You see the truth there’s no unseeing it, now they see their worst nightmare

Your cutoff is brutal because you refuse to keep pretending like you don't know what the problem is. You saw who they are and you refuse to unsee it. You've become a problem. This is personal because now you see the truth and you're not going to let it go. You're not going to make it small. You've been doing that for too long. They've been getting away with it for too long. Now there is no unseeing it. they are exactly who they've shown you that they are and it is what it is and they can take your new energy however they want to take it because they're not used to it but it's all right though they left you no other choice you refuse to keep acting like it's okay i forgive and it is not enough forgiveness in the world to forget what a monster they are it looks like you have some kind of attitude problem it looks like you're unhealed because you choose to disconnect you choose and you're choosing to remain detached so you're being talked about they're smearing your name the smear campaign is ugly because you've become a villain you're the one maybe the only one in the whole situation ship that sees the truth and you're standing on it they think you think you're all that because you don't want to be around them you don't want to associate with them you don't want to show up to their their narcissistic performing events where everybody is faking it everybody is acting everybody's wearing masks you're not comfortable around these people and they're uncomfortable around you because of your truth-seeking, truth-telling soul. To them, you're the biggest problem they've ever encountered. That's because you're dangerous. The way you see through them pierces them. You see exactly what they are to the point where they know you can't unsee it. There's nothing they can pull out of their magical narcissistic hats. There's no more tricks there's no more jokes the manipulation is dead over him they can't stand you because they can't get through to you they don't like you because you don't like them yeah you don't they think they don't like you well you don't like them either and you're the one justified not to like them because they are the monster they are a narcissist they are dark they're hypocritical and they're faking they're lying they're keeping up this false image when really it's a broken person there. You can't unsee what a broken baby you've been married to all this time. Now that you see it, it's a turnoff to even look at them. What used to be attractive about them is disgusting now because you see it. You cannot unsee it. They look like filth. They smell the dysfunctional demonic entity that they, when you can't unsee it, you can't even stop smelling it. Now that you can see it you also smell it and they mad at you because you you now walking around with your head high it looked like you got your nose up in the air my nose up in the air because you smell like a funky ass narcissist my nose in the air because every time you open your mouth you're lying you're pinning me against somebody you're trying to twist narratives you're lying you're gossiping you're you're setting up some type of situation i can't trust you so if i'm walking around more confident than you than you ever noticed if they see that you're more confident than you than you ever been and now you're cocky you're all that oh well they not enough they've never been and now you see that so you're stepping it up they tried to break you and make you nobody now you see that you stepped your game up because what you're not gonna do is continue to play me and play this game and think that i'm not gonna i'm not gonna learn the playbook and whoop you at your own game because now I see who you are I see that we don't have a genuine connection I see that you cannot be trusted I see that you can't help but to lie that's just who you are you're just a walking lie and I can't unsee it even though you're my parent I know you're a narcissist so if I'm switching up it's deserved I'm not holding a grudge I've cut you off because I see who you are and i refuse to be your victim your puppet the piece of toilet paper that you think is gonna wipe your narcissistic ---- i refuse to be the one you're gonna walk all over like i'm a piece of dirt on the ground so if that means i blocked you cool if that means i've moved away oh well if that means i've disconnected if that means i saw you and walked past your ass oh well i can't unsee you for who you are i didn't call you on your birthday yeah because i don't know you no more really i never knew you i don't know you i never will know you because you don't even know you you don't have a a true you you're a bunch of other people you're confused you're weird i can't unsee the weirdness so i'ma do myself a big huge favor stay away stay away from me we got kids so what if i can do anything i can do to keep myself away from you i will how you want to handle this with the kids what are we doing what if it ain't got nothing to do with them there's no us there's nothing to talk about that's that brutal cutoff that's that that's that disconnection no narcissist is ready for because when a real one starts to see right through the narcissistic bs and the baloney and everything starts to stitch there's no turning back there is no going back and you we will start to reintroduce ourselves and that's what you did shout out to you i think you're holding a grudge and you're mad no i'm not mad you're glad that you know what you know because now knowing that you can stand on that and move accordingly because of that not mad i ain't holding no grudge i just don't want to talk to you i don't want to explain i don't need to explain i don't owe you an explanation i owe you nothing actually great you are not mad a little bit of anger and resentment and whatever but once that starts to fade and you radically accept that man they was the problem because of them this happened i went through that i looked at myself wrong i had the wrong perspective i was mistreating myself because of my upbringing i lacked self-love i mean whatever realization you come to as a result of narcissistic abuse whether from family parents loved ones relationships whatever once you start to realize man you know what all right i'm gonna take accountability for my role and how i kept letting you play me but what i see is you're just a sick narcissistic freak you're a weirdo this is what you do and you love doing it you can't help who you are this is your personality and it's disordered you have a narcissistic personality disorder so i'm not gonna sit here and and blame myself for your lacking your your foolishness your stupidity your your inability to to be a human authentically it ain't my fault that you lie about who you are it ain't my fault that your ego is your is your downfall because it is the narcissist ego is their downfall it ain't my fault that you are what you are but what what is my fault and what will what i'm gonna do is take my power back and make sure that i'll be nobody else's victim make sure that the next one that tries me will regret that they even knew me because i can't unsee this mess i can't unsee this toxicity i can't unsee this abuse i can't unsee the damage that it's done and i can't unsee the messed up narcissist that you are mom dad sister cousin auntie grandma granny kids i'm not holding a grudge i'm loving myself i'm not holding a grudge i'm no longer idealizing idolizing i'm no longer allowing myself to fall into toxic patterns and and abuse because i can't unsee what i now know about what i've been in and what i've been dealing with and what i've tolerated and how i've been conditioned i can't unsee the damage that's been done and because i can't unsee it i'm gonna do whatever in my power to make sure that i heal that i grow that i thrive that i that i become successful be my greatest self some of y'all owe a thank you to the narcissist who thought they were destroying you breaking you and leaving you permanently in a position of of just no growth leaving you in a position of feeling dead as a result of dealing with a dead spirit shout out to my thrivers and my warriors keep thriving join the community subscribe like and comment look in the description box for all details and information book coaching sessions reach out let's chat and share your story join my podcast let's have a conversation it's the mommy so true surviving narcissism conversations podcast and i'd love for you to connect with me so we can bring you on an episode until next time stay blessed keep thriving and i'll see you soon beautiful people mwah