Kẻ yếu nóng giận như hổ lửa, Người mạnh bình lặng tựa nước sâu: 6 Phẩm chất người có nội tâm mạnh mẽ

My name is Quy Tan Quoc Khanh, greetings to all of you. I would like to invite all of you to come to the topic of Emotional Life. In the topic of Emotional Life this time, I would like to invite all of you to come to the sharing lesson. Weak people are as hot as a fire, strong people are as calm as a river, and weak people have a strong heart. Ladies and gentlemen, a truly strong person must have a truly calm heart, a calm heart and a bright mind. Han has overcome storms, tasted adventures, and had the time to stand on the long road of life. I hope that on that path of life, no matter what the circumstances, we can be full of wisdom, brave and strong, to become people with an unwavering heart. Weak people are often arrogant and easily arrogant. Strong people are often calm as water with a calm mind. People with an unwavering heart are full of elements. No matter how small things are, they will be magnified infinitely. A person who is not strong in his heart will always lack a sense of safety in his heart. Strong people here are not representatives of those who have power or any special rights. And weak people are not just weak people in society. There are weak people among those who have power and special rights. And there are strong people among those who have power and special rights. According to the view of morality and will, strong people and weak people can transform into each other. If strong people lose their morality and will, they become weak and the opposite. People who are not strong in their hearts are very likely to be affected by the outside world. They often show that they pay special attention to the opinions or live in the eyes and mouths of others. As a result, they lose their self-control, self-doubt, independent judgment and lead to a life that becomes more and more fragile, transparent and easily damaged than ever due to the influence of external factors. If we talk about weak people like that, how can we become strong people with a calm and unwavering heart? There must be a lot of people asking like that. That's right. Everyone wants to have a strong inner heart. Because a strong inner heart will help them to be strong against the difficulties of the world. However, not everyone is born like that. People, after understanding life, understanding life, will try to change their weak personality and strive to create the life they want. Therefore, in order not to become a weak and weak person, who is considered to be weak and weak, in order to become a person with a strong and rich inner heart, there is no other way except forcing you to go through daily training to improve. And at least you have to possess the following 6 qualities. 1. High self-discipline and confidence Those who are not confident are more likely to be hurt. A confident person, full of self-confidence, often does everything with positive motivation and always full of passion. Dare to decide and act firmly, not hesitating, is a person who is determined, dare to think, dare to do. However, it must be said that confidence here does not mean that you believe in yourself blindly. It must be based on the level of ability, current living skills. Because if you blindly believe in yourself, it will make you a strong illusionist, become conservative, stubborn, always think you are right and think that others are always wrong, and you are not a confident person, but a arrogant one. Where does confidence come from? And how do you develop your confidence? High level of confidence comes from a high level of self-discipline. What is self-discipline? Self-discipline is self-management and self-instruction, forcing yourself to do according to the rules you have set. This is a very important ability. First, learn how to control yourself and use a strict schedule to control your life, in order to constantly boost your self-confidence in this discipline. For example, study 50 new words a day, if you don't remember enough, decide not to go to bed, read 50 books, hold on for 1 hour, and write a summary from 3 angles, practice your ability to think, etc. In the world, adults do not have luck from the sky, the vast majority do not try to do it. Others only see you increase your salary slightly, who knows how many nights you add time to make it in time. Others only see you are talented, have a wide range of knowledge, who knows when you are having a hard time studying. The idea that you can be better than others is that you have persisted in what others cannot persist in. Therefore, behind excellence is the discipline of a strong and resilient self-discipline. Everything is forced to happen. When you are resilient enough to yourself, nothing in the world can stop you. Second, you have to endure and experience despair. Experiencing despair means that you have experienced a month full of pain with the spirit that life brings. Maybe you haven't experienced the despair of any pain, but that doesn't mean you're not strong, but those who have never been desperate have to train their inner strength. If life is too flat, it's like you haven't tasted the flavors of life. Lightness cannot be the ingredient of happiness. Likewise, not experiencing despair is an imperfect life. Things that can make despair appear can be love, career, or just not being able to face loneliness. On the right, in an emotional state, it emphasizes that you must not refuse or necessarily have to do so. You have to endure and experience despair. It's not a passive reaction, but a full mental preparation. It means when despair comes, accept it without fear, even when that moment is extremely painful, even losing yourself. Finding hope in despair is a life worth experiencing. A strong person may not be able to conquer the peaks of career, Some things can only be experienced to understand the truth and true meaning of life. Despair is not terrible. Terrible is the loss of courage and passion. Experience despair, but don't be overwhelmed by despair. Put your hand in it, overcome it. The stream of time will be the sunshine. We have met and talked about loneliness in some previous videos. But I want to emphasize that loneliness here does not mean the loneliness of being alone on this earth. Or as the saying goes, loneliness, the goddess of loneliness in the bi-character stars. To understand loneliness in a negative sense, loneliness here means being alone, talking to yourself. It means everything is still there, full, vivid, full of joy and love. But you don't need anyone else, just yourself is enough. People often value social interactions as a kind of competitive ability. That's not wrong. But you should also know that being alone is also an indispensable ability. Sometimes in a situation, it is also a more important ability than other interactions. Each of us has a voice in our heart, has the function of a storyteller and translator, giving comments on all problems in life. The most important thing is this voice, helping everything in our lives become meaningful and connecting everything that happens into a perfect picture of life. Dialogue with a positive mindset will lead to positive thinking, help you change your perspective on life. It can also help you control stress and bring benefits to your long-term health, improve your happiness and quality of life. What is called maturity is that the older you get, the more you can learn to like everything. In your alone time, find what you really like and develop your own ability to judge independence. Only when people learn how to love themselves, can they love others. It will be more difficult to communicate with others if you don't learn how to talk to yourself. The more people can be alone, the more they can face and understand difficult situations. They can get along with other people better. Keep in mind that dialogue with your heart, developing your ability to be alone must be a lifelong practice. 4. Unlimited thinking Strong thinking and thinking is a leap in self-development. What we need to think is how to enhance our experiences with life, enhance the richness of mind and thought, get rid of negative or positive feelings. Through that, you will see many possibilities and create a perfect life for yourself. Develop your thoughts and thoughts to be different from normal things, not follow the rules and express in a new way to reach a higher level. The farther your perspective is, the wider your heart is. Life keeps calculating, the future of life also calculates with you. Life is like driving a car. When you travel more than 30 km, you will experience feelings and understandings that others cannot. Likewise, life is like flying a plane. When you fly more than 30,000 feet, you will see a natural, magnificent, different scene from everyone else. It means that when you pursue a brighter, higher and farther scene, you do not need to pay attention to the narrow eyes of those around you. Everything will pass like the wind of a plane, and it will not affect you. Behind the vast sky is the escape from the restriction of narrow-mindedness. Behind the free door is the elimination of the restriction of formalism. 5. You need to have an authentic belief. To earn a living is too short-lived. No matter what you hold, you need to have an authentic belief. In this era, almost everyone has their own belief. Some people put their faith in power. Some people admire money. Some people believe in fortune. Some people are full of hope and love. Some people want happiness. Some people believe in immortality. Some people believe in divinity. Some people believe in multidimensional belief. However, no matter what kind of belief you have, it is very valuable. But every belief needs to be understood and deeply believed In the end, no matter what you put your faith in, in the end, it is only right to teach people to be kind, to be kind, to live for others, to always know how to respect and honor life. If only for the sake of life, to take advantage of the location, then that belief is just a human temptation that will soon come to the brink of destruction. 6. The mind and the truth are on the same page. Learning to admire the truth is far beyond chasing the mind. The truth can make a person have the wisdom to deal with things, to admire when faced with complex relationships, to be able to firmly believe in the path of life. At that time, you will be able to face the darkness of humanity and the tragedy of the world but still keep a kind, wholehearted heart. 6. Always be yourself. Be yourself. Don't expect to win everyone's heart. If you can't do this now, you won't be able to do it in the future. 10 new habits that people didn't have in the past. Don't let anyone take advantage of you. Don't limit yourself in a certain circle. Your life doesn't need to depend on other people's words. There are many important things waiting for you to do. People with a strong inner heart rarely pay attention to other people's opinions, even those who are familiar or strange. Like positive and optimistic people, they rarely care about negative information. Whether you see it or hear it, in a blink of an eye, it is blocked or distorted. On the contrary, they know very well about their position and what they pursue. When faced with obstacles, they will think of every way to deal with them. When faced with difficulties, they will not easily give up or give up. When overcoming difficulties, you will have more strength. When solving problems, you will have more wisdom. When getting out of the dark, you will see the light of faith and hope. We are never perfect, but this is nothing. We cry because we are honest. We laugh because we are optimistic. We dare to face because we are strong. We try because we want to be better. Life is perseverance. The more you get up and move forward, the more you run against the wind for a better purpose. In life, everyone has experienced strong rainstorms. You can't look at the sunset, but after a long night, there is a bright glow of a new day. You can still leave warmth for others, appreciate the goodness in life so that we can be ourselves in the most perfect way. We are strong-willed people. These are just the sure ways we have to overcome in this life. Ladies and gentlemen, you have just listened to the sharing. The weak are as hot as a fire, the strong are as calm as deep water. The quality of people is strong-willed. Ladies and gentlemen, please like, share the video and subscribe to support the channel to always update the videos about the culture of humanity from Tranh Da Quy, Tan Phuc Khanh. Once again, I sincerely thank you for your interest in watching the video. I wish you and your family always happiness and peace in life. Goodbye and see you again.