The Narcissist is Not Spiritually Aligned with God #npd #narcissist #narcissism #narcabuse #swb

hey hey good morning everybody this is spiritual whistleblower here um with another video on narcissistic abuse um real quickly before i get into the topic and this will be an excellent topic guys we're going to get on some spiritual ---- uh and your future partner the partner that is intended for you the partner that god wants wants you to have we're going to talk about that and why you had to go through all the toxic relationships from your past to understand what God required of you in order for you to finally receive the person that you deserve um next month September I will be in the Midwest I will be holding all my support group meetups Denver Colorado we're doing a paint and sip September 10th Minneapolis September 11th uh Chicago the 18th detroit the 19th st louis missouri uh the 25th kansas city missouri the 26th i skipped cleveland cleveland ohio definitely oh i will be in jamaica i'm flying to jamaica i got a support group let me stop i got a support group meet up in Trelawny which is close to montego bay i love going on uh you know vacation so i will be back in the motherfucking islands uh september 23rd i will be in Jamaica the beautiful islands of Jamaica and I'm holding a support group in Jamaica so I look forward a lot of people um did register for that so I will be in Jamaica towards the end of September okay guys if you're interested in coming to any of um these support group meetups when I'm coming to the Midwest and to all my people in the South October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month Texas. I will be in Dallas, Houston, Austin. I will be in New Orleans. I'll be in Alabama, possibly Louisville, Kentucky. I'm working on my South, my Southern schedule now for the month of October. And that's my birthday month. I'm still trying to figure out where I'm going to vacation for my birthday. If I'm going to go to Africa, I may go to El Salvador. I'm thinking of Dubai. I want to do something major. I'm going to celebrate my birthday the entire month of October. So everywhere that I go, all the support group meetups, I'm going to have a birthday celebration at that support group. It's going to be lit y'all. So stay tuned. Email me chaneljasmine at gmail.com to get your tickets now. Uh, what else? What else? What else? Coaching. You need phone coaching. If you're dealing with a narcissist, your mother, father, baby, daddy, baby, mama, ex-boyfriend, call me, schedule your appointment today. I'm here in New York for two weeks and then I'm on the road. I'm on the road for the whole month of September. I'm on my grind i have nothing to play play with y'all y'all see me out here busting my ass and hustling so get at me all right let's get into the video let's talk about alignment spiritual alignment it's just funny to me that i see a lot of life coaches starting to talk about spirituality in terms of narcissistic narcissistic abuse did y'all just hear that i think it's funny that in this community of fake life coaches, people are starting to talk about the spiritual aspect of this. Bitch, you should have been talking about the spiritual ---- from day one, but you're running out of topics. You're running out of content. Narc abuse is spiritual abuse. Let me leave that alone. I want to talk about spiritual alignment and the narcissist. Why the narcissist will never be in alignment with the universe the narcissist will never be in alignment with God this is why the relationship fell apart okay why would you think that God would allow you to build a future with someone who refuses to surrender to him someone who refuses to get in alignment with God someone who will not do the inner childhood work to cleanse themselves of all their toxic traits someone who is completely delusional in denial that they have any sort of issues or if they're fully aware that they have toxic traits and issues they prefer not to not to even deal with them they think that if they jump into a new motherfucking relationship that they can just keep starting over sweeping their ******* toxic traits underneath the rug hiding behind their relationship appearing they want to look like they're perfect to the family and their community and they want to make their exes look bad see it was never me it was my ex see how fast I was able to jump into a new relationship no you're in a relationship narcissist for the wrong reasons you're hiding your toxic behavior in your new relationships instead of focusing see this is where the narcissist fucks up when they break up with you you end up taking a time out from dating or jumping into other relationships because you we is the empaths you and me what's up all my empaths listen to me i'm talking to all my empaths we are not eager or desperate to jump into a new situation we have nothing to prove to our family and friends oh my last relationship fell apart let me hurry up and jump into a new relationship so my family don't think i'm toxic or abusive we don't do that no no us empaths don't do that we as empaths we take a time out we do self-reflective work. Let me reflect back on my relationship and see where I went wrong. Where did I ignore the red flags? Why did I entertain an abusive individual? Why did I feel that I could help this person and all they did was turn around and break me when I was trying to help them out? Let me analyze my behaviors so that moving forward, when I do heal and decide to start dating again, I will know how to see these red signs, these red flags, and I will not dismiss these red flags. The first red flag, I'm getting the **** up out of there. I'm never ignoring a red flag ever again. We as empaths take the time out to reflect on our past relationships because we're doing soul searching. We're doing introspective work. We want to heal. We want to clean out all the trauma. We don't want to repeat our mistakes. I damn sure don't. I know I'm a good looking woman. I can date any man. New York City, there's billions of men here. Having a man dating a man will never be an issue for me. Never, ever. I have access to a high caliber of wealthy men. I work in this business industry, this entertainment industry. I'm surrounded by wealthy men that will never be a motherfucking problem for me however I'm in control of myself the choices I make and I chose after my last relationship to take a time out I'm not gonna be petty and jump into a new relationship with a rich nigga a rich man up here in New York just to spite and hurt my ex now my ex immediately jumped into a new relationship with his raggedy ratchet ass baby mama trying to hurt me had the bitch lurking on my Facebook screenshot and stealing evidence thought I was actually going to stick around and fight and chase no that's what narcs do don't they you're blown away as soon as you break up you turn around next week they're moving into a new their new lover's apartment or they're moving their new lover in with them bitch we just broke up you're already in a new situation you're already engaged oh so you was plotting the whole time we was together you was prepping this ************ behind my back to replace me oh I get it now we as empaths we do not jump into rebound situations I do not I'm all about accountability I'm very responsible I'm going to look back why did I overlook them red flags why did I give that nigga a pass when I should have turned my back and said you know what you ain't got your ---- together. You living with your mama. I don't date men that live with their mamas. You ain't got no car. You ain't got no money saved in the bank. How can you even meet me halfway when you don't have your life together? No, I fucked up. And this is where I hold myself accountable. I went in there trusting this individual, thinking that he would never hurt me or abuse me. Never in a million years. Put his hands on me. Within three weeks of me moving in with him, he had his hands around my around my throat strangling me because he had gotten me let this trick passed, he successfully got me to pack my bags, move out of New York far away from my family, my friends, my network all my connections, he got me to move down to raggedy Columbia, South Carolina, there's nothing Columbia is such a basic corny ass city, there's nothing to do, everything is spaced out, you need a car. It's not like the city. My car could stay parked and I could just hop on the subway and jump and go to the club and be here, there, everywhere. So the environment, everything was different. I had no friends in Columbia. He was all I knew. He isolated me. He got me into a position where he could control me and dictate and tell me what to do because he had me trapped and his mama assisted him with making sure I stayed trapped and controlled. He knew where I work I watered myself down with a ******* receptionist job, all, all you know, because I trusted him to lead, he was a horrible leader, you know how corny I felt sitting there I went from doing seminars and traveling around the world and and running my business and and you know I was on the way to leveling up and running and starting my own business, whittling my worth, I whittled myself down to a ******* receptionist job following behind him, I remember one of my, one of my um supervisors came in and they, they knew, you know, we were talking about my history of working in the music industry and and celebrities, me being all over TV and magazines and newspapers and my you know I'm very successful in New York and they were like, what are you doing here at this, you are receptionist, why are you here, you know you, you next level, you supposed to be doing major ---- New York, why are you moving backwards, you backpedaling, I said because i believe i love my man i trust my man i'm following his lead he got me down here working this receptionist job he got me believing in his vision i trusted him wholeheartedly but i take accountability accountability because at the end of the day i shouldn't have jumped i shouldn't have moved in with him and he didn't have his life together he didn't have a ******* mattress to sleep on he didn't have a car he and his mother used me into the ground i kept groceries in that ******* house i drove them everywhere i got an air conditioner to keep the house cool i got a mattress so we could sleep on the ******* shower was broken the shower head and common sense i'm like why won't anyone go ******* change the shower head y'all that trifling so i bought a shower head fix the shower i did everything they used me into the ground so I take accountability. I put myself in that position to be used and abused. Did I deserve the abuse? No, but I had a choice. Empaths have to, you know, we have to be responsible and accountable too. Narcissists will not take accountability. They just bounce to the next relationship, trying to hurt us, repeating their toxicity. But when we get into spiritual alignment, when we find ourselves in isolation and we learn to be happy as single people and peaceful and we're close to God and we find our purpose, we now become spiritually aligned with the universe and God will start blessing us. Whereas your narcissistic ex is frustrated that you are glowing up and he doesn't know, why am I still stuck? Why am I miserable in this new relationship? It's because they're not spiritually aligned with God. Keep going, y'all. Keep elevating. Stay close to God. Your ex is never going to skyrocket or excel past you. I love you guys. Take care.