Your Mother-In-Law is Jealous of You #npd #narcissist #monsterinlaw #sonhusband #kevinsamuels #swb

Hey guys, Spiritual Whistleblower here with another quick video. Again, if you haven't purchased my brand new book, Mother Made You, Mother **** You, it is now available on amazon.com. I will pin the link down below if you want to purchase the book. If you've ever dealt with a toxic man and his family, more specifically his toxic, controlling, enabling, coddling mama, this is the book for you this book basically breaks down the psychology between a toxic codependent relationship between a grown man and his mother okay it's like a Norman Bates you guys remember the movie Psycho Norman Bates who was that Alfred Hitchcock I don't I don't remember but that movie was so sick because he had you know Norman Bates had a really sick um codependent relationship with his mother it was almost it was borderline incestuous like a boyfriend girlfriend husband wife type of thing so i break down those types of relationships and how the in-laws if the in-laws are all toxic they are chances are they're narcissistic his mama's narcissistic you don't stand a chance the first day he brings you to meet his mama and his family they already know he's going to sabotage your relationship basically so this book helps women to identify the red flags prior to you having sex i strongly advise you do not have sex because sex what sex does you may not be in love with the guy he doesn't love you but sex will create a soul tie it creates an emotional stronghold and you'll confuse lust for love and that's how he'll lock you down you think you're in love when it's really lust and once he gets you locked in then he can commenced to pulling his family in to help him keep you contained and controlled so that he can cheat outside of the relationship so the whole family is in on it they know the side chick the side chick definitely knows who you are so it's like an organized type of mafia organized crime situation everybody's in on a gig and you're the last to know okay um in this video i want to talk about his mother i i talk about different scenarios with a toxic mother-in-law and um in this one i want to talk about her jealousy for you why you will never stand a chance from day one why everything is rigged against you the moment he introduces you to his mother okay this mother is a narcissist, he's definitely a narcissist, well not always a narcissist because there's chances that he could turn out to be good and he hates her and he'll break free from her but i'm i'm when i'm talking about this uh scenario i mean he's a narcissist which means he's a toxic predator and you have yet to learn or find out you're in the early love bombing phases y'all are dating lovey-dovey woohoo he brings you to meet her you have yet to learn that his mom is toxic everybody's always nice in the beginning so she's going to be on her best behavior in the beginning if you're beautiful um and when i say beautiful i'm not talking about just looks you're beautiful on the inside and out okay you have a beautiful spirit beautiful heart you're giving compassionate you're a full-blown empath you're the total package okay you have integrity morals character um you're not a ******* smut you're not the jealous type you know you have integrity about yourself you're classy he brings you to meet his mama if she's a narcissist guess what this woman is incredibly insecure you just don't know it yet okay chances are she's had a string of bad relationships or bad marriages um chances are she's old ugly um her behavior is nasty messy she's not going to show you this right off the bat sometime i've heard stories where the mother-in-law has been nasty at the first meeting but most of the time she's going to give you a fake hi hello um that type of thing um she's got to fill you out when she when your young man brings you to meet his toxic mama she's going to be screening you if you're not a hood rat uh you have class you're educated you're the total package you're more of a woman than she is automatically she's going to be threatened and jealous of you why because she knows she raised the ain't ---- ass son she knows her son is a **** **** boy she knows her son is controlling he's a loser he's a predator whether he has a good job or if he's a bum his character is shitty he's a womanizer he's a misogynist he's a he has a history of domestic violence his mama knows all that and she knows she raised him to be that way because she lacks self-respect she's super dominant or she's super weak is one or the other and he resents her for that okay either way she knows in her heart her son ain't ---- and when you come in there with your ---- together looking good and and you know he says mom this is my wife to be you know blah blah blah that's how I was presented in in my situation but um her first instinct is going to be like this bitch is going to take my son away from me she's gonna go she's gonna smile and say hi hello nice to meet you it's all fake but in the back of her mind she's like uh-oh I have some real competition here my case my last relationship he brought me to meet his mama prior to me meeting his mama he told her this is my wife he already had me picked out that's gonna be my wife I'm gonna marry her he told his family that off the bat he brings me to meet his mama before i could even open my mouth to say hello she looks at me and she stares at me and she says you're special you're special yeah she said that to me and it wasn't a type of like she was trying to kiss my ass or be flat you know flatter me it was almost like she could see through me like there's something special about you bitch and you you your type of special gonna have my son hooked and pull you gonna pull my son away from me you that type of special that's what i got from her she definitely could detect from me that i already had her son hooked and sure enough she played the role she played this christian woman going to church every week um you know she played like she i was her perfect daughter-in-law told everybody me and him was getting married and blah blah blah come to find out in the very end she was helping him plot to cheat on me with his baby mother she knew everything she helped set it up her and the baby mama was talking about me she told the baby mama we was living together they all plotted against me all the dirt came in came out at the end because um hindsight is 2020 I look back but his mama knew we were trying to get our own place and she wanted to keep controlling me my money um I helped fix the house up the little bit that I did contribute it was more than what they had in a long time but I don't know what they were trying to do but it backfired really bad because they were not expecting me I packed up and I got up out of there and come to find out he's been living with his mama and he's been bouncing from relationship to relationship to relationship it all backfired but I feel like now that's how she wanted it because I had a strong hold over him uh she told me I've never seen my son there was there was one time uh where me and him had a bad argument and I left I took a drive I didn't come back for the night I slept in my car I've never shared this story with anybody I slept in my car to get away from him because he had stressed me out so bad he assumed I was out cheating I was not cheating I just wanted some peace of mind I wanted a good night's rest even though I slept in my car I came back the next morning she said he was up crying all night he had lost it she said I have never seen my son cry over one woman like that ever in my life so she knew that I had some sort of power over her son and if this wasn't I don't practice black magic I'm just you know I'm great I know my value I know my worth I'm a queen and maybe he's not used to having a queen he's always had low budget females you know low low self-esteem baby mamas and trifling bitches I'm not that I'm a queen I conduct myself like a queen so yeah she said he was up crying all night devastated so that was one night um i broke up with him it's been almost two years and he's still stalking me to this day from fake accounts so i say all this to say the mama knows from day one when he brings you to meet her if you're you're a strong bitch with a backbone you're beautiful you're the whole package inside and out she's going to be threatened by you okay and what narcissists love to do they play both sides of the fence so she's gonna play both sides of the fence she's both sides of the fence she's gonna be cool with you one minute but then she's gonna be cool with her son and talk ---- about you behind your back she's gonna smile on your face and then she's gonna go kick it with the side chick she's setting everything up to break your relationship up so that she can keep her son closer to her and she also wants to control your money and she wants you to do favors for her so this woman is really screwed up in the head and highly controlling and deeply insecure and if you have the power to make her son into a better man should you pull him away from her then yeah she's gonna definitely work to help break your relationship up um she's gonna overstep boundaries she's gonna text him all day while he's at work like she's his woman there's just so many disrespectful things but i blame the man because it is his place to put her in her place and or cut her off so that you and him can build a life together so if you purchase my book mother made you mother **** you you will learn about the psychology um of a toxic codependent relationship between a grown man and his narcissistic mother y'all i really don't want y'all getting caught up y'all been through this stuff before and we got to do better we got to start you know identifying this stuff immediately so that we don't waste our time our money or our hearts okay um you got to save the best of you for the man that god has for you okay don't let somebody waste your life away okay so that's about it thank you guys for supporting my videos please like share um and support well you don't have to like or share that's up to you but if you want to you know get some info it's a really quick read you can sit and read it within an hour and um i'm gonna start doing more videos on this topic and um we we really need to because once ladies once you start understanding how narcissistic abuse works within men then you can better understand it in their families and not get caught up with the in-laws you can you can get up out of there as soon as you spot the stuff and your intuition is triggered all right it's been the spiritual whistleblower thank you guys so much for tuning in to the next video