Hot Smart Rich creator says real wealth is having the freedom to walk away

I watched so many people, specifically women in my life, be controlled by money, not be able to leave situations that they were no longer respected in, have to stay in rooms that they shouldn't have stayed in. So to me, I knew it was extremely important to always have my own money and to always be making my own money. And to me, that was a very rich life, rich to be able to choose what I wanted to do, rich to have freedom. So I think a lot of the time people hear these very polarizing big words, right? And in this world that we live in, it's very much the attention economy. How are you going to get someone's attention? But it's really not about looking the hottest that you can be or being the richest in the room. To me, rich is really about the freedom to leave, the freedom to choose, the freedom to do whatever I want. I think for so long, you know, people have said the way that you speak or the way that you love fashion or the way that you want to be perceived is such a difference to being how intellectual you are. And to me, I always question, like, why is it this backhanded compliment? Why do people after I earn their credibility or I earn their trust? why is it not just given to women and so I thought of the three most polarizing things that I could say put it together and I think like I said in the attention economy you have to create attention so even if people misunderstand it at the beginning once they dig in and see the mission that I'm on they usually are pretty bought into it