use the same manipulation tactics. What you call destiny swapping is actually mirroring. Okay. All narcissists are, they mirror people's behaviors. Mirroring is copying. Okay. Ladies, let me give you an example. When it comes to a male narcissist. Okay. Um, a lot of times, a lot of times the guys that you deal with, date, sleep with, get involved with before he even meets you, he's already he's studying you. He's watching your social media. He's gathered, he's a predator. Okay. And he's gathering facts about you based on what you post on social media. So he has some ideal of, of how to, you know, position himself in your life, run game on you when, when y'all first meet. Okay. He has to study you and copy and take mental notes. And then when y'all actually meet each other and hit it off so well. Narcissists are very good at love bombing. He will love bomb you and he will mirror your personality. You're the bubbly, beautiful person. You're the one with a beautiful spirit. He's holding up a mirror. He's mirroring to you what you are projecting onto him. That's not his personality. He doesn't have a personality or identity. While his personality is narcissistic, the toxic one, he's abusive, but your personality, you're the beautiful spirit. you're the anointed one so he's gonna mirror it and and and um you know whatever you're giving to him he's going to turn into that in order to um trauma bond you am i making sense the same thing applies with the female narcissist ladies if you've ever had a toxic female friend she always is going to come at you in the beginning like hey sis hey girl hey friend oh you into that i'm into that too oh you shop there you shop at gucci i shop at gucci too oh you you go grocery shopping at trader joe's so do i girl what do you buy oh you love you love their tomatoes i love their tomatoes too she's copying and mirroring everything about you to get close to you to trauma bond you because an abuser cannot get you to where where they want you and isolate you But they have to trauma bond you first. Make sure that you are stuck to them like glue. Then they can break you down and dismantle you. So mirroring someone's personality is basically you're stealing everything about them to to trauma bond them so that you can can control them. OK. And then you begin the process of intermittent reinforcement. I explain that in several videos, too, to to make sure the trauma bond stays locked in place. so not only do narcissists mirror you your own personality back to you they have to morph and become you in order to attract you and lock you in, they also do one other thing: they siphon energy, okay? they um, they will drain you and deplete you of your energy if you walk into a room full of narcissists you will leave completely exhausted because you've been around a bunch of dark energy, okay? so they definitely harvest and take and drain people and deplete people and when they start arguments and start drama you know you ever been around somebody that's negative and is always arguing combative start and ---- start and drama got you fighting with this one or your family members love to fight that's evil demonic negative energy, it will deplete you, but narcissists have to create all types of drama so they, they feed, they're parasitic They feed off of negative energy, not just positive energy. They feed off of the negative. Okay. So they're energy vampires. When you abuse the word destiny swapping, the term destiny swapping, you know, make sure you understand nobody can destiny swap God gave me my destiny and purpose. No man or woman can take me, take that away from me. They can't even try. Do y'all hear yourselves when y'all use that term? Your destiny is for you. Your destiny is what God has for you. No man, woman, or child could ever take that from you. Not even if they wanted to. Not even the narcissist. How do you swap destinies with somebody? You can't. It just sounds stupid to me. So let me reiterate. In place of using the term destiny swapping, start using the word mirror. He tried to mirror me. He mirrored me stole my personality and and he had to turn into me to impress the next girl that's mirroring he drained me of my energy, not just in my finances and everything physically, he drained me sexually he drained me I have no energy I feel weak and lethargic, he's an energy vampire, he siphoned my energy, stop misusing the words destiny swapping, I feel there's no such thing I could be wrong y'all tell me who ******* invented that ******* stupid ass ---- it's just nobody's ******* taking my destiny even at my lowest and i've had i've been abused i am a domestic violence survivor ain't none of my exes swap destinies with me not in this lifetime not the next lifetime not ever god would never let that happen what's for me is for me and the same for you what god has for you no man woman or child could ever take from you not your destiny ever that's toxic i I don't like that term, destiny swap, and that's my two cents.