11 câu cửa miệng Bạn tuyệt đối đừng nói - Góc Nhìn Việt

It's a pleasure to meet you again on Goc Nhien Viet channel. My dear friends, the ancients said that the mouth can produce a rose, but it can also produce an ugly tree. Or the words are like a double-edged sword. If used incorrectly, it will become a very dangerous weapon. The practice of virtue is actually the practice of one's own temperament. If the virtue is good, then virtue is good. If the virtue is bad, then don't go down the wrong path. Achievement is achieved by virtue. Meanwhile, a lack of thought will hurt people and yourself. The more you are angry, the worse the evil will be. It can be said that talking and communicating is an art, and the one who grasps it also means that he grasps the ability to control his anger. And with really smart people like you, I will never say 11 things right now. 1. Do not make promises. In our personal life, private life, and work life, we often put ourselves in a difficult situation because we are used to making promises in any situation. If those are normal promises, then it's okay. But if you put yourself in a difficult situation, which affects the interests of some parties involved, then your promise can become a hindrance, bringing unfavorable effects to many people, and sometimes even yourself. Because a promise is a representation of the word faith for the virtue of a person. We should not put it at the doorstep and then lose its credibility. We should remember that when we are assigned a job, the German people are used to saying, I will try my best, not promising, I will definitely finish it well. They always avoid making risky promises. Say it first, step by step. Instead of hesitating to change their reputation, they are careful in every sentence, limiting promises, no matter what the situation is, to always keep their faith in themselves. 2. Do not argue over small things. Sometimes in life, we can't avoid these moments when conflicts arise with those around us. Those conflicts can be from big to small, from small to nothing, thanks to a clever way of resolving conflicts. But it can also be from small to big. If we keep fighting and arguing over nothing, this is a different story. Former US President Lincoln once said, Those who are determined to achieve great achievements never accept wasting time and arguing over nothing. In fact, every time we argue, we can let go of hatred, but we lose self-control, causing bad consequences that affect our interests and relationships. Of course, from then on, we will leave a negative impression of kindness in the eyes of those around us. 3. Do not speak frankly. There is a saying in ancient Chinese, that means, we should not speak frankly In close and intimate relationships, most arguments can happen when we say things we shouldn't say to people we don't know. No matter how honest the words are, we should only say 7% and keep 3%. With people with bad relationships, the more correct the words are, the harder it is to hear. And of course, they don't want to hear such words. Words with value should only be given to those who have value. That's how a wise, resilient person speaks, without doing things in vain. 4. Do not say insincere, baseless words. Many people are used to speaking without thinking carefully, or making assumptions, making too many assumptions, which is not good. Such people, if they do not encounter an unexpected situation, it will be difficult for them to control their emotions and their mind. Therefore, it is easy to say insincere, baseless words. The result of saying insincere words is a double-edged sword. With the owner of the saying, they can say insincere words, but when it reaches the ears of the listener, it will cause huge consequences. Not to mention, when people around you gradually become prejudiced, saying, this guy is a liar, he is not trustworthy. Clearly, the one who suffers the consequences, is none other than you. Therefore, when faced with any situation, whether it is bad, or not as expected, what should be done is to find the cause and how to deal with it appropriately. Do not push yourself into a whirlpool, saying insincere words, just to guess right or wrong. If you are not smart, you will make others misunderstand and even be blinded by jealousy. 5. Do not reveal your secrets. There is an old saying, the secret of the city, the secret of the devil. This saying implies that a success or failure is partly due to the ability to keep secrets of the people in the country. For confidential matters related to individuals or organizations, absolutely do not reveal them. Revealing confidential information does not seriously affect the reputation of the speaker, but it can also bring serious consequences to an unimaginable extent. Therefore, when the matter has not been clearly determined, it is best not to say affirmative words. Tell other people's secrets. Avoid Do not ever let it be revealed. You have to face the bad effects. 6. Do not say nonsense. The words of nonsense here are the words that come out when you are arrogant, arrogant, leading to lack of awareness, lack of thinking. The crowd of Tan Duong praises Ho Hao. Sometimes, they will be deluded by the reputation and the glory but forget who they are, what position they are in, where they come from. The ancients had a saying, Heaven is beyond Heaven, People are beyond People. It means, there is Heaven above Heaven, and there are people above people. If you understand it a little bit, it is the same as the saying, a thick skin always has small nails. So no matter how good you are, there are always people better than you who are not modest, who do not show off. Therefore, do not be arrogant, think that you are better than others but say bad words that make the other person uncomfortable, make him hate you and will be angry with you. 7. Do not speak harshly. Beside us, there will always be people who speak very straightforwardly, even speak harshly, but just think for yourself what is straightforward, what is decisive to others. Straightforward or straightforward are both good qualities, but they have to go with the delicacy and should be said in a situation, at the right time. In inappropriate moments, quick words can be harsh words. Straightforwardness can become useless. History and wisdom always know how to put themselves in other people's situation, always pay attention to the mind and feelings of the other person before saying any sentence in any situation. There was a saying in the past that words are worthless, choose words that speak to please each other to show the importance of bringing back a comfortable feeling for both you and the other in a conversation. How important is it? 8. Don't say bad comments about others. Many people always look down on themselves while being passionate about others. In their eyes, everything they do is always wrong and there are always shortcomings everywhere and they like to make mistakes. But remember this, it's easy for them to make mistakes but whether they can do the same thing or not is a very difficult and different story. Everyone has their own limits, ugly scars that they don't want to show. Your words can accidentally hurt others, lose their dignity and touch their pride. So, don't take the story as a gift, use it to talk about other people for fun. 9. Blame words. Spend time to blame others. Actually, you can spend time to laugh with people around you. Don't ever put yourself in a situation where you face some difficulties and start to blame blame