FAMILY MATTERS MOST!!

Hangin With The Hughes
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FAMILY MATTERS MOST!
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***Videographer and Editor***
Johnny Murdock • Murdock Productions
Yo, before you watch this video, go click the subscribe button.
It's that little red one, this. Can you see it, Johnny?
Where are my hands? That's good.
We good? Right here?
Go click that button and click the like, okay?
Before you start watching.
Can you see me? Can you see me?
This is where I earn my shoe allowance.
I'm staying with dad.
I got to do the dishes, sweep the floors, vacuum, dust.
Sometimes I do that in the store and people look at me like I'm crazy.
I'll just be like, ah.
This kid on drugs? Call the police.
Look at Tessa, dude. I want to take a picture.
Matt. She's lying. She wouldn't really.
Tessa's like a little model out there. A pregnant model.
This will be Russell's future bedroom.
His tent.
Work it, Tess. Turn it.
Show me that angle, dude.
You know what I saw about angles, Johnny?
Johnny, but guess what?
I couldn't have got it if I wasn't standing in the middle of that.
He had promised me like 20 things he would do if I gave his ring back.
Yeah.
You know what? He has not rubbed my feet once since then.
Hold on. Thomas, where do you go? This way?
Yep.
Thomas Colby Hughes.
I just realized something.
You have not rubbed my feet once, so give me your ring back.
Seriously, that is, you're not holding up your end of the bargain.
You don't, you haven't cooked my meals.
Don't steal stuff.
I will cut his finger off and send it in the mail to somebody.
Okay, do me one favor.
First person to comment, I'm going to send you Thomas's finger in the mail.
What are you looking at? Get out of here, dude.
How is this fair?
Kind of not, though.
This whole ring gives me power to just be me.
Okay, don't let this pretty face fool you.
Okay, I'm not pretty, but I got good clothes and my ring makes people realize
I'm still a little gangster inside.
Yeah.
It looks like I have 500 pound arms.
Oh yeah.
You like them, huh?
That's good.
Those last ones are good.
Yeah, this is the one she wants.
Give me your ring back then.
If you could beat me in paper boxes.
No cheating.
Okay, two out of three.
No, you only won one.
I won.
It feels really good to win, especially this competition, because I hate this thing so bad.
He wins everything you see.
He just has his mind set that he's going to win.
I'm the best of the best.
No one's ever beat me in rock, paper, scissors until today.
Look at him, poor sport.
Walked in the house.
He's crying and pouting like, I just lost and everybody sucks.
Disrespect the skull.
I threw it in the pool.
I threw it over the mountains.
You can order a new one.
Watch our vlog and you'll see.
It's making hot.
What does the N say?
What does the K say?
So this says ink.
It's probably the best surprise I've ever had.
Because Ashley's like, not big on surprises anymore.
I used to be.
She used to be like, I'd have 117 birthday presents and 200 Christmas.
And now I honestly, like, I swear my thoughtfulness has gone out the door.
When it comes to giving gifts.
Yeah, but not this time.
She surprised me.
I was like, I'll buy a few more of you.
You want peanut butter, jelly, grapes and cheese?
Okay, let's go get some.
Let's go make some.
You want to hold me?
Me or mom?
We both want to hold you.
Can we both hold you?
Okay, let's let's both hold it.
You don't love me?
You love my look?
In like team USA, no one ever backs out.
Everybody's down to fight out there, Tess.
You know how I'm going to change the world?
To change the world, it's not that it's not possible,
but it's that it's something that, like, change the world for what?
Like, what could you change the world to do?
Like, you can't make everybody happy.
You could be the ripest apple on the tree and somebody's not gonna like apples.
You know what I mean, Tess?
But I have this idea that I don't have to change the world for everyone,
but I could change somebody's world.
It's still the same effect, though.
Like, what's the difference?
You could change people's world.
And what could change somebody's world?
A job, a car.
Work, work, work, work, work.
No, no, no, no, no.
What are you talking about?
Work, work, work.
Anyway, maybe we say, okay.
Change someone's world.
This month, I'm gonna change someone's world.
I'm working on it right now.
I've got some peeps.
If you can change one person's life and change their world,
you will affect way more than that.
You will affect way more than that one person
because you're affecting their kids and their kids and their kids.
Like, our kids will, I believe, with everything,
they can do whatever they want, you know?
They can grow up to be whatever they want to be.
And they're gonna see that we believed in ourselves enough
that we could change our circumstances, so.
Have you ever noticed, like, you look at a...
Someone who comes from a successful family,
it's not uncommon to see them become successful, right?
Because you're like, oh, it's just like,
if you're successful, your kids will be successful.
Why is it when we see someone who has a lot of money
or is successful in their field,
their children come up and are just as successful?
But like Ashley said, I think when your children see what you've done,
there's a different mindset.
They're born into the world like, I can do whatever I want to do
because my mom and my dad went and did whatever they wanted to do.
So, like, they have this different mindset as they grow up
versus you grow up and in a less fortunate home, like I did,
it's more like the cards are stacked against you, kind of.
Because you think like, oh, it's normal to live paycheck to paycheck.
It's okay to be broke.
It's okay to struggle.
That's just normal.
That's what life is that everyone else kind of got lucky, you know?
Yeah, but it's weird.
Like, and I understand that those kids who are more successful
with those successful families had more resources in some ways.
But who's to say you can't go create that same exact thing for yourself?
My favorite stories are the ones that started with nothing
and became successful anyway, right?
Seriously.
Because then it gives everyone hope like, oh, then I can,
I can do that same thing.
Exactly.
I get to help people make money.
Like, there's no, nothing cooler, you know, than helping someone else
pay off debt or buy their dream car or retire their husband.
Like, how could you ever get sick of that?
And that's why I think, well, I'll be here until the day I die.
He won't.
I will turn it on for you.
Let's go turn it on.
Say hi.
It's the pigs?
Yeah.
Wanna watch it again?
Yeah.
Tess, you done woke up the beast.
I'm in charge of a lot of stuff.
Just means she's working when she's on the phone.
We have a substantial goal to meet this month.
When me and Ashley start the month, we sit down and we're like,
okay, what is our goal this month?
And now we came up with a new one.
Instead of changing the world, we're changing people's lives.
Right, babe?
And that's what she's busy doing right now while I'm just nagging at her.
Working my butt off.
I just did my, like, 20th video for my crew.
Seriously, this has been my day so far.
But the cool thing is I've been able to hang out with all y'all while I've been working.
Signed up some distributors.
Been coaching them, doing conference calls, doing, um,
all while you guys have been here.
I don't know if you know.
On our video and I'll respond to every single one of them.
Even if it takes me hours.
It's part of my allowance.
Wow, these videos are hilarious and inspirational.
I know if you can be an inspiration, you're doing something right.
Even if you do a lot of things wrong, like I do, Johnny.
Like I get kicked off the bed a lot to the couch or the ground.
At least I can do one thing right.
That's inspired.
You never actually see Johnny's full face.
Like all we see is the bottom half.
I told you I'm smart.
Why do you keep doubting me?
She doesn't believe me, Johnny.
She doesn't believe that I'm smart.
I think it just amazes me how smart you are.
Like you're smarter than the average person.
I've never met anybody that's climbed that mountain, so I won't do it.
Ashley's uncle was the first person to ever ski down the face of it.
Oh, really?
Like 200 years ago.
Sticks.
But no, I'm being dead serious.
I see lots of spots I could go.
There's a few spots I see that I think would be just too easy.
So we got to make it interesting.
Johnny's coming.
If he dies, he dies.
Whatever.
I'm going to cross my eyes and dot my T's, dude.
That wasn't me.
Can you imagine if someone died with me?
The first person to ever think it was me.
Crazy kid on those videos, he probably did it.
They don't know I'm a nice guy.
Time is so much more valuable to us than money because
when I wake up in the morning, I do what I want to do.
No one has any say.
And that doesn't affect my paycheck at all.
It doesn't affect our income in any way.
If I wake up and say today, I'm not doing anything.
I'm staying here.
I own my own time.
I'm my own boss.
What I want to do is on my schedule.
And those are things you won't get back because for Milo, when he was born
for five months of his life, I was there every single day.
And nothing can replace that time you have with your children.
And with Simon and Cohen, I wasn't there the first 18 months of their life.
I was gone 16 hours a day working my butt off for what?
So I could pay bills.
Like we didn't have anything more.
We didn't do anything more.
Like I just, and I made $24 an hour.
Like I worked every single day all the time just so we could pay bills and pay off debt
because we were Dave Ramsey in it.
And we wanted to get out of 100% debt, you know?
So when I explain that to people, like in this business, like how time is more valuable,
I always bring up Milo because I'm like, imagine that for five months of my child's life,
that every day he woke up and every day he felt like I was right there.
And so was Ashley.
And no money in the world could ever replace that time you had.
If someone says, Hey, I'll give you a million dollars,
but you got to forget every second you had with your son Milo.
You don't have to forget him, but you have to forget that you were there for those times.
I would pass it up a million times because that time I had with him was so important.
And that's when I realized the value of time.
If you knew you were going to die tomorrow, you wouldn't say,
I'm going to go to work and make some more money.
You would say, I want to spend time with my family and go do, cross off my bucket list.
But I mean, you, when, when it's like life and death situation, you always
would choose, I want to be around my friends or my family.
It's not, Oh, I want to make more money.
I want to work my business.
I want to go to have a job.
You know what I mean?
The greatest thing to me in life.
And I think everyone will agree.
Majority of the world, the family is everything, right?
Like you wake up and who do you want to be with?
What do you want to revolve your life around family?
It's not always about like, Oh, no one wants to be alone.
I mean, maybe there's some weird people out there.
Like I just want to be by myself.
But the second, like you guys got married, it's everything's about you guys.
You want to do everything together.
Like having your own business together has got to be great
because you guys get to go places together.
You do everything together.
People say to us sometimes like, we'll say to me,
well, don't you get sick of just being home all the time?
Don't you get sick?
And I was like, well, have you ever had a kid die?
Have you ever had a child pass away or a family member?
Would you be sick of being with that person once they pass away?
Would you like regret that time you spent with them?
I love every second of being with them.
And maybe we're just weird, but we love being by each other.
Like Johnny, you've heard us say it before.
If I go to the gym and I'm an hour and 15 minutes, guess who calls my phone?
If Ashley's gone and she goes somewhere and she's like,
Oh, I'll be back in an hour.
And it's an hour and 30 minutes.
Guess who calls her phone?
I'm like, babe, where are you at?
You said you'd be back in an hour and a half.
Like, what are you doing?
We've been, we've become such a full time family.
And I don't use that term lightly.
Like we are a full-time family from the point where we are together all the time.
And I love that because I feel like that's the way God designed us to be.
People think they're like, Oh, we're supposed to come here and work, wake up, sleep, die.
Like that's what we're supposed to do.
And I'm like, no, we're supposed to do whatever we want to.
We can do so many amazing things.
200 years ago.
That's how life was.
You all work together as a family.
You were together all the time.
You were not successful.
If you make money, you were successful.
If you wake up and enjoy what you do.
Seeing how close I can get to the ground while flying as fast as I can fly.
The next level is low.
The aircraft will go to the home point in 10 seconds.
Not if I get there first, Siri.
Siri.
That's totally possible.
They bite off your ear like Mike Tyson.
Probably turned me on, but we know that staying consistency is key.
But like, what do you focus on mainly in your business?
It makes it so successful.
Have a daily checklist.
I notice I say ta instead of two and fir instead of four.
Like I'm a hillbilly out of hillbilly central.
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