How Narcissistic Parents Triangulate Their Children & Grandchildren with Money #npd #narcissist #swb

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What is financial triangulation? when your mother and father are financially abusive and they triangulate their children against each other yeah let's go there bitch i'm petty see you know in the black community we not having these discussions because motherfuckers are so used to doing they ******* dirt and they abuse to their children and their family members and they sweep it underneath the rug and they expect you to forget about the ---- and they just move on so they can do the ---- all over again no no no not here we we hold motherfuckers accountable over here oh bitch you going to be held accountable if you oh no not over here and if i ever did any any wrong i'll be quick to hold myself accountable i love accountability i love therapy i love fixing things that are broken but your toxic ass mammy and your toxic ass daddy they don't want to fix it they they're broken and they don't they like their their they love dysfunction is where I'm going when you put that you apply that pressure on their ass they're not going to seek healing y'all I'm telling y'all they're not so all you got to do is worry about yourself you get the healing you go to therapy understand this so let's talk about what is financial triangulation well let me break down the term triangulation a narcissist no matter who the narcissist is whether it's your mother father grandparents it could be a baby daddy baby mama your ex-spouse ex-boyfriend ex-girlfriend triangulation is a nasty abusive tactic that toxic narcissists use it's the art triangulation is the art of staging catfights so in other words a narcissist will go over here to one person and gossip about you to this person and they will tell this person that you're talking about them you don't like them then they'll come over here to you after they got through gossiping about you and they'll talk about this person to you they'll bad mouth this person to you and say this person was talking ---- about you so now you dislike this person and this person dislikes you because the narcissist has created a scenario where two people that don't really **** with each other are now in a position where they don't like each other and they want to fight each other and all the narcissist does is sit back and he eats his popcorn and he watches the drama unfold he's created a scenario of drama and and chaos and while y'all are fighting he's sitting back enjoying the entire ******* show eating his popcorn and sipping his tea how many family how many family members do you know that participate in this trifling behavior see this is why i cut my motherfucking mommy and daddy off because they're both masters both my parents are masters at triangulation I have two siblings I'm the oldest and I have two siblings I have a brother and sister let me give y'all an example of what triangulation is amongst siblings and how a toxic narcissistic mother and father triangulates their children against each other there's three children in the picture it's me my brother and sister my sister's the youngest my brother's a middle child my mother you know when we were talking 15 years ago because i ain't talked to the bitch in eight years she know i don't want ---- to do with her i don't come around her i don't go to family events to avoid the bitch so you know many many many many many many many years ago when i would talk to the bitch the bitch is a master at gossiping the bitch would be in my ear talking ---- about my brother telling all his business he might have confided in her and told her mom don't say nothing my mother turned around and tell all his ******* business or my baby sister she'll talk ---- about my sister tell all my sister's business to me but it doesn't end there my mother will then turn around one-on-one with my brother and tell all my personal business to my brother or she'll do the same with my sister tell my sister all all you know a trifling narcissistic mother and father they are gossipy and they're very two-faced they will talk about if they have multiple children they have this tactic where they divide and conquer their children to maintain control over their children how do they do that they put their children against each other this is triangulation if I confide in my mother or father about something personal and I say mom and dad don't say nothing they're going to turn right around and tell all my business to my siblings and they'll go a step further to stage cat fight well your sister your sister said this negative ---- about you your sister was talking about you like a dog in the streets your brother said this about you yo they are facilitating drama and chaos amongst their children they are gossiping to each of their children about each other this is this ---- is nasty y'all this ---- is nasty this is why i tell y'all don't listen you can forgive your parents but you got to hold them accountable because they knew exactly what the **** they was doing this ---- is calculated it's staged and they know very damn well what the **** they're doing when they do this ---- stop we got to stop this ---- well your mom and your mother and father didn't know any better yes the **** they did or your mother and father did the best they could no they did not do the best they could because they knew what the **** they was doing when they did the ---- nobody will call them out for it that's why they keep doing the **** ---- your mama and papa they choose a favorite child so in my situation my sister is my mother's favorite child and my brother is my father's favorite child I was always the scapegoat now my brother what my mother abused my brother however my brother ran to my father for refuge and my father is manipulative and toxic that's where I don't **** with my brother like nigga this nigga is hypnotizing you and playing you he's using you as a pawn because he knows you hate your mother too so my father is playing with my brother's mind and I'm just trying to tell my brother both these my mom and dad are both ******* toxic nigga but he's got to learn that on his own now my sister's a weak bitch she let she my sister has allowed my mother to control her I don't give a **** how my sister might walk around stop around saying no my mother don't control me but bitch my mother is running the **** out your life bitch always has always will use a weak bitch because you can be bought. My mother can toss gifts, money, and your ass is right there like a motherfucking lap dog. Let my mother control your ass. You's a weak bitch because real bitches is independent. Real bitches is out here getting a bag, six figures, bitch. Real bitches is running businesses without their mommy and daddy interfering in their ******* business. You's a weak bitch. You can't do ---- without your mama playing puppet master, bitch. Always been a weak bitch. I don't play that ----. I don't need a ******* gift. I don't need a dollar from my mammy. I don't want to be in her ******* will. The bitch died, bitch. I don't want nothing. You couldn't pay me to take no ******* money off my mother when she died. Give the money to whoever else, bitch. I don't want ---- off that bitch. It's toxic. The bitch is a demon. The bitch is a demon. I don't want to accept no gifts, no nothing from a ******* demon. You sold your soul. I'm going to tell my sister, bitch, you sold your soul to a demon. You know that bitch is abusive. The bitch is married to a pedophile. My sister was 10 years old. Let me tell y'all something growing up. When that nigga molested me, I used to sit and tell my baby sister, wear clothes around this nigga. That's why I hate my sister. Bitch, you know, before I exposed this nigga, bitch, you was eight, nine years old, and I sit there and tell my sister, don't walk around naked. Don't be half-dressed. He's nasty. I used to be overprotective of my sister. And, bitch, you just going to just turn a deaf ear? You going to turn a cheek? I been told you the nigga was a pedophile Bitch you trifling Just pretending like the ---- didn't exist Like it don't I been told you the nigga molested me I was protecting you You was 8, 9 years old I said stop wearing pajamas Stop wearing a nightgown around him He's nasty I don't respect my motherfucking sister That's a weak bitch that can be controlled by money You 40 years old bitch You should be making six figures You should be balling All these bitches on Instagram Getting to the money bag No, you let your mama control you and run your life, bitch. And that's why you will never get no motherfucking where I'm going to the top because I don't let my mama dictate or control me. I don't want her money. She can't buy me. I got a car. I got everything I ******* need. And my daughter will never want for nothing either. No, no, no. A narcissistic mother and father, they will use gifts on the weak minded children. see the children when you strong and you don't want ---- to do with your mommy and daddy and they can't even buy you with gifts that's the only way they control their children is with money and gifts and when you stand up for yourself and say bitch i'm independent i don't need your money i don't need ---- off of you they're gonna hate your ass and not only are they gonna hate you they're gonna hate their grand if you have a child i have a daughter my baby is so innocent she ain't hurt nobody my mother has my address tell me why my mother does not send my daughter birthday gifts bitch you don't you don't have a birthday gift sent you don't mail a birthday card to my daughter my daughter didn't have prom graduation they don't ask about my daughter they punishing my daughter because they hate me why does the child the grandchild have to suffer because you don't like me bitch you's a weak shitty ass toxic ass bitch for that ---- why are you punishing your grandchild because you don't like me you don't **** with me bitch you trash for that ---- you's a trash ass bitch for punishing your grandchild ************ i said it but then this trifling bitch will turn around and she'll buy all her other grandchildren gifts they petty y'all this is how these bitches do trying to hurt my grandchild and hurt me by buying your other grandchildren gifts and spoiling your other grandchildren doing that this is how they divide their children this is how they divide and conquer their grandchildren and children through financial material buying this one more gifts and giving this one more money and this and that and punishing the other one that they can't control by doing nothing for them my daughter is innocent y'all when i tell you they hate me so much they take it out on my daughter they got my address bitch you can serve a motherfucking restraining order the **** with me but you can't send your motherfucking grandchild a birthday card, a card for graduation with money in it ask her if she need anything because you hate me, you hate me so motherfucking much you'll punish your ******* grandchild and you'll spoil your other grandchildren, you's a toxic ************ for that ----, if I have multiple, I only have one child but I have multiple kids I'm going to treat all my kids equally, I'm not going to give one more than the other if you have a narcissistic mother and father they will punish their children they can't control and reward the other ones with gifts. Financial abuse.