Story of A person who goes to #Give suggestions #Takes Suggestions

Hi friends, in olden days we had solar families. Then it turned into nuclear families. What is the difference between solar and nuclear families? In solar families people used to live together. They had big families like they had children, grandchildren, grandparents and they had even they used to live with paternal and maternal uncles, aunts and all. So if they had any family issues and all they used to sit together and used to solve the problems also any family matters used to be discussed unanimously unitedly and then they had the solutions also normally elderly people used to give some valuable solutions or suggestions the story which we are learning now is about the solutions for the problems or just suggestions on various aspects let us know the story there There were some families migrated to villages after retirement of course. They migrated to villages and then they settled at one place and used to live on farming or any other aspects. So they used to live peaceful and happy life also with greenery all around. Now we are talking about a person named Pramod came to that village and settled there. And there was another man named Ram and he was leading his life very peacefully, happily and he earned lot of money also properties. One day Pramod came to Ram's house and asked, you are a millionaire, you earned lot of money. Why are you keeping it like that? Why don't you invest it on some good aspects? Why don't you give it for loan, finance? You can finance it and you will get some interest also, good amount of interest. For that, he said, I don't want to take anybody's suggestion. I don't want to give anyone's suggestion and I don't want to take anybody's suggestion. He said, then why don't you invest it? It will be ideal if you keep the money like that. For that, he said, giving money to a person who need it, why does he come to my house to take money? It's because he needed it. When he needed money, he may not be able to pay the interest in time. Then I had to be little cruel also. Till now, I am considered as a good human being. But I don't want to turn myself into a cruel man. Otherwise, I can't collect interest and I may lose even principal amount also. So, I don't want to do that business. Then he asked, how many children you have? He said, I have one daughter and son. Son is elder one and daughter is younger one. Then he said, why don't you send your son and your son gets married. Send him to a city and he will make his livelihood there. And then if you, your daughter, if you can bring son-in-law to your house, Illarkam, that is what is known as Illarkam. If son-in-law comes to stay with father-in-law, mother-in-law's house, then it is called Illarkam. For that, he said, first of all, I don't want to send my son to the city because we are farmers also. Apart from that, we are just leading our lives on farming also. And my son will learn new techniques and farm the land. I don't want to send my son anywhere else. And as far as daughter is concerned, I don't want to get son-in-law into my family because he doesn't feel freedom. At the same time, my daughter may feel that she is princess and she may dominate her husband also. So, I don't want to do that. Wherever he goes, my daughter should also go with him. That's what he said. So, I don't want to take that suggestion. Then, in that way, he started giving various suggestions, but he is objecting for every suggestion. Okay, you have lot of money. I heard there are some thieves entering. Suddenly if they enter, what happens? Normally their concentration will be on iron safe. So, you take away money from that iron safe and keep it somewhere else. Then it will be better. For that side, iron safe itself means it is a safe place to hide, right? We have that locker, everything we have. That is only the place where we can save our money. Suppose if we take little monies and put it somewhere, that is better. So, in that way, he did not take any of the advices of that man named Pramod. And one day they got invitation from a wealthy person and he invited many people to his house, some housewarming ceremony or something like that. He invited all. And then he asked, see a wealthy man invited us for lunch. How can we go? Let us book some in horse cart. It will be dignified to look at. Then we can go in horse cart. For that, he said, I am a simple man. I want to go simply in bullock cart or something. But I don't want to go by horse cart. It is not necessary for me to go. In that way, he objected. He did not take any of the advices given by Pramod. Then Ram went to wealthy man's house ordinarily and he got many, that wealthy man, that rich man got many gifts from all people. And they also gave, Ram also gave some gifts to him. But whatever food was served was simple food. He also did not make very very costly costly items. So much he ate simple food and then all of them came back. By that time when they came back, they heard that thieves entered. Thieves entered and they entered into Pramod's house and then they did not find anything, only little amount they found and with that amount they ran away. Then he asked, then he came to know that some robbers entered into his house, the Pramod's house. Then Ram asked, did you lose any money? No, no. As we said that you keep money in iron safe, it is safe. I kept 90,000 rupees in iron safe, only little amount like 10,000 I kept outside and gold everything I kept in iron safe. So the thief had taken only that 10,000 rupees, rest is safe. Then he said, you gave me advice in different way. You told me to keep that money somewhere else. He said, no, you did not take my advice, but I took your advice. He said, that is a good idea. And what about you? Did you give money for finance and all? I am also rich. I earned lot of money. Earlier I thought of giving money. I want to put that money in finance business and all. As he said it is not safe. I did not do so. He said. So second advice also he had taken from Ram. And as far as my children, even I change my attitude and mind, and I am also following whatever you say regarding our children's marriages. He said so. In that way, he thought very cleverly, he asked him some, he asked some advice. He was giving advice, but in turn he had taken Ram's advice. Here, Ram actually did not give any advice to Pramod. Just he told his opinion on various aspects. But, Ramod had taken it very seriously and implemented them in his life. Let's come with some other interesting topic in our next video. Till then, bye.