MEN ARE MURDERING THEIR MOTHERS IN 2025 #matricide #femicide #blackmen

Hey y'all, Spiritual Whistleblower here with another video. I want to talk about something very serious, matricide. If you don't know what matricide is, it is the homicide. It's maternal homicide. It's when a child murders their mother, be it son or daughter, matricide. Before I get into this very serious topic, I want to remind you guys I'll be in Toronto, Canada on Wednesday, May 14th. I'm holding a workshop on narcissistic abuse recovery. Tickets are on sale. The link is pinned down in my comment section, Toronto, Canada. I have a surprise for all the guests. I have a gift, a personalized gift I will have for my guests. So get your tickets below Canada, Wednesday, May 14th. I'll be in Boston, Massachusetts on Thursday, June 5th and Stamford, Connecticut, Sunday, June 8th. Meet and greet. It'll be much smaller than Toronto, but I will breeze through Boston and Stamford. I don't want to hear none from y'all that say I don't ever come through. I will be there. OK, again, tickets for Toronto, Boston and Stamford, Connecticut will be pinned down below Linktree. All the options are there. See you guys there. Now, let's get on with this. I wanted to talk about this because on TikTok, it's really interesting. You know, we talk about femicide. femicide is uh excuse me black femicide especially and if you're not african-american please sit in on this conversation and just listen because i am aware that this is happening with all races but because i am a african-american woman a black woman and i'm witnessing black men wipe out their mothers i mean it's on the rise it's not being reported yet statistic wise but if you're on tiktok if you're on social media social media is like a magnifying glass all the stories that don't get reported on the media you know like uh the news stations baby let me tell you something people are in these streets reporting the ---- that's going on in their their neighborhoods it's on tiktok thank god for social media thank god for tiktok because the ---- that don't get reported on the news you better believe it's it's on social media so i am reading up on so many different stories of black men turning on their mothers beating the **** out their mothers harming and assaulting their mothers and murdering their mothers which is called matricide now Now, femicide is just black men. Like I said, this is all racist, but I want to talk about black men because I can only identify with black men because I'm a black woman. The rates of black femicide, the rates of domestic violence in the African-American community where black men are just harming not just their mothers, women in general and their daughters, sexual assault of children off the hook. the department of justice are reporting these numbers i believe it used to be every what is it one in five one in six i know the numbers are really bad black men have a lot of pent-up anger and resentment they don't go to therapy they don't handle their mental health issues properly a lot of them are highly narcissistic and don't feel that they have a problem they don't deal with their trauma they don't deal so many issues um and and it's not just in the home but you can blame society the patriarchal system and societal racism you know it's everything is set up for black men to fail which for me would give them more incentive to push hard and be motivated to come out on top but they just choose to not um persevere um and i like i said i think a huge part of that whether they live in a single parent home with a mama raising them by herself or whether there's dad in the picture i really just don't think it matters because when there's a toxic mother figure in the picture this is before he loses his virginity if his mama is coddling him and she does not allow him to individualize he does not have an identity outside of his mama come on siren come on siren you know mom mom if mom is a covert narcissist those are the sneaky types those are the ones that are very difficult to detect the narcissism because they know how to cry they know how to pretend to be empathetic they know how to pretend to be loving mothers. The covert narcissists are the worst types. They are the main ones in church praising the Lord. They are the biggest coddlers. If you coddle your son from the time of conception and you keep coddling him through his teenage years, you keep coddling him as a grown ass man when he has a wife or a girlfriend, you are ruining him. You are crippling him. You are setting him up for failure i blame mom yeah dad is at fault too but i i blame mom because everything that he learns about a woman comes directly from his mother before the boy loses his virginity before the boy falls in love he learns everything from mama so if mom is super possessive and controlling of her son she will ruin him if mom beats bullies and emasculates her her little boy he will resent her if mom allows men to disrespect her like dad dad could beat bully cheat on her but she doesn't want to break her family up so she'll stay with dad regardless of his abuse and she allows her son to see that that is abuse. He's going to resent mom for not having a backbone and standing up to dad and protecting. If dad is in the household and dad beats and abuses the boy and mom does not protect her son, that little boy will grow up to resent mom and dad. He'll hate dad for beating and abusing him, but he will look at mom and say, mommy, why didn't you protect me from my abuser daddy i hate you mommy if mom abandons him whether she has a drug addiction and she's in the streets all the time and she's sleeping with multiple men and she dumps him off on grandma and grandma raises him he will resent her for being emotionally neglectful and abandoning him he will have hatred and resentment towards mom as mom said **** you i want to run the streets instead of raising you if mom has other children in the household and she spoils them and gives him love and affection and shits on him meaning she shows favoritism towards her other children and mistreats her son again he will grow up hating and resenting his mama everything begins with mom everything everything and you know he's caught in this rough place because between society and his family pressuring him to keep forgiving his mother and overlooking her toxic ---- her toxic ways her toxic behavior he is taught and guilt tripped into staying loyal to her i call this toxic loyalty deep down inside he hates her ass and resents her but he's forced to love her regardless of her flaws and that's a recipe for disaster you do that to a little boy he will turn into a teenager who hates his mama and then you combine that with mental illness let's just say he's autistic let's just say he's bipolar let's just say he has behavioral problems and mom does nothing about it mom says well my son will grow out of it or i'm gonna send him to his father's house and let his father deal with it mom ain't doing ---- to address his mental health issues or his behavioral issues or she'll dump him off on his grandparents and let his grandparents you know he's good let him go i'm gonna send him off to his grandparents or his father and his daddy's ******* toxic so his daddy's just gonna make him worse his dad gonna let him do what he want and dad's gonna sit up and bash his mom you know on the visitation on the visits mom and dad ain't together so you know when she sends him off to go be with his father on the weekends his father's gonna sit up and say yeah your mother's a piece of ---- your mother left me your mother cheated on me your mother broke our family up so daddy gonna make the issues even worse and send him back home to mom he gonna be even more fucked up than what mom sent him off to be mom didn't put him in therapy mom didn't get him treatment for his autism or his behavioral issues or his ADHD now he's a teenage boy and he's getting bigger and stronger physically stronger mom can't whoop his ass or beat his ass anymore she was whooping and beat his ass when he was little and you you gotta be careful with that you can't beat these little boys when they have behavioral issues and mental health issues that should be handled in therapy he should have gotten an intervention a long time ago she should have you know when he started acting up and breaking things she should have had him placed in a psychiatric hospital the pediatric department in the psych hospital and let them assess and stabilize him and get him the treatment the medications for his mental health issues when he was a little boy the signs and red flags were there the teacher warned mama mama said no I got it I'll send him off to his father let his father deal with it or I let him run the streets mom did not handle business or mom beat the **** out of him you know every time he had behavioral issues his ADHD was acting up she got the belt out or a switch or an extension cord extension cord and beat the **** out of him so what she thought she when she thought she was correcting him she was actually making him worse turning him and turning him into an animal or she get through beating him and send him off to the granddaddy's house granddaddy beat him some more or his uncles beat him some more his daddy beat him some more creating a monster he he becomes a teenager now he's physically stronger than mom she can't beat his ass no more because he gonna flip and turn on her ass and he's not gonna cooperate and go to the hospital mom's too scared to call the police on him so she's coddling him some more i love him i don't want him good to go to jail i don't you created the ******* monster now you're scared to put him in ******* put him in the hospital you're scared to call the police and the ambulance on his ass so again more coddling so what happens he grows up becoming a grown-ass man with untreated mental illness untreated bipolar untreated ADHD on you know no therapy for his autism you didn't beat the **** out of him god forbid if somebody in the family molest him whether it's the babysitter whether it's an uncle it might be an aunt somebody in the family could possibly touch that boy and tell him to be quiet about it because it's normal for a boy to lose his virginity to an older woman or it could have been the pastor a grown-ass man touched on the boy so he got to deal with that he got that bottled up inside of him too but now that he's a grown man he's now jumping in these romantic relationships with multiple women creating multiple baby mamas not being a responsible adult because mom is still coddling him mom know he's toxic mom created the ******* monster yet still because he's a grown man she's coddling him because she feels sorry for him and she feels guilty because she knows she created the problem when he was a little boy and did nothing about it so the coddling continues she she will allow him to uh live off of her and not pay rent or bills she will allow him to use her car to pick up his side chick when he should be home taking care of his kids he'll drop his kids off to his mom's house and say mom can you babysit for a minute while i go take my girl on a date got all these ******* side chicks and baby mamas but mom keeps coddling him and enabling him to be a **** up but what happens he's running out of time his baby mamas don't **** with him no more um women are are not dealing with his ---- so now he's angry he's not going to therapy he's not working on himself won't go to college won't get his life together because mom keeps coddling and enabling him as a grown man it's okay baby mommy's here no matter who turn it back on you mommy's here oh your baby mama you know don't want you your girlfriend trying to get a restraining order on you because you beat her ass it's okay mommy's here i'll let you get away with whatever just come on back home to mom mom wants to keep that control over him because mom's narcissistic this is what narcissistic mothers do they coddle their boys because they want to control their boys in a very sick way they see their boys as a husband son husband this is what we call emotional incest so because mom won't take her titty out her mouth and mom feels a sense of guilt because she ******* ruined him didn't get him treatment or help when he was little mom is carrying all this guilt on her mom knows she contributed to the ******* problem but it's too late and she's too scared to call the cops and put him out her house he's much stronger than her and bigger than her she knows he'll whoop her ass so she's gonna go along with the program and let him do what he wants she's gonna keep coddling him so she can stay on his good side so he don't turn up on turn up on his mom and when he's beating his baby mama's ass and whooping on his wife and cheating on his girlfriend mom's gonna you know have his back because mom is too scared of him mom don't want him to turn on her so she's gonna sit back and say better you than me bitch be beating on the girlfriend and cheating on the wife and doing his baby mother wrong mom gonna turn the other way and say better you than me bitch I don't want him to turn on me I'm gonna stay on my son's good side so yeah if he go to get a if you go get a restraining order against my son I'm gonna go to court and help help defend him I'm gonna be his witness because I don't want my son turning on me that's more coddling that's that's more enabling mom mothers are doing this to their sons so what happens now now women are not putting up with this ---- and her son's getting frustrated because he can't manipulate his girlfriend his girlfriend don't want ---- to do with him the baby mama got a restraining order the baby mama took him to court and say pay your child stay the **** away from me so now he can't **** with the baby mama and he can't women are not putting up with his ---- so now he's angry and because he lacks accountability and he's ******* lazy he hasn't been required to step up and be a man his father's a **** up and a womanizer mom keeps coddling him and all he can think about is his childhood memories all the trauma and ---- the ---- his mama did and didn't do to him he still resents mom doesn't matter how much she coddles him and supports him enables him to be a **** up he still remembers the damage mom has caused him he still remembers in his childhood everything that mom did and that anger that he has towards his mother is still there he remembers how well his mom treated his siblings and shitted on him he don't forget nothing so what ends up happening he turns on his mother in the end because he can't manipulate and bully anybody else anymore his girlfriend don't want him and the baby mama don't want him ex-wife divorce him he's losing control of his life he has nothing to lose at this point who else can he turn that ******* anger on mommy when he sits down and he realizes his mother set him up to fail in life his mama crippled him by coddling him it's going to anger him yeah he's going to turn on his mother we're going to start seeing a rise in men killing their mothers it's called matricide there was a case i think last week in north carolina y'all can fill me in on the story i know bits and pieces i'm reading about the story a man came home from prison and within six days he murdered his mother and his little brother now as i go down that rabbit hole and i read about that story i'm hearing that the reason that he went to prison to begin with is from assaulting his mother i don't know how true it is allegedly that's what i read he ended up in prison because he assaulted his mother either was attempted murder or some sort of so I don't know what it was but it was because he tried to harm his mother and I also read too that while he was in prison maybe she wasn't uh putting enough money on his book she wasn't attentive I don't know how true this is alleged I'm gonna say alleged but she had a very close relationship with his little brother his little brother you know she loved him to death you know so I guess maybe he felt like she favored his little brother and loved him more than she loved him so when he came home um what I also read is that you know now that he's a grown man his mother said you need to go get a job and he snapped stabbed her up and his little brother murdered both his mama and his little brother so you know the first thing that came to my mind is you know if it's true that he went to prison for harming his mother why the **** would she allow him to come home more coddling more enabling you know what your son was yeah you might love your son but at the end of the day you know your son is sick you know your son is a womanizer you know the red flags were there but you continue to coddle him you thought jail or prison would change him these mothers be knowing they sons is fucked up but you know what it is it's a control it's a control issue because mom is a secret covert narcissist she secretly fetishizes her son and wants to continue to control her son no matter how much he abuses her and disrespects her there's this sixth sense of mom wanting to control her son he could dog her i saw this in my last relationship y'all my ex did 20 years in prison at the time i didn't know but he went for domestic violence he assaulted two police officers um kidnapped his girlfriend led police on a high-speed car chase like total criminal and the moment he got out of prison he was already disrespecting his daughter he has an adult daughter he cussed her out and disrespect her she was trying to help him you know buy supplies and and you know things that he needed once he came out of prison nobody was there for him no girlfriend or wife not even his mama his his adult daughter drove him to get his, his supplies and things for him. He fell out with his adult daughter. Then he moved in with his mother. Then he called on me and had, I had this, this was a high school friend of mine because I don't date jailbirds, but he was like, I changed my life, gave it to God. You were the girl I should have married. And I, you know what? And he was close to my brother. They was on the basketball team together. So I trusted him based on, based on that. But I got to see up close and personal I saw him pull a knife on his mother and threatened he threatened to slap his mother in front of me and I said oh no something ain't right with this bitch this nigga is capable of murder and he'll do his mother like that he'll turn on me I didn't I didn't stay but three months I got up out of there I got up out of there and the thing is this what I realized between my ex and his mother I you know when he threatened to slap her you know what she did she blew a kiss in his face she taunted him so I said there's something wrong with the mama too and I said there's a deep rooted there's a history of abuse in this family his father beat him and his mother sat back and allowed his father to to get away with it his mama didn't protect him and I saw that my ex blamed his mother for a lot of his mental issues that he had with his father family all the whole family's fucked up so what I believe in these types of families with it when when I see a man turn on his mama she is she is mainly the one to blame for this behavior you can't create a monster in childhood coddle that monster and then play victim when he turn on your ass when he's a grown man and I'm gonna tell you now women are not putting up with men anymore and because these men are not going to therapy they're not dealing with their childhood trauma they're not dealing with their mother issues they got to turn that anger on somebody that that anger is going to go back to where it came from mommy we're going to hear a lot of stories of men murdering their mothers assaulting their sisters turning on their families watch what i tell y'all watch what i tell y'all matricide is on the rise because men there's there's this era of men going through loneliness and depression um losing their jobs the unemployment rates men are going through this phase of depression because women are divorcing them is the divorce rate in the United States is what 70 80 percent women are leaving men women are not having children they're not allowing men to trap them with babies like we are not ******* with them so they got you know they got to look at themselves in the mirror now and all their issues and trauma and they don't want to do it they're becoming angrier now because they can't control women and they're going to be mad at the woman who raised them the woman that crippled them from the beginning the woman that set them up for failure their mama let me know what y'all think in the comment section it's real if i see one more story a man a man like that here in new york last summer a boy he was 22 he pushed his mother off the cliff killed her uh new york we have uh i don't know if it was central park but the the parks here you know central park and another park in Harlem they got these steep hills where you push somebody off the hill that's it these these big rocks and these mountains yeah he pushed his mother off the cliff she died instantly so many stories of these mothers coddling their sons ignoring the red flags their sons have all these mental issues when they're younger we see it in the teen girls too i just read a story where these three girls stabbed their mother to death the teen girls are turning their mamas inside and out too but mama mama's the fault mama's the blame my brother put his hands on my sister he wrapped his hands around her neck and put her head through the wall and that anger been there since my sister was a little little baby why because my mother showed favoritism I blame the mom I blame mom 100 percent you create the monster and then you cry victim when that monster turns on you that's why I stay away from my mother I stay away I'm the most non-violent person in this world I've never gone to jail I've never harmed a soul and my daughter still lives with me but I tell you what my mother has the ability and this is called reactive abuse that's the word reactive abuse when the abuser keeps provoking and taunting the actual victim and then the victim flips out and blacks out and murders the ******* abuser or harms the abuser so the abuser cries victim oh woe is me but no you create the monster you coddle the monster and then And when the monster says, wait a minute, you set me up to fail. You crippled me and set me up to fail in life. I'm a turn on you, bitch. These mothers are crying victim. Now you created the problem, mom. Now deal with it.