Miriam Margolyes reads Ayn Rand's very stern letter to her niece

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May 22nd, 1949.
Dear Connie,
you are very young,
so I don't know whether you realize
the seriousness of your action
in writing to me for money.
Since I don't know you at all,
I'm going to put you to a test.
If you really want to borrow $25 for me,
I will take a chance on finding out
what kind of person you are.
You want to borrow the money
until your graduation.
I will do better than that.
I will make it easier for you
to repay the debt,
but on condition that you understand
and accept it as a strict
and serious business deal.
Before you borrow it,
I want you to think it over very carefully.
Here are my conditions.
If I send you the $25,
I will give you a year to repay it.
I will give you six months
after your graduation
to get settled in a job.
Then you will start repaying
the money and installments.
You will send me $5 on January 15, 1950
and $4 on the 15th
of every month after that.
The last installment
will be on June 15, 1950
and that will repay the total.
Are you willing to do it?
I want you to understand right now
that I will not accept any excuse
except a serious illness.
If you become ill,
then I will give you an extension of time,
but for no other reason.
If when the debt becomes due,
you tell me that you can't pay me
because you needed a new pair of shoes
or a new coat
or you gave the money
to somebody in the family
who needed it more than I do,
then I will consider you an embezzler.
No, I won't send a policeman after you,
but I will write you off
as a rotten person
and I will never speak
or write to you again.
You want $25
for the purpose of buying a dress?
You tell me that you will get a job
and be able to repay me.
That's fine
and I am willing to help you
if that is exactly what you mean.
But if what you mean is
give me the money now
and I will repay it
if I don't change my mind about it,
then the deal is off.
If I keep my part of the deal,
you must keep yours
just exactly as agreed
no matter what happens.
I will tell you the reasons
for the conditions I make.
I think that the person
who asks and expects other people
to give him money
instead of earning it
is the most rotten person on earth.
I would like to teach you,
if I can,
very early in life,
the idea
of a self-respecting,
self-supporting,
responsible,
capitalistic person.
If you borrow money and repay it,
it is the best training
in responsibility
that you can ever have.
Now think this over
and let me know
whether you want to borrow the money
on my conditions
and whether you give me
your word of honor
to observe the conditions.
If you do,
I will send you the money.
If you don't understand me,
if you think that I am a hard,
cruel,
rich old woman
and you don't approve of my ideas,
well, you don't have to approve.
But then you must not ask me for help.
I will wait to hear from you.
And if I find out
that you are my kind of person,
then I hope
that this will be the beginning
of a real friendship between us,
which would please me very much,
your aunt.
