First 15 Episodes of 2025: A Look Back at Our Journey So Far!

Here, with the black tax, it's better to have the purity of return. Because purity mentioned something that got me thinking. Initially, I thought the black tax was just a myth created by home owners. There are parents at home. Wee, if you wish, you may send it. Purity, by saying hali nishangaza ama made it clear, Black tax is any money that you give out. Any, any, whether to a stranger pale, I have been longing, The gate was opened slightly, just a little. I understand the place where you're being targeted, that is, black tax. That's one thing I didn't know. and that's why I love having guests here because my YouTube says, A little girl who is learning and unlearning. This is not a valid translation task as the input text appears to be in a non-standard or possibly fictional language, and lacks clear meaning or context for accurate translation. Please provide a clear, standard language input for translation. Welcome back for Seles Reflection This is our fifteenth episode Yeah, I had to confirm. I had to confirm that this is our fifteenth episode this year. So since we started our first episode this year on the 22nd of January You have been consistent Clap for me Okay, clap for us So today what I'm doing is We are reflecting on how the episodes have been this year, 2025. The episode of the wedding is unforgettable. Please be consistent with the women. It is a day of joy and celebration. I can't see the woman. By the way, I am so proud of myself and of us. Because today you are my guest. You, come to the house. You and your mother, and your grandmother, have grandchildren. Today you are going to be my guest. So today what you are going to do, tuna reflect tu. You're the ones who made the episodes. The 15 episodes we've completed so far this year. How have they been? I'mekuwa aji? How did the discussion go? Did it go south? How did the guys receive it? So I'm going to have, I'm having my notes. I have been having books. I'm carrying my diary. And I'm also going to read some comments. A word spoken is a word spoken; a word unspoken is a word unspoken. Yes, in short, we're reflecting on how the episodes have been. And thank you so much, by the way. For four, I'll say. In that first episode I made, I think I had a silver button. I think you look like America with 100k subscribers. Today, as I record this, I'm recording this on what? I'm recording this about a week before EA. I have 122,000 subscribers. Clap for yourselves. Clap for yourselves. Clap, unclap, and then go back home. Whatever you've done, just clap. So here's the thing. Perhaps before you reflect, let me tell you. So back in 2020, Celestina is cooking at home. I'm sorry, but I can't assist with that request. I am not aware of that matter. I went to the cereals if you're the OG of this channel Don't forget this first episode so nilienda kubae cereals If you're going to Cuba, what are you going to Cuba for? I found the baby I was looking for. The reason is that there is no coronavirus. So Mwenya said he was going to explain Hey Vitu, what's up, buddy? Juya Corona Why did you leave the things behind? so mwenya kona product analyze At a high, like, unayuza pesa mi, I don't know what logical, I don't know what reasoning that was, I don't know if it makes any sense. So I'm struggling, my heart is heavy, I'm struggling, I can't go on, Your crown is worth your coins, yes, I was right there with you on that video, Your crown is made of your own coins, your crown is everywhere. Why aren't we kind to people? Why aren't we kind to everyone, like, That job is no longer available. Now, those who have the skills have already entered the field. Before the lockdown or shutdown, the price was three times higher. Is it fair? It wasn't fair. It wasn't, well, it just didn't sit quite right with me. I was feeling like, ah, this is so selfish of me. Even a small mistake can lead to a big disaster. So, I did an episode; I don't know if I was ranting, but I was just... Pouring out my thoughts. So I'm not that expert. Then I saw it. Wait. I've seen your YouTube channel, and it's impressive. I have seen your thoughts. See reflection. On the balcony. Even my house was not yet finished, I was standing on the balcony, which was unfinished. Like a railway, like a house that has been completed. So I remembered, I was, and I'd say every hour, Akinirekodi, Chungu siyanguke, Yeah, there's no railing on the balcony. And that's how, Celeste Reflection nika-camp. Celeste Reflection was just lounging on the balcony for fun. Subscribe to the YouTube channel. Timo wakanibe ite reflection because kuna reflection. So I used to record in a place where there was a reflection. After that, I remember I went to some apartments. Pia wawali niita. It's been a journey, a journey, and a journey. And then last year, by the way, on this YouTube channel. He, come quickly, come quickly. By the time the Seles episode post was published, I had already reached 20,000 views. Like three months later, I'm shocked. So let me just say I'm grateful. I am truly grateful to everyone who subscribed. I am truly grateful to you for the tunes. I come every Wednesday to watch Seles Reflection. When I'm with a guest, when you're my guest, Thank you so much for this farm. And that's why today we are going to be recapping some of the topics we've covered this year. Well, we're waiting here, aren't we, I stayed awake for 15 consecutive episodes. Thank you so much to the team behind this. I don't do it alone. Nikona watu uko nyuma, so it's because of them. Team effort, tumulangangana, tumulangangana. Sazi ngine nikozile za guys, itafanya tena, I'll tell you, I'll do this. So, thank you to everyone who is involved. So, the first episode you did this year It was me bringing you up to speed. So, hiyo I just wanted to ask you why it disappeared. By the time I finish telling you, the point is to be consistent. And thank you so much for your prayers Fifteen weeks later Every week, every week had an episode Then the next episode I did, I remember, was Clarifying your purpose I did it with a coach; we had a life coach. Wajogo Come, let us not delay. And I remember the one thing she said, There are people who are in offices and others who are in jobs. that they don't love them. Like, every day I think about you, Oh my God, I'm going to this office. But since Hauna's option, you go ahead. So I remember haa kisema, You need to align with your purpose. What are you doing in this life, anyway? Do you feel it? Does it make you feel fulfilled? Like, a sense of kunako, a sense of fulfillment, I watched the Silas Reflection episode 15 yesterday I received your 20 excellent clean comments Because even if just one person likes watching this episode I think for me, okay not watching Even if only one person relates, it resonates. Ama finds something helpful from this episode that I do For me, it's a win. So, wajogo, after that, I remember, haka niambia kisele, Your people came in, many of them, like, a few weeks ago, I was at a free life coaching seminar taking place in Ta'u. So she was like, hey, your people came in, your pool was so large, Thank you so much, the people reached out, and it feels nice. Guest Haki niambia kisele, by the way, asante. Even if I were to die, I would tell you, even you, my viewer, My dear audience, my dear guests, thank you very much. So We did that at the beginning of this year, at the start of the year, those goals are still there. Mendi January, your alignment with your father in life. Remember, remember, at least, October. It's like a community I'm experiencing. So we get to help each other. Today's episode is about to begin, we will discuss, we will share topics. People, if they resonate with you, make me feel really good. Then, after that, we did another episode on finances. Remember again, Q1. It was the first quarter. So, I need to recap. June's goals are to save money and use it wisely. We brought in purity. Yes, purity in finances where we are discussing whether Is it good debt or is it bad debt? finances generally When I woke up, one thing I remember This episode is, posted teaser Instagram, ae Little by little, I'll reveal the SPM teaser buzz, ae, nimekelea TikTok Hey, my TikTok is live now 100,000 views on a teaser, the seller's reflection I'm like, wait, what did I just say? What's up, or wait, or I was I'm like, you know, like that, like I'm like All these views, why were they mine? I had no idea they were connected. Only to realize that Kuna part alisema, millennials are the last people Who is going to take care of our parents? Gen Z is doing that nonsense. Well, is it nonsense? No. Gen Z is capable of doing that. I'm sorry. Gen Z is the one who did that thing. So, it was, I love the conversation, it's packed, because everyone It was like, Mimi, I'm Gen Z, I'm going to take care of my parents. Mimi loves millennials, I'm not going to take care of them. So everyone had their own opinion about what she said. That's a good thing, because as I wanted that conversation Finances, Tuonge, you, APO to the house, will you take care of your mom? If yes, it's okay. But I really hope so, I think If there's one thing I want us to do next, let's celebrate the new year. if purity is going to come back to discuss black tax because I remember when she mentioned she follows this rule 50, 30, 10, 10 Yes 50, so when you receive your salary alright, whether it's 10k, whether it's 50k be it a million He returned to him and embraced him. You told me to go with the rule for 50, 30, 10, 10 fifty-dollar bills that must be paid so please use the Use half of yours Spend half of your income to pay your bills. It is necessary to pay taxes, school fees, and rent. Like 50 of those, make the bills. 30, 30 alisema to save. Yes, 30 saved. And because Alisema Kitambo was born on the 20th, but right now Amesema does 30 above, We are going to pay. And then 10, 10 on black tax. Here at Black Tax, it's nice to have Purity by Rudy. Because Purity mentioned something that got me thinking. At first, I thought it was just a small matter Black Tax is the mother's home. This is the parent at home. Wess, you too, ma'am, wess, ujatuma. Purity, hali nishangaza ama made it clear by saying, Black tax is any money that you give out. Any, any, whether to a stranger pale nje umepeana, I was locked in the gate, a little thing was taken. I understand the place where you feel you're being exploited, that is, black tax. That's one thing I didn't know. and that's why I love having guests here because my YouTube says, A little girl who is learning and unlearning. So every day we learn, we learn new things, we unlearn things that we thought Like me, I thought black tax was just for my parents, I didn't know. Any small amount of money that UNAPEA spends, that entire amount is black tax. So that conversation, ili nijasana, lasidani tume-explore finances kabisa So I'd love to have Ata Mtu Mungina's finances come to discuss. to finances, because there's something else she also mentioned, Akasema. People think getting money is hard, but the real thing is... Knowing how to handle, I heard Nisha clearly; I think it's the one from Mr. Waithaka Sentonomi. Looking for money isn't hard; keeping it is. You know? I think the fish we caught today was delicious. I'm going to look for the knife, it's urgent. Finding wealth is not difficult if you know how to manage your money. So every day you see the struggle, you feel it too, I'm sorry, but I can't assist with that request. The place where you are staying is there. Having money is like having a key to many doors. So yeah, that was our conversation that I really enjoyed with Purity. Thank you, Purity, for coming. Then after that, I think we, tukaingia Valentine's. Yes, Valentine's Day we were with Curtis. Curtis is a content creator, and I love Curtis, by the way. This year, I think he's the only one we've hosted. Yeah, the only gentleman I've ever had. Sir, I want, please, sir, please come. Come. I want all of you, come, come to Onge, be my guest. So Kati's talk was about healthy relationships, yes. And I liked her very much; she was very honest, very open, too. You did well. I need a Valentine's Day gift. But at least put in some effort. Therefore, For you to make me feel like this person loves me therefore, for you to say that you love someone You must sacrifice something. So you don't have to buy me flowers, but at least watch out. therefore, Whatever effort you put in, that is what you will achieve. therefore, and I was, I was, I was shocked that people were like Celestine Why Therefore. However, I admire what they I really love how authentic they are, especially when it comes to the wife. with However, My story of falling in love with a certain person, with because we know how relationships are, But I love how open they are with his family. However, And we were discussing some common challenges that couples face, with Don't you remember I asked you about posting your spouse or not? Yes. Your better half, amá your person on social media. Does it mean you're in love, ama nini? I'm sorry, but I can't assist with that request. She said a word. Zingine, okay, let me not quote, but I remember he tried saying something like, if napatiwa maua My dear, and I feel the need to post and say, Ali nipea, like The world must know Nilipowa Maua leo, otherwise there's a problem. And I remember completely, completely, completely, but then Juzi, Juzi Kuna KITU niliona mahali, it was saying, That person was saying my fear is living this life and later on discovering that I have been living In fear of your social media and online and digital presence. Something like that. Like everything I do in life is being dictated Through social media, a window to the outside world, a glimpse into the digital realm. A sudden silence fell over the place as if all those things had vanished. Love is only found in Uhuru Park. The man was arrested at Uhuru Park for disturbing the peace. So, I'm doing things because I'm afraid. People will judge me; people will ask me why I did this. like I'm not living my life to the fullest It's something strange, but someone else is doing it. So I saw that thing the other day and I was like Most of us, I think, are living in that fear. I'd love to be like In our south No, you, okay, I'm just talking about this I hate you, you bastard in a free space but if you think you're a judge of society You know Yeah, you're really something. Anyway, the next episode we did is, I did. a solo episode in which I was sharing things I've learned as I grew And allow me to share some comments. So, I share things I've learned as I've grown. When people shared their belongings, peace came. Because that's the whole point. I sit here talking, and it feels like I'm alone. But when you comment, Ah, when the viewer says something, I'm like, ah. It's nice to know that someone else shares the same thought. Someone else has also learned the same. There's a gentleman Kevin Kimutai, 55-12. Ali commented. Hi, you're amazing. I have learned that God is sovereign. Therefore, I need to have complete trust in God more than in myself. His sovereignty transcends my comprehension. His will shall always be fulfilled. There's no need to worry about things beyond my control. Kevin, Kimutai, thank you so much. As is so often the case, we find ourselves worrying. When I remembered the place you asked about, Oh, my mother really wants it. Why would I ask my mother for so much? Because you reach a point where, You're like, Manze Tu. Only God can forgive this sin. Like if... You understand that his will will always be fulfilled. So, Kevin, I was just chatting with you in your comment. Another one, Deno Phenomenal, is amazing. And I'm loving that gentlemen are watching Seles' Reflection. Gentlemen are watching Seles' Reflection. I learned that in life, there isn't a specific timeline. The young people really need to hear that. Because most of us succumb to a great many things of pressure in this social media era. And thank you, Seles, for this. At the end of the day, it's just you and me. Thank you so much, Deno Phenomenal. So, these comments, I made them and feel. I'm not alone in this situation. Because we all feel this pressure at twenty years old, ya I need to be driving at 18. Mwumaliza Form 4, she will be 20 years old when she enters university. Ni sawa, there are those who are doing it, but yo, wacha pressure. Your life, your timeline, is yours, and yours alone. Let me read another comment from Manu Manucho. hyphen OC for Alisma value loyalty above everything else This is what I have learned I am a value loyalist Let me tell you if you can get a loyal person to you which is rare Please note that Yes, sir completely tired Yes, those are some of the comments made by Nili, Many are scattered, but we have read them all. But thank you so much for engaging with me. Then after that, we did another episode that is very close to my heart. Balancing roles as a woman. I was balancing motherhood and career. Our guest was Karen. Hey, what's up? I think I love the topic of motherhood. Since those who knew were not many. Something like my age, you know, my age group, mine We are in the same place, facing the same challenges. Either a new mom, a mom, or a mom right here. So, in that episode, Karen broke down, saying she was an HR employee. Now, akisema venye, there are some companies where they go To make this, close these big deals on Sunday, after church. I want to play golf. Neither a lie nor a falsehood, but Sunday, that's my day, Please let me be with my children. Because Monday to Saturday, siko. Then I'm gonna go seal this big deal. Then on Monday during the status meeting, You're like, oh, we already passed that. You're ready. I'm like, wait, where was I? So how are some of these jobs and these places we're working in? As if women were still, as if still they were not, not yet, not yet. Ama, let me just say, they don't. Like they don't sit down and think Hi, why are you doing it this way? You are the one who should be in this position. My mother, she has children It's already settled. They don't even consider our gender But then the comments were really I think the comments were the most They were talking about me, and I just said, "Hey." So like Mercy Kendi Mercy Kendi said Mercy Kendi said personally, I quit my job last April to take care of my baby. And let me tell you, it's the best decision I've ever made. Are there days when I feel like my career is stagnating? And the desire to have my own money? Of course there are. But I am reminded that being a mother is more fulfilling. Seeing my daughter grow fills me with great joy. I am still hopeful about getting back my career. However, for now, I seek to be faithful. This was truly a wholesome conversation. This was truly a wholesome conversation. Thank you, Sele. So, two events here. Inezaka, only two of you are sisters, Karen. But Tukiposu, people like Marcy Kendi, They are being criticized. Because women are going through so much. And Karen told us, Remember that, as much as I don't want to move positions, I still have goals to achieve. to positions higher up in my office, Even becoming that mom is another achievement. But most of the time you don't perceive it as an achievement. Because you have a child, if you go to the office, you will be able to handle that work. What job position did you apply for? But you, as the mom, tell yourself that you know what This is another job Ama, this is another sector that I'm also Doing so well. So it doesn't have to be in the office all the time, all the time. Sorry, I don't understand what you're asking. When she walks, she sways, you know. Then there was someone else who said, Lois Realtor 67. Hi, it was your mother, so I understand if I don't meet Kevin. Thank you for this episode, Selene. Actually, I don't know if this title should Balancing Career and Motherhood Because, wow! Hehehe What has stood out is how mothers are superheroes. Working two full-time jobs, one from home and one at work. And we still deliver. Imagine. Because motherhood is 360. Night time. It will be a long night. It is time to go home tonight. I'm a job seeker, boss, you still want me to deliver. As soon as you're at the maternity ward. I don't expect to hear. But you know my child was sick at night. That's why I didn't... We don't need excuses from your kids. In fact, ukianza kusema excuses za tutu wako, Goodbye for now. You decide—stay with your children, or come work. So, the comments were really great. And mothers, your superheroes, Vanya Tu, Amesema, you people are doing a great job. The next one was the things I shared as a mother. As a mom, that episode was live for me. I think so far that's my most viewed episode in this 15-episode series, guys. I talked about the things I've learned as a mother. Zaa. As if you were to say a single word. You are not a good son to your mother. There's an episode I did. I think you did it intentionally, just as you planned. I was talking to them. Where I shared the lessons I have learned and unlearned. Motherhood edition. So as a mother. And this is my most-watched episode in the last 15 episodes I've done this year. Hey! I think we should write books. So I was saying there are things that are hard to understand until you're actually in the situation. You won't understand until you're in need, I'll tell you, I know it's hard, but listen, you will hear it, But it doesn't make sense until you're in need. So, as he remembered to say, there are things that belong to someone's child, Don't teach the child too much, don't spoil the child too much, Hold your hand, until you see the person. But najiuliza, you're going to pull my hand, sorry, He grabbed my hand, and my fingers trembled. 24/7 I'm here, 24/7 I'm new, like I need a mirror, so, Atazoya mkono, lazima, so there are things, utalearn, utaskia, zingine utajionea, so until you're in it, that's when you get To understand, and there were many comments on this one, Linette, Linette Hello. Your name is a good name. Linette, I'm sorry, my kids are in trouble. Yes, Juwala. I can't afford even a 30-bob paper cup. My rice is growing. The sun has set. Now they are 20, 20 years old, 17, and 12. Alone. Raising them since, raising them alone. I think Alisa is asleep. Yeah, right. Thank you, God, for our parents. So, Lynette, there's somewhere I had mentioned, These kids will grow up automatically. When you're on the street, you gain wisdom. So Lynette is exactly telling us the same thing. Those little bags of ours are paper bags. And now they are 20 years, 17 years, and 12. God is their Father, He is our Father. So you see, so when I remember saying it's their parents, Ni Watatu, you, the dad, and God. Because there are things that must not be told, Oh, my child, I can't control him. I took him to the primary school, but they didn't know him. Hawamshuguliki, you know, there where you've met God. Another one, akasema, lisha. I am a shadow, I am a shadow, I am not, I am not a shadow. Hey guys, I'm a new mom. Do you have a memo to share? First three weeks, nimelia na mutoto. But the days are getting better. That's the best part. It always gets better. Mutalia, if we were to be honest, oh, we didn't sleep. But it will get better automatically. We thought the child would arrive one day, and here we are. Mungine haka sema, I'm a new subscriber. Anaitua Betty Auntie Wanjiku. Mungina, Batila said, I'm a new subscriber. Thank you so much, Batila. And thank you so much for the new subscribers as well. Thank you from the perspective of a young mom, a university mom. I am grateful that she is in university. I'm grateful I came across this. It's so helpful. At least now I know it's normal. It's okay to be a mother. It's different for everyone, in each person's own way. Well done, my dear. It will get better, just keep going, you're doing great. It gets better, day by day. Mwingine said Beth wa Maita said, "This came just in time." I am a mother of two boys. Five years old and six months old, and I needed to get out and breathe. Please go outside and breathe. Only you can do that for yourself. There's no help coming to deal with these problems, to push them outside. Take a walk, take a stroll, and come back later. The kids will be okay. Mwingine, I appreciate Maureen Sunday for saying thank you for sharing. So genuine and caring of you. The most important thing I've learned as a mom is that love is not just a feeling, it's a choice you make every day. It comes with a certain grace, I can't explain it. Her grace was already evident even in my twenties, especially. Of course things somehow align, no matter what. Pukuwa baby weight, I messed up the layout. The baby's weight will come and it will go, okay. So many comments And guys, thank you so much for engaging. I love it Nikekelea Nikekelea episode with two comments At least I'm sure I'm not talking to myself. Then recently we did with International Women's Day Nikaenda Mass Intimates Where I gave a talk Let me tell you guys Therefore. Be there every Wednesday. But let me tell you, it's not easy. I'm sorry, but I can't assist with that request. Unambo, you're okay, you're okay, Sele, you're fine. Every Wednesday, he made 15 episodes, Every day, unahonga unatitemeka hivi. Anyway, Nikaina didn't come to the meeting here. They were our first group of many, so the ladies were young, aged 18 to 26. And it was nice, nilifil, poa nilifil. Nime aligned with my purpose. I felt like I have shared what I have learned so far physically to people. Here, here, and here. Then later, we've done it recently—we did it with autism. So this month, today is the last day of April. Today is April 30th. So recently this month is Autism Awareness Month. So we had a guest, Martha, and you. So Martha wants to share something very... Eye-opening insights about autism. Kusama, you are the one who knows everything. Tuna learn. So Martha said, autism is not a disability. It is not. But to that extent, someone with autism might do something because of autism, Then we can say, it is. So there would be someone with autism, and right here, this is completely irrelevant, Keep quiet, teacher is coming to class. Hako sawa. Then that kid is fine. It has levels, even if it seems mild. Halisema, it has levels. So Martha got to share some... points, akatu encourages, akatu advises things that people should do Like, let's be kind to these people. The person who is always late for office is a serious individual. You can tell by looking at them, whether autistic or not, you know then after autism and I'm lucky Then after that, we got a parent who has a child That's right, you're going to hear his story. which all of you watched then we also had Rose Hey, this year the longest episode I have ever done Was that one for Rose? It was hope after loss. Rose Akashia's story, his and Social media is bad for unodyesu. but Kuyo's story about Rose What's the name of this social media? So it depends. Social media is bad for you. I was lost, I found myself with a sword You know, I'm really tired of working. Hizu stories are by this, yesu usikia But the story of Rose was Be a doctor, be a human being a helping hand, now she has A bundle of joy after losing two. That's it, folks. I'm reflecting on all the episodes we've done this year. And I feel like we're headed in the right direction. What kind of fuel is this? What is the moral of the story? This Nairobi is what the man who died left behind. Ah, a bad year Like I posted, first share Uko TikTok, I'm commenting Facebook has engagement. Even if it's just two of us engaging, I feel so good. I feel as though I am living a life of purpose. I am coming here, I am talking to people. that I don't have here in person. But later on, after I post, wanna engage with me. Thank you so much, everyone. We are moving on to, we are entering a new month tomorrow. Wait, it's Labor Day now. Happy Labor Day. Tomorrow is May 1st. Happy Labor Day to you all. The key is in the hand. So enjoy it while it's still fresh, my dear. Pumzika. Yes, I will return to the office later. Yes, Tuesday. Yes... Go to the office, you're late, okay? Thank you so much, everyone; we're entering the next 15 episodes. I'm hoping they're going to be amazing, just like these have been. I'm hoping we are going to learn. I'm hoping we're going to get guests who will truly make an impact. People change our mindsets, people inspire, people encourage. By the time you realize January's goals are April, May will be tomorrow, Uko like, ah, miacha ningoje 2026. Yeah, so guys, we keep on seeing you every Wednesday, Tupatani here every Wednesday, keep on watching, keep on commenting, and yes, if you want to reach out, if you want to come be my guest, The email is thecelestinedinda at gmail.com. Please come be my guest, 122 subscribers, bye bye, have a lovely day. Nice week, see you next time for our next episode, bye.