WHY THEY TREAT YOU LIKE THEY HATE YOU #narcissist #empath

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When I asked him why the hate, he always denied it. Listen, I am going to talk to you guys today. What's up, Akron? What's up, Panama? I see you guys checking in. Um, just bear with me as I as I dive in today. You guys, so happy that y'all are here all the way from Canada. Shout out to you. What's up, beautiful people from all over the world? Oh my God, I love y'all so much. Thank you for being here with me. Thank you for you know thriving with me. Thank you for reaching out. Those of you who text me, email me, talk to me, book those sessions, all of that. I really appreciate y'all and I love y'all so much. I always want y'all to know that from the bottom of my heart, I would not be here without y'all. Like so, I just have to let you guys know all the time that you're so appreciated, and I am. I am definitely. Excited to be here and to do this with y'all. So tonight we're gonna talk about why they treat you like they hate you. Why they treat you like they hate you? Before I talk about it, can somebody give me a reason? Tell me why you think the narcissists treat you like they hate you. Why do you think they treat you bad while you're in the relationship with them? Why do you think you know every day was a roller coaster? Why do you think that you could never resolve issues with them? When I first started learning about narcissistic abuse and started trying to figure out. What this was all about, I used to always think maybe they're jealous. They're jealous. Somebody said it. Yep, they want to be us. I agree. Jealous, threatened, because they are hurting. Okay, those are all great reasons. I do not disagree with any of those reasons. I definitely do not disagree with any of those reasons, but tonight I would just ask you to just have a moment with me and let me share my perspective and let me teach you something very interesting about the narcissist because the more you really understand the programming of the narcissist. You you start to realize how powerful you've been over the whole situation. You start to realize why you were targeted. You realize why they hang on, why they won't let go. It it just all makes sense, and it helps you thrive. It helps you become a warrior to NPD. You're not gonna be able to escape this forever. You need to be wiser about it, smarter about it, and know how to pick these people out and dissect them. So today we're going to talk about why they treat you like they hate you. I'm gonna dive right on in, you guys. So bear with me with the comments. I will make sure I go back and look at it as as I end my live on tonight. But why do they treat you like they hate you, y'all? So first of all, the narcissist does not have an ego. How can you have an ego when you don't have a self? You don't have a sense of self. You don't know who you are. You don't know who you are, so where where would you even have an ego? They they act like they have an ego, but they really don't. Everything about the narcissist is something that they've learned from somewhere or from someone. They've copied. You really don't know the narcissist that you dealt with. You still, till this day, may not really know who they really are. You've only gotten pieces of them. You being in their life, you you brought. An experience. Of the false sense of self that the narcissist operates with, a narcissist walks around this earth. Not showing anybody who they are. Again, they don't know who they are. When you come into their life, they portray to be a certain somebody to you. And you catch on to that. You you hold on to that. That's what you end up falling in love with. You being who you are, call yourself an empath. Call yourself chosen. Call yourself anointed. Call yourself whatever. You being who you are. Once you allow the narcissist to come into your life. You brought an amazing experience to that false sense of self. Whoever this person pretended to be with you, you admired it. Now let's think about this for a second. You admired it. This is in the beginning. Whoever they pretended to be, we don't. It it don't even matter who they said they was in the beginning. Let's think about that. You admired it. You being a real one. You being a lover. You being this person who just who goes hard for people. Who cares so much? You admired it. You pulled them in. You try to inspire. You try to motivate. You put in and you sacrifice the things that you put in because of who they showed you they were. You fell for it. You believed in that person, whoever that person was, whatever that image was. You did that. You fell for this false sense of of self. That the narcissist portrayed to be, and guess what—the whole time. That they watched you fall in love with this fake person. They hated you for it. When we talk about a narcissist, you have to always remember you're dealing with a twisted individual. The way we think as healthy, normal individuals, healthy human beings, that is not how a narcissist operates. While you were in love with this fake being, this fake person, whoever this person was, painting this picture to be. While you were hanging on to these these fake future faking promises. They were hating you for doing that because they knew. That it was not real. A narcissist treats you like they hate. Because they have to live a lie with you, and that's hard to do during love bombing phase. It's all good and dandy. It's all games. It's all funny. It's all cute. But it becomes exhausting to be a narcissist. It becomes exhausting to have to keep up with all of that. That is why, as the relationship goes on, it becomes painful. You find out more. They talk to you worse. They do more and more and more and more and more dirt. Because you fell in love with somebody who they never were, and they got tired of trying to be that person eventually, and couldn't help but to keep letting that mask continue to slip. All because a real one encountered their life. If you did not come into that narcissist life. And give him a whiff of your energy. A lot of how they treated you wouldn't have happened. You caused them to have to show themselves. Because you demanded realness. A real one does not want a fake one. You demanded real one, a real one because you're real. You demanded realness. Everything in the relationship, you wanted it to be real. You didn't give the real side of you to get a false side of somebody else. So once you started seeing that it was not real. It got worse. It kept getting worse, and they kept treating you like they hated you. The mental programming of a narcissist has to be understood for you to thrive and understand that you're not crazy. That's the whole purpose of understanding how these people operate, because you are not crazy. You ain't perfect, but you ain't crazy. You you might have some issues, and you might you might need a little you know tender love and care in certain areas because you're rough around the edges, based based on your own trauma, your own issues, and things from the past. But you're not crazy. You're dealing with somebody who is like a child. A narcissist cannot regulate internal and external objects, and you are just an object to a narcissist. You're not. You're not a human being. You're just an object. When you come into their life with all that realness that you carry. All that love that you have—that's a lot. You're overwhelming. And it makes them treat you like they hate you because they don't want all that. They just want to play games. A narcissist is like a child. A child is free. Is free spirited. A child treats their mother and father with love and hate. That's why they say in psychology that narcissism is in children because children don't know no better. They're self-centered. It's all about me. I love you, and I wanna love on you, mom and dad. I'ma cry for attention when I want it. If you don't give it to me, I might not talk to you. I might cry for a whole day, a whole week. That's the narcissism in a child. That is a narcissist. A narcissist is like a grown ass child. That's why one minute they love you, the next minute they don't, because when they needed the supply from you. That's when they were that happy child, loving on you for that moment. But then they turn around and hate you, because they're ready to go out in the world and experiment, just like a child. The programming of a narcissist, you guys. This is why they treat you like they hate you. They treat you like they hate you. The narcissist feels very depersonalized in life. This is not a balanced human being. When you met them, they weren't balanced. Their mind is spiraling. They they are trying to figure out where they going, how they coming. They don't know what they doing. And here you come, with a clear vision, a clear mind. As imperfect as you are, you come off as completely perfect to a narcissist. You seem to have it all together. That's why so many of us answered and said, "Shoot, they jealous of us, yeah, because we seem to have it all together." That's hard to. That's hard to accept. How could you not be hated? For coming off perfect to someone who feels very imperfect. The narcissist makes everything seem competitive. Everything is a challenge to the grandiosity of a narcissist, and that includes you. You as an you as an external object is frightening to a narcissist. They don't know what to do with you. They don't know what to do with anyone that's in their life. That's why they do their children the way that they do their children. You have to really learn to stop taking things personal with these narks because these people. Are only partial humans. A narcissist. Does everything they do to you because they have no access to their emotions? They idealize everyone, but don't see anybody. That's why they're never happy. You could be the best thing in their life, and they'll still let you slip because they don't see you. They will never see you. They'll only see what you can do for their life. What can they benefit with having you in their life? They never interact with the real you. Their emotions are always negative, all over the place. It's never for better or for worse. That's why marriage with them is hell. Nobody stays married to a narcissist. People leave after a hundred years of marriage. A hundred years, you damn near dead, and you still want to divorce them. That's just how deep it gets. You're you're you're not a separate unique entity to a narc. You're not. They consider everyone to be an idiot. Everyone to be inferior to them. That's why they are partially human. This is why so many of us have different names for them. Some of y'all call them. I don't know. I'm not even gonna get into the name calling at the moment. But they don't carry human. Characteristics, attributes, elements, things that are vital to being a good human being. It's not inside of a narcissist. Their programming is. It's not like that. They're not wired. Properly, it's not just a chemical imbalance. It's not just demonic. Possessions. It's it's really just somebody who is not human. Inhuman to a very, very high extent. That's why nothing works with them. No conversation works with them, but but. Being what a narcissist. Has to teach you how powerful you are. When we say the word supply, y'all. Supply comes in three esses. I'm gonna teach y'all something real quick. You, this great A supply that you are. You, this empath, this chosen person, this this beautiful soul that I'm talking to and looking at today. This survivor, this thriver, you—this person who have endured hell with the narcissist, who has tried to live with this narcissistic parent, these family members, and it's just gone nowhere for you. You had to eventually cut them off. There's three S's when it comes to supply, and obviously the first S. Doesn't go for family members because it means sex. That goes for those of you that were in spousal relationships. The sex, the supply, and the services is all part of the supply that a narcissist receives from us. Sex, supply, and services. And whatever that means for for you individually, whatever role you played in their life, whatever role they played in your life, whatever you gave, you know that. I don't have to name it off. It doesn't have to be a list. But you gave them an experience that maximized their grandiosity. Through sex, through some type of supply, and through services. Your sex. Your supply, and your service to them. Supply is not always service. Supply is is mainly the energy that you get. When you come home after a bad day and you choose to put your feelings aside and you go to them because you see they're having a bad day. Even if they're intentionally making themselves seem as if they're having a bad day to to get your attention, and you give it to them anyway. Supply. When they're having temper tantrums, and you do whatever you can do to calm them down. Give them a little pacifier. Shut them up. Supply. When you when you always sensed that something was wrong, and you ran to their need supply. Services. When I hear the word services, I'm thinking about financial services. All the times you gave your money. All the times you paid for things. All the times you opened your door and let them sleep in your home. All the times you took their children in. All the time you took their family in. The services that you gave. Letting them drive your vehicle, hell, giving them cars, signing cars in your name for them. The services that you gave, you you ex you gave a maximum grandiose experience to them. That's like a major drug high. A major drug high. That's like heroin. I don't know what the hell being on heroin feel like, but from what I've seen, from watching people. And and what I know about the drug, and the effects. It's like, it's an out of body experience. It's like something that. You can't even explain. You can't even describe it. It's a high that's out of this world. It's expansive. You, you, you, you, you made them feel like a human. I'm saying all of that to simply say. You made them feel like a human when they got that high, when they got that sex, when they got that supply, when they got that service. And for a narcissist to have to feel like a human. That's not what they want. That's why they turn around and treat you like they hate you for making them feel any ounce of love. Any ounce of care. How dare you love me that much? How dare you make me feel so loved? How dare you care about me that much? How dare you care so much that you took my family in? Because for me to be, for me to feel like a human being, that means I have to feel some guilt and shame for doing you wrong. Because you doing all of this, you opening your home. You allowed me to marry you. You took a vow with me. And I treated you like dirt. The human emotion that I have to feel as that narcissist. It's painful. And guilt. It's a painful feeling, especially as a narcissist, because they're going around doing wrong to people that haven't done nothing wrong to deserve what they're doing to them. You brought a human experience to an inhuman person. And they want to run from that because they are professional runners. They've been doing this all their life. All they do is run from situations, run from problems, run from relationships. And all they did in their relationship with you was run. Run from responsibilities. Run from accountability. Run from everything. Like a child. Hot and cold, emotional roller coaster. You being this intimate person. That brought some type of a change in their life. That made them feel human. Made them have to treat you like they hate you. Because how dare you make them feel like that? This person has been spending their entire life living in a false world. How dare you make them feel like they gotta be real now? Who are you to bring all this empowerment into their life? Who are you to make them have to face theirself and and want to actually think about being a better parent? For you to keep talking all this good stuff, man, they don't want to hear about what a good husband look like or what a good wife looks like. They idealized all of that, but they weren't ready for it because they didn't realize you were really a real one. You made them face being a human. And they had to treat you like they hate you for it, 'cause they weren't ready for that. They not trying to be a human, 'cause a human takes accountability. A human's gonna take accountability for for bringing children. They're not just gonna have children and then abandon them. They're not gonna, you know, lay down and have multiple children with somebody, and then turn around. Oh, I don't want to do this with you no more. I wanna, I wanna live life with somebody else. I wanna do something else. That's inhuman behavior. That's monstrous. Aliens probably don't even do ---- like that. A narcissist treats you like they hate you because your realness forces them to have to face themselves. So many impasses. You carry a gift that mirrors. How somebody is, you made them look at themselves by looking at you. Like damn. I don't deserve this person. They too strong. They too much. They invested all this time. They interacted with me in all this time. You you you you required a high demand of respect. That's too human for them. You require commitment, and and honesty, and trust. That's that's too human for them. You require for them to go to counseling. Oh my God. Because you you may not think they're a full blown narcissist. They might just be narcissistic. They don't even want to go to counseling and try to get some help, and and tone down their narcissistic ways. That's too inhuman for them. They rather treat you like they hate you and wiggle their way out of the relationship like a coward. Cheat on you, find somebody new, do all that weird coward stuff. Because you made them feel too human, you're too real. How dare you! How dare you be such a functional intimate partner? How dare you be such a functional daughter or son to that narcissistic parent? How dare you make them have to face how fake they are? How dare you! Who told you? Who told you to do that to him? They weren't ready for you. You too real. You are too real. You are too real. And because of your realness, a narcissist will eventually have to face themselves. I feel. I know. I don't feel sorry. I don't feel sorry. I don't feel sorry for any narcissist who has encountered a true empath. A true chosen soul, because of you. They have to face themselves. They have to eventually reach reach rock bottom. There's a psychological term for this level of where a narcissist reaches and hits rock bottom. I can't think of the word right now. Starts with an M. Manifestation, manifestation, something like that. I'm gonna get back to y'all on that. But they will reach rock bottom because they encountered you, and guess what? You got to a point where after all of that crap you encountered and dealt with and endured and took and withheld. And try to pray about. And sleep on and deal with for all this time, you finally walked away. You finally abandoned them. You finally cut them off. You finally moved on. Some of you finally exposed them. And because of those things. Because of who you are, because you are brave, courageous, bold, smart, and wise, and strong and powerful enough to do those things. They gon' they gon' hit rock bottom. They ain't got no choice. That whole that lifetime of being this fake idiot, how long? Y'all really think a lot of them are just gonna die like this? Yeah, nah. Many narcissists have to face themselves. Does that mean anything for them? Who knows and who cares? But they will have to face themselves, and and it only happens because they encounter someone like you. They treat you like they hate you, 'cause you made them feel like a human. They treated you like they hate you, for exposing them. And abandoning them after you made them face themselves. Because in the beginning you admired that fake person that they were. In the beginning you were loving all that fakeness. You were you was you was riding for them. You was a ride or die. You was hanging on till the wheels fell off. But then you woke up one day, and you ain't never been back sleep since. And they treated you like they hate you, ever since you woke up while you were in the relationship, and now even after. Because guess what, y'all hoovers, hoovers are set up. Hoovers is just a game. They just trying to come back to finish you off, 'cause they still hate you. They hate you even more now for for being strong enough to leave them. For being strong enough to actually walk away. For being strong enough to actually see right through them. For being strong enough for to take your life back, and choose to heal and thrive. They really hate you now. This is why you don't accept keepers, 'cause they're going to make you pay. They're going to make you pay. A hoover is a setup for payback. Ask anybody who's ever accepted a hoover how it went for them. I'll tell you, I have a million stories about how I went back to several hoovers and got slapped and slapped and dext in the face, got kung fu chopped in the neck. Every Hoover, it was more STDs. Every Hoover, it was more lies. It was, it was, it was just, woo, woo. Every Hoover, it was worse. It was a setup to finish me off. Every Hoover, I was even I was left even more depressed. Every Hoover, I wanted to die. Every Hoover I got discarded even worse. What? Come on now. You admired the fake self, but when you woke up and you chose happiness. That's the best thing you could have done. That is the best thing you could have done. You are hated for giving the narcissist the best time of their life. You're hated for giving the narcissist a piece of you. Something they can never be. They'll forever be jealous of. Something they'll always have to be reminded that they lost because you walked away. And you're not interested in looking back. So many of you are cold with the Hoover ignore game now. It don't even work for it. Cause you're educating yourself, you're thriving, and you're not going for it. Because you see that at the end of the day, you were a real one since the beginning. You've always been a human. And they've always been inhuman. They've always been fake. They've always been fake, terrible, terrible, y'all. You guys, I I I just want to come to an end with tonight's live. I hope that you know you caught something on today that will help you in your recovery journey from these demons, these snakes, these ducks. I didn't get too much into our comments on today, so I'm gonna just take a couple moments to just skim through real quick. But I do appreciate so many of you that stopped in on tonight's live and checked in with me today. So many of you that are pushing and thriving, man, it's it's a beautiful thing to see you that to see you still going. And those of you who are dropping your testimonies, your your comments, I appreciate you engaging on tonight. But I had to check in and let you know why they treat you like they hate you. There are so many reasons why we can come up with why they treat us like they hate us, but the real truth remains: the experience that we gave this inhuman person. It's not to be forgotten. It's not. It's not a normal experience. You're not like these typical supplies that they're used to. There's something quite interesting about you. There's something very, very much quite interesting about you, and at the end of the day. There is nothing, any narcissist. Can ever come into your life and do that you don't allow, and and and. It just won't work. You're too real. I don't have to sit here and tell y'all what I think y'all have done in y'all relationships with these narcissists. I know what some of you have really given. And I know that after everything you've given, they left you with your jaws hanging, with with what they paid you back with. But they paid you back with that evil and that hatred because they're cowards. And they they they're cowards, and they were they were unable to face the human. That you wanted them to face, and that you brought out of them, they've been running from their their true self, their entire life. To the point where they really believe that they are someone that they really are not, and can't nobody fix, convince them, or change their mind about that. But that's not your problem. That's not your problem, Sis says. I understand what happened to me, but I just feel like I wasn't what he wanted. And he seems so happy with the new supply. Like I was the problem. I don't get it. Girl is, you said it yourself. He seems so happy with the new supply. At some point, did he seem happy with you? And and let's let's let's talk about this new supply word for a second. At at some point, each and every one of us who dealt with a narcissistic partner intimately. We became a new supply to them because they've had supplies before you. What type of supply you are differentiates from what those other supplies were, but a supply is a supply. What they did for you and how they made you feel, and then the dirt that they did to you. It's nothing but a cycle. If they somewhere licking happy with somebody else, you gotta realize they going through that same cycle with that person. They not won up in you. They not winning. There's no power. They treating you like they hate you by moving on with somebody, kikiing and high highing with them. You know, loving on them and posting up on social media and and all that cuddly. You know, we gonna have 70 years together. They getting engaged and all of that fake BS. It's fake BS. It's fake BS. They did the same thing with you. There is nobody that leaves one relationship and roll over and find love the next. Stay with somebody new. That's not real. It does not happen. The narcissist is a pretender, and they're doing anything that they can do to make sure. You believe their act. Don't believe. This is all part of one making you feel like they hate you. You real, and the riller you are, you guys. I'm just gonna tell you the truth. The riller you are. The more they're going to hate you, and the more things they do. The realer you seem to a narcissist. It's like the worst they do to you. It's like they have to aim at you very deep because. The real ones stand so strong. You have to aim at me deep to break me. You have to really aim at. You have to find some. You have to find something to break me, because I'm not that breakable. I'm not breakable. It's so hard to break me. You gotta find. You gotta find where it's gonna hurt me at. And they will. They will go whatever extent, whatever extreme extent, to make sure you're hurting. You just cannot allow that to overtake you because it's not real. Nothing about them is real. Nothing about them is real. Not even the news. The new supply situation. It ain't nothing but a whole nother love bombing situation with somebody new. That's all it is, y'all. Ooh! Somebody said her eyes went dark. I thought I was seeing things. Real demons gave her everything. My goodness, it's that, but it's true. It's sad, but it's true. You know, they they treat you like they hate you. And and all because they did you wrong. You you treated me like you hate me because you feel crazy. For how you're treating somebody who doesn't deserve that—that's a—that's a narcissistic personal problem. That's an NPP. We gotta realize that these people literally have narcissistic personal problems. That's a that's a personal problem. I'm not gonna take it personal. I'm a healin', and I'm gonna let you. I'm gonna just. I'm be like, you know what? It it ain't even your it ain't even your fault, little little sad little baby. It ain't even your fault, little sad little demon baby. I just gotta leave you alone. I just gotta cut you off, leave you alone, 'cause you a you a you a sad little demon, little baby, like. You are a demonic little little baby. Ooh, you scary! I don't even. Uh. Uh. Uh. Uh. Uh. Yeah. You ain't gotta tell me twice. You gotta treat me like you hate me for being real. Oh, you ain't gotta tell me twice. That makes it easy for me to cut you off. I don't know about any of y'all, but as a super empath. You hand me the scissors to cut you off, baby. I'm not gonna hesitate to use it. You' gonna treat me crazy for being real to you, baby. I'm not gonna hesitate. To use them scissors and cut you off. I'm not gonna hesitate to, to, to, to, gray rock. You know that cold shoulder, heavy on those nose. Heavy on those, I'm not rocking with you. Heavy on that, get out my house. Okay. A lot of y'all be quick to to talk. Trash about people who put people out during relationships. Listen, just because you're in a relationship with somebody and one of y'all decide to live with the other person. You're not obligated to let that person stay once they start abusing you. Once you realize that that ---- don't fit your life. You can put 'em out. That's all part of cutoff game. That don't make you a bad person. That don't make you a sick person, and none of that. First of all, as an adult, you should have your own ----. If you ain't married and doing it together, you should have your own ----. So don't be mad at somebody when they cut you off and they say, "Hey, no is no. I'm not going for it." It just is what it is. They can treat you like they hate you all day. But take it as a sign to stand strong. Stand strong in who you are. And recognize that they ain't doing nothing but playing games with you. Because how in the hell can you love me one day and hate me the next? That's childish as hell. That's confusing. Nobody has time for that. Not no chosen one, not no real one. I don't got time for that. I don't got time for no games with no narcissists. And that's all they wanna do is play games. That's why they treat you like they hate you because they all about games and you not. They hate the fact that you're demanding respect. They hate the fact that you want them to be honest. They hate the fact that you want them to stop cheating and be committed. That's childish, and you ain't got time for that. So they gon' always treat you like they hate you, because you gon' always remain a boss. Bosses don't settle. Bosses don't settle. We're not just going to accept you for for who you are, and and just because you're narcissistic and evil and mean, and we love you, we just gonna settle. Nah, we love you enough to walk the hell off and stay away. Cut you off and stay gone. I love you enough to be like I don't know you. I love you enough to treat you like a dad. Point blank. Freaking period. And that's all I have for y'all. Because if I don't shut up, I'm not going. Woo! So much love and engagement in tonight's comments, y'all. I love it. It's so many. I'm not even gonna sit here and try to read it. Um, but I I love it. I I hope that y'all got today's message. Really hoping, pray that you learned something from tonight's live. Um, those of you if you want to connect, please, please connect with me and let me know how I can be of service to you. Um, book those sessions. I'm available. I'm taking July's appointments now. Um, you know, reach out to me however you can, and I will do my best to always contact you back and reach out to you. So much love and so much light, y'all. Thank you for being here tonight. Um, I love the comments. Y'all are going in. Y'all are going in. Y'all are going in. Y'all are going in. But I love it so much. Engagement, so much growth, so much knowledge, y'all. It's great. It's great. It's great. But keep your spirits up. Keep on going. Oh yeah, somebody said it. Mortification. Moving forward. Thank you, sis. That's the word I was looking for earlier. Mortification. When a narcissist hits rock bottom, we gonna talk about that one day in depth. I'm still reading up on a lot of the things that I be talking about because this stuff is a lot. I ain't no narcissist professional. I just happen to been studying on this for a long time, but it's just getting. Deeper for me because now my spirituality has been awoken with my knowledge. So, you know, you guys, it is what it is. But I love y'all so much. Light, so much love. Stay tuned for the next video. If you're new here on tonight's live, make sure that you subscribe before you leave. Hit that notification bell so you don't miss my weekly posts. And find me on social media, you guys. I'm on TikTok, I'm on Facebook, and I have a new Instagram, Mommy So True with Two E's. I'm gonna drop my description information in the video for you guys to see this after tonight's live. But thank you so much for being here. I love y'all. Have a great and safe evening. If I could not get to you today in these comments, I apologize, but it's so many of them. It's so so so many of them. But I love y'all. I love y'all, and I do get to see this after I get off. So I'm gonna definitely, I'm gonna definitely get into into some of these comments later on. But so much love, so much light, everybody. Have a blessed night. I will see y'all next time. Please take care. Bye guys.