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Thanh Liep is happy to see you again on Goc Nhien Viet channel. Dear friends, have you ever run out of energy to think when dealing with a calm person? I guess most of us have ever had a headache in front of an annoying, annoying personality that makes people around us extremely angry and dizzy. There are many people who say that calm people are mostly not bad people. However, it is their irritability that makes them have to absorb a lot of hostility, jealousy, and even anger on the face, not on the mind of those around them. Gossips are easy to change, personality is difficult to get rid of. Calm people, although they recognize their bad personality, they cannot change it in a blink of an eye. So how to deal with and change these people, ladies and gentlemen? Let's take a look at the following three ways that smart people use to treat calm people. First, don't take it personally. Living in this world, as humans, we have to treat each other with kindness and love. However, calm people do not take it personally. Because of that, nothing else is creating a mess, creating an excuse for these people to continue to hang out without looking at anyone. They have enough courage to make fun of the sky, stir up trouble, gnaw at people's tongues, insult and harm others. Of course, when it comes to them, they will be angry and angry. And every now and then, they will talk to you. So don't teach them to be kind forever. Use virtue to control them. But you also have to know, What about virtue? If you can't handle it the first time, the second time you try to ignore it, and the third and fourth time, they still don't treat you properly, then you don't need to teach them to be kind. Because people like that basically don't understand the two words, kindness and kindness. Nothing is too easy. Just put them in the lead and live. Long ago, Tân Thủy Hoàng was sick on the road to Tuần Du. He died not long after in Sa Khâu. Hoan Quang Triệu Cao, who was a kind-hearted person, ceded the residence of Tân Thủy Hoàng, except for his son, Phù Tô, to be the king of Hồ Hợi. To seize power, Triệu Cao had to kill Lý Tư, along with many great gods, and then alone to rule the capital as prime minister. After Hồ Hợi was killed, Triệu Cao wanted to be the king of Quang Trung, so he secretly contacted Lưu Bang to ask for the death of Nhà Tân and split up Quang Trung. To achieve this, he appointed Tân Tử Anh, the younger brother of Tân Thủy Hoàng, to the throne. He planned to kill him later. But after 5 days in the throne, Tân Tử Anh had Triệu Cao killed and Chu Di was exiled. That is why it is said that if Tân Tử Anh was killed by Nhân Nghĩa, Triệu Cao would take his place. Not long after, he was the one who died. With a person like Triệu Cao, Nhân Nghĩa cannot be used to rule the country. There must be strong measures. To kill a person, you must kill him first. That way, you won't harm yourself because of him. Secondly, don't be weak-willed. There is an old saying, bear a little, the wind will be calm. Of course, being weak-willed is better than being strong-willed. Being weak-willed is a good thing. But remember, a wise person should know when to be weak-willed and when to be strong-willed without being afraid of cruelty. If you want to be a wise person, you must have a cool head and a warm heart. Then you can do your job without being confused. When dealing with bad people, you must have a cool head first. Then think about love, kindness, and balance. That way, living in this world will help you realize your weakness. The story of the last crown of Minh Nghị Trung Hiền left many lessons about how to deal with the cruelest bad people. When he was young, Trung Hiền was an unruly person who loved gambling. Because of his debt, he had to run away without a way out. He had to dedicate himself to make 1 million crowns. In 1589, Trung Hiền came to the palace to work with Khách Thị, a model of Emperor Huy Tông. He took a step to the throne and became one of the most famous crown officials in history. When Huy Tông ascended the throne, Trung Hiền was appointed. He worked with Khách Thị to get rid of the opposition. In 1623, Trung Hiền, along with Dong Xưởng, was the most powerful official in the royal family. The royal cabinet was in the hands of Trung Hiền. They called each other father, grandfather, son-in-law, or grandson. The weak people didn't dare to resist the power of Trung Hiền. They only dared to take advantage of the situation. They didn't even dare to touch him. Trung Hiền seized the power and killed the opposition to the point that people only knew about Trung Hiền, not the emperor. In 1627, Minh Tư Tông, realized Trung Hiền's insidious nature and his military spirit. He sentenced Trung Hiền to 10 years in prison and followed the law. According to Trung Hiền, he hanged himself, his clothes were swept away, and the evil spread all over the world. Thus, the evil people who were close to him had a heart, but they had wings. The military officials were weak, weak, and lowly. So, they were all despicable people who spent their lives with ghosts and wearing rags. Third, they kept their distance. In the past, there was a student who liked to argue. One day, this student came to visit him and saw a person standing at the door. This guest stopped the student and asked, Hey, I heard that your teacher is the emperor. So, your education must be very high. Now, you let me ask how many seasons a year? If you answer correctly, I will behead you. If you answer wrongly, you have to sell me. Is that okay? The other student thought for a while and said, There are four seasons in the spring, summer, autumn, and winter. The other guest argued, Wrong. There are only three seasons. The other student felt really weird and said, Hey, there are four seasons in the spring, summer, autumn, and winter. Why do you say there are three seasons? At the right time, they argued and decided to go out. The other guest asked, My lord, please tell me, how many seasons a year? The emperor looked at the guest and said, There are three seasons. The other guest turned to the student and said, Hey, did you hear that? If you don't sell me, what's wrong? The other guest laughed and left. The student felt really weird and asked the emperor, Hey, there are four seasons in the spring, summer, autumn, and winter. Why do you say there are three seasons? The emperor answered, Don't you see the other guest? He is a butterfly that transforms into. In a year, the butterfly only has three seasons to live. It's spring, summer, and autumn. It doesn't know what winter is. By winter, it is dead. The other guest argued with him, Isn't it that there is never a reunion in life? So, through the above story, Confucius taught two things. One, do not argue with the negative people. Two, with the pessimists who always argue about themselves, the farther you can avoid, the better. In life, a good kiss should keep a distance from the negative people, not only to avoid the sudden disaster but also to avoid bad luck. Because the pessimists are so pessimistic, they are often jealous of many people and gossip. So, get close to these people who have endless hobbies, who are often harmed by the negative consequences. If you keep a distance from the negative people, you will avoid the bad luck. Setting boundaries helps us to build a strong relationship with the pessimists. However, you should set boundaries in an active and clever way. If you let everything happen naturally, you are likely to be involved in difficult situations with pessimistic people. If you have set boundaries, you can decide how to deal with them. 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