Your Narcissistic Ex Wants to Control Your Money #npd #narcissist #narcabuse #sociopath #abuse

Good morning, everybody. This is a spiritual whistleblower here with another video on narcissistic abuse. I'm dropping two today. The topics of the two videos today, so that y'all can look out for these videos. This video, I'm talking about narcissists and how they count your money. They count your money better than you do, okay? I'm going to talk about that while you're in a relationship and once you break up with them, they continue to count your money and watch you from afar the second video is for all my parents that are co-parenting with a toxic narcissist please stop allowing them to post pictures of your children on Facebook okay two videos today this one and the second one is about the narcissist using his child's photograph on Facebook to attract new victims pay attention I got y'all that music in the background anyway please if you don't have your tickets I will be in the Midwest beginning September 10th Denver Minneapolis, Chicago, Detroit, Cleveland, St. Louis, Missouri and Kansas City and i will be in the islands of Montego Bay, Jamaica on the 23rd get your tickets at [email protected] let's jump into this video this is the first one and then remember i'm dropping a second video right after this let's talk about the narcissist watching monitoring your money your bank account two different scenarios the first scenario while you're in the uh while you're in the middle of the relationship. They've tracked you down. They've managed to get you to commit in the relationship. At first, remember I told y'all the term ROI, return on investment. The narcissist was taking you out on dates, buying you flowers. Hey, you need help with a couple bills? Here's some money for your bills. Yeah, all that was a front. The narcissist, they have to invest into their victims to trick the victim into believing that in the future, the narcissist is going to continue being a giver. Now I'm not referring to the narcissist that have money. A lot of them do have money, six figures and more. They will financially control their victims with money and gifts. So that's a whole different topic, but I'm talking about the ones that are very cheap with their money because their money behind your back, their money is being spent on numerous things. Child support, gambling addictions, drug addictions, side chicks, you know, they might be giving money to their family members, their money is being dispersed in different ways behind your back. They're very dishonest and sneaky and they live double and triple lives and they need your money while in that relationship. So in the beginning, they will invest. They will invest into you. Have you fallen in love? Oh, okay. Then you're going to notice a shift. I've talked about this many times previously in other videos. You're going to notice a shift. They're going to pull back from spending they're going to pull back from giving you money yeah once they feel like you're not going anywhere they're going to stop all that giving and slowly the shift will happen you're going to start picking up the tab when y'all are out on dates paying for everything you're going to start buying their clothes paying all the ******* bills or if they contribute to bills it's either going to be 50 50 or you're going to be paying more like 80 and they're going to pay 20 they pull back because the whole trick is to to fool you into to pay for every ******* thing so that they can use their money for for everything else they got going on behind your back their side chicks they need money for their side chicks and their dates they need money to buy new clothes and new Jordans so they could look good for their side chicks or their side dudes because a lot of them are on the down low and go on secret dates with men they like to they like to hang with their homeboys you think this is his close homeboy but him and his homeboy are ******* on the low yeah i said it i said it and what ladies better wake up if he spends more time if he wants to be around a group of men all ******* day or with his homeboy all day if he wants to spend more time with his male friends then he got a whole woman at home especially if he's in his 40s a grown-ass man should not be wanting to hang with his niggas all day and you got a beautiful woman at home that works hard and is helping you keep everything together he's on a down low sis he needs your money that's why he pulls back he's cheap how can he help you and keep taking you on dates when he's got a gambling addiction matter of fact he's going to take from you so guess what when you're in the listen y'all i'm gonna ask y'all a question while you was with this person tell me they didn't know your payday they knew where you work they knew your pay your exact payday they knew where you banked they know your bank they know you get direct deposit what time what hour they are calculating your income any source of income if you're collecting any sort of checks an unemployment check SSI check if you're in the military and you're getting a check from the military life insurance lawsuit they be on top of it they count your motherfucking money better than you do they tracking your ******* money and you know something they turn really nice and sweet you get lots of sex you get lots of attention when they know you got some money coming in but the moment you give them some money their attitude will switch back to being nasty again because they they mad they're not with you for love they're with you for convenience they're users they will fake an entire relationship they will fake a marriage they they jump into marriages to trap their victim to get to their money especially if you if you got six figures or more if you you come if your family has money um if they can sense that you're being left an inheritance a huge life insurance policy they will marry you so they can have access to the ---- coming oh don't let me forget your 401k your pension they will they will collect if they can your pension y'all better smarten up man these motherfuckers will fake an entire relationship put a ring on your motherfucking finger drag your ass down to city hall marry you in a shotgun style ******* wedding just to lock you the **** down to get to your ******* money or they'll trap you with a baby and it is one or the other but if they can sense or smell that you are coming into some money some lawsuit money some inheritance money 401k pension military you collecting an SSI check you collected unemployment PPP whatever they on top of it how you counting my money better than me don't forget never ever never ever open a joint bank account y'all never ever because you know when you seek to separate or get a divorce or break up with them it's gonna be hell removing your name off that account they think your money belongs to them even after they've cheated even after they have jumped into a new relationship they will stay attached to you because they want access to your money your resources they don't want no one else touching your money your money is their money even if they've moved on and married and gotten with somebody else these are some delusional motherfuckers now after the relationship has ended y'all have broken up this person has used you abused you manipulated lied all of that they've rebound instantly in their next relationship pretending to be ******* happy they using the next person too ain't nothing changed they just good at making it look good trying to make you look bad and feel bad it ain't nothing changed they're gonna use the next person too this is one of the many reasons why your ex stalks you while he's in a new relationship and he's supposed to be happy with his new relationship if you're so motherfucking happy why the **** do you keep creating fake Instagram accounts to lurk on my page fake Facebook accounts to lurk on my page to see what I'm doing, bitch I'll tell you why. They're counting your money. Yeah. They know what they did to you during the relationship. They know they used you. they know they took your money and spent it on their side chicks used your car to take the side chick out on a date Take the side chick to work. drop her kids off to school they was doing all types of trifling ---- with your money behind your back they know what they did they damn near tried to break you in half and dismantle you dry up your money get you fired from your job depressed so that you you don't trust it you don't trust nobody no more you don't want to be in another relationship because you have trust issues now and this ************ did a whole ******* number on you and they laughed and they sat up and gossiped with a new ******* bitch about how dirty they did you and they whole ******* family your trifling ass in-laws know exactly how dirty they did you this ---- is demonic y'all i swear to god it's so wicked so what the narcissist and your in-laws don't expect they're not expecting you to bounce back they're really thinking that you're gonna you're gonna give the narcissist another chance they want to pull you back yes this is why they gang stalk you this is why they're all watching your social media. This is why he sends his friends and family to pass messages to you to pull you back in. They don't want you moving on because you was a source of money, resources, and you was his come up. And his toxic family, they knew that he was cheating. They helped break y'all up. The family was in on it. But the family, once you move on, the family is also going to assist him with trying to pull you back into the trap. These are some very sick, dysfunctional people. They're not expecting you to bounce back because they all took they all played a part in breaking your spirit breaking your self-esteem they tried to cripple you he and his entire ******* family tried to ******* cripple you and sabotage you and destroy you they left you broken in half and he ran off into the sunset with his new ******* lover but see this is the power of God the power of God is so amazing it took a while to heal but God got you back together again yeah he left you broke he messed up your credit. Took you a little bit of time, but you cleaned up your credit. You paid off them credit cards. You got your bills right now. Your credit's back on top. Now you got a promotion at the job. Now you're able to save all the money he took from you. It's funny now you're making four times the amount. The money is stacking in your account. He can no longer touch your bank account. He can no longer use your credit cards, your debit cards. He has zero access to all of that. Isn't it funny how you're doing better now that they're gone? So now we know who the real problem was in the relationship. Ladies, when you have a man, there's no reason why your value should be going down. There's no reason why the money in your bank account should be going down. If anything, y'all should be doubling up, flipping money. He should, he should be invested. If you, if you're a business owner, you open up your business, nail salon, beauty salon, whatever he whatever business you decide to choose to open, he should be in a position where here, baby, here's 10, 20,000 investors into you. He should be your biggest supporter, your biggest fan here, baby. Here's some money. I'm gonna buy you a billboard so that you can promote your company. Here's some money, baby, uh, for real estate. I'm gonna, I'm gonna buy you some rental property so you can, so you could open up your business. You want a man that's able to invest in you, not take away from you. If you notice your money is dwindling, your credit score is going down. that man is using you and when your money dry up he's going to be gone this is why narcissists stalk their exes because they know you're going to bounce back they know you're making more money and they're going to try to come back so they can get to your money again and this is why it's critical never take your ex back he's going to do way more damage if you let him back in you're doing so well by yourself god bless y'all