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When life gives you two difficult words, growth is a must, just take it easy, everything will be fine. Be patient, face the difficulties, and remember that in the end, you will always be the best version after many falls. Sometimes life doesn't go as we want, and we can feel disappointed, angry or sad. Everyone has experienced this feeling and its consequences depends on how you choose to deal with disappointment. In fact, life will always have ups and downs and happiness and unexpected changes. Real happiness is the ability to solve the problems in your life without ever falling down or losing faith. But to do that, it's not easy at all, it takes strength and determination to be able to do what we say. And with the winds that life has given me, I have tested the lessons for myself. Here are 5 lessons I want to share with you. 1. Nothing lasts forever When the night falls, it is always dark, but the sun will shine brightly the next day. You can observe the night turning into light every day. So remember the saying of the Lord, nothing lasts forever, especially when life is difficult. Everything may not be good at the moment, but it will surely change gradually. There is no pain, it lasts forever and every day will be a new beginning. You can choose to welcome a new day and live happily every day or dive into the darkness of suffering even though you are awake. The choice is always in your hands. 2. The scars show strength, not your weakness. Many of us are often worried about mistakes or pains that have hurt in the past and think that mistakes or pains will make them never move forward. However, mistakes and pains only make people stronger. Time can heal wounds if people try to move forward. You will learn a lot from the experiences of the past and the scars are evidence that you can overcome anything no matter how difficult it is. 3. Experiencing pain will make you better. All painful experiences are valuable lessons to help people grow up. Of course, at that time, it will be very difficult for you to accept this, but as you grow up, you will realize that all the difficulties are valuable lessons of your life. So be patient with the difficulties and remember that in the end, you will always be the best version after many falls. 4. Learn to forgive, but forgive yourself. Don't be angry or blame anyone because if you don't allow them to hurt you, they will never do that to you. Have you allowed them to hurt you over and over again? Did you want something that despite everything, even losing you, it was your fault, not theirs? Stop blaming and hating, it's toxic, killing your soul and me. In this life, we forget that we are also protected by a court, that is the Court of Reconciliation. And the court they accept will be the cause of the consequences. Or maybe we haven't seen the reason why they did that to us. It can come from a misunderstanding or a hidden feeling. It can come from physical or mental power that we haven't seen yet. So don't worry too much about why they accept and what I will do to make them pay. If you are thinking that, stop right away. Pay attention and learn how to forgive yourself first. When you realize you are wrong and need to repent, forgive yourself is when you really have faith in happiness. 5. The best plan is to move forward. Life is like that, we will never think that we have no love and they give you what you want. But in a moment, they can turn their back on you and betray you. Everything will make you fall, but you have to always stand up. Even at times when you feel like you can't get up anymore, you have to stand up strong. Life is very difficult, but surely it won't make you fall if you have enough strength and faith to move forward.