Narcissistic Men Use High Quality Women to Train the Weaker Women in Their Life #npd #narcissist

Good morning, spiritual whistleblower here, all the way from Cleveland, Ohio. Yes, y'all, I got to Cleveland last night really late, but I made it. I'm in Ohio. Again, we're meeting today at noon for lunch, my support group meetup. New Orleans, I will be in New Orleans tomorrow, Sunday. So again, those tickets are still available. email me at [email protected] the rest of the month of October I am celebrating my birthday in in Texas I will be in Houston October 16th, Dallas Texas October 22nd and Austin Texas the 24th get your tickets now y'all and i am also available for phone coach coaching excuse me phone coaching if you're dealing with a narcissist your mother father whoever it is baby daddy baby mama friendship i handle it all i cover it all honey and i'm here to help you get through it so while i'm walking this morning because i'm on East Coast time Ohio is East Coast time my body no matter how tired i am y'all i get up super early my body that's just like my body um is so used to working i could take three hour naps in the middle of night get up and i get back to work i'm a workaholic so what's up Cleveland ladies yesterday i i posted a video and i basically talked about why why men specifically narcissistic men because i don't want to group all men in that category all men are not ******* assholes they're not predators um a lot of them are but i know a lot of great guys i have a lot of great men following me on instagram quiet is kept um I don't know if y'all peep some of them celebrity brothers, too. They may not like my post, but they definitely watch everything and they support. Otherwise, they would have unfollowed my ass a long time ago. Some of them have been following me for years. You know, so I want to shout out all the good brothers following me. But I was referring to the toxic, predatory, abusive, sociopath, narcissistic man yesterday. Why they recycle all their exes from the past. And the exes could be 10, 15, 20 years. baby mama, ex-wife, doesn't matter. They cling on to their exes because for several reasons they need their ego stroked. They're very insecure. They create situations where they pit people against each other. So he'll pit his baby mama against his current girlfriend so that they're jealous and envious, you know, or he'll pit two of his baby mamas against each other. It's just a constant game where he creates these scenarios because his his ego needs to be stroked because he knows he's worthless every time he looks in that mirror he hates what he sees so if he can create situations where women even his mother female cousin women in his family women that he's sleeping with if he could pit them all against each other it'll make him feel better about himself and also too yesterday I said that um these types of men do not have the capability of evolving or growing they are emotionally immature their fathers were horrible their fathers set horrible examples of what a male leader should be their fathers set horrible examples of how a woman should be properly loved because they didn't their mothers was constantly disrespected and their mothers accept the abuse and they stayed so the son grows up not knowing I mean he's emotionally immature he can't process his emotions or he buries his emotions or he's uh unemotionally he's emotionally unavailable Excuse me, sure he can jump from relationship relationship and in that beginning that honeymoon phase the first month or two, he is super charming, he is having lots of sex with you, he's buying you things, take you on dates, that's all an act but let's get deep into the relationship but year two, three, four, five is he staying consistent? Hell **** no, all that ---- stops he just does enough in the beginning to lock you down his daddy didn't teach him how to love a woman properly, his mother didn't respect herself enough to teach him how to be with a woman who respects him, uh herself so you know he, he's emotionally immature and unavailable and definitely unstable which is why he seeks to impregnate women to lock them down instead of doing the work on himself, properly courting a woman before he gets her pregnant, he will, he will marry her, but he's not going to marry her till he gets himself together and he comes to the table with his life together mentally, spiritually, you know this has got to be a god-fearing man, a man of purpose a man that's not afraid to go to therapy, a man that's not afraid to break the dysfunction in his family, like Prince Harry, I love me some Prince Harry, I use Prince Harry all the time, Prince Harry is a young young royal prince, he was born into royalty but he knows his family is toxic, he married him a black woman and he gave his middle finger to his family, got his black wife had some black babies and moved to America, that's how you do it when you're trying to break generational curses and get the **** away from your toxic family you love them but you know you know hey listen i gotta get away from y'all if i'm gonna build something over here and leave legacy from my children and grandchildren. So a real man understands that. In this video this morning, I want to talk about, ladies, you cannot lose sight of who you are because he downplayed you to another woman. I'm going to tell you why your ex downplayed you to another woman. Let me come over here and sit down. I'm going to tell you why. Where am I? Let me finish this video and then I can get to where i'm going because i think i read the gps wrong i get around honey don't worry about me i could be in china i could be in europe i will get the **** around i will ride the subway the bus system baby i gets around i love it and let me explain something ladies you cannot place your value sitting here you you cannot place your value on yourself because he he talked down about you to another woman a lot of women ask me why do these men always downgrade why is the woman after me the woman he cheats on me with why is she so you know she not she's not pretty like me she's not as as accomplished as me she doesn't make as much money as me she doesn't have a good heart like me then you end up finding out that she's uh the woman that they likely cheat with is also promiscuous she's also um you know if she's giving and generous and she buys him things it's not from love she buys him things because she's controlling him the same way his mother gives him money his mother gives him money to control him or his mother uh um you know allows him to walk all over her disrespect her you know he could live off his mama rent free but that's a form of control his mother has to do that if she wants to keep her son close to her so the so the woman he cheats with has the same characteristics as his mother he's going to find a woman who enables him to stay toxic and this toxic side chick is either giving him sex if it's a baby mama ex-wife and she has a little bit of money in her pocket she know to buy him a couple things or she can give him some money that's about control and manipulation it's not about love these women like his mother all have very low self-esteem very jealous very competitive these women are narcissists and this is what i keep telling y'all y'all got to stop placing your self-worth stop being you know feeling like damn what does this woman have over me he did that ---- on purpose yo this is how these men play women against each other you can't get caught up in that ---- the moment you find that he's trying to play you against other women you better drop him like a bag of hot rocks you grown we all grown when you especially in your 40s and this nigga is trying to play you know these high school games you do ---- like that in high school and some of these men don't grow up past high school they be 40 50 years old with high school mentality no bitch if you want to play women against each other to the point they're fighting over you your mama your cousins your baby mamas your sister whoever the **** it is your female cousins your your female co-workers your your female friends from high school you want to see bitches arguing and fighting keep me the **** up out your ---- i'm not fighting no raggedy bitch over you because you're raggedy nigga you're rag let me remind you nigga you was a bum when i ******* met you so now it is you know let me tell y'all something ladies these niggas get beside themselves trust me he knows your value he knows your worth he's shocked that you gave him an opportunity let me explain something he's shocked that he could pull you that's why a lot of these niggas from your past your high school middle school they pop back up into your life 20 years later because they doing bad they broke as **** they they see you shining doing well and they want to see well damn i wonder if she's the same girl from back in the day she was sweet and i could run game on her bitch that's high school we were all kids we were all teenagers back then yeah i was gullible when i was a teenager yeah i was soft when i was a teenager but this is how you know these niggas are dumb and they never grow up or mature they never evolved past high school because see when we left high school bitch we evolved we leveled up bitch i went to three different colleges and bagged my bachelor's and master's now i'm working on a doctorate bitch when i left high school bitch i went to new york city and and established an amazing ******* career i went to new york city and bagged national uh national um excuse me national awards i was given a um prestigious honorary award from the national organization of women very prestigious organization that's recognized around the world what don't ******* sleep on me i've been on tv all over tv multiple tv stations i've been in newspapers i've been in magazines don't ******* play me so a raggedy nigga that come out of prison or nigga living uh uh living with his mama thing he gonna come in a picture pull me in and then he get by beside himself start destroying my self-esteem and making me feel less than than nothing behind and close doors so he can make himself feel better but i'm gonna tell you why they do that ---- y'all because these niggas know your value trust me they know what they they know they know what you are they just trick you into believing that you don't know what you are or who you are they always gonna have a listen they always gonna have a chick on the side that is beneath your level and i'll tell you why because he's going to use you to train her to fall in line he's going to use you you're not going to know about it this is why these women be knowing that we they know about the relationship they still gonna **** him they still gonna **** him behind your back big get used to it they still gonna **** him knowing y'all are in a relationship because he's using you as the template you are the blueprint he's throwing you in her face listen this the type of bitch i could pull you don't fall in line and give me what i want and suck my dick and give me money and do do whatever I tell you you know I don't need your raggedy ass because look at the look at this fine ass bitch I got over here my bitch is accomplished my bitch is beautiful and not only that he's using you to make all the women in his family jealous that's why bitches in the family be having a ******* attitude and you you go to the family events and you feel like a nasty energy and then you know they rolling their eyes at you that's the women in his ******* family are insecure his mama's insecure but they'll trick you and have you thinking you the jealous one bitch i ain't jealous all these bitches up in here is ugly and raggedy and not even on my ******* level jealous of what bitch these niggas be playing mind games and y'all better stop falling for that ---- you check that nigga and dump his ass and you send him back to these hoes that he thought was better than you because the reality is ain't none of them better than you none of the bitches in his family are better than you he used you to make them feel inferior so that they will push you out the picture and fight you know they want to suck his dick now they want to give him more money now they want to fight over him more now because they see the potential woman damn how did he get her you ever see the women in his family where'd you find her what's she seeing you yeah bitch he's using you to make the bitches jealous and get them to fall in line know the game the moment you find that he's playing these games dump that nigga on sight because when you force him to deal with these bitches all he gonna do is talk about you oh my ex used to do this for me my ex is busy in new york my exes did she did it got got bitches buying the same car as you all right cleveland i'll see y'all later tonight spiritual whistleblower