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Dear audience, do you see the line of words on the book that I am presenting here? Accepting to give up, to choose to give up in every moment. And it's really simple, but it contains a very profound view of life. To be able to understand and do that, sometimes we have to lose our whole life. Someone once said, the one who knows how to let go is the happiest person. Suffering is not caused by fate or others, but by yourself. Knowing how to accept, knowing how to let go, then you will live a simpler and happier life. And in this life, there are people who are very easy to fall and feel despair, suffering, because in their hearts there are too many burdens, too much love, too many regrets, and in the end, they go to the end and can end their life. Yes, living in this world is not easy and simple. Sometimes let go of a few things, a few things, then you can stand up and move on. Stubbornness only makes you immerse yourself in suffering forever and forever is the unhappiness. When you let go, you will see that this life still has a lot of good things waiting for you in front of you. And if you learn how to accept and let go, ten truths lie right behind you, you will have a happier, more perfect life. Let's experience it, is that right? Accept and let go, ten things, to have a happy life. First, this life is not like a dream. Why? Because we often draw out our plans from 10 years to 20 years in the future, then live in an extremely specific expectation, the darkness of the future, and the plans that we have not yet been able to implement. Then one day, when our soul is blinded, when ourselves call and murmur that we should be like this, we should be like that, we should live like this, then maybe it's not realistic at all. Instead, it will be a constant feeling of disappointment because everything happened not according to our plans. But life is not a dream, but we need to get used to it. I would like to quote the American novelist Helen Keller, who once said this, I cried because I didn't have shoes to walk, but I realized that the person next to me didn't even have feet to wear shoes anymore. Yes, so our life always requires a lot of things around us, sometimes even far from us, while there are people who only need to look at us and take a part of us. The stories we keep asking keep happening day after day, and sometimes we don't pay attention for a minute, we hesitate for a minute, and for a minute we sink into our very big ego, forgetting that there are still a lot of things waiting for us out there. And maybe we still forget the real value of life, forget the values ​​that are really rooted in our souls. So what do we want? Yes, if today, after you come back to your room, you experience a very long, very difficult path to overcome the factors of the pandemic, think about health issues, think about the problems that are happening in other countries like India, Brazil, or many other countries that are in a panic about the pandemic, then surely we should be happy, because at least we are still alive and waiting for ourselves with a warm blanket, or in hot weather. We still have a fire to use, while many other people are suffering from the heat of burning, of each dead body being taken out. We see disaster appear to us, it is a warning that life is not a dream. A hard night will be very bad for many people, but we still hope, we want to have a warm blanket, right? However, when you think like that, then in this world, do you know how many people cannot have a good night's sleep? Because they have to take care of the sick, because they have to stand and look, their loved ones are burning in the fire, and even, only when you go through some bridges, go through some roads, we still see some homeless people who do not have a house to live in. So how should we accept this truth? Look back at yourself, to see that we are still very lucky, compared to many other people. If one day, tomorrow for example, you fall into a bad working condition, many of our jobs, after a long holiday, we will imagine that tomorrow will be a bad day. But most importantly, always remember that at least tomorrow we can still open our eyes, to continue to work. And those who tomorrow, when they open their eyes, they can no longer see this world. So, let's stop being bored, and let's stop blaming ourselves, let's stop forgetting the difficulties. Because somewhere out there, our difficulties are still too small, compared to the difficulties of others. If you feel very confused about what you are doing, what you are living for, then at least, be grateful to God, to this life. So at least you are still alive. And certainly, when you appear in this life, you must have a mission. The important thing is your mission. Have you really found it yet? Or are we still surrounded by greedy people? Surrounding us, and we do not realize our mission? So, come here, reflect on yourself, to realize, so what is our mission? What is our purpose in this world? Second, I want to share, maybe many people will have a better life than you. This is true, not just one, but maybe for me, there are many people, with different talents than me, and I never compete with them. Therefore, each one of us, each life in this life, only enriches the overall value of this universe, placed in front of us. And, always looking at other people's lives, and comparing yourself, may be a weakness that we need to improve. Because, clearly, we are born in different identities, we have different missions, and never take other people's missions as our own. In fact, losing to others is not a bad thing, but if you always compare yourself to others, it is a disaster. In this life, everyone will have their own path, their own will, no one is like anyone else, right? And most importantly, no one will go on their own path. There is a very good saying, Be so talented, that no one is looking at you. But at that time, you are the most beautiful, the most wonderful, and maybe a lot of people wish to be just a part of you. So never compare, never set your own real desire, compared to what others can do. That is impossible. My friend recently, left a very large amount of money, to invest in a flea market. I have no doubts, I have no expectations, and I do not judge whether it is right or not. But maybe, that is the purpose of this life, when my friend has enough conditions to be able to spend on fun, with the things that my friend thinks are the purpose of life. What about me? If I have the same amount of money, what will I do? And surely, I will not compete with my friend, to play with a toy like that. For me, it is luxury, but for my friend, it is not luxury. After I talked to my friend, I accidentally told my friend that, if I had the same amount of money as you, I would work in ABC. But after that, I had to apologize to my friend right away. Because obviously, my friend and I do not share the same opinion. And obviously, if it is not in the position of my friend and I, I will do it another way. Because it is my friend, and I am me. And I never thought that I had such a large amount of money, to invest and do what my friend does. And instead, I encouraged my friend again, and just encouraged that, I totally agree with your needs, but always be careful, and find your own value. And if you think it is right, then it is right. And for me, I am just a companion, and support you when you need it. It is one of the things we need to improve. No one is like anyone else, and no one makes you look like them. So, do not make their hobbies, or force yourself to become like them. When I finished sharing that story, my friend told me that, maybe in this life, there are a lot of beautiful things, and a lot of opportunities waiting for us. And maybe, if we keep procrastinating, and keep looking at negative things, then we will never dare to do anything. Yes. I also remember, a very famous actor, Kitano Takeshi. He used to say this, he used to dream of having money one day, he would definitely buy himself a sports car, and eat at a fancy restaurant. But when he was really successful, he felt that driving a Porsche, was not as great as he thought. Because, he did not see his real look, when he was driving a Porsche. So, he let his friend drive it. And after his friend drove it, he felt that, Oh, I own a Porsche. Why? Because his friend highly appreciated his friend's love for his friend, and did not hesitate to spend a lot of money just to serve his friend. Many people think that he is crazy, he has a problem. But obviously, not for me. You know, when you buy a piece of clothing, they all look like mannequins, right? They all show the wonderful images of another person attached to it, not you. And our job, we are stimulated and attracted. Why? Because we feel that, when we put it there, it really belongs to us. But sometimes it's not like that. Only when you feel its beauty really in your heart, and really through this spectacle, you find it suitable. Sometimes, the beauty you see, it belongs to someone else. But you are still very happy, because at least, you have done something worthwhile. Next, with the third, everything in this world, it happens, it all has its cause. We call it cause or effect. Most of all, we need to believe in a principle, both scientifically and spiritually, that is, everything in this world, it all has a result because of its cause. And that is an unchangeable thing. When you boil water, the water reaches 100 degrees, it will heat up, right? When you create something, you speak ill of others, or even, you put people in a difficult situation, then you will also face such a situation. So, if you want to change the result, then find the cause. Change the cause, will change the result. Many people still want everything to happen according to their plan, to happen according to what they want. If it doesn't work, they are bored, they are tired. But maybe, have you ever thought that, or even with me, I'm walking on the street, and I have to stop urgently, because of some sign, I still have to stop. And only when you feel that in front of you, there is a very tragic accident, and maybe if you just slow down 1-2 seconds, then you will become a victim. Then you will understand that everything has a cause. And thank God for keeping you in this body. Instead of turning you into a victim of a tragic accident that happened right in front of you. So, never be arrogant. Never try to change everything. While, this cosmic object operates all by principles, all by results, and maybe you are the creator. Instead of waiting for what you think will happen, simply sometimes, we have to accept that it has to happen. In the time of Emperor Wu, not only because of Nam Chieu, he used to know a very poor man. After Emperor Wu died, one day, he went to Ly Ngao Du, and met this poor man who was also on the river bank. Emperor Wu approached this man and asked him, after knowing that this man was still poor like before, Emperor Wu said, tomorrow you come to see me, I will give you an order. The next day, this poor man came to Emperor Wu's place to meet him, but he couldn't meet him. Many times, and many times he couldn't meet him. He couldn't receive the letter of appointment. Many people through training have the ability to see the cause and effect of a love. This poor man remembered that he knew a monk who had that ability. So, he wanted to meet the monk to ask about the cause of the love he was having. This poor man said, you already know what I want to ask, so please tell me the reason. The monk said, the previous owner couldn't receive the letter of appointment because in the previous life, Emperor Wu was the owner, that is, he was the one who hired the monk to raise the monk. The owner wanted to hire Emperor Wu for 500,000 silver, but in the end, he still couldn't give it to him. So, in this life, Emperor Wu promised the owner to make an order, but the owner couldn't receive it. Then, the poor man realized that everything has fate and consequences. Since then, he didn't expect any official position. He just knew that what happened in this life was repaid in the previous life. In this life, we always think that there are things that are never as we want, as we design in this life. We often blame the heaven and earth that everything is unfair in this life. Why can't I be handsome? Why can't I have a good voice? Why can't I do this and that? But everything is because of the process of training. If you get this, you will lose that. The heaven and earth are extremely fair and maybe never have people who are perfect like each other. There are cases of misunderstanding, but always remember that we are ourselves and they are them. We should be together in this life which is fate. Don't blame this fate and don't regret it. Fourthly, if you make a mistake today, don't worry. Tomorrow, you can also make a mistake. A mistake is something that we are afraid when we make it. But if there is no fear, no pain, there will be no lesson to be learned. Because everything is not perfect yet and a mistake is something that we still have to accept. So, instead of thinking too much about what happened, about the mistakes we made and being afraid or avoiding them, the simplest thing is to have some lessons to be learned. Because if there is no mistake, maybe this life has never been so perfect. Everything happens. Mistakes can be fixed. But if we re-imagine it, this will never happen. So, just accept mistakes. Mistakes can't be fixed. Just give yourself a lesson. If you make a mistake, you will have to repeat it. Mistakes are a part of life. No one forces us not to make mistakes. Let's open our minds to those who make mistakes because we are not perfect. The most talented people make a lot of mistakes. What makes them different is that after that mistake, they become a different person. They make mistakes and they never and never repeat the same mistake over and over again. And they will keep making mistakes in this life. So, everyone born and grow up no matter what they do is successful or not, maybe they will never be successful because they have tried thousands of times and failed thousands of times but they succeeded when they tried thousands of times and failed thousands of times. Why? Because everyone knows that there are a lot of people who are successful when they try to make others happy. That is an impossible mission. So remember, if you spend time for everyone you want to make happy, this will never happen because maybe you will never be as happy as you make others happy. Start from yourself first. If you are happy, then you should be happy too. Instead of chasing everyone and making them happy, your life will be very boring. There is a saying that no one is perfect even you and others. So why do we chase others' imperfections and judge them as our ears and eyes and noses. So whatever is yours will always be yours and whatever others have will be theirs. What does Caesar have, give it back to Caesar. That's it. Sixth, accept the right side of yourself and your left side. For me, this is a very interesting topic because it not only evaluates people's humility when we step back and make others stronger but it is the strength of the forgiveness But the rocks on this road are not because we are subdued. I swear, if we can't let go of it, then the high altitude will definitely strike us at some point. Writer Junichi Watanabe, a great enemy of Japanese literature, has been rejected by many publishers recently. And faced with humiliation after many ups and downs, he never gave up. The problem-solving helped Junichi Watanabe regain his composure and start writing again. And finally, the works in the science village created by Chaput, the most successful of which must be mentioned, the light bulb that the heaven has lost. As a human being, you have to know yourself, create for yourself. Bringing people to success is an ability, not a profession. The price to pay for the moments of debt in the blink of an eye is extremely expensive. It's time, it's money, it's even your future. 7. Accepting to let go of the past. As he said, everyone will make mistakes. And those mistakes we make, we temporarily call it the past. There are people who have a beautiful past, there are people who have a past that is not as they wish, but the consequences are the same. Everything is in the past. And if it's in the past, it can never be taken back. Let go of the past, our hearts will be tidied up like an empty room to welcome a new one. We live in today, and the future of tomorrow, our present, is the past. Let's do the best, the most peaceful things in the present, then our future will never have to regret. In the letter, on the day of the victory of the alliance in North Africa in World War II, a woman received a telegram that her only son had died on the battlefield. Although she loved her son more than her life, she was completely broken when she received this telegram. She found a letter her son had sent many years ago but had not had a chance to meet his mother. Please be calm, mom. I will never forget your kindness. No matter how difficult it is, I will be brave and live like a real man, always smiling with all the pain and challenges, and I will always remember your smile and see you as my pillar. The letter from her son has made her give up her will to leave. She is determined to continue to be strong, stay in the city, and help a lot of other difficult circumstances that have the same pain for her, becoming a starting point to bring back the strength to live for many families. Yes, this touching story, the name is the spirit of life, published in the book Accepted by the publisher of Information and Media. In life, people can meet a lot of people, experience a lot of sad and bitter things, but if we keep everything in our hearts, and see the past as something we can't let go of, then maybe we will be stuck in the past forever and never get out of it. Our feelings belong to the past. Let's nurture good feelings for the present, so that we can receive the wonderful values of the future. For me, letting go of the past is a wonderful gift, a wonderful solution for us to escape ourselves in the present. 8. Accept to let go of pressure Tiredness, the pressure of life, is an essential part, like drinking water every day. If there is no pressure, there will be no motivation. If there is no tiredness, we will never know when to rest. There is a saying, if you can hold it up, you can let it down. For a long time, we have been burdened because we are wearing an invisible backpack, which contains a lot of greed, what we call trying, trying, giving everything, even this burden of life, in this invisible backpack. So why do we only need to take a break for a minute? Let's let go, let go. Let's sit down and reflect on everything we do. So in the end, what do we bring these pressures, these burdens to do? It may be very difficult, but we still have to do it. Because if not, we will always feel bored, tired, and lead to unpleasant situations. And when the situation is not happy, not healthy, not prosperous, then there is nothing meaningful in this life. You can take on important tasks and hand over other jobs to your subordinates or colleagues. This will make your life easier, because sometimes everyone needs a break. And ninth, let go of doubt. Maybe in this unusual life, in this messy life, with a lot of deception, stealing, bad things always happen around us. So, the biggest question in life, are we brave enough to believe? Or do we often doubt what is happening in this life? There is an old saying, doubtful mind, difficulty. This is true. Using people is not doubtful, but if you have used it, then do not doubt people. That is our decision. If we really have to make mistakes, then accept it in a good way. That is, everything has its cause. And all mistakes, today it is not worth it, tomorrow it will be worth it. So, let's be brave to accept the mistake, it comes to us sooner, instead of being at the top and making mistakes. Human life, do not become miserable. Do not be too doubtful, but become doubtful, and even always doubt what is good in this life. There are a lot of people, after receiving gifts, always ask the question, why this, why that? Is it taking advantage of me? Is it looking for a way to approach me? Maybe we need to be more gentle, because sometimes, things will come, and it is like a gift that we have to receive. And finally, I would like to share, let go of hatred. Do not hate anyone. Give us a door to this life, that is the best thing. Those who have a hateful mind, want to harm others, are like people who burn, go against the wind. Without harming anyone, they have been burned by the wind. The negative energy of hatred, is like a deadly poison, it will kill us at any time. Instead, the burden of hatred, even drags things out of action. Cases of children killing their father, uncle killing the whole family, really, it is a great pain for those who are still alive in this life. So, when we bring hatred, bring the elements of demons, to haunt us, we will see that, the consequences it causes, not only on the spiritual side, but also on the physical side. This is not how it is in this life. Even if we can control our anger, but maybe, when we raise an anger, it is like a fire, in the middle of a forest. It will burn everything, that we have done in many lives, even this life. Sometimes, the hatred is so old, so old, that we don't even remember. So, what should we do? When we let go of hatred, we will feel better about it. Put it in a jar, and never bring the pain, the hatred, to exist in this life. When we let go of hatred, and forgive everything, this life will be more open to us. And maybe, we will always be happy, to welcome a new life, a new spirit. Yes, ladies and gentlemen. In life, sometimes we fall into despair, because we don't understand, that human life has natural rules. If we understand these rules, maybe we will realize, that when we let go of hatred, our life will be more peaceful. And letting go of hatred, is one of the essential rules. From that, we will feel free, no longer blind, no longer burdened in our hearts, and reach a state of self-restraint. Learn how to accept the present, know how to let go of a little, a confused choice of mind, and this life. This life is not only possession, but it also has letting go. Because when you hold tight, there is nothing inside. But when you let go, the whole world can be in your hands. So learn how to let go, and you will live a happier, and more peaceful life. Thank you for listening to today's program. See you in the next content.