Xót Xa Chia Đất Cho Con Khi Về Già, Phải Nhớ Điều Này Kẻo Lâm Vào Bi Kịch
Người xưa có câu: Tấc đất tấc vàng. Lời nói ấy vẫn còn nguyên giá trị cho đến ngày hôm nay. Quả thật, trong thời gian vừa qua, giá đất trong toàn quốc tăng cao, thanh khoản thị trường bất động sản sôi động. Dường như, ai rao đất bán nhà là có người mua nhanh chóng, có khi vừa rao bán trong một giờ là có người mua ngay. Giao dịch và thủ tục mua bán cũng hết sức dễ dàng, nó trở thành món hàng dễ bán như bán bánh vậy. Bởi vậy mà, ai muốn có tiền nhiều và nhanh chóng thì bán đất bán nhà. Chính vì vậy, nó phát sinh nhiều bi kịch, và xảy ra trong những gia đình có cha mẹ già, và những người con cạn nghĩ, ích kỷ, chỉ biết sống cho bản thân mình, mà không màng gì đến cha mẹ và người thân. Những bi kịch đó xảy ra trong trường hợp nào, và làm sao giảm thiểu rủi ro. Chúng tôi xin mời quý vị theo dõi video hôm nay. _____________________________ #đông_tây-kim_cổ #chiađất#sổ_đỏ
When you get old, you have to share the land with your children.
Remember these three things.
Ladies and gentlemen,
there was a saying in the past,
when you are angry with the land, you are angry with gold.
That saying still holds true to this day.
In fact, in recent times,
the price of land in the whole country has risen.
Real estate markets are booming.
It seems that whoever sells the land,
has a quick buyer.
Sometimes, in just one hour,
there is a buyer.
Trading and buying procedures
are also very simple.
It becomes an easy-to-sell product,
like selling bread.
Therefore,
whoever wants to have a lot of money
and quickly,
sells the land and the house.
Therefore,
it causes many tragedies
and happens in families with parents.
And selfish children
only know how to live for themselves,
without caring for their parents and loved ones.
What are those tragedies?
And how to reduce the gap?
We invite you to watch the video today.
The first story,
the land has broken up.
With a sad voice,
the old mother sighed.
My husband and I have two sons.
When my husband was still alive,
we planned to let the children live separately
after we had a family.
The other two husband and wife will live together
so as not to bother the children.
Unfortunately, my husband got sick
and passed away early.
At that time, the son got married,
but still lived with me.
And my youngest son is going to school.
I plan to stay with my youngest son
to have a place to live when I get old.
So I use almost all my savings
to support my husband and his family to build a house.
A few years later,
my youngest son got married and moved in with me.
My daughter-in-law also lives in harmony with me.
Because of the salary,
I contribute a sum of money every month
for my youngest son to take care of his food.
I also live alone,
but my life is full of bank loans.
Sometimes, I come home to borrow money.
Every time I ask for money,
I love my son so much
that I give him as much as I can.
My youngest son is not happy when he knows the story.
He said,
I live with someone,
so I take care of him.
Later, when I get sick,
my husband and I will take care of him,
not you.
To comfort my son, I said,
I will give you this house.
The rest of the savings will be yours.
Don't compare it to anything else.
Life is unpredictable.
I am healthy,
but I have to go to the hospital.
When I woke up,
I asked the doctor about my health.
Although the doctor assured me that I would recover,
but sometimes,
I saw my youngest son with a long face.
Sometimes, I asked the doctor about it,
but I couldn't hear it,
so I thought it was a sign of my illness.
I was afraid I would die tomorrow.
I called my youngest son
to hand over his personal key,
pointing to the red number,
the broken salary,
and the savings to take care of the household.
Fortunately, I gradually recovered
and left the hospital.
That month, I had to sign an authorization
for my son to get a new salary.
But when I got home,
my son didn't give me money,
but said he was going to pay the debt for free.
When I was in good health,
I asked my youngest son
to take back the red number,
the broken salary, and the savings.
My youngest son just ignored it
and ran away.
I asked him, and he said,
Mom, just let me get the money to pay the debt.
When I was in good health,
I had to go to work.
I didn't know what to do.
More than a year later,
I asked him again, and he said,
I know I'm old and weak.
One step forward, one step back.
From then on,
I became a dependent.
Whatever I wanted,
I had to beg for my son's money.
I had no money in my hands.
I saw my life in prison.
I didn't know what to buy.
I didn't dare to ask.
From the day I got all my property,
my youngest son and my daughter-in-law
were also very poor.
Because my youngest son took all the money,
I didn't have money for my son,
so I had to beg for my son's money.
Recently, my youngest daughter-in-law
forced me to sign a red paper
so that she could pay for the bank.
I was like sitting on a fire.
I was afraid that one day
I wouldn't be able to hide anymore.
I told her.
She sighed.
Now,
I have to choose between
resolutely asking for my property
and accepting my son's life.
I have to choose between
resolutely asking for my son's life.
I have to choose between
resolutely asking for my son's life.
I have to choose between
resolutely asking for my son's life.
I have to choose between
resolutely asking for my son's life.
My younger son
took all the money
and kicked me out of the house.
According to VTC News,
Mr. Pham Van Trinh,
a accused of overseeing
the 8 District District,
in HCMC,
In March 2014, Trinh's uncle, Pham Nhan Quyen, asked his father to lend him a house in Tien Giang in exchange for a bank loan to pay for his father's food.
Trinh's uncle was so kind that he agreed and went to the District 5 prosecutor's office in Ho Chi Minh City to sign a paper for his son to borrow a house.
He didn't know how to do it, but he sold the house in Tien Giang for 500 million VND.
After a while, he told his father that the house in Tien Giang was not cheap and the bank gave little, so there was not enough money to make food.
Then he convinced his father to lend him a house that the whole family was living on Pham The Hien Street in exchange for a bank loan.
Trinh suspected that he called the people in Tien Giang to ask for information to know that his house had been sold to someone else.
He was very angry, but after hearing his son's apology, Trinh agreed to lend him a house in District 8.
After signing the paper, Nguyen Thuy Thuan secretly made a name for his wife.
When holding the house deed in his hand, the two of them fought and kicked their parents out of the house.
While the mother was paralyzed and could not walk.
Trinh was sad and shared with the press.
Now there is only a way to rent a room.
But the poor salary of the two husbands is only enough to pay for the room.
I don't know how to eat and drink.
And his mother's illness.
In an interview with VTC News reporter, Ms. Bach Nhat, a minister of justice in District 6, District 8, said.
Recently, I was also reported about the son of Mr. Trinh locking the door and not letting his father in the house.
Immediately after that, I and a police officer came down to discuss.
Accordingly, he agreed to let his parents in the house and pledged not to beat his father again.
As for the issue of cheating the house dispute.
Because Mr. Trinh made an online application, the court is waiting for Trinh's instruction.
Currently, Mr. Trinh is waiting for the court to resolve the dispute.
Mr. Trinh was born in a poor family.
Because he was born such an ungrateful child.
The third story.
The parents and the son of the cheater took the property and chased the brothers out of the house.
With a sad face, Mr. T, the representative of Nguyen Don in the case of the father of the Australian boy, took the house back.
Mr. T told.
Mr. T's family has three brothers living with their parents in a small apartment in the city center.
Because of the difficult housing situation, the two brothers finished high school and then quit school to work to help their parents.
Letting the Australian boy, Mr. D, go to college.
After graduating from high school, Mr. D worked as a credit worker at a bank near his house.
He is the one with the highest income and the most stable of the three brothers.
I don't know when Mr. D convinced his parents.
But his parents signed a transfer of ownership of the apartment to Mr. D.
With the reason that Mr. D can manage the house, pay electricity and water bills.
The two brothers were very opposed to this.
Mr. D asked for a deposit of 100 million VND per person.
The whole family was upset with Mr. D's attitude.
So Mr. D declared himself the owner of the apartment.
Then kicked the parents and the family, the two brothers, out of the house.
It was not worth it.
His parents had to fire the Australian boy to ask for the house back for the whole family.
Mr. T stopped for a while and then told.
In the trial, Mr. D denied that his parents accepted the ownership of the apartment for Mr. D.
Which means giving this property to Duc.
Fortunately, the court was very smart and ruled that Mr. D had to return the house to his parents.
But Mr. D did not admit it and filed a lawsuit against the court for unfair treatment.
And stated that whoever stands on the ownership paper, that person has the right.
Then filed a lawsuit against Phuc Tham court.
With a sad voice, Mr. T continued.
Although the property of our family is unfortunate.
But fortunately, the court was smart.
Both Phuc Tham court also declared to keep the entire case of Phuc Tham.
So our family will be able to keep this house.
But now still not convinced.
And asked for a procedure to be the director of Phuc Tham.
With a sad voice, Mr. T said more.
Poor my father.
He is very sad.
Just blame yourself for educating the wrong child.
But now the family has to go through such a tragedy.
Fighting for property like that.
Really ashamed.
To sum up the stories of fighting for property.
We have an exchange with Mr. T.
From Ho Chi Minh City.
According to Mr. T.
In many cases, parents believe their children should sign all the papers their children give.
But do not read or read.
Confused, do not understand but still sign.
Let the tragedy happen.
Mr. T also has some legal opinions for parents as follows.
1. In the case of parents giving property to their children to borrow money from the bank, financial company.
For example, insurance, insurance policy.
Or the right of the child to manage the property.
Then make an agreement clearly.
Requirements for regular maintenance fees.
Guarantee where to live if there is.
And the deadline of the agreement.
2. Parents should make a property classification certificate.
So that their children are still healthy and strong.
Avoid cases where parents are gone.
Then the children fight for property with each other.
3. Parents should ask the lawyer to draft the content of the property for their children.
At the same time, you have to read the terms carefully.
Any content that does not understand must be explained to the lawyer in detail.
As well as possible legal risks.
Then come to the witness room to sign.
4. In case the agreement is ready, parents should also ask the lawyer to review and analyze.
As well as adjust to suit the will of the parents.
Note that in the case of a tragedy has happened.
Parents should also find a qualified and specialized lawyer.
To have the right advice.
Before bringing the case to court and trial.
Ladies and gentlemen.
Perhaps many people will ask themselves.
Why are there more and more tragedies in such a family?
Is it because people have lost the basic ethics to be human?
Is it because people do not believe in humanity?
Do not believe in good and evil?
Do not believe in doing a good job.
If you do a bad job, you will be miserable?
We think.
Because human ethics are at the top.
So the responsibility of the parents is very big.
Parents not only raise children.
But also need to teach good things.
To teach children the ethics of being human.
In this way, the child becomes a good person.
And the parent avoids tragedies that are not worth it.
According to the traditional Chinese culture.
The most important asset that parents leave for their children.
Is to teach the ethics of being human.
Not how many houses to leave.
How much suffering.
And how to say the ethics of being human.
According to the traditional Chinese culture.
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