Hurt People Don’t Hurt People: Abusive People Do! #npd #narcissist #narcabuse #sociopath #swb
Oct 18, 2026
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AI GeneratedThe speaker challenges the common phrase \"hurt people hurt people,\" arguing that trauma does not excuse abuse. She asserts that while empaths often suffer deeply but choose kindness, narcissists and \"demonic\" individuals consciously choose to inflict pain. The video emphasizes personal accountability, the spiritual nature of abuse, and the necessity of going no contact to heal.
Good morning everybody, spiritual whistleblower here
with another video on narcissistic abuse
Happy Saturday guys, um quickly before I get into the topic
and this is a very good topic
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me at spiritual whistleblower, let's get
into the topic, holla holla I'm hype, I was listening to some
hip-hop this morning New York City hip-hop it's something about
a Harlem a Harlem nigga
shouts out to Vato I was listening to Vato this morning
and shouts out to my peoples in Brooklyn
Seth Allah I'm gonna play some of his music
and shouts out to Papoose that's who i have in
rotation right now all New York hip-hop all it Papoose
is from Brooklyn too so i was blasting
Vato and i got my friend Seth Seth Allah he's
from Brooklyn he just put out a new project
and then um Papoose Papoose got some new music he's
been dropping a new mixtape every
every month so um shouts out to them guys um i'm sick
and tired i'm truly sick and tired of hearing
people say hurt people hurt people where
the **** did that come from i'm about to debunk that
hurt people hurt people nah nah we we gonna switch that up
because i'm i'm gonna make y'all see this
from a different perspective. Hurt people do not hurt people.
Abusive people, people that are
demonic, people who are not in alignment with God,
people who refuse to correct their toxicity,
those people hurt people.
Stop saying hurt people hurt people because there's a whole lot of us
empaths that are hurting.
However, we don't go around inflicting that same trauma
and pain onto
other innocent people. We just don't do that.
Even though we've been hurt and traumatized and
damaged, we have enough common sense to say,
I don't ever want no one to feel this pain. I'm not
going to go around hurting somebody the same way that I was hurt.
So what it boils down to,
there's a divide. There's a divide. Good versus evil.
God is separating the wheat from the tare.
those that are in spiritual alignment
and those who are not those that love God and choose God
over everything through anything they've
been through they're going to be on on the good side
this is a whole lot of delusional motherfuckers
that are using God's name in vain they don't
practice anything godly they go to church for for the whole glitz
and glamour they sit up and
listen to the sermon but they don't apply
the motherfucking sermon when they go home they go
back to being dirty grimy as soon as they leave
the ******* church frauds fake christians i call
them atheists no i got more respect
for atheists atheists will let you know they're not not into
god and that's cool i can't do nothing
but respect that if that those are your beliefs and you're
putting them out there i'm not going to diss you you have
a right to choose who you believe in who
you don't believe in i have more respect for atheists
but there's a whole lot of fake motherfuckers
out here hiding behind spirituality hiding behind christianity
and they're the most evil sadistic
they're predators but they hide behind their religion
because hiding behind the religion
protects them and covers them up like a shield like
a mask like a beard it covers covers them
up so that behind closed doors they're able
to maneuver like a wolf in the night i don't give
narcissists a pass. Should we feel sorry for them?
If you want to feel sorry for them, I don't feel
sorry for them. I used to feel sorry for them.
I don't feel sorry for them because they had a
choice. It's amazing how doctors
and scientists do not talk about the spiritual side of this type
of abuse. And I know why they don't talk about the spiritual side.
They want to keep it all clinical
and medical and scientific. Cool.
But this ---- is spiritual.
And the reason why the doctors
don't want to get into this spiritual,
there's very few talking about the spiritual aspect of
narcissistic abuse.
That's because the doctors are narcissists themselves.
Yeah. Yeah. The majority
of them are all narcissistic.
That's why they don't speak on the spiritual aspect. Why would
day. They're not for God.
They're for the destruction of humanity. They feed, you know,
off of their patients.
They're sadistically feeding off the pain and suffering when their
clients come into their office and sit down on a chair
and the doctor says, so tell me about your
problems. And they're documenting and listening.
They're sadistically having an orgasm, listening
to your ******* hurt and pain,
collecting off your health insurance with no intentions of helping you
to heal or get to the root of your pain the back
of their mind like they're like here's another
sucker let me just give them some word salad
and keep you know let me gaslight them a little bit
you know just enough to string them along
and keep them coming in and out of my office so i can milk
their health insurance let me tell
y'all something hurt people do not hurt people i sit here as a
woman of god i sit here uh fully confident
of who i am nobody can tell me who the **** i am
nobody. There was a time back
in the day where I did seek validation from others because I didn't
know my value. I didn't understand my self-worth thanks
to my mother destroying and annihilating
my self-esteem. But I took control. I had to cut family off.
I had to cut everybody off, isolate,
and get myself together.
I had to do the shadow work, get rid of all my toxic ----,
started exploring the world,
started rebuilding my self-esteem, started eating healthier.
it's a work in progress i lost
the weight every time you know i look at my past every time i was
eating and gaining weight it was because a toxic person
was stressing me the **** out every time i
was overweight i had gotten up to 315 pounds that's
because somebody was stressing me the
**** out whether it was my mother an ex-boyfriend
a baby daddy somebody was stressing me the ****
out and I look back at my past
and I'm like damn every time you cut a toxic ************ off you
would drop 50 60 70 pounds you would drop all
your weight I am an emotional eater emotional eating is
the result of someone who has been abused
and they're seeking comfort and by them eating food
food is comforting it's soothing when you're stressed out
so I am an emotional eater so if
I'm around an abusive person stressing me out day to day,
I'm going to eat because it's comforting.
But once I broke away from my abusers and anyone stressing me,
the weight falls, fell off.
The weight fell off. So let me tell you something.
I've been hurt and I know you have been hurt.
And I'm speaking to my empaths.
I'm not talking to the toxic trolls that troll my page.
I'm talking to my empaths.
So a whole lot of us that have been abused into the ground,
beaten, molested, raped, beautiful empaths,
done dirty by our parents,
gossiped and lied on by our family members,
beaten, strangled, cheated on by our lovers.
We've been getting hurt for a long time.
yet and still we still maintain
our empathy we don't go around taking our pain out on other
people we choose not to harm people even
though we've been harmed can we say that about the
narcissist no this is where i have a problem with the doctors
because the doctors the doctors try
to justify that ---- if you google uh the research
that they have done on narcissists they did the
research on the brain what do their brains look like it's called
the amygdala there's a there's a
part of the brain and it's it's a bunch of gray matter
and uh I guess it's that's the reason why
they can't connect emotionally or uh with anything in the world
and I said that's bullshit that looks
like a demon brain what if that gray mass
in their head like how does how do I was abused
by two narcissistic parents in my childhood it didn't turn me cold
and bitter and and and it
didn't cause me to molest somebody else's child.
It didn't cause me to harm somebody. It didn't
turn me into a murderer. It didn't turn me into a ******* rapist.
It didn't turn me into a violent
person. Stop justifying. I don't give
a **** how many scientific studies are out there. There's no
justification because the narcissist was abused as a child,
just like the empath. We share that
in common. Narcissists are codependent.
And if you're an empath who was abused by a narcissistic
parent you too were trained
and programmed to be codependent as a child so why does the narcissist
who has been equally the narcissist as a child
is beaten spoiled molested rape they go through the
same trauma if they have narcissistic parents just like empaths we
are both going to get abused
there's no denying that the narcissistic mother
and father they they abuse each child in different
ways. They might spoil a child and give them too much.
Never lay a finger on that child but they're
going to spoil that child and turn them narcissistic.
That's abuse. They might sexually molest another
child. That's abuse. They might physically assault another child.
They might not touch a child and
just neglect them. No emotional love or support.
That's abuse. So the parent abuses the child each
different way. So riddle me this.
If I'm an empath and I'm abused and I grow up to be an adult
and I choose not to abuse people.
However, the narcissist grows up.
The narcissist who was also abused by his or her parents,
why are they out here abusing?
They don't get a pass.
Their personality disorder, their medical conditions,
they don't get a pass.
What they're doing is by choice.
What they're doing is sadistic.
They're choosing to harm people because they were hurt
and they're not gonna get help for it.
Go no contact and you get yourself healed and healthy.
And if they come near you, 911.
one. I don't care if it's your family. God bless y'all.

