Người Im Lặng Trong Đám Đông Mới Là Người Lợi Hại Nhất - Đông Tây Kim Cổ

The silence in the crowd is the most vulnerable. In a crowd, can you tell who is the vulnerable and who is normal? Just pay attention to observe a little, compare with the people around you, you will discover this difference. So how do these people usually behave? Right now, I would like to invite the audience of the West East to find the answer with me. The vulnerable people are usually very calm, easy to hide among the crowd. Some people have a habit of showing off in front of their friends, saying that they are like this, like that, pretending that they have a lot of relationships around, etc. But when their friends are in trouble and they come to help them, they will refuse on the pretext that they do not have time. This is also because they are proud of themselves, so they raise themselves up like that. They want to show off to others and admire themselves. The truly vulnerable will never pay attention to how others think of them. Whether others admire their life or not, they do not care. Because for them, having a rich mind is enough to feel happy and confident. They have long forgotten the common things such as wealth and fame. The vulnerable people usually do not like to show off and do not like to argue. In life, we can meet people who never take revenge on anyone, even the smallest things. When they meet the opposite opinion of others, they will try to protect their opinion, at the same time, deny the opinion of others, to show that they are really strong and knowledgeable. Maybe they will feel that they are more talented than others. But in fact, others just look down on them. Such people will no longer have anyone to share their wishes with. Because they are proud of themselves, they do not know how to respect others, and they raise themselves up. The ancients used to say that among three people, there must be one who is our teacher. Among three people, there must be one who has more advantages than you. Therefore, no matter who your opponent is, respect them by listening to what they say. Do not just focus on the shortcomings of others. Vulnerable people like to hide themselves, have a peaceful and calm personality. We often hear that the more friends you have, the more successful your life will be. I don't know since when, friendship has become an essential part of life. Sometimes we really don't like some people, but accidentally become friends with each other, because we have some common friends. To say that we are friends with each other, but in fact, it's just eating, drinking, and having fun. It's not sure that it's a true friendship. When you need help, you don't see them encourage you to share with you. If we only have friends like that, it's really pitiful. It depends on the relationship of friends, but in fact, it's just like passing by. Vulnerable people don't care about the number of friends, they only care about the quality of the relationship. If they are sincere friends, they only need one or two people. For those who have many true friends, but not sincere, they will fall into a lonely state. Admit without showing, show without admitting. The more silent a person is, the more advantageous he is. The less silent a person is, the more capable he is. The more powerful a person is, the less he is exposed to the crowd. People like that, they don't want to show themselves, and it's not easy to be discovered. In the crowd, they are easy to hide themselves, they are very shy. For others, it's very normal, there is nothing to hide. Therefore, the saying goes, Admit without showing, show without admitting. Vulnerable people all have their own prejudices. They are not easy to be manipulated by other people's eyes or way of thinking. They are not influenced or influenced by their own prejudices. They clearly know what they want, how to live a good life. A calm and honest person can control his own thoughts. Such a person is worthy for us to learn. The word hidden in the heart is the cruelest. There is a saying, Suffering does not cry, joy does not speak. Only when you have gone through something, you can understand that you need to do something instead of rebelling. The heaven must let the rebellious people lose their direction. If you are in a hurry or feel helpless, the chance may not come again. We used to think that we need to hide our intelligence and pretend to be stupid. But when we really meet, we can't do that. When we are sad, we cry. When we are happy, we are calm. When we are poor, we want to show off. Only those with a noble heart can truly realize their words. They understand that instead of asking someone to say something, it is not as good as doing it on our own. The word hidden in the heart is the cruelest. There is a saying, The higher you are in the world, the higher you will be in the temple. If you are a real master, you will not like to be in the world. It will not be easy for you to stand in the middle of a large stage, because they understand that in the end, those things are just the most glorious light of the time. They will not let the light and the applause of the audience around them fascinate themselves. Being in the middle of a crowd is what many people want. However, those who are afraid of standing out are afraid of being fat. Perhaps the best thing is to live a peaceful life without standing out. This is also the most stable way without being forced to hang around in the middle of the sky. When some crowd of people follow you up to the green cloud, you may feel happy, but your life has been controlled by those who follow you. At some point, they will let go of your hand and you will fall to the ground. The earliest way to hide one's skills and talents is from the old way of writing, which is called Tuyen Tong Ky, or Tuyen Tong Way. After two rounds of Tai Hoa and Hoi Xuong, the way to hide one's skills, staying together, or having fun with others all show their wisdom. Huyen Tong Ly Tham, whose first name is Ly Di, is the 13th son of Hien Tong Ly Thuan and is the brother of Moc Tong Ly Hang's parents. In terms of roles, he is the uncle of three emperors Huyen Tong, Vũ Tong, but they are younger than Kính Tông and Văn Tông. Politicians in the Middle Ages, the rebels in the battle of Lien Mien, the civil war of Thao Tung, and the complicated situation of the war of the royal family. The two famous political events in the history of the Great Wall of Vietnam, the fall of Cam Lo Pagoda, and the conflict between the two groups, Ngưu and Ly, took place during this period. Ly Di is a man of few words and it is said that he is not smart. In this political situation, he is more careful in his words and actions, hiding his talents and skills to avoid disaster. Therefore, Văn Tông and Vũ Tông often force him to speak in private and make fun of him. Especially Vũ Tông, a man of few words, especially loves Ly Di and does not respect him. Ly Di was given the title of Moc Tong, Phong was the emperor. But Văn Tông and Vũ Tông did not call him by this title, but called him Quang Thúc, Uncle Quang. This is a very polite way. In the 6th school, Vũ Tông was seriously ill. Thai Giám, Mã Nguyên Trí and others thought that Ly Di was easier to control, so he founded the Thái Thúc palace, led the main army, changed the title to Ly Thẩm, and became the new secretary of Ngai Vàng. At this time, people discovered the secret of Ly Thẩm. In March of the same year, Vũ Tông passed away, and Ly Thẩm ascended to the throne at the age of 37, which is Tuyên Tông. He loved to read, and after ascending to the throne, he focused on political work and was diligent in management, and contributed to improving other social issues, except for the end of the conflict between the two parties, Ngưu and Ly. He restricted Thai Giám's excessive exploitation, beating up the lawless and extremist officials, and punished the executioners. Ly Huấn was killed by the Cảm Lộ palace. In terms of internal affairs, he focused on governing the country, taking care of the country, reducing taxes, and focusing on the selection of talents. In terms of foreign affairs, he defeated the Thổ Phồn, Hồi Hột, Đảng Hạng, and Hề Nhân ethnic groups, and took back the vast lands occupied by the Thổ Phồn, removing the road, and making the people more prosperous. The government was in decline, and was gradually recovering. Therefore, the scholars highly appraised Ly Thâm, believing that he was a wise man, like the time of Thịnh Trị Văn Cảnh Tri Trị, Trình Quán Tri Trị. This period was called the Tri Trị era in history. The people at the same time called him Tiểu Thái Tông. Đại Chí Nhược Ngu A man living in this world cannot be too boastful. When he was young, he was taught by his father. At that time, his father used to tell him that Lương Cổ Thâm Tàng Nhược Hư Quân Tử Thịnh Đức Dung Mạo Nhược Ngu The common people are good at hiding like they don't have anything precious. Quân Tử Đức Lớn Dung Mạo Nhược Kẻ Ngu It means the common people are good at making food, hiding precious goods, not letting others see them easily. While Quân Tử has high moral values, he looks like a fool. In the Middle Ages, in the shops of merchants, goods were not displayed right outside the shop and the owners always kept them in the warehouse. Only when they met the rich and learned about the goods, they said that there were good things inside. If the goods were placed outside and people could easily see them, there would be no reason for the shopkeepers not to display them. Not only goods, but also human talents. As the saying goes, the more you hide, the less you gain. Those who are talented but like to show off will definitely make others jealous and suffer a great loss that no one knows about. Sometimes, we have to learn how to hide ourselves not as a weakness but as a survival wisdom that can make the other person confused and can accumulate strength for oneself. Hiding is hiding one's weakness and also hiding one's talent. This is to be calm and not to reveal one's strength and not to reveal one's weakness. Shakespeare used the role of Viola on the twelfth night to say a sentence like this. Because he was very smart, he could be a fool completely become a fool. He must have enough wisdom. The place of peace for a person is not how smart they are, but whether they know how to pretend to be stupid or not. Thank you for listening. I wish you a day full of joy and happiness. And now, I'm Duc. Goodbye and see you in the next videos.