Kinh Nghiệm Tập Bỏ Bỉm Cho Bé Chỉ Trong 3 Ngày (Phần 2)__ My Thuan Family

Hello everyone, I'm Thuan. Welcome back to my channel. In the video, I shared with you the method I chose to do the V-neck massage. It is according to the method of Ms. Brandy Brooks in the book. Because the baby's butt also needs this breathing. If you haven't seen the first part of the video, please watch it again. And don't miss any information in part 1. Because we need to hold on to part 1 as preparation. Then come to part 2, which is the practice part. The success rate will be higher. And everyone should be ready to hold on to the information in part 2. So we can practice the V-neck massage for the baby in just 3 days. Now, after completing the preparation steps that I shared with everyone in part 1. In this step, you will need to plan to choose 3 consecutive days. And in these 3 days, you can commit to 100% guarantee. Fully focus on the V-neck massage, practice for the baby to go to the right place. Maybe it's the weekend or a long-term vacation. But you are not busy with any work. There is no need to go out for 3 days. At that time, I practiced V-neck massage for the baby at the time of the pandemic. It was the Covid epidemic, everyone. So the baby was off school. And at that time, I was pregnant with Henry. So the two of us were just at home. After choosing 3 consecutive days to practice V-neck massage for the baby. Now imagine in those 3 days, the baby leaves the sea. And our job is to closely monitor the baby 24 hours a day. To help the baby practice to go to the right place. So we also need to plan for the next tasks. First, that is to prepare food. We will need to prepare food for the baby in these 3 days. If you are the main cook in the family. Then you will also need to go to the menu to buy all the food. If possible, you should prepare meals for the family and the baby in those 3 days. Because in those 3 days, we will be next to the baby. To remind the baby to go to the bathroom and help the baby go to the right place. So we won't have much time to cook. So if possible, cook or order food on that day. Or you can ask someone to cook for you on that day. The second thing is that everyone needs to prepare activities for the baby. Because in these 3 days, you and the baby are just at home. At that time, we need to prepare new activities. To keep the baby from getting bored. At that time, we also played a lot of games. Such as puzzle, Lego, heavy soil, clay, coloring, drawing, reading all kinds of books at home. Then materials, pieces of materials in English, stickers, clay, motives. A lot of games and I will put the links of these games in the description of the video for everyone to refer to. In addition, everyone can also find similar games like that. Please note that everyone should not make these games too boring. To choose difficult and boring games, we will have to spend time to clean up. Then we will not pay attention to the baby and the baby can go wrong. Don't forget your main purpose in those 3 days. Is to exercise the baby to go to the beach and go to the bathroom on the bridge. The third thing is that you need to pay attention to your mother's work. Mom, please choose a time when you can spend 100% of your time with your child in those 3 days. Maybe it's weekend, Saturday, Sunday and ask for a day off on Monday or ask for a day off on Friday. Or long holidays, for example, that mom doesn't have to deal with work at all. The fourth is to help mom in the other baby. If there is a little baby in the house, then in these 3 days, mom needs to try to find someone's help to help the little baby. Because at this time, mom needs to focus on the big baby. If mom still can't find anyone's help, then mom imagines that in a day there will be times when mom needs to take the big baby to the bathroom. Then the little baby will be alone for a while. So mom should be ready to play so that the little baby can be in a safe area. And I can safely take the big baby to the bathroom to guide the baby on the bridge. The fifth is the position. In these 3 days of beach exercise, you should choose a position for the baby really close to the bathroom. So that when the baby starts to pee or pee, we will lift the baby up and take the baby to the bathroom really fast. My house is a 3-bedroom apartment, so choosing a position near the bathroom is very easy. But I know that there are also many families living in apartments. So everyone should arrange for the baby to have a play area near the bathroom during these 3 days of beach exercise. So after preparing very carefully, we have come to 3 days of beach exercise to guide the baby to go to the bathroom on the bridge. In these 3 days of practice, we will have a total of 5 steps. The first is to climb the beach. The second is to start firmly. The third is to drink water and drink water. The fourth is to always sit on the bridge. And the fifth is to repeat. Now I will talk about each step in detail. Step 1. Climb the beach. Before the first day of beach exercise and sitting on the bridge for the baby, you should talk to the baby carefully about what is going to happen, why it happens, and how good it is for the baby. Because this is a really important step for the baby, so the baby needs to be explained, prepared, and known before what will happen tomorrow. Step 2. Let the baby see the little treasure you just bought for the baby. Let the baby see the stairs go up, then let the baby see the reward as I shared in the previous video, which are very beautiful dried grapes or stickers, or the flip-flops that you have prepared for the baby, so that the baby can prepare a new pair of flip-flops for tomorrow. And when you talk to the baby, you should be really excited, make the baby feel excited, waiting for tomorrow morning to conquer this new pair of flip-flops. Then, in the first morning, when the baby wakes up, I still give the baby breakfast and drink normal milk. When the baby is full, we start to give the baby the flip-flops. According to Ms. Granny's method, in this step, we will gather all the flip-flops together, put them in a box or a big bag, and leave it in front of the house. Ask someone to hide this bag of flip-flops, so that we can explain to the baby that the delivery man will come later and bring the flip-flops for the baby for the children who need flip-flops. From now on, you are an adult and you don't need to wear flip-flops anymore. For this method of gathering flip-flops, we will gather the flip-flops 3 days in advance, because at night, the baby will still have an accident. Later, I will explain why. But the mothers imagine that at night, the baby can still wake up and still have accidents at night, so we will gather the flip-flops for the baby 3 days in advance. According to Ms. Granny's method, we can use flip-flops instead of flip-flops. I will put the picture here for you to see. At that time, when I was looking for flip-flops for the baby to wear at night, I read the reviews of mothers, they all shared that these flip-flops are not highly absorbent, and in fact, the baby still has an accident. So at that time, I decided to put the baby to wear at night and gather the flip-flops 3 days in advance. So in this step, now we will gather the flip-flops and put them in a bag. And these flip-flops, we will use them at night. Now the baby is already big, so we will start not wearing flip-flops for 3 days. We will put the flip-flops on for 3 days and go to the toilet. Step 2 is to start the pregnancy. The first morning of that day, the baby was still wearing the flip-flops from the night before. At this time, you will take the baby to the bathroom and take off the flip-flops, then put on the baby's pants or flip-flops that you have prepared in advance. And you tell the baby, today I am very proud because Venus has become a big sister. Venus no longer wears flip-flops for 3 days. If today you go to the pool, you will receive a reward, a dry diaper and a sticker to stick on your birth certificate. This is the reward I shared with you in the first part of the video. If you go to the pool, you will receive 2 dry diapers and 2 stickers. Wow, I really like it, right? So today, when you want to go to the toilet or go to the pool, please let me know. Because we have prepared the baby's psychology for many days in advance, and if you do well in all the preparations in advance, the baby will be very excited today and show quite cooperative. By the time you enter the serious training stage, you will need to follow the baby around the house all day, almost following the baby. And keep the baby happy with the activities we have prepared in advance. Play with the baby and tell the baby, when you want to go to the toilet or go to the pool, please let me know. We will remind the baby very often. Please note that you do not ask the question, do you want to go to the toilet? Because with this answer, the baby will have a chance to say no. Instead, let's say, please let me know when you want to go to the toilet or go to the pool. I am very proud because right now, I am keeping my pants very dry. Or, please let me know when you want to sit on the pool. You can check to see if your pants are dry or wet. If your pants are dry, you can clap your hands and compliment the baby that you are keeping your pants very dry. If there is an elephant or a flower on the baby's pants, you can say that this elephant does not like to be wet, so remember to keep your pants dry. Step 3 is to drink water and drink water. Your task in the next hour is to let the baby drink a lot of water. Because during these days of practice, the baby needs to really go to the toilet, then the baby has a chance to practice how to go to the toilet. You can give the baby a lot of drinks for the baby to choose, such as water, coconut water, milk, juice, mixed fruit juice, or Japanese wakodo tea, which is also a type of water for babies. If the baby is not a baby who likes to drink a lot of water, you can create games to help the baby drink water. For example, two mothers drink water together, or let the baby drink in their own glass, the baby drinks a sip, the mother drinks a sip, or see who finishes this glass first. This will encourage the baby to drink water in a cheerful way. And note that we will let the baby drink a lot of water in the first half of the day, about half a day, from afternoon to evening, we will gradually reduce the amount of water, because we don't want the baby to vomit a lot at night. Step 4 is that the baby always sits on the ball when going to the toilet. The next thing we need to do is wait. We will always follow the baby, play with the baby, look at the baby, and tell the baby if he wants to vomit or urinate, then tell the mother. Then what will come will come. The baby will have the first accident. At this time, the baby will be very surprised when he sees water running down his legs and running down the floor. At this time, when the accident happens, what we need to do immediately is to lift the baby up and put the baby in the toilet. At this time, you have to lift the baby up quickly and put the baby on the ball as soon as possible. The fact that you lift the baby up when the baby is on the floor like that may make the baby a little scared. There may be cases when the baby stops vomiting and continues to vomit on the ball. Or the baby no longer vomits. This means that the baby has vomited on the floor or the baby is urinating and the baby will continue to urinate in a few minutes. In all situations, the baby sits on the ball or stands down from the ball, you have to praise the baby a lot. You can say, Wow, Binod, you're a big boy. Thank you for cooperating on the ball. Or the baby may be scared, screaming, crying a little, or stomping. Even if the baby just sits on the ball for a second and then comes down, you still have to thank the baby for cooperating on the ball. It is very important to show positive attitude when you transfer the baby to the toilet. After the baby sits on the ball, we will talk to the baby about the incident that just happened. We will show the baby the wet pants and say, My pants are dirty now. We need to keep our pants dry. Next time, tell me if you want to pee or urinate so I can take you to the toilet. Then we will take the baby to the toilet where the baby's urine has just been peed on. They will say, Oh, the toilet is dirty. Next time, if you want to pee or urinate, tell me. Five minutes after the first incident, take the baby back to the bathroom and let the baby sit on the ball again. We need to do this because when the first incident happens, it can cause the baby a little tremor. And now when the baby calms down, maybe the baby wants to pee more. You let the baby sit on the ball for less than a minute. If the baby feels uncomfortable, you sing a song to help calm the baby down. Let the baby sit on the ball a little bit. If the baby doesn't pee, you put the baby down on the ball and praise the baby. Tell the baby, thank you for cooperating with me to sit on the ball. Now you will be rewarded with a piece of dried grapes. Give the baby a piece of food to let the baby feel that sitting on the ball is a reward. Let the baby understand how it feels to receive a reward. And we will remind the baby that if you want to pee or urinate, tell me. When you pee on the ball, you will be rewarded with a piece of dried grapes If you urinate on the ball, you will be rewarded with two pieces of dried grapes and two pieces of dried onions. When the baby eats a piece of dried grapes and feels very excited, the baby will be more excited and we will help the baby be happier to help the baby succeed next time. The first two events are very important because it will let you know a lot about your baby. That is, we can guess how long the baby's bladder can hold urine. For example, those two events are the two times the baby urinated an hour and a half or two hours ago. Then you can guess that in an hour and a half or two hours, the baby will want to urinate again. This will also help you observe what the baby will do before, during and after the event so that from there we can imagine what the next time the baby urinates will look like. We can read these signals and know the time to remind the baby if the baby wants to urinate or pee and we help the baby pee and pee on the bridge. Step 5 is to repeat in the morning on Monday when the baby wakes up this is the time when the babies usually pee a lot so when the baby wakes up you take the baby to the toilet on the bridge and let the baby sit on the bridge to pee on the bridge immediately. You will repeat these four steps until the baby is satisfied with the result. I see that if you focus 100% in these three days you will definitely have a successful result in these three days. 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