If She Cheats On You, Buy Her Flowers

If she ever cheats on you buy her flowers and I know this sounds ridiculous but I'm being serious and before you go to the comment section and say Junaid you have completely lost your mind I want you to hear me out because think about it. Think about you finding out that someone has betrayed you. Someone has cheated on you. How will you feel? You'll probably lose your mind. You'll lose control. You'd want revenge right? But the last thing you want to do is lose yourself. You don't want to lose your character just because someone else has tried to make you lose your character. And therefore, in the case, in the instance, someone will cheat on me, I'll probably still buy her flowers and then I'll leave. I'll leave and never speak to that person again. And the reason I'm doing this is not because I want to showcase to her I'm a good man. It's because I want to showcase to myself that my character stays strong. That you can't change my mind, that you have no emotional control over me because this is eventually what they want right? The moment someone will cheat on you and you'll get angry, you'll feel betrayed, you'll feel hurt and you'll start seeking revenge. They'll use all of this against you, all of the amazing things you've done in your life, your character, your positivity, you as an individual. They'll use all of that against you just because you are in your revenge arc and obviously I understand that if you've been cheated on you want to use this energy for that but it's much wiser to keep mental control. Keep control over your emotions. Showcase to yourself that you are a competent man. Showcase to yourself that you deserve more because how can you say I deserve If you let yourself be lowered to their standards, you become a bitter person, you'll start to resent this individual. Whilst if you are truly an amazing individual, even though it might hurt, even though it might suck, your life moves on. You'll still be this amazing man that can live your life on your own terms. You move on and become better because that's what I would recommend to any and every single person, whether they've been cheated, whether they've been hurt, whether they've been betrayed, whether it's a woman, a friend, or even a business partner, it doesn't matter. It's time for you to just look at yourself in the mirror and say, regardless of external factors, regardless of how other people are trying to make me feel, I will not let that define my character. Because think about it, if you buy her flowers after she cheated on you, She'll know that she lost a good one. She'll know that she'll never be able to replace you. And isn't that type of revenge much better than lowering yourself to her level? Because this type of revenge will make her think about you for the rest of your life. But here you are, moving on, leveling up, and simply just becoming a better and more competent individual. And that's why if you are someone that... feels betrayed. The last thing you want to do is to react with an emotional reaction. As a man it's super super important to stay in control over your emotions. The moment you lose your emotions is the moment you lose yourself. The moment you lose your mind is the moment you lose you. And a lot of times amazing individuals they lose their spark, their positive energy, their smile. Because of other individuals and I don't want you to become one of those individuals. I want you to be a man that regardless of how other people are trying to make you feel, regardless of how the world is testing you, it doesn't really bother you. Because it doesn't really bother myself, like I'm just living my life, I'm having an amazing day and regardless of how other people are trying to treat me or trying to make my day suck, make my day worse, I won't let that affect me because Their life, their low vibration, their bad energy has zero impact on my life because I love myself. I love my life and I know that irrespectable and individuals that have no respect to my life will slowly but over time drain me and I will never let them do that. I'll live my life for myself because I know my value. I know that I'm a competent individual. I know that regardless of whether people want to be part of my life or not, it's their loss. Because I'll keep on focusing on myself. And I know that too many guys, too many of you guys are constantly focusing on other individuals. And that's why as a brother, I'm telling you, stop focusing on other individuals. Stop giving your energy to a woman that doesn't care about you. Because how can you care about yourself? How can you get other people to care about you if you don't respect you? If you don't even focus yourself, the people that prioritize their own time, the people that focus on themselves are the ones that get hyper successful, are the ones that literally get anything in life because they prioritize themselves. And that's why it's super, super important to Build your character. It's super, super important to build your character to a level where if she is trying to harm your character, if she is trying to test you, because we know some women are crazy and they will do these crazy things to test you. You won't let that bother you because you're just going to continue living your life. And you're continually going to become a person that they'll wish they'll still have in their You don't have time for low energy people because you And me, we're amazing individuals. We're living our lives for us. We're living our lives in a way where most people would wish they could live their lives, but they can't because they ain't like you. You're special. You have motion that other people wish they had. You're competent. Anything you put your mind to, you always achieve. That's the type of mindset I have and that's the type of mindset you probably have as well. You just need to unlock it and realize that these people are trying to suck your energy but you won't let that happen because you know that you are special. You know that as long as you stay focused, as long as you keep your mind focused, as long as you stay focused on your long-term vision, nothing can stop you, nothing should even bother you because Let's be honest. I know a lot of people always say, I want revenge, right? And revenge can give you a lot of energy, but revenge can also be a losing game if you use it in the wrong way. If revenge becomes your main focus in life, having revenge over other individuals, you can become a very bitter person because just because someone made you feel bad, You don't want to make the next person feel bad because they have done nothing wrong. Stop being a man that just because a woman has hurt you, you'll end up using this energy to hurt other women. Instead of this, just become so amazing that they will regret losing you. People will wish they had access to you. People will wish they were part of your life because the best revenge is always you leveling up, becoming so amazing and competent that you wouldn't even care about the revenge. You'll just live your life and you'll be like, they're lost. I only got better. Thank God that this person isn't part of my life. And the reason I'm saying this is because I remember when I was a lot younger, there were like a lot of people that I thought were pretty cool And I would wish... That they were part of my life, but as I got older, as I leveled up now, I'm like, thank God they're not part of my life because I've leveled up way past their leagues. I feel so amazing now. I feel like I can do anything. I deserve anything. Obviously, providing that I still put in the work and this is only because I stayed focused. This is only because I was like, Regardless of how other people are going to make me feel, I'll still do me and if people think they deserve better or if people think I am not even worthy to be in their lives, okay, bye, bye, I don't need you in my life and a lot of times these people. Won't even level up because people have this weird perception where they think they deserve the world, but they're not even putting in an ounce of effort, yet they feel like they deserve better, they deserve more. Whilst you are here, you're being humble, you're being someone that is looking in the mirror, you're self-reflecting and suddenly you're slowly but surely leveling up. And now within a few months, within six months, within a year. You look back at these people and they're still living this mediocre life. They're still living the same life while you've leveled up so much. And you didn't even realize that you've leveled up so much, which is like the craziest part. And this is why it's so important that you should never let her give. Like never give her the opportunity to make you the villain because people will literally take any little bit of evidence that they can get to use against you. I'm telling you this right now, the moment you show a little bit of information, you show the small little things that will make them feel better about themselves, they'll use that information against you because these people hate their lives. Low level energy, low vibration energy. Losers will use all of their energy to drain you, to make you feel unworthy, to laugh at your face and don't let them get to you because at the end of the day this life is only for you. I want you to become so amazing matter of fact that when they say all of those things you'll just look at them you'll be like brother who are you talking to me? Look at Look at yourself. Look at your life. Look at you, even if a girl that you once really loved or really cared for and now you've leveled up, you've outgrown your previous environment and they'll say stuff to try and hurt you. Just look at them and smile. Just look at them and laugh like they're a little, little kid trying to make you feel bad and it's not working because my life is so amazing. I don't need you. Or your energy in my life and anything and everything you say, I just take it as a pinch of salt because your opinion doesn't really matter. You're not living the life I'm trying to live. So why would I even want to listen to you? And that's why I said you have to buy her flowers. She'll be like, why? Why didn't this bother him? I just cheated on him and he bought me flowers. But why? He's different. He's not like the other men. The other men will get so emotional. They'll start doubting themselves. They'll get so insecure. Because I know many of you guys, if you happen to be in such a situation, you'll start doubting yourself. Am I good enough? Am I worthy? Am I someone that deserves love? But if you're that guy that... Gets cheated on and you buy her flowers. You're literally telling her, I don't care about you in that way. I don't care that you disrespected me because I'm just going to move on. I'll show you that my character is strong. I'll show you that I got motion. I'll show you that anything that you can do or anything you'll try to attempt to hurt me and my character, it doesn't really bother me because I love myself. I'm confident. I know my value and I will never let something like that. Hurt me and I know that many people will say yeah but that sounds simpy but being a gentleman is not a weakness. It takes balls to be a gentleman. It takes being someone that generally has a strong character to be a gentleman because in this world being a gentleman a lot of times gets people hurt right. A lot of times you see these memes online or you see these posts online where they're like never be the guy in the queue that buys her flowers and the reason they're They're saying this is because A lot of the good guys get hurt by bad women, just like a lot of the bad boys are hurting good women. But imagine being so amazing that she can't even hurt you. Imagine being so amazing that you'll just live your life unapologetically. Okay, you hurt me? Here, have some flowers and then goodbye. Have a nice day. And this will make her think about you. This will make her think, oh my god, he was different. I couldn't Have any sort of control over him. And that's what type of character I want you to have. Because another thing I want to talk about is there's a difference between being loved and being desired. I want you to be desired just for your existence. I don't want you to be loved just because you put in so much time and effort because you had to prove yourself. Why do I have to prove myself to you? Who are you? Why do I have to prove that I am worthy of you? Excuse me? That's not the type of mindset I have. I want to be feared. I want to be desired. I want to be so amazing that my existence is all people want in their lives. Why do I have to be the person that always reaches out first? Why do I have to be the person that always has to put in the effort? I don't want to be that person anymore. I don't want to be the person that always reaches out first. I don't want to be the person that always has to put in the effort. I just want to be the person that gets loved unconditionally. I want to be the person. That gets respect for their existence. And the only way I can become this person is by leveling up, becoming so amazing that people would beg for me to be in their lives. And that's what I want you to do. I want you to become so amazing. I want you to become so capable. I want you to become so respected, so desired that people will beg to have you in their lives. This is the only way you can become someone that lives a fulfilling life because 99% of men are completely invisible. 99% of men get zero respect from women, get zero respect from other men, No man looks up to them, no woman wants to be with them and the reason for this is because the world has become so hyper competitive. If you want to have a life that's worth living, if you want to be a man that feels like he's doing well in life, unfortunately you have to put in the work and become so amazing that people will even fear you. People will want to be like you People will desire to be with you. But then now you can choose what you want to do with your life. And if someone is trying to disrespect you, if someone's trying to say, hey, I don't want you in my life, or if someone betrays you or cheats on you, you'll show them how amazing you are. Just a little reminder of what they're missing out on. That's why you buy her flowers. You show her that it doesn't really bother you. And then suddenly you'll leave. You'll leave and you'll never come back. You'll live in such a way where they'll be like, I wish I never met this person because I'll never find someone better than him. And isn't that type of revenge better than becoming emotional, than becoming someone that will lose his mind? And you have to use all of that energy to find yourself again. Don't become someone that loses your mind, loses your identity. Become someone that is so powerful, has such a strong character that It doesn't really bother you that much. It's their loss. It's their loss that they wanted to cheat on you. It's their loss that they didn't feel like they could get away with this because they can't. You found out and now it's over. Over for them. And that's why we always know some people that are impossible to forget, right? There's always individuals that you only meet them once Once or twice but. You will remember their existence for the rest of your life and the only way you can become someone that's impossible to forget is by leaving such a big statement that is so asymmetric, so atypical, that will make people think like, whoa why did he do that? It will stimulate their minds, it will make them think about you in a way that no one else will do because you don't want to be someone that always fits in You want to be someone that stands out. And the only way you can stand out is by doing the risk averse, like the opposite of risk averse activity. So you take risk, you do stuff that most people wouldn't do, and then you'll get the results and the rewards, right? Because a lot of people will say that, why would I buy her flowers? Why should I even do all of this effort? Because why would I even want her to think about me? Because it's about your reputation. Your reputation is everything at the top. If you want to be someone that's remembered, respected, you better have a good reputation. Because I'll be very honest. So at the time, whilst I'm recording this, a couple of days ago, I was, for example, at this fashion show, right? And there were amazing people, obviously very good looking people. Some people did have influence and some people didn't. Isn't it amazing how... You can have a room full of very, very good looking individuals, but then some people have motion and other people don't have motion. Whilst it's not only about looks, because in a room full of looks, everyone being good looking, do you think being attractive matters? In a room full of money where everyone has money, do you think money really matters? No, of course not. It comes It comes back to your reputation, if you have such an amazing reputation. That's something that will distinguish you from the rest of the people because even in a room full of celebrities, influences, people that have followers, there can be someone that has way more followers than you but their reputation is bad. Will you respect them? No. That's why you want to make sure that your reputation stays good. You want to make sure that this woman that hurt you, this woman that cheated on you, won't forget you, won't see you as a loser. She'll see you as a winner. She'll think, hey, I lost out on this individual because word of mouth spreads quickly, especially at the top, because between you and me, if you want a very, very beautiful woman in your life, I'll be very honest. There's not that many. Once you get to a certain level of respect, a certain level of status of wealth. Most normal rooms you don't even want to enter because in most normal rooms you'll find average people, people that hate their lives and okay perhaps someone might have a pretty face but then they have a horrible character, they have nothing going on in their lives and they don't even fit your lifestyle or you at all. So as you get to the top the rooms only get smaller and smaller and assuming that the people in your life have always been amazing individuals, high level Individuals, elite individuals. Word of mouth spreads very quickly. You can be in one room and speak to one individual and that same individual can have dozens of mutuals with you because the world is so small at the top. All the competent individuals, all the amazing individuals that have power and influence are usually only a few people away from your network. There's a lot of amazing celebrities, a lot of amazing influential people that I know or even indirectly know just because of My network and the people I know and obviously if you want to become amazing and competent, this is only possible if you have this amazing character where you won't let them affect you and your mind. And that's why you need to always keep your mind strong. You need to have control over your mind. You need to have a strong character and make sure that your reputation stays strong. You don't want to be seen as this loser. Even if someone hates you, it's better that they hate you. But at the end of the day, they still respect you. You can hate me, but I know you'll still respect me. I know so many people will hate you for your existence. A lot of people will hate that you're good looking. A lot of people will hate that you're confident, but they will never not respect you. They know that when you say something, you'll do it. And your reputation, your word holds way more value. And that's why it's so important that If you are saying you are a competent man, if you're saying you are a high value man, you are a man that people should fear, people should respect. If she cheats on you, don't let that emotionally affect you. Regardless of her cheating on you or not, regardless of her not being a part of your life, your life moves on. Your character will remain the same. That's why you have to buy her flowers. You deliver those flowers. And then you say goodbye because you're showcasing to yourself what kind of man you are. You're showcasing to yourself, I am so amazing. I am elite. I deserve the best because I am putting in the work like the best. Because how can I say I deserve an amazing woman in my life? How can I say I deserve unlimited wealth, unlimited status, unlimited aura? I deserve to be a man that is respected and feared. For the moment something bad happens in my life, I let my emotions take over. I become bitter, use negative words, lose my mind and lose myself. Because that's not how... A man that is hyper successful acts, a hyper successful man will still do the right things irregardless of the actions of other individuals, irregardless of how she made you feel, irregardless of how she treated you, irregardless of what action she took. You'll have to showcase to yourself, to your brain that you're amazing because a lot of times I have I have to trick my own brain how amazing I am. In less than a week, I have a fight. I haven't fought in four years and most people would be extremely nervous, but I'll be honest, I'm kind of excited because I've tricked my brain that I'm amazing. I've tricked my brain that, hey, Junaid, you have put in the work. You're amazing. You have bigger goals and dreams. You know your value. Your mind is strong. And for example, even with We're fighting. Fighting is very mental. It's a mental task. It's very psychological because a lot of people have these skills, a lot of people know how to throw a jab, a lot of people know how to protect themselves but can you go through all of the pain? Can you have emotional control when it matters? And all of this is something that always links back regardless of who it is. It doesn't matter whether it's a very strong opponent or not because I don't even know who I'm fighting but Who cares? The only thing I can have control over is my mind. The only thing I can have control over is me. So why would I let the opponent I'm fighting change the way my mind is confident about myself and my own abilities? And the same goes for if she cheats on you. Why would I let her actions dictate my mind and reflect my own self-worth because of the actions of her? Because I'm still gonna do what I have to do, I'll still perform, I'll still do what a man will do to showcase to himself that he should be respected and feared. Because if you don't take these steps now you are telling your mind and you're showcasing your brain because your brain actually sees this that hey you are not the man you claim to be. Because how can you say you're amazing if you don't even do the stuff that you should be doing as a man to be amazing. If you If you want to, yeah. The fruits of life. If you want to have the lifestyle, the elite lifestyle, you need to live like an elite man. Unbothered, unapologetic, amazing, elite and literally competent. That's why you need to accept that sometimes things just simply don't work out and it's their loss. You need to know when you need to walk away, you need to know when to cut your losses and when someone has disrespected you like this. It's no joke, you just walk away like a man, you never think about them again and you know that they'll be thinking about you because they'll never find someone like you. You're amazing and special and this is the kind of man I've always wanted to become and the only way you can become the man you want to be is by reverse engineering yourself. Have this idea of amazing competent men. Someone you look up to, the best version of yourself, and then reverse engineer and act like that man. Take the action like that man, because that's the only way you can become that man. Because if you don't even act, live, breathe like the man you want to be, how can you even respect yourself? How can you even ever fathom and think you'll become this man? Because that's just simply not how life works. And I do want to leave you guys with one amazing and important point. Your behavior should never depend on someone else's behavior. A lot of people will disappoint you. A lot of people will try to hurt you. A lot of people will try to drain your energy. But don't let them drain your energy. Even when life is horrible, when life sucks. I want you to be the individual that when everyone is miserable, when everyone feels the pain, you're smiling. You're literally laughing because you don't take it serious. Because you know, regardless of the situation, you always come out on top because that's the type of man you are. And you and I, we are this amazing individual.