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Psychoanalysis is a new concept that has recently emerged. But in fact, the word psychoanalysis has been around for a long time, not only because we don't call it, but it also happens frequently and right next to us. All of us can become an object of psychoanalysis. Just by reading the word psychoanalysis, we can imagine what it means. But more specifically, what is the reason, purpose, purpose, and practical behavior? Let's find out in this video. And the most interesting part is definitely how they can manipulate and control others. If you want to know, please watch this video until the end. First, who is a psychoanalyst? It could be anyone from friends, school, workplace, family, lover. In short, where there are people, there can be psychological manipulation. Why do they want to manipulate others? In some cases, people who manipulate other people's psychology may have some psychological symptoms. For example, since childhood, they have not been loved by their family, so their psychology has developed abnormally and has some psychological symptoms. And when they grow up, destroying others will become their joy and motivation. In short, they manipulate others' happiness and pain. They will target objects that make them feel jealous, such as beauty, intelligence, good work, good friends, good family, good lover, etc. When they can't get anything, they want others to get nothing. It's scary, just like in the movie. But I have studied very carefully through the psychological manipulation of the author Shannon Thomas. If you want to know more, you can read this book. Psychoanalysts like to arrange everything to make themselves the most beneficial. For example, they want to be close to this person, they want to be close to that person, to make everything go well with their intention, so that they feel superior and beneficial in their greed. In the second case, it may be psychological manipulation, not psychological symptoms like in the first case. But the main purpose of these people when they manipulate other people's psychology is to take advantage, even to deceive, to take property. In general, it is aimed at the purpose of profit and money. It's like the story of Anna just cheated, or the movie Anna is hot again on Netflix. Those are the reasons, the motives that make someone manipulate and destroy an object. In short, not only strangers have the intention to take your money, property, money, to manipulate your psychology, but even the closest people may have the intention to manipulate for the simple purpose of jealousy and joy over the pain of others. But the psychological damage left in each of us is very big. So in this video, I will go deep into such stories so that we can quickly identify the behaviors of manipulation and find the best solution. What I'm about to share can come from my own experience, my friend's experience, and from the Psychological Manipulation Institute of the author Shannon Thomas to define and provide a more comprehensive and sustainable scientific basis. What are the behaviors and common methods of psychological manipulators? The first is the methods that make you doubt yourself. For example, a colleague deliberately does not inform you of the meeting schedule. Until you are reminded and blamed, that person says they have notified you. Those words make you doubt your memory, doubt yourself. Or you try very hard to achieve some achievement, but your friends think it's normal and you brag about it too much. That makes you look back at yourself. In the relationship, the boy may build an extremely good image with the people around him. Therefore, when he has bad behavior with his girlfriend and the girl tells the people around him, no one believes her words. It even makes the girl doubt herself because the attitude of the people around her does not trust her. Those are actions that are calculated carefully to manipulate others. Or your lover tells you that you are a child, or you overdo it, be selfish, only think for yourself. He or she wants you to look back at yourself. Therefore, you are a problematic person and should change according to their request. Why are those things wrong but I believe in those things? Because no one is perfect, everyone has moments like this and that. So when you go to the fortune-teller or read the common personality descriptions, you will feel that it is right. Because in fact, I also have such moments. Everyone has bad moments. For example, if someone tells you that you are a selfish person, you will remember that you have such moments. And I think that person is right. I am a problematic person. But the bottom line is that selfishness is a very common and abstract word. It is the common nature of humans and everyone has a few moments like that. If the manipulator applies this successfully, when I am confused and start to be selfish, they will find a way to control me, making me unable to get out of the relationship with them. Partly due to the fact that psychological manipulators often find objects that know how to look at themselves. Knowing how to look at yourself is an extremely good thing. A person who knows how to look at himself can see the problems that he has not done well, know how to draw experience for a long time, can develop himself, recognize who he is, understand himself. However, it is also a point for psychological manipulators to misuse and convey the wrong things about themselves, making you doubt yourself. If they do it, the first way is to make you doubt yourself is unsuccessful. If you know how you are, you don't doubt yourself, then they will switch to the second way, which is to make your image look bad in the eyes of those around you. For example, you and your lover go out to eat with a group of friends, then a girl comes and sits next to your lover. It was supposed to be your seat and you had to sit somewhere else. It was a deliberate action, but on the outside, it seems like I just accidentally did that. And if you react too much, that girl will show that you are causing too much trouble. The purpose of the manipulator is to make you unreasonable and have a strange reaction in the eyes of those around you. It's like they don't think their actions make others uncomfortable. So you have become a bad person in the eyes of everyone around you. They can even deliberately say bad things about you, and people around you will lose their empathy, and even have bad behaviors towards you. So the manipulator doesn't have to go out, but still creates discomfort on a psychological level. For you, those are some behaviors that make your life messy, and they are intended to destroy and take away what they want. For example, your job, your lover, your friends. How does each phase of the attack of the psychological manipulator occur? Pay attention, this part is tough. First, they will approach you, be close to you. They show that they love and admire you very much. That's for the purpose of exploiting your information so that they can come up with strategies to destroy you in the future. If you approach your lover, they will do a lot of things to make you feel interesting, happy, and happy. It's like you've found something you've never had before, a real sense of happiness in your life, and you will be immersed in the world they create. In the role of friends, they will guide you through many stories they come up with. It could be stories and people around you. For example, that girl looks very innocent, but deep in her heart. It makes you both confused and curious. Is there such a thing? Why didn't I know about it? Second, it will be their own stories. For example, they have a big body, have a lot of body fat, or they have very special abilities, such as spiritual abilities. It makes you wow, impressed, attracted to their stories. It could also be promises like you will be a close friend, a close friend and always ready to help each other. They hit the fear, hit the curiosity, hit your feelings, so that you are drawn to their stories. From there, create a close feeling, a feeling of attachment to them. This person is very good at catching stories, making friends, telling stories, sharing, talking to others. Everyone wants to have an interesting friend, easy to talk to, share, so they are very easy to get close to you. When they fully get your trust, they will start to turn their back on you. Sometimes they treat you harshly, rudely, rudely, then they try to seduce you, seduce, seduce you. In general, they see you as a puppet that they can control. Those who are cruel after getting close may ask her to borrow money from you but don't pay. In love, at this time, the manipulator will also have bad actions against you. For example, they flirt with you, or they ask you to do things that you don't want. This is the stage when you start to feel painful, especially in love, when everything is no longer as beautiful as before. It's like falling into the abyss and I just hope that everything can go back to the way it was. So I will try to recover everything and I will look at myself to see what I did wrong but they treat me like that. At this time, I have put all my feelings in the hands of others and they can easily control my feelings and see me as a puppet. Sometimes it makes me very happy, sometimes it's the opposite, hot and cold attitude. They have bad attitudes towards me but they will blame me, they make me doubt myself, they make people around me not believe in me and they will make me unable to escape their manipulation. At this point, I still don't realize that I am being manipulated. That is the common formula to manipulate other people's minds. When doing these things, the person who manipulates the mind will feel comfortable. Maybe they feel more valuable when making others love me and suffer for me. Or they feel happy when others obey their words, happy when they can control other people's emotions. In order to escape the manipulation of the mind, I have to realize that it is a toxic relationship and I am no longer myself. Depending on each case, I need to keep a safe distance or cut off all contact with the person who manipulates the mind. And I need some time to have real good friends to restore my mind. In Vietnam, I haven't had a chance to see a psychiatrist. But I have to be careful when dealing with new friends who are special to me. A good person will be good to everyone in a sincere way and that is easy to recognize. And if there is a person who is extremely good to me because they feel special to me, you should be careful with such people. That is my personal experience. For new friends, I shouldn't tell them all my personal experiences because they will easily catch my weaknesses. Of course, normally no one shares everything with strangers. However, those who have the ability to manipulate the mind are very easy to get close to other people. When they understand me, they know what I like, what I hate, and what I don't like. I hope you will always be happy and positive. Through this video, you will understand what psychological manipulation is and be careful when entering a new learning environment, a new work environment, a new friendship, a new relationship. 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