Narcissists Pretending to Be Single on Facebook #npd #narcissist #facebook #ex #triangulation

hey hey y'all spiritual whistleblower here outside guess where i'm at y'all happy sunday by the way i am in new orleans yes i'm out here this is a bourbon and canal and i totally forgot the saints the new orleans saints are playing today i just rode past the uh um the dome and um the game is is about to pop off so okay so my support group is going down today we meeting at at 4 p.m is on yes y'all can still come anyone that is late however i'm gonna be here in new orleans all night partying after so if anyone's got any um you know parties tailgate parties anything like that tonight after the saints game and you want to invite a sister i'm just saying i'm here all night i'm kicking it hard in new orleans y'all let me let me know what's up it is hot as hell here i'll tell you that much uh i want to say thank you to cleveland cleveland ohio i had a great time we had a support group yesterday it was small but it was beautiful thank you ladies for coming through and i look forward to today new orleans and next week i kick off my birthday um celebration i'll be in texas houston on the 16th dallas on the 22nd and austin on the 24th y'all get y'all tickets now look at my tarp and my girl rose got this for me isn't it pretty okay so let me get on with the video y'all um wow i'm so happy i don't know what i want to do if i want to go get me a frozen drink here on Bourbon Street or what bourbon's not the it spot by the way i like Frenchman's Market that's way in the back but um let me get in some shade because it is hot in New Orleans honey it is not a game so what are we going to talk about today y'all um hmm let's talk about the narcissist trying to pretend to look single on Facebook okay um i think we're in a day and age now where the internet is just too dangerous y'all be messing with them dating apps and y'all know how i feel i don't do dating apps and i don't do facebook and another technique that I use I assume my approach to people is assume that everyone is narcissistic until they've proven themselves otherwise kind of like you're you're guilty until proven innocent because you'll save yourself a lot of heartache if you keep your boundaries up you can be cordial and friendly and and and polite but you can also maintain your boundaries and that that'll keep toxic people at bay. The people that are genuine and empathetic, they have no problem proving themselves. And they will stick around. Their behaviors will be consistent. And over time, you'll see who is real and who is fake. And that approach works very well for me. I know toxic people always expose themselves. It takes between three to six months and that mask will always slip. It never fails. So the good people that I keep around, they stick around for a long time and they have stayed loyal. They've stayed very consistent with their behavior, very empathetic, you know, so there is a huge difference and that approach works for me. So I also use that approach, you know, when it comes to men, you know, I choose not to date at this time because the work that I'm doing right now is so great. You know, I'm out here helping people on a global scale. I'm so terrified of the wrong type of man coming into my life and destroying everything that I'm building right now. I'm working so hard to just get this information out here. I've got so many projects I'm working on. I am leveling up and I cannot afford to jeopardize everything that I'm working hard, everything that I'm working hard for to let the wrong type of man. It almost happened last time you know two two years ago I was embarking on you know starting my business I had just written my first book and I let a guy from my past come into my life and he totally derailed me he totally took me off my path he had me dressing down looking ugly no makeup he completely he made fun of my weight he killed my self-esteem he compared me to his baby mothers You know, he threw the women in his family. You know, his female cousin threw them in my face. Like, looking back now, I realize now, like, I feel like the devil sent him into my life to throw me off my path. Because ever since I've gotten rid of him, everything is on the up and up, you know. So you got to be careful of who you allow in your life. And you got to start asking people who sent you. Did God send you or did Satan send you? So, you know, in terms of Facebook and dating, getting involved with men, I don't have the time right now. The work that I'm doing for God supersedes all of that. Y'all be careful because the narcissist will use his or her Facebook page. They be in whole relationships and they will hide the person. They look totally single. You look at their Facebook page, you would think they're single. No traces of being in a relationship whatsoever. no traces of being married whatsoever very deceptive and yes most narcissists most sociopaths they have multiple accounts on one account facebook account they got their family and friends on another facebook account they got all their close high school friends on another facebook account they're friends with their **** buddy side chicks like they have multiple pages for different reasons they use their pages they use their pages to stalk their old exes they use their pages to prey on young people. A lot of them are pedophiles. A lot of them use their pages to stalk same sex. They're on the download. They're very deceptive with their Facebook pages. But all in all, the majority of the time, they do not want to be seen as in a relationship. Or if they do post their relationship, if they have something that says in a relationship, they're not going to tag the person they're in a relationship with. They're not going to post a picture because nine times out pretend they're juggling multiple people and all the people they're juggling think that they're that girlfriend or boyfriend. So they're very deceptive with their Facebook pages. I know for one, whoever I'm involved with, they better not hide me. They hide me. I'm gone. No, no, no. The man that I married, the man I get with, no, he is not to be ashamed. He is to show me off to the world and be proud of me. That's my wife. That's my woman. Ain't no woman coming close to her. here's her name here's her page you know I'm she shines when I shine she shines and when she shines he's going to be that type of dude he's going to be your biggest cheerleader the right man ain't going to hide you he's going to celebrate you but the narcissist he will always come off as deceptive with his Facebook page he wants to look like he's single and the whole time he has he's in a relationship he might be with a baby mama he might be he's got the girl hidden they hide their partners and they've trained and beaten down their partners so bad they got the partner hiding on Facebook they got their partners hiding buried and the partner might be posting pictures of them and tagging them the narcissist will not acknowledge their partner on Facebook because you got to remember the narcissist is always on the hunt oh there goes a trolley I want to get on the trolley sorry y'all I get so so I get worked up in New Orleans this is a great city um the narcissist's job is to always look like he he or she is single because they're always on a hunt for new victims they're predators so if people believe they're locked down in a relationship or they're married it messes up their chances you know what i mean so unless they marry someone that's very beautiful they will use their partner to lure in more victims the prettier you are the narcissist will use you to bait the weaker women okay it's all a game of triangulation that's why I tell y'all get off of Facebook deactivate I ain't been on Facebook in two years I hate it I don't use it it's messy a whole bunch of messy ******* grown-ass people over 40 are on Facebook you know your in-laws are on there they're ******* messy and two-faced don't tag me in nothing don't mention my motherfucking name stay out my goddamn business you want to see me come to my Instagram come to my YouTube channel where I preach kind come to my TikTok but my Facebook you will not be in my motherfucking business you don't know who I'm ******* on the low you don't know ---- I allow people to know what I want them to know in terms of social media but ladies do not believe just assume that every man on Facebook got a woman you want to save yourself some headache and heartache assume I don't care if he looks single I don't give a **** if his profile says he's single still assume he got a woman 99.9 percent of them got a woman out here pretending they they single nah nah and it is your job to if you plan on dating it is your job to do a thorough investigation don't never take a man at his at his words whatever he says don't believe nothing he says do not believe nothing that come out of a man's mouth period if he's single assume that he's got a woman at home until he proves himself otherwise go meet the family you got to find out the family is a piece of ---- piece of garbage because if he got a woman the family will cover up for him that happened to me too at the end they knew all about the ******* baby mama the whole time smiling in my face and smiling it hurts so again get to know the family you got to do a thorough investigation before you even consider moving forward with the relationship you got to make sure this person is not dishonest people hide married they hide their spouses they hide babies they can have a baby on the way ladies how many y'all got with a dude and he lied and said he didn't have kids and you found out later he has a baby hidden somewhere yes they got baby mamas stashed and hidden and your in-laws will hide the information from you smiling your face and everything stop believing people and and the ---- they say stop believing what you see on Facebook is a whole facade Facebook is fake fake book just because a bitch say he's single on Facebook does not necessarily mean he's really single I assume all men on Facebook got a woman I don't give a **** what they profile they they they could act like they single I assume bitch you got a woman you hiding her you ain't gonna play me or get over on me so a quick word move carefully stay off them dating apps stay the **** off Facebook stay the **** off facebook it's trash and you're going to get your feelings hurt because the narcissist's job is to create a situation they hope that you look at their ******* facebook and they post ---- that hurts your feelings and most of the time it's not true anyway and the way that i saved myself that i ain't been on facebook in three years i deactivate i mean nobody could find me on facebook whatsoever you cannot find me i don't answer no inbox messages don't inbox me ************ and I've already given all my ex-boyfriends I have mentally killed them off they're all dead to me so I have no desire to know what's going on in their lives I don't give a **** if they're getting married I don't give a **** if they're having kids because they're never I'm never letting them back into my life so when you get to that point where you're indifferent and you don't even want to know what's going on in your ex's life then you're on your way to leveling up and healing but in terms of dating new people you've got to be more guarded and more careful and your boundaries got to be up here you got to make people break their neck to prove their loyalty prove that they're being honest oh you're single prove it because i don't i don't believe anybody these days you know polygamy is going to be normalized real soon i'm not with polygamy i don't i don't want to share my partner so until then you shall prove to me that you're really single because i don't believe a word that no man says you know what i'm saying oh is that spirit there's a siren so on that note let me go i'm in new orleans i'll see y'all later my support group love you guys